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Just like to see what the suggestion are.
How does a women keep her man interested in 40/50 + years of knowing one another?
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How does a man keep her women interested?.
I am talking about good sex life now,?? |
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"Just like to see what the suggestion are.
How does a women keep her man interested in 40/50 + years of knowing one another?
Answers both ways.
How does a man keep her women interested?.
I am talking about good sex life now,??"
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I am not an expert obviously but I think it's about effort in all areas of life, not just the bedroom. If someone is being lazy, neglectful, disinterested in day to day life, you're not gonna want to fuck them. |
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"Just like to see what the suggestion are.
How does a women keep her man interested in 40/50 + years of knowing one another?
Answers both ways.
How does a man keep her women interested?.
I am talking about good sex life now,??"
As you put up the post, what are your ideas on the subject? |
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"I am not an expert obviously but I think it's about effort in all areas of life, not just the bedroom. If someone is being lazy, neglectful, disinterested in day to day life, you're not gonna want to fuck them."
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Well I think a guy needs to look after himself, keeping in good shape ,nicely dressed,kind and good to her.
Same with a lady.
Always nice hair,nice clothes,never looking trampy,and always teasing her guy.
Keep that twinkle in her eye.
Of course this is if health allows you to.
But I am asking for your opinion |
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"40/50 years with someone.... Dear God... I'm having palpitations at the very thought! 
You've never met the right person just"
I have an amazing person in my life... But I'm quite happy living in the moment. I'm surprised sometimes to think we've come this far and are still crazy about each other, but it's a pleasant surprise... Certainly nothing I expected or had to 'work at' keeping fresh. 40/50 years though just makes me think of my parents... |
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"Well I think a guy needs to look after himself, keeping in good shape ,nicely dressed,kind and good to her.
Same with a lady.
Always nice hair,nice clothes,never looking trampy,and always teasing her guy.
Keep that twinkle in her eye.
Of course this is if health allows you to.
But I am asking for your opinion "
You're living in a fantasy world there, asking for a lot  . People don't always have time to constantly look nice, nor should you always expect a woman to have pristine hair and makeup. Guess you've never dated a single mammy. I'm not even going to touch the Trampy comment. As, well you can dig your own hole with that one. |
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"Well I think a guy needs to look after himself, keeping in good shape ,nicely dressed,kind and good to her.
Same with a lady.
Always nice hair,nice clothes,never looking trampy,and always teasing her guy.
Keep that twinkle in her eye.
Of course this is if health allows you to.
But I am asking for your opinion
You're living in a fantasy world there, asking for a lot . People don't always have time to constantly look nice, nor should you always expect a woman to have pristine hair and makeup. Guess you've never dated a single mammy. I'm not even going to touch the Trampy comment. As, well you can dig your own hole with that one. "
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"40/50 years with someone.... Dear God... I'm having palpitations at the very thought!
You've never met the right person just
I have an amazing person in my life... But I'm quite happy living in the moment. I'm surprised sometimes to think we've come this far and are still crazy about each other, but it's a pleasant surprise... Certainly nothing I expected or had to 'work at' keeping fresh. 40/50 years though just makes me think of my parents... "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Well I think a guy needs to look after himself, keeping in good shape ,nicely dressed,kind and good to her.
Same with a lady.
Always nice hair,nice clothes,never looking trampy,and always teasing her guy.
Keep that twinkle in her eye.
Of course this is if health allows you to.
But I am asking for your opinion
You're living in a fantasy world there, asking for a lot . People don't always have time to constantly look nice, nor should you always expect a woman to have pristine hair and makeup. Guess you've never dated a single mammy. I'm not even going to touch the Trampy comment. As, well you can dig your own hole with that one.
I’m lucky if I remember to brush my hair in the mornings "
At least u have hair mine waved goodbye years ago  |
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"Well I think a guy needs to look after himself, keeping in good shape ,nicely dressed,kind and good to her.
Same with a lady.
Always nice hair,nice clothes,never looking trampy,and always teasing her guy.
Keep that twinkle in her eye.
Of course this is if health allows you to.
But I am asking for your opinion
You're living in a fantasy world there, asking for a lot . People don't always have time to constantly look nice, nor should you always expect a woman to have pristine hair and makeup. Guess you've never dated a single mammy. I'm not even going to touch the Trampy comment. As, well you can dig your own hole with that one.
I’m lucky if I remember to brush my hair in the mornings
At least u have hair mine waved goodbye years ago "
Rate mine is falling out I’ll have non left |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just like to see what the suggestion are.
How does a women keep her man interested in 40/50 + years of knowing one another?
Answers both ways.
How does a man keep her women interested?.
I am talking about good sex life now,??"
I honestly think for that to happen there has to be a totally natural attraction from both parties to each other in everyway ..as in ..l don't believe in all this crap about having to " work " at it ...if it's not Naturally happening it's not gonna last ...twill stay for a while but won't stay the distance ...in my opinion you know it's right when you hear a lady speak and answer things and you say to yourself.. " that's the exact way I think and that's what I'd say " and she does Everything that you ever dreamed about without having to ask or humour...and the same applies for you to her...it's just a natural connection...it's just flows effortlessly...some might think thats crap...but believe me if one has to be constantly " going on " to the other about stuff...it's dead in the water...to last that long and BE HAPPY it has to have a natural connection in mind and body ...so many stay together ok but never experience the Happiness they should have. |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Just like to see what the suggestion are.
How does a women keep her man interested in 40/50 + years of knowing one another?
Answers both ways.
How does a man keep her women interested?.
I am talking about good sex life now,??
I honestly think for that to happen there has to be a totally natural attraction from both parties to each other in everyway ..as in ..l don't believe in all this crap about having to " work " at it ...if it's not Naturally happening it's not gonna last ...twill stay for a while but won't stay the distance ...in my opinion you know it's right when you hear a lady speak and answer things and you say to yourself.. " that's the exact way I think and that's what I'd say " and she does Everything that you ever dreamed about without having to ask or humour...and the same applies for you to her...it's just a natural connection...it's just flows effortlessly...some might think thats crap...but believe me if one has to be constantly " going on " to the other about stuff...it's dead in the water...to last that long and BE HAPPY it has to have a natural connection in mind and body ...so many stay together ok but never experience the Happiness they should have."
Thank god for hats on our rough days after 8 night shifts on the trot , Tramping around Ireland lol  |
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"Just like to see what the suggestion are.
How does a women keep her man interested in 40/50 + years of knowing one another?
Answers both ways.
How does a man keep her women interested?.
I am talking about good sex life now,??
I honestly think for that to happen there has to be a totally natural attraction from both parties to each other in everyway ..as in ..l don't believe in all this crap about having to " work " at it ...if it's not Naturally happening it's not gonna last ...twill stay for a while but won't stay the distance ...in my opinion you know it's right when you hear a lady speak and answer things and you say to yourself.. " that's the exact way I think and that's what I'd say " and she does Everything that you ever dreamed about without having to ask or humour...and the same applies for you to her...it's just a natural connection...it's just flows effortlessly...some might think thats crap...but believe me if one has to be constantly " going on " to the other about stuff...it's dead in the water...to last that long and BE HAPPY it has to have a natural connection in mind and body ...so many stay together ok but never experience the Happiness they should have."
Im far from an expert but that sounds like an unrealistic expectation of one another.
I would imagine even the best matched couples dont share all the same opinions and desires, nor can they read each others mind.
There is a big difference between working to keep each other happy with open communication and "going on at each other" |
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As someone in a long term sexual relationship, I would agree with some of the points made here, both must look after themselves, gym etc. I also believe it should happen naturally, working on it probably won't help. Being really good friends helps. And lastly being honest and Frank about what you like what you don't like and your fantasies also helps. Goes without saying bringing people into the relationship also adds spice.my 2 cents |
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