"I’m not picky I just know what I want  sorry who I want  "
Hahaha busty...I love it
Totally agree with this, when you know what you’re looking for, you settle for nothing but what fits for you. 
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I think everyone is "picky" in their own way, regardless of gender - we all have preferences and things that attract us.
That said it's true that *some* men, especially on sites like this are less picky and become driven by various factors, but I don't think it's all men either - while I can be physically attracted by quite a wide range of types, it still comes back to personality, connection and chemistry for me, and while that may not be "consciously" picky without those factors being there I won't be interested and therefore could be considered picky |
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I think everyone is choosy to a certain extent - but I certainly wouldn't entertain anyone that I didn't think was discerning in their choice of partners, and have turned down someone I found very attractive for that reason alone. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told "
Do they though? If you take out the large proportion of men that simply don't get it or have the wrong attitude and expectations, I'd suggest the balance is a lot more even |
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Those who have the greater option to choose tend to be the pickiest. We all start pretty much clean slate then become selective through experience (bad and good)
Of course it's hard to be picky if no-one is interested. So on Fab alone - we would say women.
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"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told
Do they though? If you take out the large proportion of men that simply don't get it or have the wrong attitude and expectations, I'd suggest the balance is a lot more even "
But on sheer amount of choices , women won’t know what a guy is like just by looking , good or bad we don’t have that luxury , send text -deleted  |
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"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told "
We all have the same choices. They are not dictated by numbers but by our values and our interactions with those who we msy interact with. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told
Do they though? If you take out the large proportion of men that simply don't get it or have the wrong attitude and expectations, I'd suggest the balance is a lot more even
But on sheer amount of choices , women won’t know what a guy is like just by looking , good or bad we don’t have that luxury , send text -deleted "
No, but they may get a feel for what he's like by the content of the message, or his profile text or forum/chat room interactions, two of those three are just as available (regarding the ladies of the forum or chat rooms) to all men as they are women.
And is partly what the very wise Hine was referring to in his post - it's truly not the number of choices that matters but the wisdom and rationale behind the various interactions that lead to them. |
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"In my experience 'picky' is a snipey term spat out by those who are having a tantrum at not being 'picked'!
I prefer to think of it as exercising choice. "
Exactly this. It's not picky it's making a choice either way. |
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"Has to be woman, they have more choices on fab or so we’re told
Do they though? If you take out the large proportion of men that simply don't get it or have the wrong attitude and expectations, I'd suggest the balance is a lot more even "
I have to agree. |
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"In my experience 'picky' is a snipey term spat out by those who are having a tantrum at not being 'picked'!
I prefer to think of it as exercising choice.
Exactly this. It's not picky it's making a choice either way. "
Oh the irony |
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"In my experience 'picky' is a snipey term spat out by those who are having a tantrum at not being 'picked'!
I prefer to think of it as exercising choice.
Exactly this. It's not picky it's making a choice either way. "
It’s just a word, they pretty much mean the same thing. Picky or choosy. It’s a persons prerogative to be as picky or choosy as they like. There will always be people who don't take rejection too well and blame others, but the thread is about who is the most choosy or picky. |
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I’m such a flirt I flirt with everyone and their granny lol
