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London Surrey Social 20th October 2023.... HALLOWEEN THEME
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Next date for the social @Abfab is 20th October from 7-8.30pm…
LAST ENTRY WILL BE 8.30PM
HALLOWEEN THEME
Please add your name below to be sent the info… we have a new way of confirming your attendance as we have had-so many time wasters you will be sent the link….
Dress halloween sexy and smart …
Everyone is welcome to attend… FREE NEW MEMBERSHIP ONLY… HALF PRICE ENTRY between 7-8.30pm only.
The club then is open for everyone to stay on into the evening if you wish. There is no extra cost for this.
Remember HALLOWEEN THEME...
PLEASE BE AWARE THAT THIS IS FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO ATTEND THE SOCIAL... IT'S NOT A WAY IN FOR HALF PRICE ENTRY...
ONCE THE LIST IS CLOSED THERE WILL BE NO LATE ADDITIONS.. THIS INFO IS IN THE FORUM EARLY ENOUGH TO GET YOUR NAME DOWN!!!
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"Struggling with what to go as, any suggestions? And please be practical haha "
dressing up is optional so please do not worry xx wear whatever u feel comfortable in ..just read the clubs dress policy for men
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By *likat50Woman 29 weeks ago
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Please all remember the list shuts at 9pm tomorrow night as we have to get the list to the club before the event.
Also last entry is 8.30pm for the Social. You have to be in the club by then. |
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To the lady in the burgendy dress at the end of the night who I jxoked with that I was looking for a health spa - your underwear set was ummm very nice when you were getting changed.
Also to the couple joined me in the jacuzzi and I blushed and went quite. Lol the lady joke did make make me laugh |
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I went after the social. Saw all your costumes. They were very impressive. Nerves got the better of me and I ended up not chatting to anyone. I’ll make sure I come to the social next time I’m able to so I can introduce myself properly. |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Thank you all for being so friendly and welcoming.
Its always a nerve wracking experience for 'people like me' when attending a new club.
I am glad to say that I needn't have worried x
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Hey, know how you feel. It was my first time last night and I came along with a couple. I felt I stiffled their chance to play.
As a single male it's difficult to stand out and such.
I enjoyed myself and I'm sure in a few months time, I'll know more people and have those sort of connections and ways in to others.
I'd be happy to talk about my first experience and listen to yours if you want to DM me. |
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"Hey, know how you feel. It was my first time last night and I came along with a couple. I felt I stiffled their chance to play.
As a single male it's difficult to stand out and such.
I enjoyed myself and I'm sure in a few months time, I'll know more people and have those sort of connections and ways in to others.
I'd be happy to talk about my first experience and listen to yours if you want to DM me. "
My advice is as a single male is the following
1) accept early on that you are lower down the list of what people are looking for this means that you won’t always be approached. That is not to say you won’t be. Just us guys don’t have lady bits. You do have to show some assertiveness.
2) an acceptance that you will go to a club and often not play. Playing is not a given. If I play I take that as a good night full stop. If I get to watch also I take that as a win. The social side is as important if not more.. you may not play with that person that night but weeks months down the line it may happen, the flirting the will or won’t I play with someone is fun as well. Getting your self know in the club scene can take a few months to even a year.
3) the couple were obviously happy for you to come with them. I would take that as a positive:
4) I like kink, which puts people a number of people off. But on the other hand it stimulates discussion. I don’t like every type of kink (wax, electric, heat, needles are no no for me), however it is for others. You often find people in to same likes and same dislikes and the thing I like about the scene everyone is so different.
5) don’t overthink a club night, people do I as well to an extent (less so than I used to), take each night as a social and if you play you have and a good night
Hope that helps
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