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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What does swinging mean to you or give to you?
It seems that there is or are differences, and rightly so, if what we want or look for on here.
So what does it mean to you?
For me it is the social side. I am bad at work and home balance and this gives me the ability to meet people who may not want conventional dating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It gives me, and my other half, an outlet to explore and indulge in sex with various partners in a (relatively) non-judgemental environment. It’s allowed us both to embrace and explore our sexualities, again in an environment that is less prone to the reactions we’d get if we discussed it amongst family or friends.
It’s opened our eyes to the many benefits of being non monogamous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My experience on the swinging scene is quite different, and so is my perspective perhaps.
I've mostly been single and enjoyed the party side over the last 10 years. I've had a couple of fwbs I would go to parties with occasionally, and one serious relationship where we would have but covid stopped all the fun, and accelerated the end of that relationship...
When I first discovered swinger/sex parties what I found was a wonderful group of open minded, naughty, friends. Many nights I would go to and just talk to folks all night, no play, not even a snog. But I always enjoyed the safe and respectful environment. Being in a place I could be dressed in my sexiest lingerie and no one would touch me without asking first, and (almost always) a polite no thank you was taken with grace and no drama. Any drama was swiftly dealt with and the person removed from the event.
Parties gave me empowerment.
They gave me a a place to meet likeminded friends.
They gave me confidence in my body and my sexuality.
They gave me a safe space to be naked and free - literally.
They introduced me to people who brought me in to the kink side of the scene and that expanded my world and my naughty kinky poly/ENM queer community even further.
They helped me learn so much about myself and to grow into my most happy, confident and sexual self.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm far to picky to be a swinger.
But it gives me penis without the commitment. Or effort. "
When I was first going to them, this was the main draw for me too. Dick with no effort, and no drama.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm far to picky to be a swinger.
But it gives me penis without the commitment. Or effort.
When I was first going to them, this was the main draw for me too. Dick with no effort, and no drama.
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Never let anyone say romance is dead! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm far to picky to be a swinger.
But it gives me penis without the commitment. Or effort.
When I was first going to them, this was the main draw for me too. Dick with no effort, and no drama.
Never let anyone say romance is dead!"
It's a sex site Jerry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm far to picky to be a swinger.
But it gives me penis without the commitment. Or effort.
When I was first going to them, this was the main draw for me too. Dick with no effort, and no drama.
Never let anyone say romance is dead!
It's a sex site Jerry."
Jesus on a bike, really........... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm far to picky to be a swinger.
But it gives me penis without the commitment. Or effort.
When I was first going to them, this was the main draw for me too. Dick with no effort, and no drama.
Never let anyone say romance is dead!
It's a sex site Jerry."
I am that old romantic you see. I like to lead up to intimacy with a degree of anticipation, expectation and communication. Pussy with no effort is like lamb with no mint sauce, or roast beef with no horseradish accoutrements. Plus I am middle aged and can’t be doing with the mess. |
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"What does swinging mean to you or give to you?
It seems that there is or are differences, and rightly so, if what we want or look for on here.
So what does it mean to you?
For me it is the social side. I am bad at work and home balance and this gives me the ability to meet people who may not want conventional dating "
To me swinging means wife swapping. But despite the name, the site is not just about swinging and that’s not what we use it for.
To us the site is for people to meet other people who want to do the same things in the bedroom. But I’m sure different people use the site for multiple different reasons |
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