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over a year ago
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Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ? |
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That's the level of conversation with so many I presume. They don't know what to say or ask and revert to the standard list of questions.
I've got the same problem in that when I'm chatting to anyone it runs out of steam very quickly when the conversation is only one way and one or two word replies.
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ? "
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of imagination and poor social skills. Lots of people send the same generic message to tons of profiles hoping someone, anyone will bite. Also, you are a total stranger, coming up with witty openers isn't always easy.
You don't have to reply, and if it bothers you that much, block all mail and initiate contact yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I’m not stressed over it I just don’t understand why you would even ask that question , it’s pretty obvious that anyone on fab is here for sex "
So you be ok with do you want the ride as an opening message.
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"No I’m not stressed over it I just don’t understand why you would even ask that question , it’s pretty obvious that anyone on fab is here for sex "
That may be true but so many ladies on here say they don't want dick pics or conversations that jump immediately to sex. They want people to see the person behind the profile and not everyone has the confidence to sustain a conversation like that. It's like asking"do you come here often?" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sure I understand everyone is different and I love that but it’s the only question I don’t understand- like I said already it’s a sex site not dating - I’m literally here for a good session of sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure I understand everyone is different and I love that but it’s the only question I don’t understand- like I said already it’s a sex site not dating - I’m literally here for a good session of sex "
Now if every woman made it as clear as you why there here it would be the perfect site.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it "
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist |
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"Yup that’s why I’m here !!"
That's the problem with chatting to complete strangers.
I've been on and off fab for 2 years and in my experience that's not why most women are here.
Many are here for socials or new experiences with like-minded men or women. They aren't here just for the ride and they are very vocal when men assume that they are and that makes many men nervous of a first approach.
Therefore they ask why you are here rather than get slapped down yet again.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I would think personally that if I am messaging someone on a sex site that they are here for sex. If I joined a gardening site I wouldn’t ask if the person likes flowers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist "
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages? |
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"Sure I understand everyone is different and I love that but it’s the only question I don’t understand- like I said already it’s a sex site not dating - I’m literally here for a good session of sex Now if every woman made it as clear as you why there here it would be the perfect site. "
And not everyone knows exactly why they are here themselves. For many it is a whole new world and they aren't sure if it's for them and it only takes one wrong message to put them off.
It's not as simple as saying everyone should make it clear why they are here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yup that’s why I’m here !!
That's the problem with chatting to complete strangers.
I've been on and off fab for 2 years and in my experience that's not why most women are here.
Many are here for socials or new experiences with like-minded men or women. They aren't here just for the ride and they are very vocal when men assume that they are and that makes many men nervous of a first approach.
Therefore they ask why you are here rather than get slapped down yet again.
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Exactly, we aren't all here for the same experience, although it may be sexual in nature |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages? "
Because it’s hard to find the right people , we all have our standards right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure I understand everyone is different and I love that but it’s the only question I don’t understand- like I said already it’s a sex site not dating - I’m literally here for a good session of sex "
Well its a swingers site and some people are on here looking for more than casual sex, but even so there are so many different things people are on here for and so many versions of peoples idea of being here for sex that its still a valid question.
Are you here to find a regukar fb a string of one off's a partner for parties etc....
Besides all that its juat a way of opening the conversation |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages? "
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would think personally that if I am messaging someone on a sex site that they are here for sex. If I joined a gardening site I wouldn’t ask if the person likes flowers "
But you might ask what is your favourite flower or if conversation was flagging ask what got you into gardening in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Because it’s hard to find the right people , we all have our standards right "
But sure you're only here for sex, they're offering sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way"
That’s a lot of questions now!! My main point was that the people who ask me why I am on this is because they think I can just go out and pull for sex and therefore have no need to be on this site. I’d hate to get a message from you if you’d be asking me all those above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way"
looking forward to op response |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would think personally that if I am messaging someone on a sex site that they are here for sex. If I joined a gardening site I wouldn’t ask if the person likes flowers
But you might ask what is your favourite flower or if conversation was flagging ask what got you into gardening in the first place. "
Of course you would and I expect to talk about what you’re into with sex as it’s so varied but what I was annoyed with is why a lot of ppl think I should just go out and pull and why I have to come on this to find what I want |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way
That’s a lot of questions now!! My main point was that the people who ask me why I am on this is because they think I can just go out and pull for sex and therefore have no need to be on this site. I’d hate to get a message from you if you’d be asking me all those above "
You see you can't be different than the rest of the clique here or you get challenged on everything you say. |
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"I would think personally that if I am messaging someone on a sex site that they are here for sex. If I joined a gardening site I wouldn’t ask if the person likes flowers
But you might ask what is your favourite flower or if conversation was flagging ask what got you into gardening in the first place. "
No point beating around the proverbial Bush ,Nancy  |
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If/when we are interested in someone we read their profile.
That is usually a giveaway as to what someone likes or is into. If we like what we see we strike up a conversation (usually based on what we’ve read) without needing to ask “so what are you into” or “why are you here” |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way
That’s a lot of questions now!! My main point was that the people who ask me why I am on this is because they think I can just go out and pull for sex and therefore have no need to be on this site. I’d hate to get a message from you if you’d be asking me all those above "
Exactly and that's my point.
There are so many different questions and answers.
I'm married and had that on my profile until I got lots of abuse on a uk forum.
Therefore I wouldn't be messaging you because you don't meet married people but if I was just looking sex I could ignore that fact and start a conversation with you and how would you know unless you asked me why I was here and what my fav experience was like? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way
That’s a lot of questions now!! My main point was that the people who ask me why I am on this is because they think I can just go out and pull for sex and therefore have no need to be on this site. I’d hate to get a message from you if you’d be asking me all those above
Exactly and that's my point.
There are so many different questions and answers.
I'm married and had that on my profile until I got lots of abuse on a uk forum.
Therefore I wouldn't be messaging you because you don't meet married people but if I was just looking sex I could ignore that fact and start a conversation with you and how would you know unless you asked me why I was here and what my fav experience was like?"
Would you want to ask me anything now seeing as I have your full attention? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure I understand everyone is different and I love that but it’s the only question I don’t understand- like I said already it’s a sex site not dating - I’m literally here for a good session of sex Now if every woman made it as clear as you why there here it would be the perfect site. so why are you here ?  Jasus man it's a sex site why you think I'm here.
Oh you're here to troll, we all know that by now! Well you have been getting away with it for years so sure a little bit does no harm.
There's a little bit, and there's a raison d'etre! Well cut back a little and have a good ride. "
If only you could, eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would think personally that if I am messaging someone on a sex site that they are here for sex. If I joined a gardening site I wouldn’t ask if the person likes flowers
But you might ask what is your favourite flower or if conversation was flagging ask what got you into gardening in the first place.
No point beating around the proverbial Bush ,Nancy "
Straight forward kind of girl me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure I understand everyone is different and I love that but it’s the only question I don’t understand- like I said already it’s a sex site not dating - I’m literally here for a good session of sex Now if every woman made it as clear as you why there here it would be the perfect site. so why are you here ? Jasus man it's a sex site why you think I'm here.
Oh you're here to troll, we all know that by now! Well you have been getting away with it for years so sure a little bit does no harm.
There's a little bit, and there's a raison d'etre! Well cut back a little and have a good ride.
If only you could, eh? "
You would if you could wouldn't you. |
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"Sure I understand everyone is different and I love that but it’s the only question I don’t understand- like I said already it’s a sex site not dating - I’m literally here for a good session of sex "
Well fair play that's what this site needs pure honesty.i find this site is all chat and shite talk to be honest instead of the main reason which is sex.keep her lit girl. |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way
That’s a lot of questions now!! My main point was that the people who ask me why I am on this is because they think I can just go out and pull for sex and therefore have no need to be on this site. I’d hate to get a message from you if you’d be asking me all those above
Exactly and that's my point.
There are so many different questions and answers.
I'm married and had that on my profile until I got lots of abuse on a uk forum.
Therefore I wouldn't be messaging you because you don't meet married people but if I was just looking sex I could ignore that fact and start a conversation with you and how would you know unless you asked me why I was here and what my fav experience was like?
Would you want to ask me anything now seeing as I have your full attention?"
Nothing at all as I respect people's preferences which is why I would never pm you.
You started this thread asking why people ask stupid questions and my point is that it's not always black and white |
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"Sure I understand everyone is different and I love that but it’s the only question I don’t understand- like I said already it’s a sex site not dating - I’m literally here for a good session of sex
Well fair play that's what this site needs pure honesty.i find this site is all chat and shite talk to be honest instead of the main reason which is sex.keep her lit girl."
Always lit  |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way
That’s a lot of questions now!! My main point was that the people who ask me why I am on this is because they think I can just go out and pull for sex and therefore have no need to be on this site. I’d hate to get a message from you if you’d be asking me all those above
Exactly and that's my point.
There are so many different questions and answers.
I'm married and had that on my profile until I got lots of abuse on a uk forum.
Therefore I wouldn't be messaging you because you don't meet married people but if I was just looking sex I could ignore that fact and start a conversation with you and how would you know unless you asked me why I was here and what my fav experience was like?
Would you want to ask me anything now seeing as I have your full attention?
Nothing at all as I respect people's preferences which is why I would never pm you.
You started this thread asking why people ask stupid questions and my point is that it's not always black and white"
You should read my post at the start I did not say why are people asking stupid questions, always read carefully before you answer |
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"I would think personally that if I am messaging someone on a sex site that they are here for sex. If I joined a gardening site I wouldn’t ask if the person likes flowers
But you might ask what is your favourite flower or if conversation was flagging ask what got you into gardening in the first place.
No point beating around the proverbial Bush ,Nancy
Straight forward kind of girl me "
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way
That’s a lot of questions now!! My main point was that the people who ask me why I am on this is because they think I can just go out and pull for sex and therefore have no need to be on this site. I’d hate to get a message from you if you’d be asking me all those above
Exactly and that's my point.
There are so many different questions and answers.
I'm married and had that on my profile until I got lots of abuse on a uk forum.
Therefore I wouldn't be messaging you because you don't meet married people but if I was just looking sex I could ignore that fact and start a conversation with you and how would you know unless you asked me why I was here and what my fav experience was like?
Would you want to ask me anything now seeing as I have your full attention?
Nothing at all as I respect people's preferences which is why I would never pm you.
You started this thread asking why people ask stupid questions and my point is that it's not always black and white
You should read my post at the start I did not say why are people asking stupid questions, always read carefully before you answer "
I always check. You didn't use the word stupid but if you didn't think it was a stupid or inane question you wouldn't have started the thread in the first place unless you were simply looking " to get someone's full attention"? |
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Your filters have me blocked, so i cant send an iteresting 1st mail or ask why you are here...maybe you should point out in your profile that you are here for sex, that should hopefully remove that opening question & limit the daily mails you recieve.
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"Your filters have me blocked, so i cant send an iteresting 1st mail or ask why you are here...maybe you should point out in your profile that you are here for sex, that should hopefully remove that opening question & limit the daily mails you recieve.
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I don’t get lots of mail as I have set msgs to what I’m after why do you assume I’d be getting a lot of mail ? Do you get a lot ? |
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"Your filters have me blocked, so i cant send an iteresting 1st mail or ask why you are here...maybe you should point out in your profile that you are here for sex, that should hopefully remove that opening question & limit the daily mails you recieve.
I don’t get lots of mail as I have set msgs to what I’m after why do you assume I’d be getting a lot of mail ? Do you get a lot ? "
You're a woman and due to the higher percentage of men on the site it's always been a bone of contention that men get very few messages and woman can't keep up with the hundreds of daily messages |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Do you send many first messages?
They guys are obviously interested in you and not everyone is blessed with the skills to break the ice with a very catching opening email. Its like a fab version of "hey how are you".
If you have the time chat back to them it might develop into a great conversation. If not just reply to the ones that catch your eye no point getting stressed over it
And yes I send a lot of messages first I don’t expect to find what I want sitting on my fist
But if all you want is sex, why do you need to send lots of messages?
Why do you need to send any messages at all if you are just here for sex?
Is your inbox not full every day?
How do you choose which of those messages in the inbox is worthy of a reply?
Is it based on their pics?
These are all valid questions too so it's not straightforward.
No problem with your reasons for being here but not everyone thinks that way
That’s a lot of questions now!! My main point was that the people who ask me why I am on this is because they think I can just go out and pull for sex and therefore have no need to be on this site. I’d hate to get a message from you if you’d be asking me all those above
Exactly and that's my point.
There are so many different questions and answers.
I'm married and had that on my profile until I got lots of abuse on a uk forum.
Therefore I wouldn't be messaging you because you don't meet married people but if I was just looking sex I could ignore that fact and start a conversation with you and how would you know unless you asked me why I was here and what my fav experience was like?
Would you want to ask me anything now seeing as I have your full attention?
Nothing at all as I respect people's preferences which is why I would never pm you.
You started this thread asking why people ask stupid questions and my point is that it's not always black and white
You should read my post at the start I did not say why are people asking stupid questions, always read carefully before you answer
I always check. You didn't use the word stupid but if you didn't think it was a stupid or inane question you wouldn't have started the thread in the first place unless you were simply looking " to get someone's full attention"?"
Well now I can’t take anything you say seriously as you didn’t read my opening text, it’s the same as people messaging without reading the profile text first . Are you one of those too ? |
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"Your filters have me blocked, so i cant send an iteresting 1st mail or ask why you are here...maybe you should point out in your profile that you are here for sex, that should hopefully remove that opening question & limit the daily mails you recieve.
I don’t get lots of mail as I have set msgs to what I’m after why do you assume I’d be getting a lot of mail ? Do you get a lot ?
You're a woman and due to the higher percentage of men on the site it's always been a bone of contention that men get very few messages and woman can't keep up with the hundreds of daily messages"
Well I dont get inundated with msgs but I can understand that happens |
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Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Ok there's your opening text where you ask why almost every message is the same or asks that question.
You want to know what fucking difference it makes why you are here and this thread is attempting to discuss that and to show that not everyone thinks the same way.
If you don't think the endless question about your reasons for being here are stupid or inane then please explain and I'll happily apologise. |
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"Your filters have me blocked, so i cant send an iteresting 1st mail or ask why you are here...maybe you should point out in your profile that you are here for sex, that should hopefully remove that opening question & limit the daily mails you recieve.
I don’t get lots of mail as I have set msgs to what I’m after why do you assume I’d be getting a lot of mail ? Do you get a lot ?
You're a woman and due to the higher percentage of men on the site it's always been a bone of contention that men get very few messages and woman can't keep up with the hundreds of daily messages
Well I dont get inundated with msgs but I can understand that happens "
You see you have opened a can of worms here by saying the reason your on a sex site is to have sex with other people. |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Ok there's your opening text where you ask why almost every message is the same or asks that question.
You want to know what fucking difference it makes why you are here and this thread is attempting to discuss that and to show that not everyone thinks the same way.
If you don't think the endless question about your reasons for being here are stupid or inane then please explain and I'll happily apologise."
Ok there are not endless questions im asked for being here there is one question. Why am I on a sex site when clearly I should be able to pull without being on it .
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done Paula. You've certainly got people thinking and posting. And fair play for being so direct and upfront. It is refreshing. I just wish that people would discuss rather than attack. Besides sex I think most of us are on the forum to enjoy it, to entertain and be entertained, and not to be abused. Have a lovely wet day all |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Ok there's your opening text where you ask why almost every message is the same or asks that question.
You want to know what fucking difference it makes why you are here and this thread is attempting to discuss that and to show that not everyone thinks the same way.
If you don't think the endless question about your reasons for being here are stupid or inane then please explain and I'll happily apologise.
Ok there are not endless questions im asked for being here there is one question. Why am I on a sex site when clearly I should be able to pull without being on it .
Now apologise and I might let you ask me more personal questions "
I'll apologise for missing the inference that you could pull without having to be on the site but as I'm from Mars and you're from Venus that's my only excuse.
There is no doubt with your outgoing personality you would have no problem pulling off-site but as that comment wasn't in the original post. |
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"Yes a lot of people become confrontational when they converse, it’s actually caused by lack of sex I think "
And I'll apologise if you think this thread is confrontational because it was meant to be a simple conversation about why people assume things or ask certain questions.
I don't need to ask you any personal questions because I've no interest in getting to know you. Not because of anything in this forum but because you don't tick any of my boxes so I wouldn't be messaging you in the first place. |
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"Well done Paula. You've certainly got people thinking and posting. And fair play for being so direct and upfront. It is refreshing. I just wish that people would discuss rather than attack. Besides sex I think most of us are on the forum to enjoy it, to entertain and be entertained, and not to be abused. Have a lovely wet day all "
I don't see where or why this post could be considered to be abusive or confrontational. Those who replied to the Op's question, did attempt to explain why some people in their opening message might ask that question. |
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"Reminds me of what my dad used to say. If you cannot say anything nice, say nothing. Wise man  "
Where exactly was something unkind said on the thread? Looks like a decent discussion following the original post.
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In fairness it's not the worst question you'd be confronted on here. While most are on here for sex, there's various approaches guided by preferences, desires and kinks. That's probably what the question refers to.
If someone really doesn't get the context why you're on here and not just pulling by going out, it at least give you a clear hint who to avoid as they don't seem to be aware that there's a difference between inebriated humping and good sex. |
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"Reminds me of what my dad used to say. If you cannot say anything nice, say nothing. Wise man
Where exactly was something unkind said on the thread? Looks like a decent discussion following the original post.
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Nowhere. It has been a very enjoyable pleasant thread. Wish they all were.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In fairness it's not the worst question you'd be confronted on here. While most are on here for sex, there's various approaches guided by preferences, desires and kinks. That's probably what the question refers to.
If someone really doesn't get the context why you're on here and not just pulling by going out, it at least give you a clear hint who to avoid as they don't seem to be aware that there's a difference between inebriated humping and good sex. "
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"I would think personally that if I am messaging someone on a sex site that they are here for sex. If I joined a gardening site I wouldn’t ask if the person likes flowers "
hello may I water your dandylions |
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"No I’m not stressed over it I just don’t understand why you would even ask that question , it’s pretty obvious that anyone on fab is here for sex "
Not everyone. Many are just here for cams, chatrooms, forums, phone sex, pics, clubs or socials. Of those who are here for sex, many only meet at clubs or parties and don't meet 1-1. Of those who do meet 1-1 some are strictly looking for one-offs, some for regular playmates, some for an fwb (or two) and some are looking for 'the one'. Of each of those, some are looking for people to explore specific fetishes such as watersports, BDSM, role play, etc., with. If you're having a conversation with someone, I don't think it unreasonable for them to ask what your pursuits are to ensure you're both looking for the same thing on the same terms.... Saves a lot of misunderstanding and realisation of wasted time further down the line! |
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Also there's alot more to than just sex. Like do you want it rough, do you want to go dogging, threesomes all of that. So asking why are you on here is just another way of asking what kinda sex u want |
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"I would think personally that if I am messaging someone on a sex site that they are here for sex. If I joined a gardening site I wouldn’t ask if the person likes flowers
But you might ask what is your favourite flower or if conversation was flagging ask what got you into gardening in the first place.
Of course you would and I expect to talk about what you’re into with sex as it’s so varied but what I was annoyed with is why a lot of ppl think I should just go out and pull and why I have to come on this to find what I want "
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"I've been asked that a few times by women and not in the opening mail either. "
It's something I would ask, particularly if someone's profile text wasn't very expansive. If I were looking to meet someone, I'd like to know reasonably early if we were looking for the same thing. I would work it into the conversation though, not just blurt it out. |
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"I've been asked that a few times by women and not in the opening mail either.
It's something I would ask, particularly if someone's profile text wasn't very expansive. If I were looking to meet someone, I'd like to know reasonably early if we were looking for the same thing. I would work it into the conversation though, not just blurt it out. "
Exactly, no point wasting each others time if you're not looking for similar. People who say we're all here for the same thing seem to have a limited imagination. |
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"I've been asked that a few times by women and not in the opening mail either.
It's something I would ask, particularly if someone's profile text wasn't very expansive. If I were looking to meet someone, I'd like to know reasonably early if we were looking for the same thing. I would work it into the conversation though, not just blurt it out.
Exactly, no point wasting each others time if you're not looking for similar. People who say we're all here for the same thing seem to have a limited imagination. "
I don't think op is lacking in imagination at all because she didn't say we were all here for the same thing but people have different ideas on conversation starters.
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"I've been asked that a few times by women and not in the opening mail either.
It's something I would ask, particularly if someone's profile text wasn't very expansive. If I were looking to meet someone, I'd like to know reasonably early if we were looking for the same thing. I would work it into the conversation though, not just blurt it out.
Exactly, no point wasting each others time if you're not looking for similar. People who say we're all here for the same thing seem to have a limited imagination. "
Yup. I've been asked a lot of strange things. But apparently being a single parent is a no no for some women here. |
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"What? You being a single parent has turned women off? That's so weird "
It could be the same reason some people dont want to meet attatched people the percived difficulty in arranging times for meets etc... |
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"I've been asked that a few times by women and not in the opening mail either.
It's something I would ask, particularly if someone's profile text wasn't very expansive. If I were looking to meet someone, I'd like to know reasonably early if we were looking for the same thing. I would work it into the conversation though, not just blurt it out.
Exactly, no point wasting each others time if you're not looking for similar. People who say we're all here for the same thing seem to have a limited imagination.
Yup. I've been asked a lot of strange things. But apparently being a single parent is a no no for some women here."
It does restrict people's freedom to meet |
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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago
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I think the reason paula is being asked is because she is single beautiful body and very good looking..guys cant understand in our small little brains how she not swamped with men ..open to correction on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When we get messages like that or "what are you interested in" we simply reply "everything on our profile"
Just make your profile clear that you are here for sex and the kind of people you want to fuck!!
Simples |
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"I've been asked that a few times by women and not in the opening mail either.
It's something I would ask, particularly if someone's profile text wasn't very expansive. If I were looking to meet someone, I'd like to know reasonably early if we were looking for the same thing. I would work it into the conversation though, not just blurt it out.
Exactly, no point wasting each others time if you're not looking for similar. People who say we're all here for the same thing seem to have a limited imagination. "
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over a year ago
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX."
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. |
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"Yup that’s why I’m here !!
That's the problem with chatting to complete strangers.
I've been on and off fab for 2 years and in my experience that's not why most women are here.
Many are here for socials or new experiences with like-minded men or women. They aren't here just for the ride and they are very vocal when men assume that they are and that makes many men nervous of a first approach.
Therefore they ask why you are here rather than get slapped down yet again.
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. "
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over a year ago
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion.
We get shoes now? "
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. "
A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for. |
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion.
We get shoes now?
Oh I wish that was a thing. Lol"
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You can't assume anything on here so I find it safer sometimes to ask that to make sure everyone is on the same page in the chat. It is a sex site but that doesn't mean that 100% are looking sex only, socials, forums etc. I think each to their own, if someone asked it I'd happily answer. |
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for."
Actually you do... They might just be there to get measured or accompanying someone else who is buying something. |
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for.
Actually you do... They might just be there to get measured or accompanying someone else who is buying something. "
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for.
Actually you do... They might just be there to get measured or accompanying someone else who is buying something.
But surely it's not for anyone else your on a sex site is it."
Yes. I have friends here. I keep in touch with them and socialise with them. People I have met in the past, people I introduced to Fab, and people I met through other sites who have migrated to here. We host and attend events with other members, which are advertised on the forums here. |
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for.
Actually you do... They might just be there to get measured or accompanying someone else who is buying something.
But surely it's not for anyone else your on a sex site is it.
Yes. I have friends here. I keep in touch with them and socialise with them. People I have met in the past, people I introduced to Fab, and people I met through other sites who have migrated to here. We host and attend events with other members, which are advertised on the forums here."
But it's a sex site so I would have thought people's joined it for sex not to make new best buddies or to meet someone to go with them to bingo. |
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for.
Actually you do... They might just be there to get measured or accompanying someone else who is buying something.
But surely it's not for anyone else your on a sex site is it.
Yes. I have friends here. I keep in touch with them and socialise with them. People I have met in the past, people I introduced to Fab, and people I met through other sites who have migrated to here. We host and attend events with other members, which are advertised on the forums here.
But it's a sex site so I would have thought people's joined it for sex not to make new best buddies or to meet someone to go with them to bingo."
That's my point though. You assume that it's because it's what you want that it's what everyone wants. While you may see it as being argumentative, I've merely shown you that not everyone thinks as you do. There are a vast diversity of Fab users with different wants and needs... And while your intention was to be deprecating, some of them might indeed actually enjoy a night of Fab bingo. If the social scene isn't your thing, don't participate. Nobody is forcing anyone to come to bingo |
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for.
Actually you do... They might just be there to get measured or accompanying someone else who is buying something.
But surely it's not for anyone else your on a sex site is it.
Yes. I have friends here. I keep in touch with them and socialise with them. People I have met in the past, people I introduced to Fab, and people I met through other sites who have migrated to here. We host and attend events with other members, which are advertised on the forums here.
But it's a sex site so I would have thought people's joined it for sex not to make new best buddies or to meet someone to go with them to bingo.
That's my point though. You assume that it's because it's what you want that it's what everyone wants. While you may see it as being argumentative, I've merely shown you that not everyone thinks as you do. There are a vast diversity of Fab users with different wants and needs... And while your intention was to be deprecating, some of them might indeed actually enjoy a night of Fab bingo. If the social scene isn't your thing, don't participate. Nobody is forcing anyone to come to bingo "
But no one joined the site for bingo they joined for sex. |
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for.
Actually you do... They might just be there to get measured or accompanying someone else who is buying something. But surely it's not for anyone else your on a sex site is it."
so what are you actually expecting here
That you mail a few ladies and they will just rock up to you for a Shag and be gratefull
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ? "
Ignore the begrudgers and do your own thing, their just jealous of you, happy fabbing. |
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"Its a sex site so you would imagine that's people are here for SEX.
So you go to a shoe store and obviously you're there to buy Shoes. But the sales assistant doesn't ask you what you're looking for and just hands you a pair of size 4 red heels. Do you say thanks and leave happy? No. Because one size doesn't fit all. And there are many styles for many reasons. It's a perfectly valid question in my opinion. A shoe shop is a place you go to buy shoes and a sex site is a place for sex.So while you might need to ask what size or colour you certainly don't need to ask what your here for.
Actually you do... They might just be there to get measured or accompanying someone else who is buying something. But surely it's not for anyone else your on a sex site is it. so what are you actually expecting here
That you mail a few ladies and they will just rock up to you for a Shag and be gratefull
Seriously "
Well I suppose the fact that I'm a bald, fat little man is a bit of a hindrance. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Ignore the begrudgers and do your own thing, their just jealous of you, happy fabbing."
Begrudgers??? OP started a thread and I doubt she posted it to ignore responses. I don't think there were any negative comments to her, just opinions on the question asked. Your jealousy comment makes no sense in the context of this thread. |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Ignore the begrudgers and do your own thing, their just jealous of you, happy fabbing.
Begrudgers??? OP started a thread and I doubt she posted it to ignore responses. I don't think there were any negative comments to her, just opinions on the question asked. Your jealousy comment makes no sense in the context of this thread."
But it might get him laid shhhhhhhhhhh |
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Ignore the begrudgers and do your own thing, their just jealous of you, happy fabbing.
Begrudgers??? OP started a thread and I doubt she posted it to ignore responses. I don't think there were any negative comments to her, just opinions on the question asked. Your jealousy comment makes no sense in the context of this thread.
But it might get him laid shhhhhhhhhhh"
have u got embalming fluid |
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"No I’m not stressed over it I just don’t understand why you would even ask that question , it’s pretty obvious that anyone on fab is here for sex "
Not everybody. I'm on here mainly to date, I just want to make sure I find someone who is as adventurous as I am sexually. Nothing worse than dating for a while and starting to like someone from outside fab before realising they're boring in bed and incompatible. Even when you say "here for sex" that could mean multiple things - nsa one-offs, friends with benefits, couples/singles only, group play only, socialising only etc etc. If you want to be clear about your reasoning maybe put it as your profile header? |
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"No I’m not stressed over it I just don’t understand why you would even ask that question , it’s pretty obvious that anyone on fab is here for sex
Not everybody. I'm on here mainly to date, I just want to make sure I find someone who is as adventurous as I am sexually. Nothing worse than dating for a while and starting to like someone from outside fab before realising they're boring in bed and incompatible. Even when you say "here for sex" that could mean multiple things - nsa one-offs, friends with benefits, couples/singles only, group play only, socialising only etc etc. If you want to be clear about your reasoning maybe put it as your profile header? "
So your reasons for being here is also sex related. |
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"No I’m not stressed over it I just don’t understand why you would even ask that question , it’s pretty obvious that anyone on fab is here for sex
Not everybody. I'm on here mainly to date, I just want to make sure I find someone who is as adventurous as I am sexually. Nothing worse than dating for a while and starting to like someone from outside fab before realising they're boring in bed and incompatible. Even when you say "here for sex" that could mean multiple things - nsa one-offs, friends with benefits, couples/singles only, group play only, socialising only etc etc. If you want to be clear about your reasoning maybe put it as your profile header? So your reasons for being here is also sex related."
Technically yes, but my point was that "here for sex" can mean many things, hence why people ask. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok so I joined as a single lady because I love sex and lots of it and a great variation of it. Almost every message I receive is a question asking why am I on this. Like I don’t ask every single guy why he is on this site or every couple so what’s the fucking difference ?
Ignore the begrudgers and do your own thing, their just jealous of you, happy fabbing.
Begrudgers??? OP started a thread and I doubt she posted it to ignore responses. I don't think there were any negative comments to her, just opinions on the question asked. Your jealousy comment makes no sense in the context of this thread.
But it might get him laid shhhhhhhhhhh"
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