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Do you find it easier to pull birds in reality or on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Same applies to you ladies.. Easier on here or do you preffer to do your hunting in real life

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By *mberWoman  over a year ago

Preston

I don't hunt, but I do like watching birds.

I'm hopefully going to Bempton to watch puffins this week.

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman  over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

I prefer on here, the dating sites men are not kinky enough

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was chased by some geese when I was a kid. They tried but they didnt hunt me down.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pull birds? Do you mean like necking chickens?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't hunt, but I do like watching birds.

I'm hopefully going to Bempton to watch puffins this week."

Gosh, how lovely!!

Im jealous

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford

Pull birds? I find it easier in 1975, yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Pull birds? Do you mean like necking chickens? "

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

The fab ladies are far kinkier...they know what they want and aren't afraid to ask ... demand it lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Pull birds? I find it easier in 1975, yes "

I bet you were a little monkey for kiss chase

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

I don't hunt.

I prefer a mutual crossing of paths.

I think making connections anywhere other than online is going to be difficult with social distancing in place and in place for the foreseeable.

Either or for me. I used to get given a phone number or asked for mine at least once a month at work.

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By *uenevereWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Pull birds...

Bloody hell, that a phrase I haven't heard in a long time...

My gaydar is generally pretty rubbish, so I rarely have much luck in vanilla places.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley

Tweet fucking tweet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Neither I'm really bad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Without wanting to sound like a big headed twat, I don't find it particularly hard in either setting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Pull birds? Do you mean like necking chickens? "

Nope power necking

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I could of pulled many if I wasn't so damn shy in reality

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I couldn’t pull an elastic band

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I was chased by some geese when I was a kid. They tried but they didnt hunt me down. "

Sorry Rose, but I LOL'd

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I don't hunt, but I do like watching birds.

I'm hopefully going to Bempton to watch puffins this week."

Love Bempton have been a couple of times and the puffins are a sight to behold but so are the cliffs full of all manner of seabirds

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Same applies to you ladies.. Easier on here or do you preffer to do your hunting in real life "

I’ve never pulled a bird - but my puppy ate two pigeons a few weeks ago! One week it was the baby - the following week he got the mummy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer on here as people read your profile and know exactly what you want. Don't struggle in public either but with the whole covid situation obviously been difficult...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

God I hate women being referred to as birds. Winds me right up!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If it wasn't for Fab, I most likely wouldn't have sex tbh.

I never approach men and I can never tell if someone is flirting or if they fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Easy on both

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They usually just flock to me

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan  over a year ago

Lincoln

I find it's much easier with a loaf of bread

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"I find it's much easier with a loaf of bread "
and a box with a twig tied to a long piece of string

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan  over a year ago

Lincoln


"I find it's much easier with a loaf of bread and a box with a twig tied to a long piece of string"

This guy knows

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was chased by some geese when I was a kid. They tried but they didnt hunt me down.

Sorry Rose, but I LOL'd "

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By *oneytMan  over a year ago

Guildford

Much easier in reality,but usually they are not as kinky

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I couldn’t pull a cracker at a Christmas lunch

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If it wasn't for Fab, I most likely wouldn't have sex tbh.

I never approach men and I can never tell if someone is flirting or if they fancy me. "

This. Women literally have to spell it out to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I couldn’t pull a cracker at a Christmas lunch "

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By *icolerobbieCouple  over a year ago

walsall

I think that it depends on the type of “pull”. Hook ups are pretty easy imo. There’s plenty of guys on the prowl for some action. But if you are looking to date and find your Mr right, I think that is a trickier task. But it all depends on who your Mr right is I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pulling definitely easier in real life, although I haven't been to a pub or club since relaxing of lock down, so haven't been able to dance and gently pull a lady towards me for a while

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

Flagrante

definitely easier in the real world but then we have had lots of practice before the cyber world existed.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple  over a year ago

notts


"Same applies to you ladies.. Easier on here or do you preffer to do your hunting in real life "

The 70s called. They want their phrase “pulling birds “ back

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple  over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

So much easier in real life. It's hard to prove you're genuine when you can't currently meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

On one hand it's a lot easier in real life, but through fab at least you both have the transparency of knowing what it is and what to expect...

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By *abasaurus RexMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I tend to find it easier to meet people via the internet in general.

When I’m out I prefer to focus on whatever social event I’m at, partly because I’m useless at picking up early signals that someone’s interested in me. Partly because it feels like a waste of time as I’m usually there/out for a reason, e.g Seeing friends.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pull birds?? What is it for the opposite sex?? Pull cocks??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh gosh. ALL of my friends and family are married, so If I go out, it's not on the pull! Plus I'm shit at picking up signals as an adult. As a teenager I did just fine.

Also, there seems more open appreciation on here for chunky birds than out in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I definitely have more luck on here than on a night out

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"God I hate women being referred to as birds. Winds me right up!"

I find it funny

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I don't hunt, but I do like watching birds.

I'm hopefully going to Bempton to watch puffins this week."

Isn’t that where the nudist beach is?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Generally similar and easy. Having the context right helps, the environment gets the right focus.

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By *uvhandle20Man  over a year ago

SE London

Now I have some time off, I am sitting in the garden and watching the birds and the bees.

They ignore me, so it is business as usual

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely easier in person, most of the times I go out I pull tbh, case in point last weekend. 2 numbers, 1 one night stand, first weekend out in a party like atmosphere since the lockdown because of the pandemic.

Fab hmm. Hmm, still waiting lol, nah I've had a couple of meets, couple of canceled meets, but I prefer the one to one.

Then to and yes I'm being a bit cocky or very confident, I just need to walk in a room most times and I get hit on by women constantly lol. I rarely have to ask for numbers, a dance, sex anything like that.

Tbh, I only joined fab because I couldn't go out to pubs and clubs lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I definitely have more luck on here than on a night out "

Really for a woman that sounds surprising, I must say.

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

Southern Wales

Here is easier now as i don’t go out anywhere to meet men. Pre kids i did ok on nights out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Same applies to you ladies.. Easier on here or do you preffer to do your hunting in real life "

Real life... even in the swinging world at clubs, events etc is way more productive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just re watch my haydays haha

Feel free to give my video a like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who om Snapchat or Skype fancy a wank

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Reality for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Better on here

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By *xmfrvnMan  over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I've heard of kitten play & puppy play but bird play seems a step too far.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan  over a year ago

Border Area

In reality you could extend this to online vs real life (pub, club, etc).

In modern life for many reasons it’s easier online: people have busy lives and online is convenient.

Another reason is age profile. Look at the average age of people on fab - tend to be above 25. As people get older clubs tend to be ruled out for most as it’s usually younger people there and pubs can be difficult as your friends that you go on the pull with are married or in long term relationships and are not available.

And lastly, lots of people are naturally shy in real life or find it awkward to strike up a conversation, so chatting on here (or other online sites) is a real ice breaker for some and leaves the initial meet easier.

Now if we could only do something about the 15:1 ratio of men:women on fab we’d have it licked! (No pun intended... well maybe )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"pulling birds"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What a beautiful body u have

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By *verage Joe BlackMan  over a year ago

Border Area


"What a beautiful body u have "

Thank you so much - I’m flattered

Have to warn you though, I’m completely straight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have more luck on other apps to fab as I’m a terrible flirt. And I don’t mean that in the sense that I flirt a lot. I am just really bad at it.

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By *ookworm258Man  over a year ago

Wythenshawe


"I prefer on here as people read your profile and know exactly what you want. Don't struggle in public either but with the whole covid situation obviously been difficult..."

People read profiles

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By *ookworm258Man  over a year ago

Wythenshawe

I struggle in real life as I never know whether I am being flirted with or not.

Fab is not a be all or end all for me so I am happy with how I do on here

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I find it way easier to find dates on vanilla sites or out and about. I think the descretion and too much instant sex chat is off putting. The men have too much choice and flutter about like bees. That's my impression

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"In reality you could extend this to online vs real life (pub, club, etc).

In modern life for many reasons it’s easier online: people have busy lives and online is convenient.

Another reason is age profile. Look at the average age of people on fab - tend to be above 25. As people get older clubs tend to be ruled out for most as it’s usually younger people there and pubs can be difficult as your friends that you go on the pull with are married or in long term relationships and are not available.

And lastly, lots of people are naturally shy in real life or find it awkward to strike up a conversation, so chatting on here (or other online sites) is a real ice breaker for some and leaves the initial meet easier.

Now if we could only do something about the 15:1 ratio of men:women on fab we’d have it licked! (No pun intended... well maybe )"

I think alot of women are scared off instantly on fab, you have to be mentally tough as old bootw to cope with the contents. Most of my female friends are too nervous to go online and chat. So rely on meeting men through work, hobbies or through friendship circles

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


""pulling birds" "

Nobody likes birds

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I find it way easier to find dates on vanilla sites or out and about. I think the descretion and too much instant sex chat is off putting. The men have too much choice and flutter about like bees. That's my impression "

That is my opinion for women on here. It's certainly not the case for me online because I can only chat with who messages me and I hardly if ever get any messages.. So no choice at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Both! Oddly it's easier the older and uglier I get. I think I've just stopped trying to be cool and started being myself and somehow that works.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.

It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers

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By *verage Joe BlackMan  over a year ago

Border Area


"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.

It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers "

Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl

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By *abasaurus RexMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.

It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers "

I appreciated this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.

It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers

Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl "

Yeah I think it would be wise if I stayed off the forums all together, because I keep getting blocked for what I say.

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By *oldyoudown41Man  over a year ago

caledonian

Reality....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nither

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

I’m a fitty so it’s easy full stop

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman  over a year ago

norwich

Have some chips on the seafront and the birds just flock to you!! Gets annoying though if they pinch your chips

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By *r SensualMan  over a year ago

London

Much easier in reality, fab can be a minefield at times especially as a single guy. You’re just a tiny needle in a massive haystack 99.99999% of the time.

Meanwhile in reality, there’s so many other factors you can use to gauge interest other than simply just words.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.

It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers

Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl

Yeah I think it would be wise if I stayed off the forums all together, because I keep getting blocked for what I say.

"

And what's the problem with getting blocked for what you say? I get blocked. And?

It means that instead of meeting someone who you won't get on with, who doesn't like things you say, you won't meet them and have that awkwardness by accident.

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By *olacolaMan  over a year ago

lincoln

Pull birds? The 70’s called...

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan  over a year ago

Torquay

Who was chasing s duck with a bottle of Pimm's on here yesterday, they might have some input

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.

It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers

Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl

Yeah I think it would be wise if I stayed off the forums all together, because I keep getting blocked for what I say.

And what's the problem with getting blocked for what you say? I get blocked. And?

It means that instead of meeting someone who you won't get on with, who doesn't like things you say, you won't meet them and have that awkwardness by accident."

..spot on

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple  over a year ago

Cumbria


"Pull birds? Do you mean like necking chickens? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I might have got the occasional snog on a night out, definitely have no luck on dating sites but Fab is the opposite end of the scale.

So Fab for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I definitely have more luck on here than on a night out

Really for a woman that sounds surprising, I must say."

I very rarely pull on a night out. I had not much luck on dating sites either but on here I’ve done ok lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"Pull birds"? Are you David Brent?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Same applies to you ladies.. Easier on here or do you preffer to do your hunting in real life "

I find it much easier in real life. I’ve met one lady from fab since I’ve been on here. It is much easier to meet people outside of it though they’re bound not to be kinky. I’ll persevere for now ....

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chez/Sheff

I’m usually completely oblivious regardless of whether it’s on here or IRL.

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By *otmale5Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Tend not to want to pull . Much prefer a relaxed and friendly approach. When chatting to ladies ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm sorry for mentioning the word bird now because I've been blocked by a few ladies.

It doesn't take much for me to ruffle their feathers

Well, it was an important issue, so at least you didn’t stick your head in the sand. Bet you feel like a bit of a turkey now though. But don’t worry; the experience will make you wise as an owl

Yeah I think it would be wise if I stayed off the forums all together, because I keep getting blocked for what I say.

And what's the problem with getting blocked for what you say? I get blocked. And?

It means that instead of meeting someone who you won't get on with, who doesn't like things you say, you won't meet them and have that awkwardness by accident."

Hmm I suppose you are right

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


""Pull birds"? Are you David Brent?

"

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

Pheasant plucking?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP Ive read threads where you complain that its ' impossible' for you to meet ladies on here

Have you considered that using words like " bird" may not be helping you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP Ive read threads where you complain that its ' impossible' for you to meet ladies on here

Have you considered that using words like " bird" may not be helping you?"

It's just a word a bit of banter/fun. I think it's a silly reason to block someone forever.

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By *_91Man  over a year ago

Manchester

I don’t seem to tick many ladies’ boxes on here or in ‘real life’ unfortunately!

Quality over quantity though I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't hunt, but I do like watching birds.

I'm hopefully going to Bempton to watch puffins this week."

Good luck, we're going at the end of the month but they'll probably be gone by then,but apparently still plenty to see.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't seek vanilla so easier to come across Kinkstars online unfortunately.

Perhaps I can set up a business venture of badges or Tshirts to help make kinky fuckers reveal themselves in the public eye.

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By *tockinglover2018Man  over a year ago

warrington

Reality is much easier

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By *lbinoGorillaMan  over a year ago

Redditch

Neither, if I'm honest

I'm starting to think that if I fell into a barrel of tits I'd come out sucking my thumb

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