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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No.

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By *isAdventure69Woman  over a year ago

Hampshire

No

You're gorgeous OP x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No its internal scars are the worst ones physical scars have a beauty of a life lived

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Laceby

No, they are a story to tell and make you unique

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

I really like scars

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

None whatsoever. Anyone that says differently is far too shallow for their own good.

Only those that make you feel good about yourself deserve to see you naked anyways

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

They may limit what you could do, and that in turn may affect your enjoyment and so they matter in that sense, but when it comes to seeing people naked no they don’t (or shouldn’t).

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By *alty surpriseMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Maybe you haven't found someone, so you can believe in yourself..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a huge crack at the bottom of my back

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By *ed VoluptaWoman  over a year ago

Wirral.


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

I'm sure they don't.

I hope they don't, I've got a new, livid-looking one on my inner thigh that really embarrasses me....

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By *BVNWoman  over a year ago

Swansea

Scars are like life tattoos.

They are nothing to feel embarrassed by. I have stretch marks from pregnancies and weight loss, scars from operations for fertility treatment years ago and a hysterectomy.... all part and parcel of my life experiences.

I do however understand your insecurities and have my own regarding my body but it's not because of scars, it's more because I dislike what I see from weight loss body changes through exercise.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No they dnt matter at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All scars tell a story mine are either from being ambitious, stupid or someone else being stupid and i got in the way

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman  over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

Scars are a part of you, they don't define you

In answer I like them as each has a story to tell, good or bad x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

BTW can I just say this isn't a look at me post.

It is something that is really getting to me and just wanted people's opinions x

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By *.R.MMan  over a year ago

Nfk/Sfk/Cam

I know where you are coming from on this, having one of my own, no it makes no difference however it is something I’m very conscious of especially when it comes to being with somebody.

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By *arker secrets 321Man  over a year ago

West Bromwich

U will get naked .scars make us who we are I'm covered in them x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The scar on my back is the least of my problems, my fault for not wearing suncream and covering up back in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes they matter. I like the stories they carry on.

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

They are part of your story ...not a deal breaker

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My scars each tell a tale and make good conversation topics.

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By *.R.MMan  over a year ago

Nfk/Sfk/Cam


"Yes they matter. I like the stories they carry on. "

I could pretend that I got mine from a shark when I was saving a fair maiden

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By *esparate danMan  over a year ago

glasgow

It's the low confidence that is more likely to put someone off

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"It's the low confidence that is more likely to put someone off "

I am confident when fully dressed and particularly dressed....just not fully naked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

im covered in them, and ive never let it stop me.

nor has it ever been brought up / affected a meet or anything.

Px

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By *avhonaWoman  over a year ago

Away with the faeries

It's tough to look past the things that you see in/on yourself to the point where you would fully accept the positive input from anyone else. And sometimes it really is ok to want acceptance from others.

For me, I had some body confidence issues (still do at times) and it wasn't until I met a rather special friend that these things began to feel a lot less prominent in my mind. He worshipped every flawed inch of me and those flaws melted away into something a lot less important.

They don't ever fully go away for me, but I guess I'm saying that there are people in this world who will really look at you/into you and not only will they never want to change a thing about you, they will treasure what you have to the point where you can feel like you truly own every little scar, mark...'flaw'.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Every scar is a story to share.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One of the sexiest women I ever met had burn scars across her face, hands and body. But fuck was she sexy.

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Scars have story's x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know what you mean, I have a scar down one leg and I’m definitely conscious of it if I meet someone or even just wearing shorts or a dress.

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By *rder66Man  over a year ago

Tatooine


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

No they don't, the scars we share with people, regardless of physical or emotional, can be the most beautiful way to truely connect and open up to another person.

My physical scars are plain to see and I share the emotionl one with only the people I realy do cre about, including some of my more darker experiences.

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

near Peterborough

Scars don't matter, but if it makes you happier and more confident to cover them then do so.

If person meeting you likes you enough then the scars will probably be seen as of how unique you are. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's the low confidence that is more likely to put someone off "

This comment doesn't help anyone.

It just tells us something about you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

No they don't but I find it difficult too as I've got scars from surgery and feel very self conscious about them.

Mrs KC

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. they are beautiful things. they are part of your story and make you who you are today. they are nothing to be ashamed or unhappy about.

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP you know I love you your a diamond xx

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE

Scars are your story. They make you real and earthy...not perfectly ethereal.

Cesarean scars, along with stretch marks are the reminders of the sacrifice a lady makes to give birth. They are actually lovely if you look away from the purely aesthetic.

The only people who care about aesthetic only are people you haven't talked to, or are shallow.

And they don't matter.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple  over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Scars don't matter at all. Mrs has stretch some stretch marks and we love them. Reminders of our amazing life. Body imperfections shouldn't matter. Most of us will have some body confidence issues, weight, hair, size, etc so you are not alone.

It's hard because often just being told they are ok, doesn't always make the confidence suddenly improve to a level where you are not conscious any more but with enough positivity and support for yourself and from others, it will improve.

Personally, We got to a point where we just thought fuck it, can't change much of the things that worry us but if people didn't like it, then they are not right for us and we should value ourselves for who we are.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS  over a year ago

Derby

No they really don't matter at least not to me in any bad way OP.

I actually like scars of all kind be they stretch marks or scars from surgery, I find them fascinating but not in a turn on sense so I'm always happy to see them. I like one in particular of my own as it was from a shoulder surgery op where I was awake through it and got to see what they were doing while it was opened up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You are a beautiful person inside and out. Scars are part of your life. You shouldn't be ashamed or embarrassed about them. Be proud of them,they show that you are a survivor.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes they matter. I like the stories they carry on.

I could pretend that I got mine from a shark when I was saving a fair maiden "

Yep. You stick with that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hope not.. Plenty of scars from playing rugby that will never go ... Cest la vie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To the right people, no they don't. Don't be ashamed of anything that's a part of you. There is no such thing as a perfect body

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

near Peterborough


"To the right people, no they don't. Don't be ashamed of anything that's a part of you. There is no such thing as a perfect body "

What? not even mine?

Damn.

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By *icassolifelikeMan  over a year ago

Luton

Wear them with pride.

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By *edeWoman  over a year ago

the abyss

Scars tell a story of who you are and what you have been through. If someone is a twat about a scar (the way it looks etc) then they don't deserve the pleasure of being with you naked in the first place!

You are beautiful inside and out and a scar only highlights this

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By *r TriomanMan  over a year ago

Malmesbury/Larkhill

Love my scars. Each one tells a story, some funny, some sad, but most, just a reminder of my own stupidity.

Even the sad ones are positive as they remind me that I'm a survivor.

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By *xiled BikerMan  over a year ago

York

I have to say would not bother me in slightest, I have a few over the years, its the lived in look.

I think you look amazing, absolutely stunning and so very very attractive, If you were naked alongside me all I would want to know would be the story behind them if you were happy to share and if not you would get a kiss and a cuddle and its never mentioned again xxx

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By *ocksareoffMan  over a year ago

Out n About

Short answer is no.

Scars are part of your life and represent what you've either overcome from say operations or stretch marks from pregnancy.

You have lovely smile, great figure, with good manners and all together are an exceptionally nice person

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By *irty PrettyWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff

Here’s the stupid thing - scars on someone else don’t matter to me at all. My own scars though? They’ve definitely knocked my confidence. When the nurse changed my dressings after my last (very unexpected) op, I sobbed because they looked so ugly. I don’t feel quite as bad now they’ve healed, but I do still feel a bit wobbly about them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No course not OP

I've got 3 scars from having my appendix out which I'm not overly keen on but it is what it is

Nobody is perfect, we're all unique in our own ways

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sparkles, you're beautiful. Those scars won't matter a jot to the bloke who's totally into you (figuratively and literally ) and they are part of your story. That story can't be erased, nor can the scars, but you can learn to tell it in a way that describes rather than limits you. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Here’s the stupid thing - scars on someone else don’t matter to me at all. My own scars though? They’ve definitely knocked my confidence. When the nurse changed my dressings after my last (very unexpected) op, I sobbed because they looked so ugly. I don’t feel quite as bad now they’ve healed, but I do still feel a bit wobbly about them."

Read the posts in this thread

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

It will matter to some but not to most - just be honest and the let the superficial run away.

Then take it baby steps - maybe not go completely nuts at first. Again a quality person will be understanding and will want you to be as comfortable as possible.

I have been with guys with bad scarring and i can't say it put me off one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They wouldn’t concern me ..

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, not at all.

I know what you mean though, I've been there.

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By *imon_hydeMan  over a year ago

Bredbury, Stockport

No they don't matter, they are part and parcel of you and the other person should be proud that you're sharing your body with them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You are truly beautiful, you have a kind heart and wonderful generous spirit.

You are also jolly dahed sexy too x x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

Anyone that thinks they are important or ugly is not someone you want to be involved with. Personally.... I'd kiss them all xxx

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I bloody hope not as I flash mine about like there's no tomorrow .

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

They never matter every scars tells a story good or bad and it's sometimes a good place to start and work around

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple  over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

I’m going to say NO as I really don’t mind scars on others and can see past them as they all have a story. However, I am so different about them on me. Like you, I don’t feel confident to go naked and tend to stay covered up as I have a lot of scarring from previous surgery from having cancer at 19, again at 28 and at 41. The Mr constantly tells me that it doesn’t matter to him and that my sexual appeal is far greater and not to worry. However, they do make me conscious...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

You are very beautiful, scars should not matter no.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had a lady question my scars after we had our fun. Wasn't a nice way to end a good time. I try and put it out my mind but it's not that easy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

Any scar is a story of the person you are today, they’re our own little history and should be embraced

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We're both covered in scars. Something like that would never put us off.

How do you feel about other's scars OP?

Lu

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By *iddlesticksMan  over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

They won’t matter between two people who are genuinely into each other.

Our scars bumps and lumps make us who we are.

I used to be conscious of my overly pretty penis but now I’ve come to terms with it.

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Port talbot

I have many on my legs and hands and one across the bottom of my back, they're marks of life and nothing wrong with them

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"We're both covered in scars. Something like that would never put us off.

How do you feel about other's scars OP?

Lu "

I find them intriguing, I love to learn the story behind them if that person is willing to share the story x

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By *reason69Couple  over a year ago

Blackburn

Its not about the outside ,its the inside that matters , you look stunning xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hi Sparkle,

Don't worry about scars, they're superficial. I have a huge scar on my back which I was worried about but no more. I don't mind whether someone asks about it or ignores it.

M x

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By *ersey GirlCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

Someone squirming and uncomfortable is way more off putting than any scars you may have

R

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place


"Someone squirming and uncomfortable is way more off putting than any scars you may have

R"

I agree. There’s nothing wrong with a few scars.

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love scars, they are fascinating and beautiful, and there is always a story behind them.

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle


"We're both covered in scars. Something like that would never put us off.

How do you feel about other's scars OP?

Lu

I find them intriguing, I love to learn the story behind them if that person is willing to share the story x"

I'm beyond a story it's more like a novel and nope I'm not accidental prone just each one a chapter of my life more than 9 lives but and still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

Yes they do matter. They matter to you. If you don't feel comfortable naked why do it?

Corsets, lingerie, stockings, something that will cover it and make you feel confident.

If it's an arm scar you could wear a bandage over it. Anything that makes you feel happier.

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By *irty PrettyWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff


"Here’s the stupid thing - scars on someone else don’t matter to me at all. My own scars though? They’ve definitely knocked my confidence. When the nurse changed my dressings after my last (very unexpected) op, I sobbed because they looked so ugly. I don’t feel quite as bad now they’ve healed, but I do still feel a bit wobbly about them.

Read the posts in this thread "

That’s why it’s so silly, I know logically that they don’t matter, especially when reading a thread like this, but believing it emotionally is something else. Oh well, I’ll just keep slathering the Bio-Oil on, it’s not like anyone will be seeing me naked for a while!

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By *ilverSwordMan  over a year ago

Belfast-ish

Every time I forget I have them someone asks what the fuck happened to my legs and I get super self conscious all over again

But I wouldn't even dream of pointing someone's out, saying anything or even judging on them

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By *heNYCSausageMan  over a year ago

Everton


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

No, I had a meeting and must have been “warned” 20 times about having scars. I couldn’t care less. My focus is on pleasing you; not finding out about scars.

Funnily enough though, I use my scar from a genuine lion attack as a nice breaker to get you naked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a huge stomach scar, just remember how amazing you are xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's tough to look past the things that you see in/on yourself to the point where you would fully accept the positive input from anyone else. And sometimes it really is ok to want acceptance from others.

For me, I had some body confidence issues (still do at times) and it wasn't until I met a rather special friend that these things began to feel a lot less prominent in my mind. He worshipped every flawed inch of me and those flaws melted away into something a lot less important.

They don't ever fully go away for me, but I guess I'm saying that there are people in this world who will really look at you/into you and not only will they never want to change a thing about you, they will treasure what you have to the point where you can feel like you truly own every little scar, mark...'flaw'."

This

I hope I find someone who thinks that way about me one day

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

I've now got scars on my face after recent surgery. Can't cover them up!

I wouldn't worry about them x

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By *uckOfTheBayMan  over a year ago

Flintshire

Unless you're really Frankenstein's monster, then I don't think you really have a problem. It's the bolts you really have to worry about?

Scars are just your life history, and if people can't look past that, then it just shows how shallow they are

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By *ootballFlowerCouple  over a year ago

Mansfield

Honestly before we joined the scene, I (male half) would never be seen with my top off as I have a port wine birthmark that covers half my torso and my entire right arm and it always bothered me to the point I wouldn't allow my right arm or hand in photos.

Now, however I couldn't give a rat's ass and that is thanks to some of the amazing people we have met on the scene.

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By *ersey GirlCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

scars of any kind are just part of the person and not something to hide

S

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There isn't anything wrong with scars or anything else.

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By *orbidden eastMan  over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

No. They are just a fact of life and tell a great story

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't care what you look like that red hairs is all for me lol joking aside you look amazing

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By *eah BabyCouple  over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I’ve got a huge one, never ever bothered me, even as a youngster and obviously it’s grown with me so not a nice neat one you get these days lol, I don’t think about it when getting naked, I just strip off without a thought about it. I wouldn’t be alive without it and nobody’s ever said anything to me about it and if it did bother them then no hard feelings from me and they know where the door is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No not in the least,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely not scars do not matter one bit had motorcycle accident broken leg jaw arm head split open by chain saw so no scars don’t matter at all oh and have a scar on my todger when a lady bit instead of sucking ooouuuuccchhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No they don’t. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have any so they’re pretty normal I’d say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My body looks like Moon's surface...and I have no sense of lack of confidence

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're both covered in scars. Something like that would never put us off.

How do you feel about other's scars OP?

Lu

I find them intriguing, I love to learn the story behind them if that person is willing to share the story x"

So if you know you feel that way, you must know others do too!

Anyone who's out off by scars simply isn't for you...wr all have our moments of insecurity but I promise you've nothing to worry about...other people probably don't even notice them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Scares don't matter. You are beautiful btw

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By *EAT..85Woman  over a year ago

Nottingham

They don't matter to most. I personally like them on a person and have a few of my own.

You have to accept and love yourself though. If you don't accept yourself it doesn't matter what others think. You look rather lovely in your photos x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Scars are like tattoos X they are a part of you X

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By *entlemenpipMan  over a year ago

not far

Pain is temporary

Glory is forever

Chick's dig scars

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

I hope you find that confidence and also meet people interested in you as a person and the stories of your scars xx

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By *hantasmagoriaWoman  over a year ago

Newport

Get your kit off lovely! I used to have issues getting naked because I'm bigger then I discovered that men find me sexy. Embrace your body the way it is and let others embrace you too x

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"It's the low confidence that is more likely to put someone off

I am confident when fully dressed and particularly dressed....just not fully naked."

I understand this, we all have body confidence issues to some degree.

But, once you've got down to 'partially dressed', presumably so is the other party.... so they almost certainly fancy you enough to be past the point at which a scar would be an issue.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Thank you to everyone who has commented.

I suppose once I've gotten used to it my mindset will change x

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Thank you to everyone who has commented.

I suppose once I've gotten used to it my mindset will change x"

Xxx

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

No they don't. Scars can look beautiful anyway.

If you are unsure, show us yourself naked sometime and we'll let you know our opinion. It's pretty clear you are a stunner.

Compare scars with Hannah. I would hazard a guess she has more significant scarring than you. Better still, I'll examine you both at the same time.

Luke

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??

No they don't. Scars can look beautiful anyway.

If you are unsure, show us yourself naked sometime and we'll let you know our opinion. It's pretty clear you are a stunner.

Compare scars with Hannah. I would hazard a guess she has more significant scarring than you. Better still, I'll examine you both at the same time.

Luke "

I like your thinking x

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By *rder66Man  over a year ago

Tatooine

Your body, my hands, the only thoughts in your mind will be pure desire.

From your head to your toes, your thoughts to your heart, stunning.

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By *just JimMan  over a year ago

Bath

I have 4 scars on my scrotum , 2 vasectomy , 2 testicular torsion op !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Scars build character, wear them with pride

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No, not at all. They just make you who you are.

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By *airyChestedDaveMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

I have plenty of scars, some quite noticeable some not so, the older I’ve got the more I’m happy to show them off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No, not an issue at all.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman  over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

After three different surgeries in the last year I now have several scars, if people have an issue with them well they can go fuck themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No they’re unique certainly doesn’t put me off and if it put someone else off they’re not worth you! I have scars they tell stories x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a 10" long scar on each hip plus my csection scar.

They knocked my confidence to begin with but 10 years later I have had no bad reactions to them, some curiosity (double hip surgery) but my confidence grew and I hardly notice them now.

Embrace them, they are part of your story xx

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By *thLincsCpleCouple  over a year ago

Barton upon Humber


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

Being in possession of some pretty impressive scars myself (male half) I do sometimes wonder what people think of them, but at the end of the day, they don’t affect my life or my performance and many others have more damaging mental scars that cannot be seen, that affect their every waking moment; so basically if someone has an issue with your scars, they really need to get a grip. I just see them as my life tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

My dear, all the imperfections make us unique and sexy. Please do not forget there is a history of your life... Sometimes sad sometimes happy.

You are beautiful

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By *olo_89Couple  over a year ago

Kettering

Scars are just part of the story of your life and should be embraced.

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By *eavertrackerMan  over a year ago

bridgwater

I have a very visible scar within my groin area, and if any thing, it has bring further positive intrigue,...I love my scar

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By *ark ph0enixWoman  over a year ago

stockton

They matter.

I bloody earnt mine with blood and tears. Took time but I got to the point that I think of them like my ink.

Badges.

I still have occasional insecure moments but generally that's caused by letting others opinions get to me.

Dont do that. It's a hard habit to break.

To sum it up if I didnt have my scars I might not be here today

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have a very visible scar within my groin area, and if any thing, it has bring further positive intrigue,...I love my scar "

Is it like a treasure map? Can you follow the line to find the treasure?

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By *eavertrackerMan  over a year ago

bridgwater


"I have a very visible scar within my groin area, and if any thing, it has bring further positive intrigue,...I love my scar

Is it like a treasure map? Can you follow the line to find the treasure? "

Hahaha, some thing like that,..it's two visible scar lines, see if you can see it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having a bit of a body confidence issue and I don't think I could ever get totally naked with anyone again.

Do they matter??"

No! As long you don’t mind the people sexualise about it too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have quite a few scars a couple on my hands from operations from an accident when I was younger I also have one major one on my ankle from the same accident. I also have a couple of other scars from other little mishaps.

But I hardly notice them anymore, however when I do they remind me what I went through at the time and how far I have come to over come the issues around them.

In summary, you can either make an issue of your scars or you can think sod it.. I have bloody well overcome the issues behind them and if you the person who is looking at them and me naked and you are making something of them, then to be honest you need to have a good look at yourself both inside and out.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have a very visible scar within my groin area, and if any thing, it has bring further positive intrigue,...I love my scar

Is it like a treasure map? Can you follow the line to find the treasure?

Hahaha, some thing like that,..it's two visible scar lines, see if you can see it "

Ahh yes, they're more visible in the black and white ones! They're pretty cool scars!

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By *eavertrackerMan  over a year ago

bridgwater


"I have a very visible scar within my groin area, and if any thing, it has bring further positive intrigue,...I love my scar

Is it like a treasure map? Can you follow the line to find the treasure?

Hahaha, some thing like that,..it's two visible scar lines, see if you can see it

Ahh yes, they're more visible in the black and white ones! They're pretty cool scars! "

Thanking you gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most of us are interested in the stories behind other peoples scars but self conscious of of our own. There is an irony there x

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By *ameofmeMan  over a year ago

somewhere in

No, they are beautiful....our body’s are a story of a life lived.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love scars always have done

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By *iger4uWoman  over a year ago

In my happy place

No. Please dont focus on them.

They are part of you.

But not the whole you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Scars are just that, they don't define a person. Beauty is beauty.

Don't let them affect you, we all have some one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i was set on fire and have burns on my arms shoulder and chest which tattoos mostly covered up.

few scars from operations but no one seems to mind.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman  over a year ago

stockton


"i was set on fire and have burns on my arms shoulder and chest which tattoos mostly covered up.

few scars from operations but no one seems to mind."

I have tattoos over scars too. To pretend to be what was originally there.

It's an interesting way to combine hiding something and fooling the casual eye. And also I love ink.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope, couldn't give a toss about them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They shouldn't matter nope!

Saying that I have a couple of scars which I always worry will put someone off if I was close to, due to an operation which has left an ugly scar.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i was set on fire and have burns on my arms shoulder and chest which tattoos mostly covered up.

few scars from operations but no one seems to mind.

I have tattoos over scars too. To pretend to be what was originally there.

It's an interesting way to combine hiding something and fooling the casual eye. And also I love ink."

Me too, i was stabbed in the upper arm. I had it tattoo'd over.

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby


"No, they are a story to tell and make you unique "

Completely agree well said

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By *ust RachelTV/TS  over a year ago

Eastbourne

To me a scar shows you haved lived your life.

It doesn't matter if it is due to injury or an operation, it tells a story of you.

I have scars on top of scars on my knees, when I came off motorbikes and bicycles. I have a rather fetching 4 inch scar on my abdomen, where they took away my cancer, also the testicle it was attached to.

If someone judges you by the scars you have, you need to be asking do I really want to be with this person?

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By *ark ph0enixWoman  over a year ago

stockton


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If someone judges you by the scars you have, you need to be asking do I really want to be with this person? "

No. That's why I'm divorcing him

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No they don’t matter. Wouldn’t bother me one little bit and I genuinely mean that.

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By *acDreamyMan  over a year ago

Wirral

They are all part of our stories. X

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