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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
I know the topic is about filth, and I will get there however I wanted to cover kink and fetish first as they are often used interchangeably and can lead people to assume they either are or are not “filthy”!
A fetish is a psychological need for a specific object or act required for sexual gratification. This could be things such as leather, shoes, rubber, spanking.
Kink on the other hand is a broader term that includes a wide variety of sexual interests such as bondage, domination/submission, sadism, masochism and all the things they encompass, that differ from what “people” would consider “normal”.
Sniffing dirty underwear is likely a fetish for some, kink for others, but some would consider it filthy if you were sniffing a pair while fucking.
Wearing leather trousers, vests, jackets again could be a fetish for some, kink for others but people would be less likely to say its filthy if they found out you fucked while wearing. Leather.
If you did the same in rubber, some would consider you filthy.
If you can only achieve climax while being fisted, you could be considered filthy.
And so it goes on. If you like wearing women’s underwear, you like being tied up, you like dogging, you like anal, you like being spanked, you live for CNC... all can be considered filthy by some but normal to those that engage in it.
So for me when it comes to being filthy, you may as well say anything that isnt missionary position while wearing full PJs or ankle length night gowns on a Sunday night after bath time is filthy!
Filthy isn't a thing you do or even a state of mind. Its a label others can use to describe how they view what you do, in most cases to try and put you down.
Not trying to be preachy, but I find the fixation and attachment to labels in life can be detrimental to our own health and wellbeing. They can lead to inappropriate ideals, competitiveness and feelings of inadequacy.
Forget about what others think and just enjoy yourself.
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