when speaking through the net on sites like these you can portray yourself as a nice person but in reality it means very little and is only words. you can say "I'm not a weirdo", "im normal" etc. question is, what makes you trust a person? |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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It's a lot of little puzzle pieces mainly gathered out of conversations, but also drawn from the profile and veris, that that come together to form a picture. The gut feeling is constantly scrutinising the incoming information. If there's doubt, there's no trust, there won't be a meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a nice person, but I have alot of anger in me, due too past experiences, and get hurt easily, but trying too put that behind me, and concentrate on positive people around me as apposed to negativity, |
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As most said, instinct. Keep in mind that some of the fabbers are only recently discovering themselves or are gathering the "courage" to be more open about their way or life. Personally, if I would feel uncomfortable (I guess it is gut feeling), I'd walk away. |
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"when speaking through the net on sites like these you can portray yourself as a nice person but in reality it means very little and is only words. you can say "I'm not a weirdo", "im normal" etc. question is, what makes you trust a person? "
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Online, you've really no idea as to the gender  , mental (in)stability or true age of the person you're chatting with is...
That's why I look to chat on KIK as chatting is instantaneous there and you can begin to see if the person is who they say they are...
Also, if the person is a friend of a Fabber I know really well, chances are that there'll be no messing around or silly games either (My experience so far)
After a while of dealing with trolls, spoofers and timewasters, the legit sexy people stand out a mile here... So experience and gut reaction definitely helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suppose it would depend on what people’s intentions are. Whether they are here just for sex or if they actually want to meet like minded people. People who are sexually frustrated are bound to be a little too eager at times! |
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I don't think you can actually assess and then judge someone by what they say on here, either on forums or in private messaging.
There's too much noise, too much testosterone at times, too many altered behaviours (on both sides) due to the competition and ratio difference and I believe that affects how people behave and they way they respond and message.
I think you can only get the measure of someone when you start to message offline on kik, etc and its just the two people conversing, so it tends to be a better reflection on the individuals. This is how I make up my mind to meet someone or not.
I know I have sent messages that I later regretted and came across like an arsehole as I was trying too hard to impress as I knew I was up against competition, which affected what I said and hence the lady was never going to form a bond of trust. |
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