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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging. |
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
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Op, you do realise that after this thread, you're going to get a fecking avalanche of messages from single guys here!!! 
Remember "Don't feed the monkeys" 
don't even make eye contact 
...& if all else fails, there's the "no single guys" filter button   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.
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Op, you do realise that after this thread, you're going to get a fecking avalanche of messages from single guys here!!!
Remember "Don't feed the monkeys"
don't even make eye contact
...& if all else fails, there's the "no single guys" filter button "
Are you one of the monkey's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
We do something similar,clearly says guys don't contact us,we will contact you if needed.
Too many don't take heed.
When they do we make a note on the private note facility so as when we are looking a guy we know who not to contact.
If they can't respect a few lines on our profile,what respect are they likely to have should we make the mistake of meeting them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.
We do something similar,clearly says guys don't contact us,we will contact you if needed.
Too many don't take heed.
When they do we make a note on the private note facility so as when we are looking a guy we know who not to contact.
If they can't respect a few lines on our profile,what respect are they likely to have should we make the mistake of meeting them
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I had a simular note for couples with that kind of wording on their profiles when I was meeting couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
I have it three times in my profile don't message if you are married or attached. It's just not for me. But I still get the "can I be the exception to the rule" message constantly. |
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
 I've read your profile and promise not to message you. So feel free to contact me IF you look for men in the future. Just sayin'.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
I'd say block them but then the profile goes silent and its pretty boring and you end up on the forum moaning!!
Profile that have no interest in men but still allow them to mail smells like attention "I need to know my bolt ons are working" but no man will ever touch them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.
I'd say block them but then the profile goes silent and its pretty boring and you end up on the forum moaning!!
Profile that have no interest in men but still allow them to mail smells like attention "I need to know my bolt ons are working" but no man will ever touch them "
Push me pull you syndrome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
It is because you didn't set/block them on your profile message settings
Do you need help to set it up? Or have you done already?
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Not sure I understand. If you've had Not Looking for Single Guys option selected, since you joined, then only couples/women/trans could contact you in any way.
All single guys can do is Fan your pics, which I also have.
Is that your issue? Single Guys Fabbing your pics? Or is it someh6people getting through your filters?
If it's the latter, I'd complain to Admin.
If it's the former - snowflake alert |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to "
Send me there profile names lol |
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol"
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" "
promise I won't tell anyone |
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone "
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it "
thats the Christmas spirit lol |
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it thats the Christmas spirit lol"
Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it thats the Christmas spirit lol
Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu "
ive swing flu I'm very needy |
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it thats the Christmas spirit lol
Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu ive swing flu I'm very needy "
Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it thats the Christmas spirit lol
Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu ive swing flu I'm very needy
Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging "
please cum peg out the clothes lol |
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it thats the Christmas spirit lol
Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu ive swing flu I'm very needy
Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging please cum peg out the clothes lol"
Its the only pegging I'm fit for at the moment
Although I suppose I could just lie there and take it
What was the purpose of the thread again? I'm delirious/d*unk/unsure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it thats the Christmas spirit lol
Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu ive swing flu I'm very needy
Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging please cum peg out the clothes lol
Its the only pegging I'm fit for at the moment
Although I suppose I could just lie there and take it
What was the purpose of the thread again? I'm delirious/d*unk/unsure "
im unsure myself lol think if you're a single guy don't message just saying |
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"I don't use filters I choose what I want to answer each to there own
I didn't originally but the amount of messages from guys forced me to Send me there profile names lol
Ah I'd never tell. Sure some of them were "straight" promise I won't tell anyone
I'd have to divulge my Blocklists then and that's about to be cleared as part of my Christmas spirit.
Oooohh! You might get back in
Joking! You aren't on it thats the Christmas spirit lol
Currently full of a cold and trying to kill it with any spirit before it gets to Man Flu ive swing flu I'm very needy
Whilst I'd absolutely love to "swing by" you don't want this dripping nose and tired body anywhere near you. It'd be no use for anything other than milking or pegging please cum peg out the clothes lol
Its the only pegging I'm fit for at the moment
Although I suppose I could just lie there and take it
What was the purpose of the thread again? I'm delirious/d*unk/unsure im unsure myself lol think if you're a single guy don't message just saying "
Yes, indeed. I refer back to my original post.
Hey, all I did was Fab the pics of the sexy lady. I see no harm in that |
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
you know you can set your account that single men can’t make contact ? Go into settings xx |
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I can honestly say I have never messaged a lady or a couple unless there profile matches mine. Simple manners to respect people's wishes. It also only takes a few seconds to read a profile, and that's the whole point of a profile, is to let people know what your interests or lack of interests are. But that's just me. |
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
Use the filters and then they can't message you to begin with. Then you can look for the men's profiles who catch your interest. |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes! If there was less ifs and buts the same would be confused ?? it's only people ifs that get people reading and annotating then you would not get feedback from said
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging.
I have it three times in my profile don't message if you are married or attached. It's just not for me. But I still get the "can I be the exception to the rule" message constantly. "
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Sure just filter them. That makes sense doesn't it?
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even straight guys get messages from guys , abeit not as many, they are only being human , I personally respect people wishes, but I still enjoy the read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think writing 'no men' in capital letters is pretty clear dont you think?"
No we see that as a challenge although you are beautiful so take it as a compliment & ignore x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that even when we declare 'no men' on our profile, we still get heaps of messages from them??
When we finally DO look for men in the future, we'll be ignoring all the men who refused to look at our profile or respect our wishes!
Rant over, just PLEASE read what people are interested in before messaging."
Some of the people (men mostly) won't read and it's a challenge for them and hoping for a luck
I just read the message, delete it. Have filters as well but time to time I have a pleasure to exchange messages with very interesting people, so maybe being more opened to others is a key?  |
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