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Unicorns are not rare!
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By *adame B OP Woman
over a year ago
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I think what is rare is getting them involved in a dynamic that they are comfortable with.
I hear it repeatedly mentioned that bi sexual females are hard work to get onboard. I agree getting the dynamics right for everyone involved can be difficult but it is a three way interaction. Surely if all engage fully and openly from the start it leads to a better time for all involved. I am not slating any type here just wondering why this image is out there. Bi females, couples, males, TVs etc... what is your take on this myth. Keep it nice folk's |
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I think some people expect to meet and play with a lady on one night.. where this might happen we found that a social meeting, or even two, where there is no play expectations has lead to a night of fun that was way more fulfilling for all involved.
if i was a single lady on here there is no way in hell i would go the a complete strangers house/hotel to meet a couple without at least one social meet first. |
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"I think some people expect to meet and play with a lady on one night.. where this might happen we found that a social meeting, or even two, where there is no play expectations has lead to a night of fun that was way more fulfilling for all involved.
if i was a single lady on here there is no way in hell i would go the a complete strangers house/hotel to meet a couple without at least one social meet first."
A coffee meet or social of some kind goes without saying for everyone involved..but it's as much about what said unicorn is looking as much as say a couple like us.....does she just want to play with just the wife of the couple or both and have everyone involved...as ye know some want everyone playing and some male partners are happy just to see their wifes/girlfriends or significant other lol play with the bi female involved. |
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I find that people often expect single bi girls to leave their comfort zone and to just be there for the couple's pleasure. Not all mind you. But some! I've had a lot of correspondence with people who don't want to meet first and think meeting for a drink on the night of a meet constitutes "getting to know each other" . There has to be willingness on both sides. But I for one prefer to have met a couple in a social sense before going further |
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"I find that people often expect single bi girls to leave their comfort zone and to just be there for the couple's pleasure. Not all mind you. But some! I've had a lot of correspondence with people who don't want to meet first and think meeting for a drink on the night of a meet constitutes "getting to know each other" . There has to be willingness on both sides. But I for one prefer to have met a couple in a social sense before going further "
Dead right, makes total sense. You determine your rules of engagement, no one else. |
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"I find that people often expect single bi girls to leave their comfort zone and to just be there for the couple's pleasure. Not all mind you. But some! I've had a lot of correspondence with people who don't want to meet first and think meeting for a drink on the night of a meet constitutes "getting to know each other" . There has to be willingness on both sides. But I for one prefer to have met a couple in a social sense before going further "
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We have been lucky in our hunt for unicorns
We never put pressure on the female and are always ourselves
I constantly stress to the single female that she have to be a 100% comfortable for it to work
The trick is no pressure and be your self xxx  |
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By *adame B OP Woman
over a year ago
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A couple have a bond already so as a single bi lady you have to be respectful of that while maintaining your own boundaries. Personally I would not meet with a couple only to meet one of them, there are plenty of single males and females on fab for that.
I would have to connect with both in order for it to work for me, this is the great thing about meeting couples at socials... everyone is relaxed and flirty so it's easier to engage with both.
I love MFF 3somes so believe it's worth getting the dynamics right. |
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Please describe exactly this Fab Unicorn as I see the phrase bandied about, derided, objectified, worshipped, etc. but I'm never sure exactly what it means.
Not the ordinary unicorns with the horn and the fairy dust. Sure I've loads of them running around the back garden here, so they're not in short supply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab."
Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...?
It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant ..  |
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab.
Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...?
It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. "
I find ignoring said posts the most effective |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe so JD... definitely Just on the wound up side of things tonight..  I’ve said what I’d to say and I’ll say no more, as my grandad would say.. followed by “but I’ll say this..” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No white knight intended, just an honest to god out pouring if virtol, facilitated by the reading of yet another shitty juvenile statement and spurred on by the grumpiness of waking in a chair at 2am.. good advice though, apprecited |
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There are 30 women online. .. advanced search feature tells me 2 are bisexual/ have threesomes listed as a preference. There are 102 couples and 300+ men.
I'd say statistally that's rare!
The dynamic has to work for everyone involved. .. and social interaction is vital in establishing an attraction... regardless of what a profile says!
Being the centre of a couples attention has to be awesome. .. but unfortunately unicorns are sometimes used by couples as fluffers... and can leave the encounter feeling unfulfilled. I think unicorns are rare... What's rare is precious! What's precious is valued and revered. Happy fabbing xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find that people often expect single bi girls to leave their comfort zone and to just be there for the couple's pleasure. Not all mind you. But some! I've had a lot of correspondence with people who don't want to meet first and think meeting for a drink on the night of a meet constitutes "getting to know each other" . "
Full agree .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab.
Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...?
It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. "
I think you better try and explain your outburst its very insulting. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab.
Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...?
It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. "
been a bit a generous with 90%. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab.
Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...?
It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. I think you better try and explain your outburst its very insulting."
...nah I don’t think I will.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unicorns are mythical creatures just as pretty ladies are on fab.
Do you think you say nasty unpleasant things so that when no woman wants anything to do with you, you can justify it in your own head as “it’s only because I talk trash”...?
It’s bloody depressing man, 90% of people on here a decent and kind, but it’s the 10% like you who sour it for people.. fuckin unbelievable that mods don’t ban you constantly.. can only imagine it’s because your considered completely irrelevant .. been a bit a generous with 90%.
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I’m the eternal optimist... |
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By *adame B OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There are 30 women online. .. advanced search feature tells me 2 are bisexual/ have threesomes listed as a preference. There are 102 couples and 300+ men.
I'd say statistally that's rare!
The dynamic has to work for everyone involved. .. and social interaction is vital in establishing an attraction... regardless of what a profile says!
Being the centre of a couples attention has to be awesome. .. but unfortunately unicorns are sometimes used by couples as fluffers... and can leave the encounter feeling unfulfilled. I think unicorns are rare... What's rare is precious! What's precious is valued and revered. Happy fabbing xxx "
Searching who is online will only give you part of the picture. The point I am making is bi sexual females are not rare but establishing play with them is, so how can this change. Again this isn't about blame as I think it's from both sides. I know for me starting out I had a bit of a experience that left me wary and I feel it holds me back a bit. I also know what it's like to try to be inclusive and respectful of a female joining a couple dynamic from the couple's perspective which is more difficult at times making sure everyone is ok.
Is it rare for this dynamic because it's more work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having chemistry with one person is not easy to find.
Having chemistry with two people who are a couple,is very rare.
Personally I've only come across less than a handful of couple I had chemistry and amazing steamy playtime. |
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