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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.
1 Eye contact
2 The nervous
3 Frequent complements and teasing
4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.
5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.
6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".
7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.
8 Remember the little things about you
9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.
10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.
What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?
I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it  |
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I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "
I think all the points you list are credible Shag, and when listed in this way fairly obvious, however, in reality I rarely actually pick up on them as and when they are happening, it’s usually only on reflection, that I recognise them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh it's so easy to tell in the moment. Flirty fun conversation goes abit quiet, they look at your lips briefly.
Be observant fellas!"
To be fair I look at peoples lips loads because I’m quite deaf so I lipread when the environment is too noisy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve as much chance of picking up these signals as I have if reading War and Peace in Swahili and using it as the basis of a secret code for an underground network of freedom fighters in Basingstoke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Technically you shouldn’t be looking for clues because clues don’t = consent
Making a move based on clues is just sexual assault
You should just ask so you know for sure |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"Oh it's so easy to tell in the moment. Flirty fun conversation goes abit quiet, they look at your lips briefly.
Be observant fellas!
To be fair I look at peoples lips loads because I’m quite deaf so I lipread when the environment is too noisy "
You flirt  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If it involves my friends? Sure, I can read that. Me? Nope. It has to be quite obvious.
I definitely do a lot of those. I wish I was harder to read but sadly it's obvious when I like someone. I want to be cool.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.
1 Eye contact
2 The nervous
3 Frequent complements and teasing
4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.
5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.
6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".
7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.
8 Remember the little things about you
9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.
10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.
What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?
I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "
Bit hard seeing anything like body movement on here unless it is a 10 second sex movie.
Until you meet how can you guage.. If you have met anyone shag you should know how to move like jagger  
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"Technically you shouldn’t be looking for clues because clues don’t = consent
Making a move based on clues is just sexual assault
You should just ask so you know for sure
He's got a point"
Yes, but you want to know that you are acting on something that is there when you ask, or you can look a bit of a tit, so being able to pick up on ‘signs’ is useful.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.
1 Eye contact
2 The nervous
3 Frequent complements and teasing
4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.
5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.
6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".
7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.
8 Remember the little things about you
9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.
10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.
What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?
I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "
I do not believe they define important 'things'.
What the above describes is an already established relationship reflection. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Potential signs. Potential.
I've known plenty of people that do a lot of these things to everyone - for varied reasons, they didn't have anything more that a platonic friendship interest in those people, at most.
You have to watch out for signs of these things, as they do exist. But unless they make it very clear you won't ever know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Technically you shouldn’t be looking for clues because clues don’t = consent
Making a move based on clues is just sexual assault
You should just ask so you know for sure
He's got a point
Yes, but you want to know that you are acting on something that is there when you ask, or you can look a bit of a tit, so being able to pick up on ‘signs’ is useful. "
True, but the list seems too be hinting at when it’s ok to make a move based on these clues
The only move you should be making is asking for consent
I know many people think that’s not sexy, but that’s what consent is. |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.
1 Eye contact
2 The nervous
3 Frequent complements and teasing
4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.
5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.
6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".
7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.
8 Remember the little things about you
9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.
10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.
What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?
I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it
Bit hard seeing anything like body movement on here unless it is a 10 second sex movie.
Until you meet how can you guage.. If you have met anyone shag you should know how to move like jagger
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Hi becs and yes, it could be hard to gauge as well. I might not notice all of the signs at first, but pick quite few of them |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"If it involves my friends? Sure, I can read that. Me? Nope. It has to be quite obvious.
I definitely do a lot of those. I wish I was harder to read but sadly it's obvious when I like someone. I want to be cool. "
No, but yes, with friends as you say there, would be easier too, it is good to be obvious liking someone as well |
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"I have _zero_ ability to work out if someone is waiting for me to make a move - all these “signals” and whatnot just fly straight past me. "
Maybe we a just need to wearing flashing badges that have FAF on them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t maintain eye contact with someone I fancy so all the signs would go unnoticed by me.
I prefer them to be direct. I’m old fashioned and also like them to make the first move."
Just not too direct on a first meet eh  |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I can’t maintain eye contact with someone I fancy so all the signs would go unnoticed by me.
I prefer them to be direct. I’m old fashioned and also like them to make the first move."
Yes, that is good to be direct as well |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
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I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it
I think all the points you list are credible Shag, and when listed in this way fairly obvious, however, in reality I rarely actually pick up on them as and when they are happening, it’s usually only on reflection, that I recognise them. "
That is right, it kind of is obvious when it is listed and yes, sometimes it can be hard to pick up the signs from it when it happens. |
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"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."
J
I recognise these signs  "
Are you being followed by someone holding a sign that says "I'm waiting for you to make a movie"? 
J |
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"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."
J
I recognise these signs
Are you being followed by someone holding a sign that says "I'm waiting for you to make a movie"?
J"
Surprisingly yes |
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"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."
J
I recognise these signs
Are you being followed by someone holding a sign that says "I'm waiting for you to make a movie"?
J
Surprisingly yes "
Have you lost the plot?
J |
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"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."
J
I recognise these signs
Are you being followed by someone holding a sign that says "I'm waiting for you to make a movie"?
J
Surprisingly yes
Have you lost the plot?
J"
The plot is okay, just stuck with a shallow character  |
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I can be incredibly oblivious. Especially with women. Looking back there are missed opportunities that I’ll regret for the rest of my life… like the time I didn’t realise a famous porn star wanted to sleep with me back in my very early 20s. I read her memoir a few years later and the penny dropped. I absolutely would have gone to her hotel with her if I’d had better social awareness at the time.
She was a feature entertainer at the strip club where I worked. She did three nights.
On the last night, she dived off stage, pulled my top down, and sucked on my nipples in front of the whole club - about 350 people.
I thought she was just being friendly or this was part of the show.
But she liked to take home a different girl every night on that tour. Which she wrote about in her memoir.
Oops!
She is a lovely person as well. Down to earth. To this day I wish her all the happiness in the world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.
1 Eye contact
2 The nervous
3 Frequent complements and teasing
4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.
5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.
6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".
7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.
8 Remember the little things about you
9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.
10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.
What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?
I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "
Who you like here shag, who catches your eye... Come on now reveal to the forumites |
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"I wouldn't have a clue lol when we went to our first club H told me a lass wanted a bit of me I just laughed and said no she don't hahah well she did  "
Take it from me, I'd have a large bit of you |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.
1 Eye contact
2 The nervous
3 Frequent complements and teasing
4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.
5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.
6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".
7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.
8 Remember the little things about you
9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.
10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.
What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?
I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it
Who you like here shag, who catches your eye... Come on now reveal to the forumites "
Hi becs, there are many, but a gentlemen never tells |
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Must be awful for young people in their late teens & early 20s trying to start any kind of relationship these days, one false move & you're spending time at her majesty's & a reputation in tatters. And people wonder why the birth rate is plummeting? People, particularly lads, must be living in fear of approaching a woman & being accused of misogynistic behaviour. Safer to stay single these days!! |
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"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."
Damn, damn, dammit!
That has actually happened to me with quite some frequency, me the idiot, well, I always scarpered as I feared that they had some issue with me and were going to let off an almighty fart or worse ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a world champion at failing to read any sort of signals. Been told 3 times by 3 different women that "if only you'd read the signals..." and if I had my life would have been so different.
Sadly I feel I'm now through my 4th failure to signal read... |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I can be incredibly oblivious. Especially with women. Looking back there are missed opportunities that I’ll regret for the rest of my life… like the time I didn’t realise a famous porn star wanted to sleep with me back in my very early 20s. I read her memoir a few years later and the penny dropped. I absolutely would have gone to her hotel with her if I’d had better social awareness at the time.
She was a feature entertainer at the strip club where I worked. She did three nights.
On the last night, she dived off stage, pulled my top down, and sucked on my nipples in front of the whole club - about 350 people.
I thought she was just being friendly or this was part of the show.
But she liked to take home a different girl every night on that tour. Which she wrote about in her memoir.
Oops!
She is a lovely person as well. Down to earth. To this day I wish her all the happiness in the world."
I see and yes, one can be oblivious too and same here. I have had missed opportunities as well. I think that many have those too |
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"I can be incredibly oblivious. Especially with women. Looking back there are missed opportunities that I’ll regret for the rest of my life… like the time I didn’t realise a famous porn star wanted to sleep with me back in my very early 20s. I read her memoir a few years later and the penny dropped. I absolutely would have gone to her hotel with her if I’d had better social awareness at the time.
She was a feature entertainer at the strip club where I worked. She did three nights.
On the last night, she dived off stage, pulled my top down, and sucked on my nipples in front of the whole club - about 350 people.
I thought she was just being friendly or this was part of the show.
But she liked to take home a different girl every night on that tour. Which she wrote about in her memoir.
Oops!
She is a lovely person as well. Down to earth. To this day I wish her all the happiness in the world."
Similar thing happend to me with the Nolan Sisters back in the early 90s  |
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"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.
1 Eye contact
2 The nervous
3 Frequent complements and teasing
4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.
5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.
6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".
7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.
8 Remember the little things about you
9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.
10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.
What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?
I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "
They tell you they are like a dog on heat! |
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