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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In reality swing is probably as old as time, from Roman orgies, biblical Sodom & Gomorra, Cassanova, Marquis de Sade, to modern days via internet site and swinger clubs.
in modern times (70's - 90's) it was initially seen a couples activity, but of late it is singles also.
there are probably as many singles on Fab as couples & the internet certainly makes it easier to find like minded people
But why Fab ( or any swinger site) over Tinder or POF, indeed why the swinger lifestyle, if swinging is truly NSA, 1 night stands, is that not possible through other ways of meeting.
for the "attached singles", is it not possible to "play away" on other sites?
I can understand the initial interest of sexually something different, the sense of danger, the excitement but what keeps you after those initial meets?
what is the attraction of the life style that is not available in the Vanilla world meets?
many Fabbers leave, take breaks, but the life style always seems to draws them back in.
so what is the attraction |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not going to advertise myself on a dating site as wanting a swinger lifestyle. Swinging is generally a group activity for those into swinging as opposed to casual sexual encounters of singles. Though some singles will partake in group situations. It's the multiple (more than 2) people in the same space at the same time with the intention of playing that makes fab or any similar site different to pof or others. You can be open about your preference here, hoping you are addressing like minded people. |
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"I wanted a threesome, simples! 
Did you get it?  "
Yes and no lol
Initially I was looking for straight MFM... But ended up having bi FFM.
My interests have changed a lot since I joined, now my fantasy is a bi MFM... Just a matter of timing and having that elusive three-way attraction |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"I wanted a threesome, simples!
Did you get it?
Yes and no lol
Initially I was looking for straight MFM... But ended up having bi FFM.
My interests have changed a lot since I joined, now my fantasy is a bi MFM... Just a matter of timing and having that elusive three-way attraction "
So good when it works.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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because unfortunately tinder and pof do not really cater towards couples and the majority of other swing sites are either shit or monthly pay site. fab is better in regards finding people that we play with. while we also use a site more aimed towards fetishism we would rather not indulge in swinging on there as we us that for more social interaction and events |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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from the few answers, most wanted to meet more than 1 or experience group fun... yet many only meet 1 person at a time...but certainly as a way of exploring alternative ro a Vanilla lifestyle, then a swing site is great. |
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"because unfortunately tinder and pof do not really cater towards couples and the majority of other swing sites are either shit or monthly pay site. fab is better in regards finding people that we play with"
That’s the exact same reason of why we are in fab tbh, yet it’s still hard to find what we’re looking for. Now, the times we do find it make it absolutely worth it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"because unfortunately tinder and pof do not really cater towards couples and the majority of other swing sites are either shit or monthly pay site. fab is better in regards finding people that we play with
That’s the exact same reason of why we are in fab tbh, yet it’s still hard to find what we’re looking for. Now, the times we do find it make it absolutely worth it "
completely agree |
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