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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do women really find it a turn on to call a guy daddy during sex?? Ive always found it a bit of a turn off tbh just wondering what everyone elses take is.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some clarification is in order.. the term 'Daddy' is usually used in a dom/sub dynamic, it's not about fantasizing about your actual father, but rather the Dom assuming a daddy role and looking after his little, caring for her, giving her structure and routine.. it's a term of endearment, and it suits K and I very well.. i think people should maybe have an understanding of that before making derogatory comments |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think some clarification is in order.. the term 'Daddy' is usually used in a dom/sub dynamic, it's not about fantasizing about your actual father, but rather the Dom assuming a daddy role and looking after his little, caring for her, giving her structure and routine.. it's a term of endearment, and it suits K and I very well.. i think people should maybe have an understanding of that before making derogatory comments"
Oh no, i didnt mean it to come off like that i was just genuinely curious as to whether or not people found it a turn on im not judging or fingering out people that do enjoy it i just wanted to see was it used a commonly as one would think...im soo sorry if it came off differently
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"I think some clarification is in order.. the term 'Daddy' is usually used in a dom/sub dynamic, it's not about fantasizing about your actual father, but rather the Dom assuming a daddy role and looking after his little, caring for her, giving her structure and routine.. it's a term of endearment, and it suits K and I very well.. i think people should maybe have an understanding of that before making derogatory comments"
I don't believe anyone did make a derogatory comment. Looking back over the thread people just stated that it wasn't for them.... just as they might do with any other fetish  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some clarification is in order.. the term 'Daddy' is usually used in a dom/sub dynamic, it's not about fantasizing about your actual father, but rather the Dom assuming a daddy role and looking after his little, caring for her, giving her structure and routine.. it's a term of endearment, and it suits K and I very well.. i think people should maybe have an understanding of that before making derogatory comments
I don't believe anyone did make a derogatory comment. Looking back over the thread people just stated that it wasn't for them.... just as they might do with any other fetish "
And like most fetishes, people make snap judgments about something they have zero understanding of.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me but I understand it in the Dom/Sub dynamic. Had a sub who asked to call me it before but it's just not for me.
It works for some people and their kink. Each to their own, and I won't judge anyone who uses the term as part of their dynamic. But I personally won't let anyone but my child call me daddy. |
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There is daddy/daughter, and daddy/little.
Obviously most are into daddy/little, but that does not mean the other type does not exist, and it's not something you should clarify.
I wouldn't like to be called, daddy, a dom, or sir.
I would rather instead of a girl saying "he is my dom", say "When he tells me to bend over I bend over" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it
K x"
Mmm me too. Gets me really horny especially during mmf when the other guy asks if i like what daddys doing to me while fucking me at the same time  |
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By *eracityMan
over a year ago
the big smoke |
I spend most of my time trying to forget my father. When on the job I hardly need reminding of him. Then again it could be a handy “last longer on the job” tool. Like imagining Maggie Thatcher or Kevin Spacey mid shag. |
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By *ub_1Man
over a year ago
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"I dont like to call a guy daddy during sex but I really do like to be told I'm his baby 
Not an adult baby I hope, nappy changing and the like....lol
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Phew, that's ok, I call you sexy non adult baby, baby x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont like to call a guy daddy during sex but I really do like to be told I'm his baby
Not an adult baby I hope, nappy changing and the like....lol
Phew, that's ok, I call you sexy non adult baby, baby x"
Ah it's an awful lot hotter in bed lol |
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By *ub_1Man
over a year ago
Northside |
"I dont like to call a guy daddy during sex but I really do like to be told I'm his baby
Not an adult baby I hope, nappy changing and the like....lol
Phew, that's ok, I call you sexy non adult baby, baby x
Ah it's an awful lot hotter in bed lol "
Ok ok, happy to say whatever you want I'm getting back into bed, I'm ready to go again |
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By *ub_1Man
over a year ago
Northside |
"I dont like to call a guy daddy during sex but I really do like to be told I'm his baby
Not an adult baby I hope, nappy changing and the like....lol
Phew, that's ok, I call you sexy non adult baby, baby x
Ah it's an awful lot hotter in bed lol
Ok ok, happy to say whatever you want I'm getting back into bed, I'm ready to go again "
Out of your age range by one year....  |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
It's a hard limit for me because I'm a father of a lovely little girl over in Germany who I miss terribly and even though things are great and I'm as supportive as I can be, I still am extremely guilty for not being able to have stayed there and be proper father.
If someone starts calling me a good or a lovely daddy, I just have to contradict them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once had a fab party and a sub Dom couple was at it and she called him daddy and he told her what she could and could not do and if she wanted to do anything at the party she had to ask him I actually found it a trun on but it didn’t leed to anywhere as he took her home in the end as he got very jealous that she was getting more attention than he was so for me it’s a trun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this thread simply proves how narrow minded swingers are.
"Don't mock me because my kink isn't your kink ""
I get it it dose trun me on I actually love to call my Dom daddy if it’s a guy or mummy if it’s a female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'd think swingers would be a bit more openmided and accepting of things a little out of the ordinary.. but hey ho, I'm a rebel and live by my own rules |
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over a year ago
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"You'd think swingers would be a bit more openmided and accepting of things a little out of the ordinary.. but hey ho, I'm a rebel and live by my own rules
Probably best that you and I continue this conversation on a one to one basis....   "
Good morning Kitten |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'd think swingers would be a bit more openmided and accepting of things a little out of the ordinary.. but hey ho, I'm a rebel and live by my own rules
Probably best that you and I continue this conversation on a one to one basis....
Good morning Kitten "
Good morning daddy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'd think swingers would be a bit more openmided and accepting of things a little out of the ordinary.. but hey ho, I'm a rebel and live by my own rules"
Nah, there are more sexually liberated people on fishing tackle forums. The worst thing about Fab is how judgemental the ”swinging community” actually appears to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
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over a year ago
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"So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
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some of the "disagreeing " points from the thread.
"God no. vomit"
"yeuck "
"Ive just never understood how calling someone your father during the throes of passion is appealling "
"vom"
And I'll not bother with those who think it's sex with their kids. They need to get professional help ..
So ya. It's only disagreeing or giving your opinion.
It's kink shaming. Nothing less |
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over a year ago
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"So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
some of the "disagreeing " points from the thread.
"God no. vomit"
"yeuck "
"Ive just never understood how calling someone your father during the throes of passion is appealling "
"vom"
And I'll not bother with those who think it's sex with their kids. They need to get professional help ..
So ya. It's only disagreeing or giving your opinion.
It's kink shaming. Nothing less "
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over a year ago
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"So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
some of the "disagreeing " points from the thread.
"God no. vomit"
"yeuck "
"Ive just never understood how calling someone your father during the throes of passion is appealling "
"vom"
And I'll not bother with those who think it's sex with their kids. They need to get professional help ..
So ya. It's only disagreeing or giving your opinion.
It's kink shaming. Nothing less "
The only one i thought kink shaming was the one seeking professional help. Some of the other comments have been sent to me in private messages when ive turned a guy down and been called a lot worse. If people are on thus site they obviously have their own kinks and as i said each to their own. People have different ways of wording their opinion.
"Yeuck" really u think thats been judgemental how about been called "fat ugly and a slut" or been told " sure what you doing here who would ride the sort of you be like lying down with a beached wale"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Daddy/Little is not for me however if that’s someone else’s thing leave them to it to say it’s vom or wrong and to completely misunderstand it and say they’re having sex with their kid is so fucked up. As the saying goes if you have nothing nice to say it don’t because essentially what you’re doing by using derogatory language when trying to say something is not for you is shaming another which isn’t cool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
some of the "disagreeing " points from the thread.
"God no. vomit"
"yeuck "
"Ive just never understood how calling someone your father during the throes of passion is appealling "
"vom"
And I'll not bother with those who think it's sex with their kids. They need to get professional help ..
So ya. It's only disagreeing or giving your opinion.
It's kink shaming. Nothing less
The only one i thought kink shaming was the one seeking professional help. Some of the other comments have been sent to me in private messages when ive turned a guy down and been called a lot worse. If people are on thus site they obviously have their own kinks and as i said each to their own. People have different ways of wording their opinion.
"Yeuck" really u think thats been judgemental how about been called "fat ugly and a slut" or been told " sure what you doing here who would ride the sort of you be like lying down with a beached wale"
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So your point is that because some people say really shitty things that makes it ok to say kinda shitty things because they're not as bad? |
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over a year ago
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"Daddy/Little is not for me however if that’s someone else’s thing leave them to it to say it’s vom or wrong and to completely misunderstand it and say they’re having sex with their kid is so fucked up. As the saying goes if you have nothing nice to say it don’t because essentially what you’re doing by using derogatory language when trying to say something is not for you is shaming another which isn’t cool. "
Wise words indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
some of the "disagreeing " points from the thread.
"God no. vomit"
"yeuck "
"Ive just never understood how calling someone your father during the throes of passion is appealling "
"vom"
And I'll not bother with those who think it's sex with their kids. They need to get professional help ..
So ya. It's only disagreeing or giving your opinion.
It's kink shaming. Nothing less
The only one i thought kink shaming was the one seeking professional help. Some of the other comments have been sent to me in private messages when ive turned a guy down and been called a lot worse. If people are on thus site they obviously have their own kinks and as i said each to their own. People have different ways of wording their opinion.
"Yeuck" really u think thats been judgemental how about been called "fat ugly and a slut" or been told " sure what you doing here who would ride the sort of you be like lying down with a beached wale"
So your point is that because some people say really shitty things that makes it ok to say kinda shitty things because they're not as bad?"
Nope. Personally i dont think calling someone daddy during sex is righy but im noy going to shame someone over it and i could have easily said yeuck instead i voiced my opinion. The op asked a question and people answered as do loads of other threads at end of day everyone in life judges people whether here on fab or in vanilla life but noticed on fab the minute anyone gives their opinion and it doesnt suit someone else they are xalled out on been judgemental or shaming others but isnt that person doing the same.
At end of day everyone is here for their own kinks we are all going to differ so lets just except it. |
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over a year ago
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@ Mz Bunny the fact you are determining something isn’t “right” is judgement of someone else speaking poorly of anyone isn’t right plain and simple and the derogatory language in this thread is shameful if your Opinion doesn’t agree with someone else’s or the op question that’s fine simple yes I agree or no I don’t is all that’s needed |
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Can't see how people don't understand it's roleplay.. Maybe those girls 'kink shaming' are moms and find it too hard to separate the two.
In the wise words of Ice T (I'm paraphrasing but you'll get the drift) on how his sex life has remained great with his wife of many years: if your lady is into you wearing roller skates while you fuck her then you get on those mothaf*%÷*n roller skates |
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over a year ago
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"Can't see how people don't understand it's roleplay.. Maybe those girls 'kink shaming' are moms and find it too hard to separate the two.
In the wise words of Ice T (I'm paraphrasing but you'll get the drift) on how his sex life has remained great with his wife of many years: if your lady is into you wearing roller skates while you fuck her then you get on those mothaf*%÷*n roller skates "
Ha ha ha love it |
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"@ Mz Bunny the fact you are determining something isn’t “right” is judgement of someone else speaking poorly of anyone isn’t right plain and simple and the derogatory language in this thread is shameful if your Opinion doesn’t agree with someone else’s or the op question that’s fine simple yes I agree or no I don’t is all that’s needed "
I didmt comment here to shame anyone and as i have said each to their own. |
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"So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
some of the "disagreeing " points from the thread.
"God no. vomit"
"yeuck "
"Ive just never understood how calling someone your father during the throes of passion is appealling "
"vom"
And I'll not bother with those who think it's sex with their kids. They need to get professional help ..
So ya. It's only disagreeing or giving your opinion.
It's kink shaming. Nothing less
The only one i thought kink shaming was the one seeking professional help. Some of the other comments have been sent to me in private messages when ive turned a guy down and been called a lot worse. If people are on thus site they obviously have their own kinks and as i said each to their own. People have different ways of wording their opinion.
"Yeuck" really u think thats been judgemental how about been called "fat ugly and a slut" or been told " sure what you doing here who would ride the sort of you be like lying down with a beached wale"
So your point is that because some people say really shitty things that makes it ok to say kinda shitty things because they're not as bad?
Nope. Personally i dont think calling someone daddy during sex is righy but im noy going to shame someone over it and i could have easily said yeuck instead i voiced my opinion. The op asked a question and people answered as do loads of other threads at end of day everyone in life judges people whether here on fab or in vanilla life but noticed on fab the minute anyone gives their opinion and it doesnt suit someone else they are xalled out on been judgemental or shaming others but isnt that person doing the same.
At end of day everyone is here for their own kinks we are all going to differ so lets just except it."
We live in a democracy, everyone is entitled to an opinion and has the the right to voice that opinion. But the faceless nature of the internet allows poeple to express those opinions in a way they wouldn't do to someones face.. a good rule of thumb might be if you wouldn't say it in person maybe best not to say it at all.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So now i should be ashamed of how commented on this thread. If i dont like something about someone i will say it to their face. If i have offended someone i am sorry i didnt mean to. Its mad how people judge others and im the bad guy. Ah well. Enough said agsin i apologise to anyone i offended. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"@ Mz Bunny the fact you are determining something isn’t “right” is judgement of someone else speaking poorly of anyone isn’t right plain and simple and the derogatory language in this thread is shameful if your Opinion doesn’t agree with someone else’s or the op question that’s fine simple yes I agree or no I don’t is all that’s needed "
There's the difference in what ur saying and and what m&s bunny saying ur interpreting the act of calling someone daddy as not being right where as she is saying it's not right for her she has being no way judgemental |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
some of the "disagreeing " points from the thread.
"God no. vomit"
"yeuck "
"Ive just never understood how calling someone your father during the throes of passion is appealling "
"vom"
And I'll not bother with those who think it's sex with their kids. They need to get professional help ..
So ya. It's only disagreeing or giving your opinion.
It's kink shaming. Nothing less
The only one i thought kink shaming was the one seeking professional help. Some of the other comments have been sent to me in private messages when ive turned a guy down and been called a lot worse. If people are on thus site they obviously have their own kinks and as i said each to their own. People have different ways of wording their opinion.
"Yeuck" really u think thats been judgemental how about been called "fat ugly and a slut" or been told " sure what you doing here who would ride the sort of you be like lying down with a beached wale"
So your point is that because some people say really shitty things that makes it ok to say kinda shitty things because they're not as bad?
Nope. Personally i dont think calling someone daddy during sex is righy but im noy going to shame someone over it and i could have easily said yeuck instead i voiced my opinion. The op asked a question and people answered as do loads of other threads at end of day everyone in life judges people whether here on fab or in vanilla life but noticed on fab the minute anyone gives their opinion and it doesnt suit someone else they are xalled out on been judgemental or shaming others but isnt that person doing the same.
At end of day everyone is here for their own kinks we are all going to differ so lets just except it.
We live in a democracy, everyone is entitled to an opinion and has the the right to voice that opinion. But the faceless nature of the internet allows poeple to express those opinions in a way they wouldn't do to someones face.. a good rule of thumb might be if you wouldn't say it in person maybe best not to say it at all.."
Honestly I think u have taken peoples distain in calling someone daddy during sex to personal to the actual kink of daddy/baby girl role play which many enjoy in a true sub/Dom role |
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over a year ago
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it's the usual problem. People mistake their right to express an opinion with an entitlement to have that opinion respected.
Wrong. Expressing opinions is a right.
Respect is earned.
If your opinion is a piss poor one based on ignorance and lack of empathy your still entitled to express it publicly if you want.
Just don't be surprised when it's criticised... |
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over a year ago
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"So if you disagree with something you are been judgemental. Op asked a question people gave their opinion isnt that what the forums are about.
I would find it strange saying "daddy" in the throws of sex but if someone else enjoys it good for them just as someone might enjoy talking dirty each to their own.
some of the "disagreeing " points from the thread.
"God no. vomit"
"yeuck "
"Ive just never understood how calling someone your father during the throes of passion is appealling "
"vom"
And I'll not bother with those who think it's sex with their kids. They need to get professional help ..
So ya. It's only disagreeing or giving your opinion.
It's kink shaming. Nothing less
The only one i thought kink shaming was the one seeking professional help. Some of the other comments have been sent to me in private messages when ive turned a guy down and been called a lot worse. If people are on thus site they obviously have their own kinks and as i said each to their own. People have different ways of wording their opinion.
"Yeuck" really u think thats been judgemental how about been called "fat ugly and a slut" or been told " sure what you doing here who would ride the sort of you be like lying down with a beached wale"
So your point is that because some people say really shitty things that makes it ok to say kinda shitty things because they're not as bad?
Nope. Personally i dont think calling someone daddy during sex is righy but im noy going to shame someone over it and i could have easily said yeuck instead i voiced my opinion. The op asked a question and people answered as do loads of other threads at end of day everyone in life judges people whether here on fab or in vanilla life but noticed on fab the minute anyone gives their opinion and it doesnt suit someone else they are xalled out on been judgemental or shaming others but isnt that person doing the same.
At end of day everyone is here for their own kinks we are all going to differ so lets just except it.
We live in a democracy, everyone is entitled to an opinion and has the the right to voice that opinion. But the faceless nature of the internet allows poeple to express those opinions in a way they wouldn't do to someones face.. a good rule of thumb might be if you wouldn't say it in person maybe best not to say it at all..
Honestly I think u have taken peoples distain in calling someone daddy during sex to personal to the actual kink of daddy/baby girl role play which many enjoy in a true sub/Dom role "
I dont take it personally at all. I've simply noticed and undercrrent in these forums lately that I dont find particularly helpful or tolerant |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Honestly I think u have taken peoples distain in calling someone daddy during sex to personal to the actual kink of daddy/baby girl role play which many enjoy in a true sub/Dom role
I dont take it personally at all. I've simply noticed and undercrrent in these forums lately that I dont find particularly helpful or tolerant"
It's an open forum ur always going to get those that find one thing or another repulsive that's not to say that the forum holds the same view
On this thread already there's a kitten that has shown her appreciation for a daddy and is was quiet open about it no one knocked her for it and I am sure there's a lot more around who prefer to keep it for the bed room |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tend to agree with the undercurrent except its not really an undercurrent.Its open and in your face. Its a flock of bad sheep trying to impress their fellow bullies with nasty comments and boorish behaviour.
If you cant say anything nice stay quiet.  |
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