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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Definitely agree with you, for sure you can only ask so many times “how are you” etc.. and yes, stimulate the mind and take someone on a mind journey of what you’d like to do with them…
Though the good old “manners maketh man” “Manners just might get you what you want” hopefully haha |
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If you don't have their attention or interest in first few messages it's probably too late because they're swamped with messages so if you're boring there's probably another 50+ guys messaging that might not be |
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By *oody BMan 5 weeks ago
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"Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ? "
Be that bad boy the chics seem to go for.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Yes, maybe that’s it, treat them mean, not to mean haha, keeps them keen?
Though of any ladies do tap into this thread? will be interesting to hear all view points |
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"Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ? "
Been told the same as well if it helps. Not worth dwelling on. Just be yourself and fingers crossed you’ll come across some great people at some point. Otherwise you’re just jumping through endless hoops trying to please and it’s not worth it. Just be your normal and friendly self, don’t let here change who you are as a person. The simple fact is there are far more single blokes on here then the rest put together so you will get a lot or rejection for any old reason no matter how strange or sudden. It’s not you fault or theirs either as they want something specific and that often includes one dimensional characteristics they think how a guy should be and conform too. Which is understandable with so many other guys on here, where dim a dozen so there’s no real need to waste time investing to dig deeper and see if it actually works as they will still be way to many other guys to choose from so it’s easier to move on to the next dozen or so lol. |
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No one can ever be too polite Rocco. Especially not in a first message. I'm going to be more inclined to reply to a "Hello, I like your profile. Would you like to chat?" ... than the multitude of "Hey, fancy a f**k" messages that fill my inbox and instantly get deleted. I even updated my status this morning to say "..men you need to up your game and learn how to communicate with women!"
Once those initial messages have been exchanged, then yes, the level of politeness can come down a notch or two...to suit however flirty your conversation is with each other.
It's not difficult, it's all about adapting your language to suit the situation. And, not forgetting, being respectful to each other in the process. These days there isn't a great deal of that on this site (in my opinion)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Definitely, that’s very true, was just a funny thought that came to me and one that often made me laugh..
The crux of the story was, unbeknown to me at the time, she had a BF and then started asking what i could offer her more than him and I immediately went into super polite mode and became self deprecating…
Though i’ve been told it before..
Definitely no loss of sleep over it haha |
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"No one can ever be too polite Rocco. Especially not in a first message. I'm going to be more inclined to reply to a "Hello, I like your profile. Would you like to chat?" ... than the multitude of "Hey, fancy a f**k" messages that fill my inbox and instantly get deleted. I even updated my status this morning to say "..men you need to up your game and learn how to communicate with women!"
Once those initial messages have been exchanged, then yes, the level of politeness can come down a notch or two...to suit however flirty your conversation is with each other.
It's not difficult, it's all about adapting your language to suit the situation. And, not forgetting, being respectful to each other in the process. These days there isn't a great deal of that on this site (in my opinion) "
That was my theory on how I should do it. But even then.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Ragnar73, respect to you bro… agreed 100% the weird and wonderful dynamic of this world we call FAB
I’ll always continue being polite and respectful even if it means i get the FAB equivalent of Britain’s got talent “it’s a no from me” haha |
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"Pablominibar123, thank you, yes, i think the majority of ladies on here have your mindset x "
If you use the reply and quote button it saves you typing the name of who you are replying to, it's what the cool kids do  |
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"Ragnar73, respect to you bro… agreed 100% the weird and wonderful dynamic of this world we call FAB
I’ll always continue being polite and respectful even if it means i get the FAB equivalent of Britain’s got talent “it’s a no from me” haha "
Way I see it, is that’s how I’d do it at a bar or real life, you don’t start a conversation with a woman at any time with
‘hey nice bazookas, can I munch your lady garden’
as you’d get a slap. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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"Ragnar73, respect to you bro… agreed 100% the weird and wonderful dynamic of this world we call FAB
I’ll always continue being polite and respectful even if it means i get the FAB equivalent of Britain’s got talent “it’s a no from me” haha
Way I see it, is that’s how I’d do it at a bar or real life, you don’t start a conversation with a woman at any time with
‘hey nice bazookas, can I munch your lady garden’
as you’d get a slap."
haha, absolutely… though they’d more than likely be off of fab too!
That’s also happened, you think you recognise someone and look and i think where do i recognise those bazookas from lol |
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You can never be too polite, anywhere. Except maybe in hand to hand warfare.
"You first with the deathly dagger"
"No, no I insist. After you"
I don't understand why people tell others they're too polite or too nice. |
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Polite isn't a a bad thing in itself.
I leave my filters open. Which means I get double digits of polite hi how are you messages every day. Which is why the profile says the answer is fine please skip the small talk. It gets tedious going through the same social song and dance to get to the damn point.
I also get double figures of dick pics and fuk now style messages every day. None of them get anything other than a no and/or delete. |
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"Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ?
Be that bad boy the chics seem to go for. "
#notallchicks lol ... I like a polite guy who can have a decent conversation and make me laugh xx |
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By *red333Man 5 weeks ago
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"Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ? "
You can't win if you do you're damned and if you don't your damned, people judge you on what they think not what they know  |
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While I don’t think being polite is a bad thing. I can tell when people are saying what they think you want to hear and not really being themselves. Overly polite small talk doesn’t really interest me. I’m more likely to get bored of the conversation.
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By *oody BMan 5 weeks ago
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"While I don’t think being polite is a bad thing. I can tell when people are saying what they think you want to hear and not really being themselves. Overly polite small talk doesn’t really interest me. I’m more likely to get bored of the conversation.
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*Somebody hold my beer….  |
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"While I don’t think being polite is a bad thing. I can tell when people are saying what they think you want to hear and not really being themselves. Overly polite small talk doesn’t really interest me. I’m more likely to get bored of the conversation.
*Somebody hold my beer…. "
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Hi, us ladies can get hundreds of msgs daily. Only recently I had 1111 unread msgs to contend with. I can't answer for others but what gets my attention is something that stands out and I don't mean yet another dick pic lol. For me, friendly and funny chats get my attention, as well as sexy chat. I seek friendships and regular meets rather than instant one offs, so just saying hey and sending yet another dick pic and nothing else ever day after day doesn't engage me for too long xx |
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I think we worry too much about the opinions of those we aren't compatible with
That's not to say their opinions are irrelevant - more that we just aren't compatible as swingers or playmates
Just be yourself
Trust me, some people will dig it! |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ? "
Stay true to your admirable values my friend. Since It is quite possible to be a good man without anyone realizing it !
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I much prefer a guy who is polite, mindful, engaging and can keep a conversation going. I can't be doing with the "stop/start" type of convos where are gaps between messages and it's the usual? "hey, how are you doing?" repeated. I soon lose interest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Thank you all for your comments and for sure it’s always a combination of the two, polite yet flirty not to dirty and keeping it easy and breezy and most definitely not cheesy haha x |
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By *nnCeeWoman 5 weeks ago
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"Thank you all for your comments and for sure it’s always a combination of the two, polite yet flirty not to dirty and keeping it easy and breezy and most definitely not cheesy haha x "
You keep on being yourself, and send through messages you want to.
I'd much prefer something polite and a well written profile than some of the drivel I've received from "Fill in later" profiles.
I need to be attracted to a face, but if we can't have a conversation nothings happening either |
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Nobody can be too polite. I know some women will be into fuxk and go scenarios and don't want small talk but for others they like some friendly chat.
Also maybe people could be saying they aren't interested in you by saying this. |
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"Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ? "
I think you can be to anything to someone somewhere.
Hope you replied f..k off lol |
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Try “excuse me Ma’am, may I possibly stuff your gash with my sausage meat right to elbow skin a few hundred times until satisfactorily filled, and all will be ticketty boo?” With flowers and the offer of a meal out also! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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"Try “excuse me Ma’am, may I possibly stuff your gash with my sausage meat right to elbow skin a few hundred times until satisfactorily filled, and all will be ticketty boo?” With flowers and the offer of a meal out also! "
hahaha, i’m going to try that and see what response.. awesome bro
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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"Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ?
I think you can be to anything to someone somewhere.
Hope you replied f..k off lol"
I was actually enjoying the more she said stuff, the more my sarcasm began to come out! I went on the über polite guy stance |
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"Try “excuse me Ma’am, may I possibly stuff your gash with my sausage meat right to elbow skin a few hundred times until satisfactorily filled, and all will be ticketty boo?” With flowers and the offer of a meal out also!
hahaha, i’m going to try that and see what response.. awesome bro
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Helps if you ask in a posh voice too!  |
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"Good morning one and all,
A while ago, I was chatting to a woman and she replied to me and said you’re way too polite!
I had only just started talking to her and wasn’t suddenly going to tell her my deepest erotic thoughts straight away!
Can you be to polite on fab ?
I think you can be to anything to someone somewhere.
Hope you replied f..k off lol
I was actually enjoying the more she said stuff, the more my sarcasm began to come out! I went on the über polite guy stance "
Best way to deal with it |
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