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"How many men and women are on here without there other half knowing. Bet this is short lived lol "
I get about 3 or 4 "do you mind I'm married/have a gf and she doesn't know?" messages a day. And that's the honest ones and messages I've actually opened/read, so we can probably double that figure at least. My rough guess based on that is 35-45% of men here. Can't say about the women. I'm ENM and always honest with my partners. |
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"How many men and women are on here without there other half knowing. Bet this is short lived lol
I get about 3 or 4 "do you mind I'm married/have a gf and she doesn't know?" messages a day. And that's the honest ones and messages I've actually opened/read, so we can probably double that figure at least. My rough guess based on that is 35-45% of men here. Can't say about the women. I'm ENM and always honest with my partners."
I would have thought even a bit higher for men. Ladies not far off - maybe a touch lower but still quite high. Ladies just better at keeping it quiet  |
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"How many men and women are on here without there other half knowing. Bet this is short lived lol
I get about 3 or 4 "do you mind I'm married/have a gf and she doesn't know?" messages a day. And that's the honest ones and messages I've actually opened/read, so we can probably double that figure at least. My rough guess based on that is 35-45% of men here. Can't say about the women. I'm ENM and always honest with my partners.
I would have thought even a bit higher for men. Ladies not far off - maybe a touch lower but still quite high. Ladies just better at keeping it quiet "
This is sad but probably true. And they keep telling us humans are monogamous  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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It’s not for me.
And I was being cheated on the thought of them telling strangers they were cheating , like it’s admirable to be honest to them but not me, would just make it an even bigger betrayal |
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Loads. Both men and women, the men tend to be more vocal and more criticised, but there’s also a lot of “single” females on here also partnered up.
Everyone will have their own backstory / journey to being on here, you may (or may not) think some have more valid reasons than others but I guess it’s down to the individuals involved to live their lives as they please.
I think the key is to make clear to prospective meets your status up front, many people will meet cheaters, but many prefer not to. So informed choice is important.
I won’t judge anyone. Except those that think Rupauls Drag Race is elite entertainment. I’ll judge them |
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