FabSwingers.com > Forums > Ireland > Can't travel can't accomadate
Can't travel can't accomadate
Jump to: Newest in thread
This slightly confuses me but people who say they can't travel or accomadate Wat Exactly do they mean? Would it mean there here just for the banter and coversations with people who they take an Intrest to or is it I'm just missing something |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"This slightly confuses me but people who say they can't travel or accomadate Wat Exactly do they mean? Would it mean there here just for the banter and coversations with people who they take an Intrest to or is it I'm just missing something "
I'm sure they're probably prepared to get the bus into town, just not travel to the other side of the country.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This slightly confuses me but people who say they can't travel or accomadate Wat Exactly do they mean? Would it mean there here just for the banter and coversations with people who they take an Intrest to or is it I'm just missing something "
Maybe ask them? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This slightly confuses me but people who say they can't travel or accomadate Wat Exactly do they mean? Would it mean there here just for the banter and conversations with people who they take an Intrest to or is it I'm just missing something "
Means hotel meets normally |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Why is this so difficult to understand???
Can't accommodate - cos I won't bring strangers into my home.
Can't travel - cos my life is based in this county and you'd want to be something special for me to drive further than an hour or so away to get a shag.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why is this so difficult to understand???
Can't accommodate - cos I won't bring strangers into my home.
Can't travel - cos my life is based in this county and you'd want to be something special for me to drive further than an hour or so away to get a shag.
"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
That's a huge assumption that parents are alive or that they still live close"
Suppose but where there is a will, there is a way! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why is this so difficult to understand???
Can't accommodate - cos I won't bring strangers into my home.
Can't travel - cos my life is based in this county and you'd want to be something special for me to drive further than an hour or so away to get a shag.
"
Love this |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house...."
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why is this so difficult to understand???
Can't accommodate - cos I won't bring strangers into my home.
Can't travel - cos my life is based in this county and you'd want to be something special for me to drive further than an hour or so away to get a shag.
"
That's because you are special!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?"
Ul find a lot of people prefer to keep their non swinging life private. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?"
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Ul find a lot of people prefer to keep their non swinging life private. "
I don't know about you but I have curtains in my house. As private as you can get.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Ul find a lot of people prefer to keep their non swinging life private.
I don't know about you but I have curtains in my house. As private as you can get.
"
OMG for ur own sake I hope ur kidding cos I can literally hear people reaching for the block button |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person "
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Ul find a lot of people prefer to keep their non swinging life private.
I don't know about you but I have curtains in my house. As private as you can get.
OMG for ur own sake I hope ur kidding cos I can literally hear people reaching for the block button"
Take a joke!!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?"
No way if you have kids. your home is their castle and sacrosanct, but that's just my opinion. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
No way if you have kids. your home is their castle and sacrosanct, but that's just my opinion. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?"
Bring a stranger into your home, and you might not get them out when you want them to leave. There is also the fact that most people wouldn't want a stranger to know where they live. You can't tell from a brief meeting if someone is trustworthy enough to be in your living space.
I have adult 'children' who sometimes live with me, and we all have an agreement that no one brings anyone home for sex, unless everyone is comfortable to have that person there. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
No way if you have kids. your home is their castle and sacrosanct, but that's just my opinion. "
So at what point would you bring anyone back? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they?"
Why? They may have kids staying with them to. Even if its only a few nights a week or full time they would still class it as their kids home  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they?"
You mean there are no female psychos? Phew, that's a relief!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
No way if you have kids. your home is their castle and sacrosanct, but that's just my opinion.
So at what point would you bring anyone back?"
At no point......if it doesnt suit them then move on |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they?
Why? They may have kids staying with them to. Even if its only a few nights a week or full time they would still class it as their kids home "
Would you ever have a platonic friend over? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Bring a stranger into your home, and you might not get them out when you want them to leave. There is also the fact that most people wouldn't want a stranger to know where they live. You can't tell from a brief meeting if someone is trustworthy enough to be in your living space.
I have adult 'children' who sometimes live with me, and we all have an agreement that no one brings anyone home for sex, unless everyone is comfortable to have that person there. "
So would you have a family meal first to introduce them? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Plenty single dad's have kids full time and even if not living full time might not feel comfortable bringing people back to there home. It's your home your safety net why feel the need unless your really trusting someone.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
No way if you have kids. your home is their castle and sacrosanct, but that's just my opinion.
So at what point would you bring anyone back?
At no point......if it doesnt suit them then move on"
But would you go to their home instead? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they?
Why? They may have kids staying with them to. Even if its only a few nights a week or full time they would still class it as their kids home
Would you ever have a platonic friend over?"
A platonic friend would be someone I've known for a while not someone i've just had a coffee with. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Plenty single dad's have kids full time and even if not living full time might not feel comfortable bringing people back to there home. It's your home your safety net why feel the need unless your really trusting someone.... "
Jaysus, is this website filled with freaks? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Plenty single dad's have kids full time and even if not living full time might not feel comfortable bringing people back to there home. It's your home your safety net why feel the need unless your really trusting someone....
Jaysus, is this website filled with freaks? "
It's not the website so much as the world. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Plenty single dad's have kids full time and even if not living full time might not feel comfortable bringing people back to there home. It's your home your safety net why feel the need unless your really trusting someone....
Jaysus, is this website filled with freaks? "
being cautious makes me a freak I'm good with that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they?
Why? They may have kids staying with them to. Even if its only a few nights a week or full time they would still class it as their kids home
Would you ever have a platonic friend over?
A platonic friend would be someone I've known for a while not someone i've just had a coffee with. "
True, but what's the difference between a fuck buddy and a platonic friend? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Plenty single dad's have kids full time and even if not living full time might not feel comfortable bringing people back to there home. It's your home your safety net why feel the need unless your really trusting someone....
Jaysus, is this website filled with freaks? being cautious makes me a freak I'm good with that "
I'm upping the antivirus software as we speak. Fuck knows what they will do. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they?
Why? They may have kids staying with them to. Even if its only a few nights a week or full time they would still class it as their kids home
Would you ever have a platonic friend over?
A platonic friend would be someone I've known for a while not someone i've just had a coffee with.
True, but what's the difference between a fuck buddy and a platonic friend? "
What?
Platonic is non sexual for a start. Surely you know that already? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they?
Why? They may have kids staying with them to. Even if its only a few nights a week or full time they would still class it as their kids home
Would you ever have a platonic friend over?
A platonic friend would be someone I've known for a while not someone i've just had a coffee with.
True, but what's the difference between a fuck buddy and a platonic friend?
What?
Platonic is non sexual for a start. Surely you know that already? "
Read the context it was written in, that wasn't the question friendo |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Plenty single dad's have kids full time and even if not living full time might not feel comfortable bringing people back to there home. It's your home your safety net why feel the need unless your really trusting someone....
Jaysus, is this website filled with freaks?
It's not the website so much as the world. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person
Ok, from a female point of view I understand but a guy should be more comfortable. Shouldn't they?
Why? They may have kids staying with them to. Even if its only a few nights a week or full time they would still class it as their kids home
Would you ever have a platonic friend over?
A platonic friend would be someone I've known for a while not someone i've just had a coffee with.
True, but what's the difference between a fuck buddy and a platonic friend?
What?
Platonic is non sexual for a start. Surely you know that already?
Read the context it was written in, that wasn't the question friendo "
Feel free to ask the question you want answered then. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Bring a stranger into your home, and you might not get them out when you want them to leave. There is also the fact that most people wouldn't want a stranger to know where they live. You can't tell from a brief meeting if someone is trustworthy enough to be in your living space.
I have adult 'children' who sometimes live with me, and we all have an agreement that no one brings anyone home for sex, unless everyone is comfortable to have that person there.
So would you have a family meal first to introduce them? "
I didn't say there'd be any introduction, I said everyone had to be happy. Realistically, no one is coming to my home for sex, and as has already been said, if that doesn't suit there are plenty of people who do accommodate, so that's a 'loss' I'm happy to take. Anyone who can't respect my wishes or those of my family in this situation is not someone I want to have around anyway. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Bring a stranger into your home, and you might not get them out when you want them to leave. There is also the fact that most people wouldn't want a stranger to know where they live. You can't tell from a brief meeting if someone is trustworthy enough to be in your living space.
I have adult 'children' who sometimes live with me, and we all have an agreement that no one brings anyone home for sex, unless everyone is comfortable to have that person there.
So would you have a family meal first to introduce them?
I didn't say there'd be any introduction, I said everyone had to be happy. Realistically, no one is coming to my home for sex, and as has already been said, if that doesn't suit there are plenty of people who do accommodate, so that's a 'loss' I'm happy to take. Anyone who can't respect my wishes or those of my family in this situation is not someone I want to have around anyway. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Salted or candied.... Taking orders nowuggggghhhhh large wine instead
Pours a large glass or vino. Slides it along counter
May I have one please ??
Certainly red white or rose"
Red please ... have some nuts to share if anyone wants any |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Salted or candied.... Taking orders nowuggggghhhhh large wine instead
Pours a large glass or vino. Slides it along counter
May I have one please ??
Certainly red white or rose"
Do you have any Panadol? My head hurts!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Bring a stranger into your home, and you might not get them out when you want them to leave. There is also the fact that most people wouldn't want a stranger to know where they live. You can't tell from a brief meeting if someone is trustworthy enough to be in your living space.
I have adult 'children' who sometimes live with me, and we all have an agreement that no one brings anyone home for sex, unless everyone is comfortable to have that person there.
So would you have a family meal first to introduce them?
I didn't say there'd be any introduction, I said everyone had to be happy. Realistically, no one is coming to my home for sex, and as has already been said, if that doesn't suit there are plenty of people who do accommodate, so that's a 'loss' I'm happy to take. Anyone who can't respect my wishes or those of my family in this situation is not someone I want to have around anyway. "
I respect your view but do you expect someone else to accommodate when you won't? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Salted or candied.... Taking orders nowuggggghhhhh large wine instead
Pours a large glass or vino. Slides it along counter
May I have one please ??
Certainly red white or rose
Do you have any Panadol? My head hurts! "
come to my place Michael i give you one |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Bring a stranger into your home, and you might not get them out when you want them to leave. There is also the fact that most people wouldn't want a stranger to know where they live. You can't tell from a brief meeting if someone is trustworthy enough to be in your living space.
I have adult 'children' who sometimes live with me, and we all have an agreement that no one brings anyone home for sex, unless everyone is comfortable to have that person there.
So would you have a family meal first to introduce them?
I didn't say there'd be any introduction, I said everyone had to be happy. Realistically, no one is coming to my home for sex, and as has already been said, if that doesn't suit there are plenty of people who do accommodate, so that's a 'loss' I'm happy to take. Anyone who can't respect my wishes or those of my family in this situation is not someone I want to have around anyway.
I respect your view but do you expect someone else to accommodate when you won't? "
I don't expect anything. If someone I trust is happy to have me in their home I'm happy to be there. I've got my rules, I'm not responsible for theirs. But just in case you missed it first time, I don't 'expect' anything. And I've met a few people who will vouch for that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm just completely missing this, you meet someone, you have a coffee and chat, you like them and they either go to your house or theirs. You have a mobile and don't live in the middle of nowhere.
The risks are minimal guys.
If you live like the way you suggest you will meet nobody |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"Everyone is missing the point I'm talking about when one person has both up can't travel and can't accomadate. I'm not just talking about them having one or the other up "
I think your question was answered but I try to put it in other words. It means
They only meet local/nearby but not at their place, ie live in D2 and only meet around city centre ie in a hotel, they wouldn't travel longer distances for a meet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I DO live in the middle of nowhere
Ha! I was too slow, you deleted what I was replying to  "
Good debate. I respect your views, I just don't agree with them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Everyone is missing the point I'm talking about when one person has both up can't travel and can't accomadate. I'm not just talking about them having one or the other up
I think your question was answered but I try to put it in other words. It means
They only meet local/nearby but not at their place, ie live in D2 and only meet around city centre ie in a hotel, they wouldn't travel longer distances for a meet. "
That will only work in cities so. The people in towns would be limited. ?? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I DO live in the middle of nowhere
Ha! I was too slow, you deleted what I was replying to
Good debate. I respect your views, I just don't agree with them. "
That's fair enough, you don't have to |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I DO live in the middle of nowhere
Ha! I was too slow, you deleted what I was replying to
Good debate. I respect your views, I just don't agree with them. "
If you are happy to bring total strangers back to your home, that's your prerogative, it wouldn't be my choice. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Why is this so difficult to understand???
Can't accommodate - cos I won't bring strangers into my home.
Can't travel - cos my life is based in this county and you'd want to be something special for me to drive further than an hour or so away to get a shag.
"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Everyone is missing the point I'm talking about when one person has both up can't travel and can't accomadate. I'm not just talking about them having one or the other up
I think your question was answered but I try to put it in other words. It means
They only meet local/nearby but not at their place, ie live in D2 and only meet around city centre ie in a hotel, they wouldn't travel longer distances for a meet.
That will only work in cities so. The people in towns would be limited. ??"
There are hotels all over the country, you know. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I DO live in the middle of nowhere
Ha! I was too slow, you deleted what I was replying to
Good debate. I respect your views, I just don't agree with them.
If you are happy to bring total strangers back to your home, that's your prerogative, it wouldn't be my choice."
Where did I say that???? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I DO live in the middle of nowhere
Ha! I was too slow, you deleted what I was replying to
Good debate. I respect your views, I just don't agree with them.
If you are happy to bring total strangers back to your home, that's your prerogative, it wouldn't be my choice."
Please read what I actually put up!!!
I'm just completely missing this, you meet someone, you have a coffee and chat, you like them and they either go to your house or theirs. You have a mobile and don't live in the middle of nowhere.
The risks are minimal guys.
If you live like the way you suggest you will meet nobody |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I DO live in the middle of nowhere
Ha! I was too slow, you deleted what I was replying to
Good debate. I respect your views, I just don't agree with them.
If you are happy to bring total strangers back to your home, that's your prerogative, it wouldn't be my choice.
Where did I say that???? "
Right up there if you take a look, coffee and a chat doesn't turn a total stranger into anything else. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Because my home is my sons home and has nothing to do with swinging. Out of respect for him i wouldnt mix the 2. The stories you hear aswell once people know your address would put you off bringing strangers into your home. Just something your going to have to respect if you want to meet that person "
Love this reply. Youre exactly right it's all about respect. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?
Ul find a lot of people prefer to keep their non swinging life private.
I don't know about you but I have curtains in my house. As private as you can get.
OMG for ur own sake I hope ur kidding cos I can literally hear people reaching for the block button"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why is this so difficult to understand???
Can't accommodate - cos I won't bring strangers into my home.
Can't travel - cos my life is based in this county and you'd want to be something special for me to drive further than an hour or so away to get a shag.
"
U are exactly right YOLO...
I totally agree.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm very late to the party on this one
I have can't accomm and can't travel - you may possibly be able to read won't instead of can't
OP- God help you! I actually thought you were very young when I first read the post - you're not. You should be more savvy.
Fuck only knows who you'll have in your house after one coffee.
Wise up sweetie! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *s louWoman
over a year ago
Enniskillen |
"Would they not be able to accom when Daddy or Granny has the kids?
Not everyone wants to bring strangers to their house....
I Agree, but if you meet them for coffee first, take the bus or whatever and you spark why wouldn't you have them over?"
First meet can be deceiving. Twice I've met guys, they've seemed sane and I've brought them back to mine only to find they weren't as sane as they made out to be. That was a few years ago when I first started on here. Now you'll only get an invite if we've met a few times |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I would only have someone here if i knew them a while. I made the mostake of inviting a guy over from a group session i had then he used to turn up all the time uninvited. Where i live the area is safe so i often left back door unlocked and he would just invite himself in. So now im very very cautious. I prefer to meet away from mine even tho i live alone. I would travel but within reason as i dont drive. Its at the request if the person who has the profile
Unfortunately u cant always control peoples opinions and reasons on here. But good luck with everything |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
