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Do you want a big wedding?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn’t bother

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a big one and it was fun. Expensive though

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

Had a big one which was lovely

If, and it’s a big if I ever did it again I’d have a teeny tiny one, me and him and a few witnesses!

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By *euve4usCouple over a year ago

Teddington

We got married in February after 8 years together (Valentine’s Day and honeymoon in Paris) - small wedding with 24 people. We did plan a big party for 200+ In June combined with birthday events....well you can guess the scenario with that one....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't want any wedding, let alone a big one

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By *ightkitty4uWoman over a year ago

Epsom

Was chatting about this the other day, I’d happily wear a 2nd hand dress, in fact my bestie 20 years ago said I could borrow hers after I saw her in it on her wedding day. It’s still in perfect condition, not sure if I will fit into it now!!

Love to have a field and a band as a reception... bit of a festival/hippy/pagan vibe...

Rather £20k + in the bank than spent on one day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

trip to tuscany, rent a villa for close family and friends, marquee wedding in the vineyards or close family and friends and a beach paradise, it often works out cheaper and its far more memorable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope. I'm engaged but we just plan to visit a registry office and then go on our honeymoon and have a very small celebration with our nearest and dearest when we come back.

I'd be too anxious to have a wedding. I hate being the centre of attention and I just think it's such a waste of money when you've not got a huge amount of money as it is. I'd rather spend that money on an amazing honeymoon or put down a deposit on a house.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. Neither big nor small. No weddings here, there or anywhere for me. No, no and thrice no.

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

I'd want to save as much as possible for the post marriage life. Just a few close friends and family need attend.

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

Huge wedding. Absolutely massive and ridiculously outrageous.

The divorce party the next day, even bigger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a big one.

Wouldn't get married again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fight

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Holibobs

I'd do a big outdoor glamping one, with teepees and nature decs etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I'm already married and we kept it very small and intimate =)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck no. We’ve been together 12 years, engaged for 7 and have no intention of the big wedding.

We’re going to have a tiny wedding, when we can actually be bothered to do it, then travel for a couple of months. I’d rather spend the sort of money I would on a wedding by going on a kick ass long honeymoon.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

We had a very low key affair. So small the reception was held in my parents front room.

If we were doing it now we'd probably still have a small scale ceremony but in a beautiful location nearby.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im unlikely to ever get married but if I had, I wanted one like in the film Robin Hood. In a wood with flowers in my hair

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By *rmrs1234Couple over a year ago

Waterford

we had a grand total of 9 at our wedding and it was amazing. I wouldnt go back and have a big do

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By *interfoxWoman over a year ago

maesteg

My dream wedding would be a smalll gathering of friends and close family in a Forest.

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

Been there. Done that. Not again thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been there. Done that. Not again thanks! "

This

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

It is something I’ve said from about the age of 5 that I’m never having a wedding. My dad has had some great holidays after saving three times for one, think he’s got the message now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fight"
That is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Done the whole big church thing, over 200 guests.. never again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

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By *m3232Man over a year ago

maidenhead

Total waste of money. But a Porsche instead.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

I like cake....can I come??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1"

Thought you had your own wedding to plan?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1

Thought you had your own wedding to plan?

Well the woman I thought it was just said never again. Kind of derailed that idea

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1

Thought you had your own wedding to plan?

Well the woman I thought it was just said never again. Kind of derailed that idea "

I'm sure she would make an exception for you if you asked her nicely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I did it again, I would just pop to the registry office, then have a very expensive lush meal and a night away, just me and him. Only because I have a big extended family and a eclectic group of friends. They are all lovely, but I wouldn’t be able to please everyone, so don’t want to focus on them, just us x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1

Thought you had your own wedding to plan?

Well the woman I thought it was just said never again. Kind of derailed that idea

I'm sure she would make an exception for you if you asked her nicely

Thanks for the vote of confidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not particularly. There has been talk of eloping to Hawaii

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1

Thought you had your own wedding to plan?

Well the woman I thought it was just said never again. Kind of derailed that idea

I'm sure she would make an exception for you if you asked her nicely

Thanks for the vote of confidence

Wouldn't want you to to miss out on possibly the best decision you would ever make in your life..... you can thank me later

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1

Thought you had your own wedding to plan?

Well the woman I thought it was just said never again. Kind of derailed that idea

I'm sure she would make an exception for you if you asked her nicely

Thanks for the vote of confidence

Wouldn't want you to to miss out on possibly the best decision you would ever make in your life..... you can thank me later

I think she’s more than come around to the idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

I like cake....can I come??"

Of course you can! Need sexy peoples on the dance floor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1"

Of course! I am sure we can find you a sexy lady to accompany you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Can I come? Cake and Karaoke sounds like a great night. I’ll need a +1

Of course! I am sure we can find you a sexy lady to accompany you

I’ve a feeling I’ve found a lovely one to accompany me.

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By *ikesEmBigMan over a year ago

Herts

Nah but who doesn't like a buffet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I judge people who have big elaborate weddings. Seems they care more about looking good to everyone else than the love for their partner.

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By *adyinred696969Couple over a year ago

Brecon

We were poorer than church mice when we got married, but we still managed to do the whole thing, dress, rings, suit, venue, buffet, church, DJ, wedding car, and two photographers....for £500.

The DJ, car, and pics were friends, the buffet was done by family, the suit and dress were 2nd hand, and we had a fantastic day.

However...if we won the lottery, we would renew our vows and make it a huge event lol.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

I like cake....can I come??

Of course you can! Need sexy peoples on the dance floor

Ohh I can wiggle my booty

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I think more people need to concentrate on the marriage and not the wedding

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a very quiet wedding (2 strangers were witnesses) on a beach, but a great party back home afterwards. It was a cost effective way of marrying. Great location, lousy husband.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

My next one would be just the both of us on a beach somewhere hot at sunset.....ahhh a girl can dream

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

If I ever got married , a registry office and then a small party would suit me fine, sod spending £15,000 on one day.

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I want to get married in St Paul’s Cathedral with Iron Maiden serving as my wedding singers.

Assembled royalty will bow in reverence as I take my vows and there’ll be an armed forces parade outside firing cannons triumphantly whilst the Red Arrows do a fly past.

Yes....quite a large wedding

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I want to get married in St Paul’s Cathedral with Iron Maiden serving as my wedding singers.

Assembled royalty will bow in reverence as I take my vows and there’ll be an armed forces parade outside firing cannons triumphantly whilst the Red Arrows do a fly past.

Yes....quite a large wedding

Is that all....I'm sure you could go bigger

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I want to get married in St Paul’s Cathedral with Iron Maiden serving as my wedding singers.

Assembled royalty will bow in reverence as I take my vows and there’ll be an armed forces parade outside firing cannons triumphantly whilst the Red Arrows do a fly past.

Yes....quite a large wedding

Is that all....I'm sure you could go bigger "

You’re quite right - I shall thus hire a necromancer and resurrect the mighty Ludwig Van Beethoven as Maiden’s support act

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

"
Next saturday is fine and that shirt is also good with music and yes with lots of icing too on all sides of the cake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t intend to get married, as I feel it carries a risk of becoming complacent about your relationship. But if I did do it then it would be small and personal - probably without family or any guests.

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

simple answer is no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had both.....(yes it is joked I am the Elizabeth Taylor of the family)....

Both were amazing days but the most important bit I have since learnt is it doesn't matter if it is a big or small do, just don't choose a groom who is a twat xx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I don’t intend to get married, as I feel it carries a risk of becoming complacent about your relationship. But if I did do it then it would be small and personal - probably without family or any guests."

That's an interesting attitude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

I accept your proposal Shag. But I don't want a big fancy affair but please tell me I can have bebe goats in jumpers instead of Bridesmaids?? (I have no friends)

And carrot cake....

And karaoke at the night time bun fightThat is good and yes you can have that, but a dress would be fine too. I like a carrot cake as well with the karaoke, lots of icing on the cake

Ooh good, I'll book it for next Saturday...

I will wear a dress, not one of those big poofty things though...Classy burd me

You can have all the icing you like

Next saturday is fine and that shirt is also good with music and yes with lots of icing too on all sides of the cake

Sorted then!

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By *reat me rightWoman over a year ago

Rotherham

Nope, not no way, never. Big or small - ain't happening.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish we had gone bigger, but the day was beautiful, still feel like it should have been on a grander scale though.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

Wherever the wind takes me

If I ever get married I would only need him, my kids and my mum there.

Then maybe a touring holiday of the Highlands or something for our honeymoon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had the big fancy wedding and the best part of it really was when we left and got to our hotel suite With just the two of us. I would recommend a small wedding to anyone, it would have been much more intimate. Big weddings are for show I realise now, still an amazing day though

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nothing major and a fab party after.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I ever get married I would only need him, my kids and my mum there.

Then maybe a touring holiday of the Highlands or something for our honeymoon."

Nice honeymoon, we went to Disney land, well we have got 4 kids under 10

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

Wherever the wind takes me

"If I ever get married I would only need him, my kids and my mum there.

Then maybe a touring holiday of the Highlands or something for our honeymoon.

Nice honeymoon, we went to Disney land, well we have got 4 kids under 10"

I bet that was lively!

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By *ornyhappyCouple over a year ago

perth

Did the whole big church wedding & reception thing back in 1999. In the extremely unlikely event that I get married again I think I'd probably just go off & do it very discretely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I ever get married I would only need him, my kids and my mum there.

Then maybe a touring holiday of the Highlands or something for our honeymoon.

Nice honeymoon, we went to Disney land, well we have got 4 kids under 10

I bet that was lively! "

Actually one of the best holidays I've ever had lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try an indian wedding... lasts for a year lol

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By *rongstantineWoman over a year ago

hull

We were talking about this, both of us want a small affair. Then we started factoring in families and the like.

Suffice to say I think we're set on eloping.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No wedding for me thanks.

I'll take the big cake and the holiday afterwards though please

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I ever married again then just the two of us (yeah finding that other may be a problem) in a glade by a stream near a beach with only the stars and moon to watch over us....

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

34 in the day about 100 in the evening

Perfect day

Loved every minute

Jo x

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

Since being small I've always said that if I get married I want it to be snowing. That can't be guaranteed in this country so it would have to be abroad, and therefor a small affair.

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By *ustfulmusingCouple over a year ago

ilpseich

Married on a beach, with just our two best friends, perfect.

Still together 28 years later and still have our best friends, will go back someday when all kids out of the way.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

No. Just have the people I'm close to, for a low key do

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By *irewolffMan over a year ago

Dublin

Low key. Did the biggish wedding & thought it was a waste. Nice but a waste.

Hate traditional weddings also...sooooo by the book. Be different. Do what you want. Dont conform.

My other advise is not to get married at all but I wont say that!!

MsD

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By *aastyKnixWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"If you got married would you like a really big one with all the ceremony too? If I did it would be a low key one with some ceremony too

Been there,done that. Never again.

If someone is really that keen to splash a load of cash on me then,let's cancel the wedding and find better ways to spend it.

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By *arksxMan over a year ago

Leicester / London

I ended a 8 year relationship after I was told an Asian wedding costs 60k+

And pressure for a diamond engagement ring or she was gone.

Now I wouldn't give a ring on the phone

The comments on here that big weddings are over rated have restored my faith in humanity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First wedding was thrown together with 2 weeks notice, spent about a grand (21 years ago).

Second wedding we had 18 months to plan and we made it a geeky wedding, this time I allowed myself all the little touches I didnt have the first time round or was unheard of then, was there a difference? We spent about 4 grand and actually felt like a proper wedding and reception, wouldn't do it again though lol.

Danish x

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