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Do you look in the mirror and think you’re attractive?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes, yes. It doesn’t make me arrogant.
Most of the time I’m neutral.
Sometimes I’ll think what the hell are you wearing why do you look like that but everyone has bad days. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
No I don't.
I see how the last few years has aged me.
I see tired eyes with lunes etched into the skin around them.
I see puckering around my mouth, due to menopause.
We all age, so I don't care.
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Sadly ! Alot of attractive females tend to have very low self esteem due to social media and current pressures to be stick thin and always made up with make-up etc but then if they're stick thin they're told they're too skinny need to be more curvy they can't win so sadly I think from my experience majority of people and sadly usually the nice looking ones tend to not like what they see in the mirror sadly its becoming more common for men too with pressures to be ripped and shredded and loads of other things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, it's a bit to much like being vain or as others have said a bit up ones own arse neither of which are attractive.."
No one has said it’s vain or up their own arse. |
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"No, it's a bit to much like being vain or as others have said a bit up ones own arse neither of which are attractive..
No one has said it’s vain or up their own arse. "
I didn't say anyone else had said it's like being vain..
Personally I equate arrogance with someone being up their own arse..  |
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Nah, I’ve never thought I was good looking at all.
But I've always prided myself on being very “well put together”
*I workout like a sonovabitch
*Always make sure I smell good
*And I personally think I have a great sense of style |
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Absolutely not! I hate everything about my face and body. However, I’m perfectly secure with being me and it doesn’t get me down. I am who I am and I work with what I’ve got. Things could be worse.
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Sometimes I look and think I am ok. Lumps, bumps, imperfections and inadequacies are there but overall I think I look alright. On the odd occasion I even look pretty (to me).
Most of the time those thoughts are wiped out by numerous negative words and memories of being told I am not enough/attractive etc.
So I try and focus on the things my body can do instead. It helps to be positive in that way and stops me losing too much confidence again.
Positive affirmations is the way forwards.
MrsAbz
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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago
South Yorkshire |
"I don't always, no. But sometimes yeah, I think "yes, you are fuckable"."
I'd like to add that being on here can be a big boost to my self esteem, when people compliment my pics, ask me to send them my vids etc. To feel desired is to feel sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I was always the ugly best friend growing up. I'm still very insecure about my looks and body, despite me knowing how much male attention I now get. That shit from young adulthood never leaves you.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the mirror? Yes, definitely, every time 
Sometimes I see myself in pictures or videos and don't think so, but internally I see it as a misrepresentation of myself rather than a challenge to how I think about myself.
Does this make me arrogant? Well I'm not arrogant, by my own judgement (which is the best of all judgements around), ergo, no  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes, yes. It doesn’t make me arrogant.
Most of the time I’m neutral.
Sometimes I’ll think what the hell are you wearing why do you look like that but everyone has bad days. "
Pretty much the same for me with the exception of the "what the hell are you wearing why do you look like that" bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh let's not open that can of worms...  
Talk to me  "
Ok, I've had a love/hate relationship with my face. There are times I think I look attractive, but then there are things I've always been self-conscious of that I don't find attractive that will always be at the back of my mind and wish I could change. I won't highlight them because no-one needs to hear that level of self-loathing right now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ooooh let's not open that can of worms...
Talk to me
Ok, I've had a love/hate relationship with my face. There are times I think I look attractive, but then there are things I've always been self-conscious of that I don't find attractive that will always be at the back of my mind and wish I could change. I won't highlight them because no-one needs to hear that level of self-loathing right now "
But it’s a good point right. It’s like sometimes we look at ourselves and we find things we want to change. And I think sometimes because of that it undermines our feelings about the rest of us. I hate my eyes. And sometimes it makes me hate my face. That one thing.
As a side note, Joe. You’re a peng ting. The people know it. I hope you can see it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh let's not open that can of worms...
Talk to me
Ok, I've had a love/hate relationship with my face. There are times I think I look attractive, but then there are things I've always been self-conscious of that I don't find attractive that will always be at the back of my mind and wish I could change. I won't highlight them because no-one needs to hear that level of self-loathing right now
But it’s a good point right. It’s like sometimes we look at ourselves and we find things we want to change. And I think sometimes because of that it undermines our feelings about the rest of us. I hate my eyes. And sometimes it makes me hate my face. That one thing.
As a side note, Joe. You’re a peng ting. The people know it. I hope you can see it too. "
Thanks Pickle! You make a good point about one aspect giving you an overall negative perception of yourself which is something I'd like to work on being better at ignoring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh let's not open that can of worms...
Talk to me
Ok, I've had a love/hate relationship with my face. There are times I think I look attractive, but then there are things I've always been self-conscious of that I don't find attractive that will always be at the back of my mind and wish I could change. I won't highlight them because no-one needs to hear that level of self-loathing right now
But it’s a good point right. It’s like sometimes we look at ourselves and we find things we want to change. And I think sometimes because of that it undermines our feelings about the rest of us. I hate my eyes. And sometimes it makes me hate my face. That one thing.
As a side note, Joe. You’re a peng ting. The people know it. I hope you can see it too. "
What he said Joe |
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Maybe it's an age thing. You look in the mirror and just appreciate that you're still in one piece.
Anyway it doesn't matter what you look like because according to forum lore personality is the most important thing.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's an age thing. You look in the mirror and just appreciate that you're still in one piece.
Anyway it doesn't matter what you look like because according to forum lore personality is the most important thing. "
Love it when you bring the sassiness, Nice. |
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"Maybe it's an age thing. You look in the mirror and just appreciate that you're still in one piece.
Anyway it doesn't matter what you look like because according to forum lore personality is the most important thing.
Love it when you bring the sassiness, Nice. "
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Sometimes I feel really good and other times you think ‘that angle isn’t nice’.
I’m more accepting of my lines, receding hairline and salt and pepper stubble now and use my eyes much more, instead of looking away quickly.
So yeah, I feel attractive at times.
K
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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago
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I look in the mirror and think ‘how are you still alive you sexy fkn rock star?’ Then get dressed and go out smelling gorgeous and pull a supermodel… sorry autocorrect - ‘supermarket’ - trolley round Waitrose… for the adrenaline rush!! |
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By *damxxMan
over a year ago
London |
Everybody should look in the mirror and love themselves - not in a arrogant way but a self excepting way.
Proven fact that the things we dont like visually about ourselves no one else notices. |
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By *ewcatWoman
over a year ago
Berkshire |
"Does it make you arrogant if you do?
(Inspired by another thread that wasn’t about what I thought )"
No to both.
Arrogance and self confidence are very different.
I see my grey, my wrinkles, my scars, the cellulite that I swear appeared out of nowhere. I think being single long term takes a toll on a persons self confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I look and think my hair and face look like absolute shit, the odd time I look and I’m happy from the neck down but also have the never look “big” enough mentality most gym goers get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do know I'm attractive yes & the mirror tells me so also. "
That doesn't mean I'm big headed or vain. I'm no beauty....pretty yes & attractive but that's about it. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I have mirrors all over the flat.
Not because I'm in any way vain, but because they make it look bigger!
What do I see when I look at them? Me. Older than I was but younger than I'll be next week.
Do I think I'm attractive? I've seen worse. I probably looked better twenty years ago but part of life is getting older and adjusting to change. And whilst I see wrinkles, grey stubble and scars it's still me. The outside has weathered a lot more than the inside over the years.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stopped looking in the mirror, when I take a pic for here I think is that what I look like now  . I don't think I'm attractive but also don't think I'm the ugliest person in the world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm alright, that's as far as I go. Having confidence in your appearance doesn't make you arrogant but if you act/treat people at certain way because of it, it does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes when I put make up on and do my hair I'll have a look and think "hmmm, maybe I've still got it"
Other times no
I don't think I'm arrogant. I don't think liking how you look is arrogant |
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