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How to meet women (if you're female)
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I'm female - having lots of luck on here with single guys (of course). But I wanted more bi experiences that aren't limited to FFM. How to meet women? I've tried gay bars, female apps such as Her, female searches on Tinder etc. No luck. I've tried winking and msging females on here. No luck. Suppose clubs are the next step but I kind of wanted to do some one to ones in private before clubs. Advice? Maybe I don't give out a bi vibe lol or women are much more fussy than men. Maybe I'm not their type. I dunno but it's frustrating. Help. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
OP you mention that you want to do some one to one in private.Next time you have a few days to yourself why not put something on the meets & events section here on Fabs or perhaps have a look see if there is a lady that is seeking the same as you and has put up a meet. |
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"How is that the answer? Just be on here 24-7 in the hope that women contact me? That doesn't work for men haha so why would that work for me? "
Maybe block single males from messaging and open your profile so a female may approach you or vice versa, then hopefully your inbox won't be crazy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How is that the answer? Just be on here 24-7 in the hope that women contact me? That doesn't work for men haha so why would that work for me? "
Your profile being hidden doesnt help - its impossible to contact someone that you cant click on Message! |
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I know, but I just can't deal with all the msgs esp when I'm working etc. Maybe I should just switch it to females like someone mentioned. But in my whole time on fab I've had like 3 women contact me tho ha
"How is that the answer? Just be on here 24-7 in the hope that women contact me? That doesn't work for men haha so why would that work for me?
Your profile being hidden doesnt help - its impossible to contact someone that you cant click on Message!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you tried contacting women yourself rather than letting them find you? Also, don’t rule out couples as some wives will meet another female on their own. Good luck OP!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a look at Bizarre Events on here, they are Walthamstow based and often host women events only.
Might be something of interest for you."
I live in walthamstow and never heard of this place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks - have you ever been?
These do a ladies only event
https://simple-pleasure.co.uk/"
No just seen its women only so if that doesnt increase your chance of meeting women I dont know what will.
YOu can also restrict your message filter options so that only women can contact you. That means that you dont need to hide your profile and people can actually contact you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m on my 2nd attempt with a solo profile (Red59)
I’m finding it no easier this time around to build connections with bi females. We seem to be notoriously bad at flirting with each other.
Clubs however are a different story, so much easier to enjoy some FF fun in the heat of the moment and you know they’re not guys hiding behind a supposedly female profile.
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Thanks
Yes I have msged quite a few but don't get a reply.
A lot also don't accept msgs from single women or my age group, so have to wink them.
"Have you tried contacting women yourself rather than letting them find you? Also, don’t rule out couples as some wives will meet another female on their own. Good luck OP! "
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Glad it's not just me
Think I'll have to try a club then!
"I’m on my 2nd attempt with a solo profile (Red59)
I’m finding it no easier this time around to build connections with bi females. We seem to be notoriously bad at flirting with each other.
Clubs however are a different story, so much easier to enjoy some FF fun in the heat of the moment and you know they’re not guys hiding behind a supposedly female profile.
Viv"
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"Have a look at Bizarre Events on here, they are Walthamstow based and often host women events only.
Might be something of interest for you.
I live in walthamstow and never heard of this place!"
. I have heard of Bizarre Events but I couldn’t find a suitable event for me to attend. I believe they maybe on a industrial estate going towards Chingford unless I am confusing them with another party organisers for BDSM |
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