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I was just thinking about the way people are and some of their flaws. Some people are unaware of theirs.
For me, my biggest flaw is impatience. I hate waiting, queueing and I hate traffic. I hate standing around and being messed around. So much so that I won't wait. I'll turn around in traffic, I'll walk out of queues and cut off my nose despite my face as it were. I just hate waiting. It really pisses me off!
I've been thinking about my friends flaws too. They're interesting! One of them just trusts people way too much. Another one will just fly off the handle for any little inconvenience. Most of my female friends share the same flaw; they are incredibly indecisive!
What about you? What's your biggest flaw? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few, I'd struggle to name my biggest.
I have quite a short temper.
I hold a grudge (situation depending rather than the person)
I'm as stubborn as an old goat and hate being told what to do.
One thing I've had pointed out to me by some good friends aswell is that I beat myself up way too much. I will give anything and everything to help someone else but I really struggle to be kind to myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I make snap decisions and i spend to much time working.
Im a deep thinker and it takes ages for me to give up on something.
These are the flaws i see in me, they may not be too others without context x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know what, I can’t decide, haha.
Mine is probably being a little too gullible. Been taken advantage of by a number of people, but as I’m not a confrontational person, I rarely do much about it. I try to be understanding, and where possible be there for them, but if they cross the line again, I prefer to just move on and forget the person. Some things are hard to forgive, so it’s easier to put them out of my mind, as holding grudges only hurts me, not them, as I doubt the consequences of their actions upon my life and well being would bother them in the slightest x
Viv x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I make snap decisions and i spend to much time working.
Im a deep thinker and it takes ages for me to give up on something.
These are the flaws i see in me, they may not be too others without context x"
If only all men didn't give up on something when it got hard.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what, I can’t decide, haha.
Mine is probably being a little too gullible. Been taken advantage of by a number of people, but as I’m not a confrontational person, I rarely do much about it. I try to be understanding, and where possible be there for them, but if they cross the line again, I prefer to just move on and forget the person. Some things are hard to forgive, so it’s easier to put them out of my mind, as holding grudges only hurts me, not them, as I doubt the consequences of their actions upon my life and well being would bother them in the slightest x
Viv x
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A non confrontational person from Wrexham? You are the unicorn lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I make snap decisions and i spend to much time working.
Im a deep thinker and it takes ages for me to give up on something.
These are the flaws i see in me, they may not be too others without context x
If only all men didn't give up on something when it got hard.. "
When it gets hard, you go harder, don't you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got loads of flaws but they make me, me.
I'm like a dog with a bone if I feel passionately about something.
I have opinions that lots don't agree with, I talk alot and I'm im like marmite but I like me. |
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"I was just thinking about the way people are and some of their flaws. Some people are unaware of theirs.
For me, my biggest flaw is impatience. I hate waiting, queueing and I hate traffic. I hate standing around and being messed around. So much so that I won't wait. I'll turn around in traffic, I'll walk out of queues and cut off my nose despite my face as it were. I just hate waiting. It really pisses me off!
I've been thinking about my friends flaws too. They're interesting! One of them just trusts people way too much. Another one will just fly off the handle for any little inconvenience. Most of my female friends share the same flaw; they are incredibly indecisive!
What about you? What's your biggest flaw?"
Your biggest flaw is not recognising your greatest asset.
I won't wait in queues...... there is seldom anything I want that is more important to me that my own time.
It's not impatience. It's the wisdom to make a choice.
There are things i'll queue for but they'd have to be life saving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know what, I can’t decide, haha.
Mine is probably being a little too gullible. Been taken advantage of by a number of people, but as I’m not a confrontational person, I rarely do much about it. I try to be understanding, and where possible be there for them, but if they cross the line again, I prefer to just move on and forget the person. Some things are hard to forgive, so it’s easier to put them out of my mind, as holding grudges only hurts me, not them, as I doubt the consequences of their actions upon my life and well being would bother them in the slightest x
Viv x
A non confrontational person from Wrexham? You are the unicorn lol "
Lol, we do exist xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know what, I can’t decide, haha.
Mine is probably being a little too gullible. Been taken advantage of by a number of people, but as I’m not a confrontational person, I rarely do much about it. I try to be understanding, and where possible be there for them, but if they cross the line again, I prefer to just move on and forget the person. Some things are hard to forgive, so it’s easier to put them out of my mind, as holding grudges only hurts me, not them, as I doubt the consequences of their actions upon my life and well being would bother them in the slightest x
Viv x
A non confrontational person from Wrexham? You are the unicorn lol
Lol, we do exist xx"
Well I am amazed haha! Ive yet to come across one in 12 years being here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know what, I can’t decide, haha.
Mine is probably being a little too gullible. Been taken advantage of by a number of people, but as I’m not a confrontational person, I rarely do much about it. I try to be understanding, and where possible be there for them, but if they cross the line again, I prefer to just move on and forget the person. Some things are hard to forgive, so it’s easier to put them out of my mind, as holding grudges only hurts me, not them, as I doubt the consequences of their actions upon my life and well being would bother them in the slightest x
Viv x
A non confrontational person from Wrexham? You are the unicorn lol
Lol, we do exist xx
Well I am amazed haha! Ive yet to come across one in 12 years being here. "
I know loads, but tbh, I can only comment on how people are with me xx |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I have quite a few  but i’m aware of them.
Some of them i could probably do with a bit of therapy (if i’m being totally honest with myself) but part of me thinks that these faults make me who i am. And on the whole, i’m quite lovely  and then i think do i really have these faults? Or am i just a no nonsense take no shit kind of person and the folk who tell me i have issues are the ones who have taken liberties with me (my trust etc) and don’t like it when i have called them out on it?
There’s a fine line between being very self aware to being a total nightmare (in my mind).
Overthinking and waffling are just two of my faults  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what, I can’t decide, haha.
Mine is probably being a little too gullible. Been taken advantage of by a number of people, but as I’m not a confrontational person, I rarely do much about it. I try to be understanding, and where possible be there for them, but if they cross the line again, I prefer to just move on and forget the person. Some things are hard to forgive, so it’s easier to put them out of my mind, as holding grudges only hurts me, not them, as I doubt the consequences of their actions upon my life and well being would bother them in the slightest x
Viv x
A non confrontational person from Wrexham? You are the unicorn lol
Lol, we do exist xx
Well I am amazed haha! Ive yet to come across one in 12 years being here.
I know loads, but tbh, I can only comment on how people are with me xx"
I must just be argumentative |
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My caring and fully trusting nature from the beginning... even if I know something doesn't feel right or I could end up being tricked/used for different motives I can't help myself helping people! Putting others needs before mine has on a few occasions in the past been taken advantage of and left me wondering... why can't I be a hard nut sometimes!? Or one of them proper "bad boy types" they seem to do alright without any feelings or don't care if they hurt people! Just look the other way and think about myself! Grrr-ing
My character means I will have these flaws with me for life so hopefully surround myself with any new potential long term friendships and existing kind people out there. Let happiness thrive  |
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"My caring and fully trusting nature from the beginning... even if I know something doesn't feel right or I could end up being tricked/used for different motives I can't help myself helping people! Putting others needs before mine has on a few occasions in the past been taken advantage of and left me wondering... why can't I be a hard nut sometimes!? Or one of them proper "bad boy types" they seem to do alright without any feelings or don't care if they hurt people! Just look the other way and think about myself! Grrr-ing
My character means I will have these flaws with me for life so hopefully surround myself with any new potential long term friendships and existing kind people out there. Let happiness thrive "
I relate hard to this!!
Caring to the point of your own detriment is hard, but sometimes it’s just who we are. X |
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Finding the most emotionally unavailable chap there is and liking him far to much
I want that one; pointing to the chap who could never in a million years give me what I want....
It is quite some skill |
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"I hate inefficiency. I'm always on the go, mind thinking about the next thing to be done. I have to actively turn myself off, make time out, before I burn myself out. "
Interesting that one. I do that too. |
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"Finding the most emotionally unavailable chap there is and liking him far to much
I want that one; pointing to the chap who could never in a million years give me what I want....
It is quite some skill "
Haha! |
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I can be blunt for example my friend asked my opinion on his new car and instead of lying and saying lovely I said you’re old beemer looked better and I hate that current grill bmw are nailing on the front of their cars |
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I have quite a few, but they make me who I am and overall I quite like myself so I can put up with them.
I'm very self critical and have low body confidence.
I also like to see the good in people for a lot longer than I should.
Finally, I eat too much chocolate but my mouth and waist are in a disagreement about whether that is actually a flaw
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My ability to be very cold hearted, dissmisive and uncaring. I can be scathing and hurtful when feel threatened. To the point I will reduce people to tears just because I can if they have upset me.
I've done and said some truly awful things to others because it's my defence mechanism 
Vengeance is probably my biggest flaw. |
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I would say I have quite a few flaws.
I have been told too many time by family and close friends that I always want to see the best in people even when I really shouldn't. But if I changed I wouldn't be me. 
In my personal life I am so unorganised, think mainly because in work I have to be so focused and on the ball I switch off when not working.
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over a year ago
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Being to honest...I lost loads of mates over that..still do...
But I never give my opinion without people asking..if they do I just say my honest opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My caring and fully trusting nature from the beginning... even if I know something doesn't feel right or I could end up being tricked/used for different motives I can't help myself helping people! Putting others needs before mine has on a few occasions in the past been taken advantage of and left me wondering... why can't I be a hard nut sometimes!? Or one of them proper "bad boy types" they seem to do alright without any feelings or don't care if they hurt people! Just look the other way and think about myself! Grrr-ing
My character means I will have these flaws with me for life so hopefully surround myself with any new potential long term friendships and existing kind people out there. Let happiness thrive
I relate hard to this!!
Caring to the point of your own detriment is hard, but sometimes it’s just who we are. X"
True! Xx
Ps. Food... desserts including ice cream is in my "other" flaw section! Can't help it, need it  |
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"I would say I have quite a few flaws.
I have been told too many time by family and close friends that I always want to see the best in people even when I really shouldn't. But if I changed I wouldn't be me.
In my personal life I am so unorganised, think mainly because in work I have to be so focused and on the ball I switch off when not working.
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No 1 isnt a flaw..its a positive trait. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I'm a perfectionist to the point that my self worth depends on it.
And I'm very stubborn"
Oh you remind of us someone very close to us ! Any tips for us ?
Don’t like the word flaw, we have strengths, focus on them and cheerfully manage around the weaknesses, we don’t have flaws |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I would say I have quite a few flaws.
I have been told too many time by family and close friends that I always want to see the best in people even when I really shouldn't. But if I changed I wouldn't be me.
In my personal life I am so unorganised, think mainly because in work I have to be so focused and on the ball I switch off when not working.
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Well your family and friends are wrong. Seeing the best in people is a skill far too many lack , it doesn’t make you a pushover, seeing / encouraging potential, is not the same as being naive |
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"I would say I have quite a few flaws.
I have been told too many time by family and close friends that I always want to see the best in people even when I really shouldn't. But if I changed I wouldn't be me.
In my personal life I am so unorganised, think mainly because in work I have to be so focused and on the ball I switch off when not working.
Well your family and friends are wrong. Seeing the best in people is a skill far too many lack , it doesn’t make you a pushover, seeing / encouraging potential, is not the same as being naive "
I see the best in people too. It's a great skill in my opinion. People warm to you if you're able to recognise their skills, etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My biggest flaw is that I have no flaws. I make other people look bad, as I’m so perfect.  "
It's true Queenie. I always feel like shit when you're around. You shine bright like a star and I shine bright like a crayon. It's not good because how do any of us ever stand a chance to be part of the clique if you're around!!!!! *ANGEEERY FACE* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My biggest flaw is that I have no flaws. I make other people look bad, as I’m so perfect.
It's true Queenie. I always feel like shit when you're around. You shine bright like a star and I shine bright like a crayon. It's not good because how do any of us ever stand a chance to be part of the clique if you're around!!!!! *ANGEEERY FACE*"
You are part of the clique, my pretty little buttercup |
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"I have a few, I'd struggle to name my biggest.
I have quite a short temper.
I hold a grudge (situation depending rather than the person)
I'm as stubborn as an old goat and hate being told what to do.
One thing I've had pointed out to me by some good friends aswell is that I beat myself up way too much. I will give anything and everything to help someone else but I really struggle to be kind to myself."
Are you my missing twin lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm back to add.. I get bored easily.. which means I move on quickly from one thing to another I need constant inspiration and if its not there.. I will be marching into a different territory. It's not a bad thing though. I'm okay with it. |
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"I'm back to add.. I get bored easily.. which means I move on quickly from one thing to another I need constant inspiration and if its not there.. I will be marching into a different territory. It's not a bad thing though. I'm okay with it. "
You won't be bored with me. Just saying! |
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