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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When someone says they can’t post or send s photo because they have a “professional” job what does that really mean?
Surely any job you’re paid to do makes it professional or are they saying it because it’s a superiority thing and feel their job “outranks” others?
And what else don’t you get, I don’t get how it’s mid July and it’s raining again!! |
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It’s probably more a “there would be career implications with my employer if I was outed as a sex person” thing than a “my job is better than yours” thing, I would guess? 
But really it’s a “it’s a convenient excuse not to show face pics which might be for a myriad of privacy and other reasons” excuse tbf |
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I can relate to the not wanting to post face pics because off a job or such isn’t worth loosening it
For instance there have been teachers and stuff lost there jobs over have a OF account on the side so I would presume fab would be along the same lines
Some people could be famous in they own right and don’t want it out there or something
Or day in a small area with big mouths who like to talk and look down on people and such
If someone will not post a face pic or send it’s understandable your just aren’t comfortable on here
On to the next maybe compatible if bump in to in a club or social settings |
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"I can relate to the not wanting to post face pics because off a job or such isn’t worth loosening it
For instance there have been teachers and stuff lost there jobs over have a OF account on the side so I would presume fab would be along the same lines
Some people could be famous in they own right and don’t want it out there or something
Or day in a small area with big mouths who like to talk and look down on people and such
If someone will not post a face pic or send it’s understandable your just aren’t comfortable on here
On to the next maybe compatible if bump in to in a club or social settings "
I totally understand about not wanting to put face pics for all to see, I think it’s more about the word “professional”.
I am not in a vocational job but equally wouldn’t want my employer, if they were on here, to know what I do outside of work.
It’s just the word “professional”, maybe it’s the word or the feeling that for me they think their job carries more weight.
And do people meet without seeing a face pic or a video call or something. Surely that can lead to massive catfishing? |
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"When someone says they can’t post or send s photo because they have a “professional” job what does that really mean?
Surely any job you’re paid to do makes it professional or are they saying it because it’s a superiority thing and feel their job “outranks” others?
And what else don’t you get, I don’t get how it’s mid July and it’s raining again!!"
To the general public Swinging is taboo and frowned upon. Having sex with other men's wives or husbands or with multiple people doesn't fit in with societal norms.
The UK is a Christian country and even though its not practise in our everyday live the values still remain in us.
Some of us who breakout and accept what we enjoy there are some of us that choose to hide and do it in secret to not upset family, friends and or work colleagues. |
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"I can relate to the not wanting to post face pics because off a job or such isn’t worth loosening it
For instance there have been teachers and stuff lost there jobs over have a OF account on the side so I would presume fab would be along the same lines
Some people could be famous in they own right and don’t want it out there or something
Or day in a small area with big mouths who like to talk and look down on people and such
If someone will not post a face pic or send it’s understandable your just aren’t comfortable on here
On to the next maybe compatible if bump in to in a club or social settings
I totally understand about not wanting to put face pics for all to see, I think it’s more about the word “professional”.
I am not in a vocational job but equally wouldn’t want my employer, if they were on here, to know what I do outside of work.
It’s just the word “professional”, maybe it’s the word or the feeling that for me they think their job carries more weight.
And do people meet without seeing a face pic or a video call or something. Surely that can lead to massive catfishing?"
Yes I completely agree on the word professional kind off stupid
And I have and meet couple off lovely couples and never exanged face pics
But also vet them when I seen they have verification from reputable clubs then kind off new all was going to be good |
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