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last week rob and myself were dogging as we do. A man came to rob's car and started chatting. We had a play over the bench.it went well until afterwards when he remarked on a pregnant woman's boobs seated in another car. That killed it for me and i tried to ignore it.why comment on another person when am there and played with him. I have messaged him because am still not happy what he said. |
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over a year ago
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"last week rob and myself were dogging as we do. A man came to rob's car and started chatting. We had a play over the bench.it went well until afterwards when he remarked on a pregnant woman's boobs seated in another car. That killed it for me and i tried to ignore it.why comment on another person when am there and played with him. I have messaged him because am still not happy what he said. "
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over a year ago
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"I'm confused too. Were you expecting him to only have eyes for your tits as a result of sharing your intimate dogging moment? "
Chuckling over the "intimate dogging moment" |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"Whatever situation I'm having sex in I'd rather the guy didn't comment on someone else while actually doing it, whether the comment was good or bad. It would make me feel bad.
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the lady stated it was after... |
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"Whatever situation I'm having sex in I'd rather the guy didn't comment on someone else while actually doing it, whether the comment was good or bad. It would make me feel bad.
the lady stated it was after... "
Yes I saw that after I'd posted. I'd still feel a bit miffed if it was after. You're sitting there having just had sex and the guy comments on someone else's body. I wouldn't be ok with it personally, I'd find it disrespectful. I wouldn't dream of having sex with a guy then commenting bon another guy's cock. |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"Whatever situation I'm having sex in I'd rather the guy didn't comment on someone else while actually doing it, whether the comment was good or bad. It would make me feel bad.
the lady stated it was after...
Yes I saw that after I'd posted. I'd still feel a bit miffed if it was after. You're sitting there having just had sex and the guy comments on someone else's body. I wouldn't be ok with it personally, I'd find it disrespectful. I wouldn't dream of having sex with a guy then commenting bon another guy's cock. "
I'd find it different dogging though to be fair.. I guess similar to gangbang mindset. I've had guys leave mid play when a different woman has started playing. Then try to come back If the woman refuses them. I would have no issue them saying wow, she's nice.. but being abandoned mid play can be a bit of a kick but I'm used to it now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""I fucked your sister" also puts a bit of a dampener on any meet too for some reason. "
The correct comment in this case is "Your sister is much tighter" |
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It is unfortunate that highly sensitive people go dogging and get emotionally wounded when a total stranger notices another doggers boobs.
Perhaps role play dogging at home or make it clear at the outset that the stranger you are bent over a bench for knows to keep his thoughts to himself and perhaps give more attention to you.
Good luck next time. |
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"Whatever situation I'm having sex in I'd rather the guy didn't comment on someone else while actually doing it, whether the comment was good or bad. It would make me feel bad.
the lady stated it was after...
Yes I saw that after I'd posted. I'd still feel a bit miffed if it was after. You're sitting there having just had sex and the guy comments on someone else's body. I wouldn't be ok with it personally, I'd find it disrespectful. I wouldn't dream of having sex with a guy then commenting bon another guy's cock. I'd find it different dogging though to be fair.. I guess similar to gangbang mindset. I've had guys leave mid play when a different woman has started playing. Then try to come back If the woman refuses them. I would have no issue them saying wow, she's nice.. but being abandoned mid play can be a bit of a kick but I'm used to it now "
I guess it depends on the individual  .
I see so many posts claiming to show respect, how they hold people in such high regard and claiming to require a connection etc etc that I'm quite surprised that dogging is excluded from this.
I'm not overly sensitive but I'd take exception to a guy walking away from me for what he thought might be a better offer and coming back when he was turned down  . I'm more than happy for a guy to comment on another woman too, heck I even point out attractive women to Mr N but there's a time and a place surely. Enjoying dogging and gang bangs doesn't make you less worthy of a modicum of consideration does it? |
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I would say whatever the situation - its nice to be invested in the person you’re inside… its like being on a meet in the throes if passion and saying - id fuck that Susannah Reid off breakfast tv…. Unless of course its her youre fucking!  Just manners I think. |
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"I would say whatever the situation - its nice to be invested in the person you’re inside… its like being on a meet in the throes if passion and saying - id fuck that Susannah Reid off breakfast tv…. Unless of course its her youre fucking! Just manners I think. "
A guy once made a (to him) hilarious lads joke just after we'd had sex. It was the one where the punch line is 'I wasn't looking at your face'. I wasn't best pleased. |
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"I would say whatever the situation - its nice to be invested in the person you’re inside… its like being on a meet in the throes if passion and saying - id fuck that Susannah Reid off breakfast tv…. Unless of course its her youre fucking! Just manners I think.
A guy once made a (to him) hilarious lads joke just after we'd had sex. It was the one where the punch line is 'I wasn't looking at your face'. I wasn't best pleased. "
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"I would say whatever the situation - its nice to be invested in the person you’re inside… its like being on a meet in the throes if passion and saying - id fuck that Susannah Reid off breakfast tv…. Unless of course its her youre fucking! Just manners I think.
A guy once made a (to him) hilarious lads joke just after we'd had sex. It was the one where the punch line is 'I wasn't looking at your face'. I wasn't best pleased. "
You say that, but she doesn’t half get funny about it  |
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"I would say whatever the situation - its nice to be invested in the person you’re inside… its like being on a meet in the throes if passion and saying - id fuck that Susannah Reid off breakfast tv…. Unless of course its her youre fucking! Just manners I think.
A guy once made a (to him) hilarious lads joke just after we'd had sex. It was the one where the punch line is 'I wasn't looking at your face'. I wasn't best pleased.
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"Not a comment I would expect while having a nice cuppa and chat afterwards. Would be better for talking about the weather and beautiful outdoors. "
I’d stick with - that was amazing… we have to do this again!? In fact - give me that cup… |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
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"Was he derogatory about the other lady or complimenting her...
First one.. yes I'd be upset too.. but if he complimented her books, I really can not see the issue at all. "
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"Behaviour ill-befitting a gentleman.
I might be being very judgemental here but I've never associated gentlemen with dogging"
I think it's possible to go dogging and display gentlemanly or ladylike behaviour |
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"Behaviour ill-befitting a gentleman.
I might be being very judgemental here but I've never associated gentlemen with dogging
I think it's possible to go dogging and display gentlemanly or ladylike behaviour "
Yes- now would milady Like a bumming outside by the bins of this select wine/cocktail bar? |
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"Behaviour ill-befitting a gentleman.
I might be being very judgemental here but I've never associated gentlemen with dogging
I think it's possible to go dogging and display gentlemanly or ladylike behaviour
Yes- now would milady Like a bumming outside by the bins of this select wine/cocktail bar? "
Only if you look at my face after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand why you're moaning?
You don't/did'nt know this guy until he came and stuck his cock in your mouth while you were looking for a complete stranger to play with, now you're not happy about him complimenting a better pair of tits than yours. i think you're in the wrong place sweetheart. |
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"Not a comment I would expect while having a nice cuppa and chat afterwards. Would be better for talking about the weather and beautiful outdoors.
Or just keep your flaming mouth shut "
Especially when dogging, someone might pop something in it… |
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"Not a comment I would expect while having a nice cuppa and chat afterwards. Would be better for talking about the weather and beautiful outdoors.
Or just keep your flaming mouth shut
Especially when dogging, someone might pop something in it…"
. I carry Hob Nobs with me at all times for such eventualities |
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"Not a comment I would expect while having a nice cuppa and chat afterwards. Would be better for talking about the weather and beautiful outdoors.
Or just keep your flaming mouth shut
Especially when dogging, someone might pop something in it…
. I carry Hob Nobs with me at all times for such eventualities "
And does he mind you calling him that?! |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
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"Behaviour ill-befitting a gentleman.
I might be being very judgemental here but I've never associated gentlemen with dogging
I think it's possible to go dogging and display gentlemanly or ladylike behaviour "
I'm sure it is, but the bits I've seen of that scene doesn’t make me think that's the norm. |
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"Not a comment I would expect while having a nice cuppa and chat afterwards. Would be better for talking about the weather and beautiful outdoors.
Or just keep your flaming mouth shut
Especially when dogging, someone might pop something in it…
. I carry Hob Nobs with me at all times for such eventualities
And does he mind you calling him that?! "
as long as it's not just after we've had sex |
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"Behaviour ill-befitting a gentleman.
I might be being very judgemental here but I've never associated gentlemen with dogging
I think it's possible to go dogging and display gentlemanly or ladylike behaviour
I'm sure it is, but the bits I've seen of that scene doesn’t make me think that's the norm."
I look at it like this. The way I have sex and how I choose to enjoy it doesn't mean I'm less entitled to basic respect or I'm a lesser person. It's perilously close to the you don't deserve any better attitude that's applied by some to women who are involved in any sort of non monogomy. |
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"Behaviour ill-befitting a gentleman.
I might be being very judgemental here but I've never associated gentlemen with dogging
I think it's possible to go dogging and display gentlemanly or ladylike behaviour
Yes- now would milady Like a bumming outside by the bins of this select wine/cocktail bar?
Only if you look at my face after "
Before during and after…  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being called "Dad" during sex wasn't great - and not in an "ooh Daddy" kind of way, jut a flat out 'Dad'.
Cue a very red face (hers), lots of apologies and mee wondering where in the recesses of her mind this comment came from. Bit of a passion killer. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I think i’d be a bit taken aback if some fella had been playing with my boobs and then said “phwoar look at the boobs on her” pointing to another lass after spaffing on mine.
It’s a bit insensitive if you’re stood there with your baps out. But y’know. Some folk are.
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"Being called "Dad" during sex wasn't great - and not in an "ooh Daddy" kind of way, jut a flat out 'Dad'.
Cue a very red face (hers), lots of apologies and mee wondering where in the recesses of her mind this comment came from. Bit of a passion killer."
Did you read her a story afterwards? |
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"Being called "Dad" during sex wasn't great - and not in an "ooh Daddy" kind of way, jut a flat out 'Dad'.
Cue a very red face (hers), lots of apologies and mee wondering where in the recesses of her mind this comment came from. Bit of a passion killer.
Did you read her a story afterwards?"
No, I didn't see her again until about 6 years later I walked into the Curzon in Soho and she was sat on a guys lap in the foyer. |
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