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over a year ago
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Technically, doesn’t being a virgin mean you’re “pure”, so by that extent whether you’ve surfed a trouser snake or smashed pasties together, you’re no longer “pure”?
Therefore, if you’re a lesbian and did the deed, you’re no longer a virgin?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you need to sleep with a man in order to loose your virginity? Being a virgin means you’ve never had sex before. 2 women can have sex, which means the virgin is no longer a virgin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t tell whether you’re being serious, because if you are, then I think you need to stop having ‘debates’ at work
As a lesbian, why would I ever have to be with a man? I’m not going to have sex with a man just to lose my socially constructed virginity
The problem is how rigid people think lesbian sex. It’s often more exciting than just heterosexuality sex.
A lesbian’s virginity isn’t defined by whether or not she’s had sex with a man. Men are so self centred that they think women, especially lesbians, base their worth off them
News flash: as a lesbian, no male exists in my life: yes I may be on here to explore my sexuality, but I have no care for men or what they can offer me unless it’s out of this world and amazing. The whole point of lesbianism is that it doesn’t include men. Why do men struggle to understand that?
And I don’t care if people think I’m being naggy. Why are men so obsessed with lesbians? We don’t care about you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nope, they've had sex regardless of whether it was with a man or woman.
Ride a bike or drive a car you're still going to the same destination.
Sorry for the poor analogy! |
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"If her hymen is still intact then technically yes.
So girls who ride horses but have never had any kind of sexual contact are not virgins?"
Technically yes. |
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"If her hymen is still intact then technically yes.
So girls who ride horses but have never had any kind of sexual contact are not virgins?
Technically yes."
Weird.
As far as I was aware the dictionary definition is simply based on sex.
Does that mean those weird hymen reconstructive surgeries do actually make someone a virginity again? Madness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today's debate at work was, If a lesbian has never been with a man is she still a virgin?
I say no, what do you guys think?
Yeah, we have wierd debates haha "
Ask Google |
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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Stop with this heteronormative shit definition of virginity. It’s getting weird guys. "
Couldnt have put it better, i tried but yours is definitely the best way.
I just dont understand whats the obsession of putting labels to things that really dont need them |
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"Stop with this heteronormative shit definition of virginity. It’s getting weird guys.
Couldnt have put it better, i tried but yours is definitely the best way.
I just dont understand whats the obsession of putting labels to things that really dont need them "
I think labels are useful in some circumstances.
Trying to situate lesbians by their relationship to penises... it's a bit like trying to talk about how Russian something is by talking about its relationship to kangaroos. |
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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Stop with this heteronormative shit definition of virginity. It’s getting weird guys.
Couldnt have put it better, i tried but yours is definitely the best way.
I just dont understand whats the obsession of putting labels to things that really dont need them
I think labels are useful in some circumstances.
Trying to situate lesbians by their relationship to penises... it's a bit like trying to talk about how Russian something is by talking about its relationship to kangaroos."
There are some situations but this for example really has nothing to do with anyone else other than that individual |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stop with this heteronormative shit definition of virginity. It’s getting weird guys.
Couldnt have put it better, i tried but yours is definitely the best way.
I just dont understand whats the obsession of putting labels to things that really dont need them
I think labels are useful in some circumstances.
Trying to situate lesbians by their relationship to penises... it's a bit like trying to talk about how Russian something is by talking about its relationship to kangaroos.
There are some situations but this for example really has nothing to do with anyone else other than that individual "
It's supposed to be a debate, not a judgement. It takes a very closed mind to not be able to discuss something that "has nothing to do with anyone else other than that individual". The power of speech is one of humankind's greatest achievements and shouldn't be stifled due to discomfiture.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sorry if I offended anyone,, it was a gay guy who asked the question initially, and he asked 2 gay women.... They had different answers...
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It's the rule of the forum, try to create a light hearted, tongue in cheek thread, it'll turn serious with much offence taken.
Try to create a serious thread, it'll be overtaken with silliness.
Only way to get a thread to stay close to initial post is to get people to talk about themselves. We love that.  |
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"Stop with this heteronormative shit definition of virginity. It’s getting weird guys.
Couldnt have put it better, i tried but yours is definitely the best way.
I just dont understand whats the obsession of putting labels to things that really dont need them
I think labels are useful in some circumstances.
Trying to situate lesbians by their relationship to penises... it's a bit like trying to talk about how Russian something is by talking about its relationship to kangaroos.
There are some situations but this for example really has nothing to do with anyone else other than that individual
It's supposed to be a debate, not a judgement. It takes a very closed mind to not be able to discuss something that "has nothing to do with anyone else other than that individual". The power of speech is one of humankind's greatest achievements and shouldn't be stifled due to discomfiture.
Bess x"
Last I saw, both he and I were speaking.
Or is speech only speech when it conforms to your expectations? |
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"I'm sorry if I offended anyone,, it was a gay guy who asked the question initially, and he asked 2 gay women.... They had different answers...
It's the rule of the forum, try to create a light hearted, tongue in cheek thread, it'll turn serious with much offence taken.
Try to create a serious thread, it'll be overtaken with silliness.
Only way to get a thread to stay close to initial post is to get people to talk about themselves. We love that. "
Thanks for the advice, it wasn't meant to offend anyone, I'll keep my big mouth shut in future |
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"I'm sorry if I offended anyone,, it was a gay guy who asked the question initially, and he asked 2 gay women.... They had different answers...
It's the rule of the forum, try to create a light hearted, tongue in cheek thread, it'll turn serious with much offence taken.
Try to create a serious thread, it'll be overtaken with silliness.
Only way to get a thread to stay close to initial post is to get people to talk about themselves. We love that.
Thanks for the advice, it wasn't meant to offend anyone, I'll keep my big mouth shut in future "
You'd have been lynched if you were a Man.
Toxic Masculinity is a Hot Topic, whereas we are not yet ready for the Toxic Femininity talk.
Comment not aimed at anything specific, but a broken, divided society. |
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"I'm sorry if I offended anyone,, it was a gay guy who asked the question initially, and he asked 2 gay women.... They had different answers...
It's the rule of the forum, try to create a light hearted, tongue in cheek thread, it'll turn serious with much offence taken.
Try to create a serious thread, it'll be overtaken with silliness.
Only way to get a thread to stay close to initial post is to get people to talk about themselves. We love that. "
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"Stop with this heteronormative shit definition of virginity. It’s getting weird guys.
It's soooo weird.
And it's always been weird.
Not everything revolves around the boner!"
Mental image of revolving around the boner... Sorry folks, dragging it into the gutter  |
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Nope, she's not a virgin,
If she's had sex, she isn't a virgin.
Women can lose Thier hymen at any age regardless of sexual experience, I lost mine very young (I have ridden horses all my life, and was riding 7 days a week and competing)
Gymnasts also are known to lose Thier hymens early too.
So the 'if her hymen is still intact' arguement is out the window, If someone has had penetrative sex of any kind, they are not a virgin.
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"I'm sorry if I offended anyone,, it was a gay guy who asked the question initially, and he asked 2 gay women.... They had different answers...
It's the rule of the forum, try to create a light hearted, tongue in cheek thread, it'll turn serious with much offence taken.
Try to create a serious thread, it'll be overtaken with silliness.
Only way to get a thread to stay close to initial post is to get people to talk about themselves. We love that.
Thanks for the advice, it wasn't meant to offend anyone, I'll keep my big mouth shut in future "
Please don't kowtow to the bullies. Debate what you want to, when you want to. This is an open forum and what you said was within the rules.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If her hymen is still intact then technically yes.
Mine broke climbing over a fence, I still classed myself as a virgin.
So technically your saying I lost my virginity to a fence?!
Mrs "
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"If her hymen is still intact then technically yes.
Mine broke climbing over a fence, I still classed myself as a virgin.
So technically your saying I lost my virginity to a fence?!
Mrs "
Well that's different   |
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"So today's debate at work was, If a lesbian has never been with a man is she still a virgin?
I say no, what do you guys think?
Yeah, we have wierd debates haha "
No, but it's a nice highlight of how male dominated the thinking in our society is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Conclusion, YES she shouldn't considered as a virgin, period. Sex defination from medieval era doesnt hold much ground in modern society where same sex people are indulged in debuchary.  |
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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So, are all men virgins because their hymens haven't been broken, or are they born not virgins because they don't have an intact hymen?"
Good point and to why the hymen argument doesn’t really make much sense for virginity |
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"So, are all men virgins because their hymens haven't been broken, or are they born not virgins because they don't have an intact hymen?"
Obviously. Losing your virginity is a loss of purity and that's only a thing for women. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"So today's debate at work was, If a lesbian has never been with a man is she still a virgin?
I say no, what do you guys think?
Yeah, we have wierd debates haha "
If a man only ever had sex with another man, is he still a virgin?
I think not. This hymen thing is well, not relevant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So today's debate at work was, If a lesbian has never been with a man is she still a virgin?
I say no, what do you guys think?
Yeah, we have wierd debates haha "
My friend used to brag about her new partner being gold star lesbian heh
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"I can’t tell whether you’re being serious, because if you are, then I think you need to stop having ‘debates’ at work
As a lesbian, why would I ever have to be with a man? I’m not going to have sex with a man just to lose my socially constructed virginity
The problem is how rigid people think lesbian sex. It’s often more exciting than just heterosexuality sex.
A lesbian’s virginity isn’t defined by whether or not she’s had sex with a man. Men are so self centred that they think women, especially lesbians, base their worth off them
News flash: as a lesbian, no male exists in my life: yes I may be on here to explore my sexuality, but I have no care for men or what they can offer me unless it’s out of this world and amazing. The whole point of lesbianism is that it doesn’t include men. Why do men struggle to understand that?
And I don’t care if people think I’m being naggy. Why are men so obsessed with lesbians? We don’t care about you "
Brilliant  |
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"I can’t tell whether you’re being serious, because if you are, then I think you need to stop having ‘debates’ at work
As a lesbian, why would I ever have to be with a man? I’m not going to have sex with a man just to lose my socially constructed virginity
The problem is how rigid people think lesbian sex. It’s often more exciting than just heterosexuality sex.
A lesbian’s virginity isn’t defined by whether or not she’s had sex with a man. Men are so self centred that they think women, especially lesbians, base their worth off them
News flash: as a lesbian, no male exists in my life: yes I may be on here to explore my sexuality, but I have no care for men or what they can offer me unless it’s out of this world and amazing. The whole point of lesbianism is that it doesn’t include men. Why do men struggle to understand that?
And I don’t care if people think I’m being naggy. Why are men so obsessed with lesbians? We don’t care about you
Brilliant "
Except the OP isn't a man .... |
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"I can’t tell whether you’re being serious, because if you are, then I think you need to stop having ‘debates’ at work
As a lesbian, why would I ever have to be with a man? I’m not going to have sex with a man just to lose my socially constructed virginity
The problem is how rigid people think lesbian sex. It’s often more exciting than just heterosexuality sex.
A lesbian’s virginity isn’t defined by whether or not she’s had sex with a man. Men are so self centred that they think women, especially lesbians, base their worth off them
News flash: as a lesbian, no male exists in my life: yes I may be on here to explore my sexuality, but I have no care for men or what they can offer me unless it’s out of this world and amazing. The whole point of lesbianism is that it doesn’t include men. Why do men struggle to understand that?
And I don’t care if people think I’m being naggy. Why are men so obsessed with lesbians? We don’t care about you
Brilliant
Except the OP isn't a man ...."
Are women magically immune to societal norms?
I mean I know my vagina is magic. I didn't think it was that magic. |
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"So today's debate at work was, If a lesbian has never been with a man is she still a virgin?
I say no, what do you guys think?
Yeah, we have wierd debates haha "
Obviously not.
How parochial. |
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"I can’t tell whether you’re being serious, because if you are, then I think you need to stop having ‘debates’ at work
As a lesbian, why would I ever have to be with a man? I’m not going to have sex with a man just to lose my socially constructed virginity
The problem is how rigid people think lesbian sex. It’s often more exciting than just heterosexuality sex.
A lesbian’s virginity isn’t defined by whether or not she’s had sex with a man. Men are so self centred that they think women, especially lesbians, base their worth off them
News flash: as a lesbian, no male exists in my life: yes I may be on here to explore my sexuality, but I have no care for men or what they can offer me unless it’s out of this world and amazing. The whole point of lesbianism is that it doesn’t include men. Why do men struggle to understand that?
And I don’t care if people think I’m being naggy. Why are men so obsessed with lesbians? We don’t care about you
Brilliant
Except the OP isn't a man ....
Are women magically immune to societal norms?
I mean I know my vagina is magic. I didn't think it was that magic."
Not at all, but a post ranting about men being obsessed with lesbians in reply to a woman asking about them kind of suggests the person who wrote is is as obsessed with ranting about men as she believes men are about lesbians.
Incidentally, despite having several lesbian friends through my life, one of whom used to call me her hetro hubby, I've never been obsessed or even particularly interested in the whole lesbian thing, I don't find their sex life interesting, never mind arousing and know this view is shared by many men. As is often the case, I suspect this poster is using the lazy tactic of taking sex as a way of determining the behaviour of half the population - it's a process that grates on my nerves, whichever way around it is. |
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Just cause a person is lesbian doesn't mean they haven't had penetrative sex, dildo is just as good as a dick... Probably better in many cases??
I'd probably say there are different levels of virginity, like when you were wee and people would call you virgin lips cause you hadn't snogged anyone?? |
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Well sex is sex is sex and so if you have any kind of sex ?? and all to do with the myth of the "Hymen" and yet another thing foisted on us all by the Space Monkey lot and we merrily go along with it !! it seems...lmao xxxx  |
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