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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you agree to send face pics to someone and they send you one, camera kik'd. Do you have the nerve to not send one back and accuse the other person of lying about their age?
Been told I don't look 24 (body too developed lol) so they don't trust me and refuse to send a live pic back.
Not to brag but im no potato in the face department.
How do you stop being the one doing all the risk taking and people not holding up an agreement? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a way of ensuring the person that I met was who she claimed to be by requesting a unique and on the spot pose when sending a face pic ..... e.g. asked her to put her finger on the tip of her nose and I said that I would reciprocate...... worked a treat and ended up being a bit of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How is ur body too developed for a 24 yr old.  "
I'm not sure? Top big? But what 24 year old doesnt look like a man?
Probably a nervous persons excuse to not have to send face pics live back.
They are meet verified so I'm not worried. But everything wss fine until they thought I was lying about my age.
Ironically I was below their lowest age limit of 25. So why would I even lie?  
Ah fab! What can you do.
Onwards and upwards !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How is ur body too developed for a 24 yr old.
I'm not sure? Top big? But what 24 year old doesnt look like a man?
Probably a nervous persons excuse to not have to send face pics live back.
They are meet verified so I'm not worried. But everything wss fine until they thought I was lying about my age.
Ironically I was below their lowest age limit of 25. So why would I even lie?
Ah fab! What can you do.
Onwards and upwards ! "
Thats the attitude |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"How is ur body too developed for a 24 yr old.
I'm not sure? Top big? But what 24 year old doesnt look like a man?
Probably a nervous persons excuse to not have to send face pics live back.
They are meet verified so I'm not worried. But everything wss fine until they thought I was lying about my age.
Ironically I was below their lowest age limit of 25. So why would I even lie?
Ah fab! What can you do.
Onwards and upwards ! "
that's the attitude of your bang on...xx |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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The lying about your age is just a cheap excuse. She's obviously not interested. There's always the risk that you won't get a face pic in return. Nothing you can do about.
On a other note I often get unsolicited face pics and some feel they should get one too in return. That's not going to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sent two face pics to women who asked for them after viewing my profile and one said I was baby faced and another said she didn't realise how young I was. I'm 26 and most people would put me at 23-24. Now I just won't send one unless I receive one. Don't think that's unfair at all. If someone asks for a face pic one should be sent back in my opinion |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"I sent two face pics to women who asked for them after viewing my profile and one said I was baby faced and another said she didn't realise how young I was. I'm 26 and most people would put me at 23-24. Now I just won't send one unless I receive one. Don't think that's unfair at all. If someone asks for a face pic one should be sent back in my opinion "
does your pics come with or without the Smiley Love Heart just wondering lol xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sent two face pics to women who asked for them after viewing my profile and one said I was baby faced and another said she didn't realise how young I was. I'm 26 and most people would put me at 23-24. Now I just won't send one unless I receive one. Don't think that's unfair at all. If someone asks for a face pic one should be sent back in my opinion does your pics come with or without the Smiley Love Heart just wondering lol xx"
The face pics are heavily snapchat filtered with loads of love hearts surrounding my face. Dunno why people think that makes me look childish haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sent two face pics to women who asked for them after viewing my profile and one said I was baby faced and another said she didn't realise how young I was. I'm 26 and most people would put me at 23-24. Now I just won't send one unless I receive one. Don't think that's unfair at all. If someone asks for a face pic one should be sent back in my opinion does your pics come with or without the Smiley Love Heart just wondering lol xx
The face pics are heavily snapchat filtered with loads of love hearts surrounding my face. Dunno why people think that makes me look childish haha"
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"I sent two face pics to women who asked for them after viewing my profile and one said I was baby faced and another said she didn't realise how young I was. I'm 26 and most people would put me at 23-24. Now I just won't send one unless I receive one. Don't think that's unfair at all. If someone asks for a face pic one should be sent back in my opinion does your pics come with or without the Smiley Love Heart just wondering lol xx
The face pics are heavily snapchat filtered with loads of love hearts surrounding my face. Dunno why people think that makes me look childish haha"
don't know why they would..... |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
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Well I'm cursed with the baby face as well so I just have permanent stubble. I have no chance in growing a proper beard, but at least with the 1cm fuzz I have all over the chin stops me being asked for ID wherever I go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No problem swapping face pics but don't when I get a random first message with one. I have asked for a second face pic when swapping if the face pic isn't in focus etc
Keep trying OP and someone for every one on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I'm cursed with the baby face as well so I just have permanent stubble. I have no chance in growing a proper beard, but at least with the 1cm fuzz I have all over the chin stops me being asked for ID wherever I go."
I don't have a baby face, it's a youngish face but I wouldn't say baby haha I was last asked for I'd when I was 24 in Belfast so age is catching me haha |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"there is a few female profiles there who suggest face pics in the profile content if messaging them. the biggest thing will screw anyone up on here is if you're not a photogenic person. "
that's it I'm the bloody worse for taken selfies one look at me and I'm shot down.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie haha |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie haha"
good tips must remember that cheers x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you agree to send face pics to someone and they send you one, camera kik'd. Do you have the nerve to not send one back and accuse the other person of lying about their age?
Been told I don't look 24 (body too developed lol) so they don't trust me and refuse to send a live pic back.
Not to brag but im no potato in the face department.
How do you stop being the one doing all the risk taking and people not holding up an agreement?
/rant"
If I'm asking someone for a face pic I send mine with the request. If someone asks to see mine first, I expect them to send theirs with the request. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie hahagood tips must remember that cheers x"
That tip wasn't for you. You don't need any tips. I'd say you'll look good regardless. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie hahagood tips must remember that cheers x
That tip wasn't for you. You don't need any tips. I'd say you'll look good regardless. "
awe thanks but all tips greatly appreciated xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie hahagood tips must remember that cheers x
That tip wasn't for you. You don't need any tips. I'd say you'll look good regardless. awe thanks but all tips greatly appreciated xx"
Even the tip of my... Haha jk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you agree to send face pics to someone and they send you one, camera kik'd. Do you have the nerve to not send one back and accuse the other person of lying about their age?
Been told I don't look 24 (body too developed lol) so they don't trust me and refuse to send a live pic back.
Not to brag but im no potato in the face department.
How do you stop being the one doing all the risk taking and people not holding up an agreement?
/rant
If I'm asking someone for a face pic I send mine with the request. If someone asks to see mine first, I expect them to send theirs with the request. "
And I can never understand why they get all nasty if you say this to them? Anyone who demands a pic and then expects a pic from someone first before sending theirs isn't going to do it for me at a meet either. It's reflects that it's all about them. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie hahagood tips must remember that cheers x
That tip wasn't for you. You don't need any tips. I'd say you'll look good regardless. awe thanks but all tips greatly appreciated xx
Even the tip of my... Haha jk"
hmmmmmmmmm blushing now..... |
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"If you agree to send face pics to someone and they send you one, camera kik'd. Do you have the nerve to not send one back and accuse the other person of lying about their age?
Been told I don't look 24 (body too developed lol) so they don't trust me and refuse to send a live pic back.
Not to brag but im no potato in the face department.
How do you stop being the one doing all the risk taking and people not holding up an agreement?
/rant
If I'm asking someone for a face pic I send mine with the request. If someone asks to see mine first, I expect them to send theirs with the request.
And I can never understand why they get all nasty if you say this to them? Anyone who demands a pic and then expects a pic from someone first before sending theirs isn't going to do it for me at a meet either. It's reflects that it's all about them."
I have never gotten a message saying can I see a pic and there pic is attached to the message. I often find women want you to send a picture before they'll send one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you agree to send face pics to someone and they send you one, camera kik'd. Do you have the nerve to not send one back and accuse the other person of lying about their age?
Been told I don't look 24 (body too developed lol) so they don't trust me and refuse to send a live pic back.
Not to brag but im no potato in the face department.
How do you stop being the one doing all the risk taking and people not holding up an agreement?
/rant
If I'm asking someone for a face pic I send mine with the request. If someone asks to see mine first, I expect them to send theirs with the request.
And I can never understand why they get all nasty if you say this to them? Anyone who demands a pic and then expects a pic from someone first before sending theirs isn't going to do it for me at a meet either. It's reflects that it's all about them.I have never gotten a message saying can I see a pic and there pic is attached to the message. I often find women want you to send a picture before they'll send one "
I've a few on fab blocked because that was their approach and when question it they wouldn't consider sending theirs first. Quickest way to end conversation with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just reading through this ... I tend to not rush into face pics straight away., get a feel for someone. If that someone sent me a snapchat photo with hearts or flowers around them it'd be finished. Really not appropriate pics to send to a potential meet |
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Each to their own but if I'm chatting to someone I like to know what they look like.
I'd never ask for pic straight away its always after chatting for awhile.
I shared pics with someone and they then threatened to use my pics in a nasty way. So you do have to be careful.
Don't know if this would help anyone but now when I share a face pic I send an original pic so I know who got them. If they are used or shared I always know the source. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own but if I'm chatting to someone I like to know what they look like.
I'd never ask for pic straight away its always after chatting for awhile.
I shared pics with someone and they then threatened to use my pics in a nasty way. So you do have to be careful.
Don't know if this would help anyone but now when I share a face pic I send an original pic so I know who got them. If they are used or shared I always know the source. "
Very good last tip. |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
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"Each to their own but if I'm chatting to someone I like to know what they look like.
I'd never ask for pic straight away its always after chatting for awhile.
I shared pics with someone and they then threatened to use my pics in a nasty way. So you do have to be careful.
Don't know if this would help anyone but now when I share a face pic I send an original pic so I know who got them. If they are used or shared I always know the source. "
Could also try using "Red Star OS", the system North Korea uses. While it is stuck in Korean and seems very simplified, it puts a hidden watermark on every file (so if stuff is leaked, they know exactly who did it).
Just hope you don't mind its' version of an antivirus. It constantly scans the harddrive for any censored material. |
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"Each to their own but if I'm chatting to someone I like to know what they look like.
I'd never ask for pic straight away its always after chatting for awhile.
I shared pics with someone and they then threatened to use my pics in a nasty way. So you do have to be careful.
Don't know if this would help anyone but now when I share a face pic I send an original pic so I know who got them. If they are used or shared I always know the source.
Could also try using "Red Star OS", the system North Korea uses. While it is stuck in Korean and seems very simplified, it puts a hidden watermark on every file (so if stuff is leaked, they know exactly who did it).
Just hope you don't mind its' version of an antivirus. It constantly scans the harddrive for any censored material. "
Ehhh..I'll stick to what I know....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own but if I'm chatting to someone I like to know what they look like.
I'd never ask for pic straight away its always after chatting for awhile.
I shared pics with someone and they then threatened to use my pics in a nasty way. So you do have to be careful.
Don't know if this would help anyone but now when I share a face pic I send an original pic so I know who got them. If they are used or shared I always know the source.
Could also try using "Red Star OS", the system North Korea uses. While it is stuck in Korean and seems very simplified, it puts a hidden watermark on every file (so if stuff is leaked, they know exactly who did it).
Just hope you don't mind its' version of an antivirus. It constantly scans the harddrive for any censored material. "
You can download photography watermarking apps from the play store for free. |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
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"Each to their own but if I'm chatting to someone I like to know what they look like.
I'd never ask for pic straight away its always after chatting for awhile.
I shared pics with someone and they then threatened to use my pics in a nasty way. So you do have to be careful.
Don't know if this would help anyone but now when I share a face pic I send an original pic so I know who got them. If they are used or shared I always know the source.
Could also try using "Red Star OS", the system North Korea uses. While it is stuck in Korean and seems very simplified, it puts a hidden watermark on every file (so if stuff is leaked, they know exactly who did it).
Just hope you don't mind its' version of an antivirus. It constantly scans the harddrive for any censored material.
You can download photography watermarking apps from the play store for free."
That may be a tad easier, especially since it's unlikely you'd need to learn Korean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you agree to send face pics to someone and they send you one, camera kik'd. Do you have the nerve to not send one back and accuse the other person of lying about their age?
Been told I don't look 24 (body too developed lol) so they don't trust me and refuse to send a live pic back.
Not to brag but im no potato in the face department.
How do you stop being the one doing all the risk taking and people not holding up an agreement?
/rant
If I'm asking someone for a face pic I send mine with the request. If someone asks to see mine first, I expect them to send theirs with the request.
And I can never understand why they get all nasty if you say this to them? Anyone who demands a pic and then expects a pic from someone first before sending theirs isn't going to do it for me at a meet either. It's reflects that it's all about them.I have never gotten a message saying can I see a pic and there pic is attached to the message. I often find women want you to send a picture before they'll send one "
Excuse me, I sent you mine and you sent yours back. It's quite a while ago, but it happened. I'd never ask to see someone without sending mine. |
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"If you agree to send face pics to someone and they send you one, camera kik'd. Do you have the nerve to not send one back and accuse the other person of lying about their age?
Been told I don't look 24 (body too developed lol) so they don't trust me and refuse to send a live pic back.
Not to brag but im no potato in the face department.
How do you stop being the one doing all the risk taking and people not holding up an agreement?
/rant
If I'm asking someone for a face pic I send mine with the request. If someone asks to see mine first, I expect them to send theirs with the request.
And I can never understand why they get all nasty if you say this to them? Anyone who demands a pic and then expects a pic from someone first before sending theirs isn't going to do it for me at a meet either. It's reflects that it's all about them.I have never gotten a message saying can I see a pic and there pic is attached to the message. I often find women want you to send a picture before they'll send one
Excuse me, I sent you mine and you sent yours back. It's quite a while ago, but it happened. I'd never ask to see someone without sending mine."
you're one person. what's a good habit imo to get into is sending your pic with mail. saves alot of time and hassle |
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"The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie haha"
OMG! Absolutely. It makes you look like a Bassett hound |
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"Each to their own but if I'm chatting to someone I like to know what they look like.
I'd never ask for pic straight away its always after chatting for awhile.
I shared pics with someone and they then threatened to use my pics in a nasty way. So you do have to be careful.
Don't know if this would help anyone but now when I share a face pic I send an original pic so I know who got them. If they are used or shared I always know the source. "
Oh that is a very smart idea!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you agree to send face pics to someone and they send you one, camera kik'd. Do you have the nerve to not send one back and accuse the other person of lying about their age?
Been told I don't look 24 (body too developed lol) so they don't trust me and refuse to send a live pic back.
Not to brag but im no potato in the face department.
How do you stop being the one doing all the risk taking and people not holding up an agreement?
/rant
If I'm asking someone for a face pic I send mine with the request. If someone asks to see mine first, I expect them to send theirs with the request.
And I can never understand why they get all nasty if you say this to them? Anyone who demands a pic and then expects a pic from someone first before sending theirs isn't going to do it for me at a meet either. It's reflects that it's all about them.I have never gotten a message saying can I see a pic and there pic is attached to the message. I often find women want you to send a picture before they'll send one
Excuse me, I sent you mine and you sent yours back. It's quite a while ago, but it happened. I'd never ask to see someone without sending mine."
You're not a woman!
You're clearly a lady... As you just proved... You did send use first and correct in saying I responded x.
Maybe I wasn't clear in my response but it was referring to those who demand one without showing theirs first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thanks you guys for the responses!
We chatted for a while and the female of the couple was messaging me first over the past few days, wanting me to give it to her and talked about taking a day off work!
Im sure the couple were just nervous as they only had one meet.
And this was supposed to be her going alone .
Maybe hubby changed his mind because she talk to me was like she really wanted to make him watch a video of us. So I guess they are allowed to back out, no issue there. Oh well!
And too the ladies saying nice comments about me...my body is available it the convo flows.. and I'll just put a bag on my head 
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Thanks you guys for the responses!
We chatted for a while and the female of the couple was messaging me first over the past few days, wanting me to give it to her and talked about taking a day off work!
Im sure the couple were just nervous as they only had one meet.
And this was supposed to be her going alone .
Maybe hubby changed his mind because she talk to me was like she really wanted to make him watch a video of us. So I guess they are allowed to back out, no issue there. Oh well!
And too the ladies saying nice comments about me...my body is available it the convo flows.. and I'll just put a bag on my head
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Never knock the old bag over the head trick it works well for me |
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"Thanks you guys for the responses!
We chatted for a while and the female of the couple was messaging me first over the past few days, wanting me to give it to her and talked about taking a day off work!
Im sure the couple were just nervous as they only had one meet.
And this was supposed to be her going alone .
Maybe hubby changed his mind because she talk to me was like she really wanted to make him watch a video of us. So I guess they are allowed to back out, no issue there. Oh well!
And too the ladies saying nice comments about me...my body is available it the convo flows.. and I'll just put a bag on my head
Never knock the old bag over the head trick it works well for me "
You were it well Cj. 
You should organise a paper bag party. With a big reveal at the end of the night. |
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"The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie haha
OMG! Absolutely. It makes you look like a Bassett hound "
Weird.. I actually like how I look in few selfies below face level |
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"The best selfies for me is when it's like 9am in summer in my kitchen where the sun is lighting it and the phone is at face level or above. Never take selfies with the phone below face level. The best looking people on the world would look bad with a below face level selfie haha
OMG! Absolutely. It makes you look like a Bassett hound
Weird.. I actually like how I look in few selfies below face level "
They do look hot, i must say |
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