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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I just started my new job a week ago. I love it, place is cool ,peoples are nice too but one problem. I started a conversation with a HR girl but the conversation is getting firting, sending kisses, pictures.Today , we sat in the canteen with others staff around.She is slowly moved her hand and touch my cock.I was surprised and nervous, starting sweating.I felt unconfortable in the canteen.

She is very sexy and hot but peoples are starting to notice something is going on.

Don't want to lose the job but she is fucking hot.

What to do? Any advice guys how to go about it

Kind Regards

Zito

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By *ofistimacatedMan  over a year ago

cavan town

Not the actions of a competent HR person

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tread carefully...what's more important...your job or a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not the actions of a competent HR person "

I know, it's fucking made me unconfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not the actions of a competent HR person

I know, it's fucking made me unconfortable.

"

Job but she is something else if you see her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd be careful. Decide exactly what to want. If you want to take it further with her then maybe ask her to be more discrete.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I just started my new job a week ago. I love it, place is cool ,peoples are nice too but one problem. I started a conversation with a HR girl but the conversation is getting firting, sending kisses, pictures.Today , we sat in the canteen with others staff around.She is slowly moved her hand and touch my cock.I was surprised and nervous, starting sweating.I felt unconfortable in the canteen.

She is very sexy and hot but peoples are starting to notice something is going on.

Don't want to lose the job but she is fucking hot.

What to do? Any advice guys how to go about it

Kind Regards

Zito"

Don't mix business with pleasure lol. Do the obvious ask her to stop tell her you will complain her. It doesn't seem professional ha ha

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By *rishcouple12Couple  over a year ago

Cork County

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" I just started my new job a week ago. I love it, place is cool ,peoples are nice too but one problem. I started a conversation with a HR girl but the conversation is getting firting, sending kisses, pictures.Today , we sat in the canteen with others staff around.She is slowly moved her hand and touch my cock.I was surprised and nervous, starting sweating.I felt unconfortable in the canteen.

She is very sexy and hot but peoples are starting to notice something is going on.

Don't want to lose the job but she is fucking hot.

What to do? Any advice guys how to go about it

Kind Regards

Zito

Don't mix business with pleasure lol. Do the obvious ask her to stop tell her you will complain her. It doesn't seem professional ha ha "

I will tell her..this has to stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It sounds like sexual harassment, obviously haven't heard all facts but the fact you said you feel uncomfortable is a red flag.

You may or not of been comfortable with the flirting, regardless it doesn't give the right for anyone to take that as a ok to physically touch someone in a sexual way.

Report now and be open and honest with everything you have done.

"

Thank you, may be she take advantage of newbies. I will if she doesn't stop

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By *-ManMan  over a year ago

Kark

You said you started the conversation followed by saying she "sent kisses and pics", did you start this conversation online? You contact her on FB or insta? So I'm guessing you persued her? And I'm guessing she's getting mixed signals?

I've no real advice other than maybe having an adult conversation about it with her

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd be careful. Decide exactly what to want. If you want to take it further with her then maybe ask her to be more discrete."

If I take further, I am afraid there will be more touches and flirting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I just started my new job a week ago. I love it, place is cool ,peoples are nice too but one problem. I started a conversation with a HR girl but the conversation is getting firting, sending kisses, pictures.Today , we sat in the canteen with others staff around.She is slowly moved her hand and touch my cock.I was surprised and nervous, starting sweating.I felt unconfortable in the canteen.

She is very sexy and hot but peoples are starting to notice something is going on.

Don't want to lose the job but she is fucking hot.

What to do? Any advice guys how to go about it

Kind Regards

Zito"

My advice, get out of bed, throw some water on your face. It was only a dream.

Hasn't this been made in a film a hundred times over

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You said you started the conversation followed by saying she "sent kisses and pics", did you start this conversation online? You contact her on FB or insta? So I'm guessing you persued her? And I'm guessing she's getting mixed signals?

I've no real advice other than maybe having an adult conversation about it with her

"

Come on , I was in the canteen and said hi..talk a bit..then book message in Skype at work

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" I just started my new job a week ago. I love it, place is cool ,peoples are nice too but one problem. I started a conversation with a HR girl but the conversation is getting firting, sending kisses, pictures.Today , we sat in the canteen with others staff around.She is slowly moved her hand and touch my cock.I was surprised and nervous, starting sweating.I felt unconfortable in the canteen.

She is very sexy and hot but peoples are starting to notice something is going on.

Don't want to lose the job but she is fucking hot.

What to do? Any advice guys how to go about it

Kind Regards

Zito

My advice, get out of bed, throw some water on your face. It was only a dream.

Hasn't this been made in a film a hundred times over "

That's truthly happen but thanks for your opinion

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By *-ManMan  over a year ago

Kark


"You said you started the conversation followed by saying she "sent kisses and pics", did you start this conversation online? You contact her on FB or insta? So I'm guessing you persued her? And I'm guessing she's getting mixed signals?

I've no real advice other than maybe having an adult conversation about it with her

Come on , I was in the canteen and said hi..talk a bit..then book message in Skype at work"

Not throwing shade, I'm trying to point out whoever sent that first message may change how HR would deal with this situation and might also account for any mixed signals that were sent/received.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You said you started the conversation followed by saying she "sent kisses and pics", did you start this conversation online? You contact her on FB or insta? So I'm guessing you persued her? And I'm guessing she's getting mixed signals?

I've no real advice other than maybe having an adult conversation about it with her

Come on , I was in the canteen and said hi..talk a bit..then book message in Skype at work

Not throwing shade, I'm trying to point out whoever sent that first message may change how HR would deal with this situation and might also account for any mixed signals that were sent/received.

"

I just said hi but I didn't knew that that flirting will follow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Send her your cock pic she will run cos women can't handle it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Send her your cock pic she will run cos women can't handle it "

Best not to do that on skype or work email

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By *-ManMan  over a year ago

Kark


"You said you started the conversation followed by saying she "sent kisses and pics", did you start this conversation online? You contact her on FB or insta? So I'm guessing you persued her? And I'm guessing she's getting mixed signals?

I've no real advice other than maybe having an adult conversation about it with her

Come on , I was in the canteen and said hi..talk a bit..then book message in Skype at work

Not throwing shade, I'm trying to point out whoever sent that first message may change how HR would deal with this situation and might also account for any mixed signals that were sent/received.

I just said hi but I didn't knew that that flirting will follow"

That's kind of the pattern of how these things work, you either get no reply or a flirty one

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By *-ManMan  over a year ago

Kark

I see only a few ways to end this.

1 tell her stop

2 tell hr to tell her stop

3 tell her a lie(you're gay, got an STD, don't fancy her)

4 hit it and either keep or loose your job

5 do nothing and grin and bear it

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By *aider190Man  over a year ago

swords

This has to be a put on....seriously

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By *-ManMan  over a year ago

Kark


"This has to be a put on....seriously "

Who knows but I'll play along for now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't be such a pussy, just fuck her as you said she was hot.

You both know not to get caught!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman  over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Well OP youre having a great time. Well according to your threads. Fair play.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I just started my new job a week ago. I love it, place is cool ,peoples are nice too but one problem. I started a conversation with a HR girl but the conversation is getting firting, sending kisses, pictures.Today , we sat in the canteen with others staff around.She is slowly moved her hand and touch my cock.I was surprised and nervous, starting sweating.I felt unconfortable in the canteen.

She is very sexy and hot but peoples are starting to notice something is going on.

Don't want to lose the job but she is fucking hot.

What to do? Any advice guys how to go about it

Kind Regards

Zito

My advice, get out of bed, throw some water on your face. It was only a dream.

Hasn't this been made in a film a hundred times over "

I'm also calling bullshit.

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By *arbiegirl19Woman  over a year ago

Hollymount

If is has done this to u and you are only new.. How many more has she tried or has Sex with in the company..

Back away... Be polite and tell her nothing can happen between ye..

Good luck with it..let us know how it went

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" I just started my new job a week ago. I love it, place is cool ,peoples are nice too but one problem. I started a conversation with a HR girl but the conversation is getting firting, sending kisses, pictures.Today , we sat in the canteen with others staff around.She is slowly moved her hand and touch my cock.I was surprised and nervous, starting sweating.I felt unconfortable in the canteen.

She is very sexy and hot but peoples are starting to notice something is going on.

Don't want to lose the job but she is fucking hot.

What to do? Any advice guys how to go about it

Kind Regards

Zito

My advice, get out of bed, throw some water on your face. It was only a dream.

Hasn't this been made in a film a hundred times over

I'm also calling bullshit. "

Thank u, that's yur opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If is has done this to u and you are only new.. How many more has she tried or has Sex with in the company..

Back away... Be polite and tell her nothing can happen between ye..

Good luck with it..let us know how it went"

I will tomorrow, will give u the update

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By *good-being-badMan  over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I'm taking your post at face value... if this had been posted by a lady saying a guy had touched her inappropriately there'd be vastly different responses.

Male or female shouldn't feel uncomfortable in the work place, male or female shouldn't be touched up in the work place..

If it's non consensual it's wrong.

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By *aloma12TV/TS  over a year ago

city cnt

tbh id love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm taking your post at face value... if this had been posted by a lady saying a guy had touched her inappropriately there'd be vastly different responses.

Male or female shouldn't feel uncomfortable in the work place, male or female shouldn't be touched up in the work place..

If it's non consensual it's wrong.

"

Thanks

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you

Report her immediately for sexual harassment that should keep her at bay

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lucky fkr

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By *m389Man  over a year ago

Bromley


"Report her immediately for sexual harassment that should keep her at bay "

It could work out real bad for him if she turns the accusations on him.

Even if he is innocent, she could drag him through the mud.

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Any more jobs going in this office?

I need to get back in the workforce and this sounds like just the incentive I'd need

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam

Does she work in a pharmacy by any chance??

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