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So I’ve been talking to a fantastic lady on here lately, building rapport and flirting lots… she’s really lovely, funny, vivacious,charismatic and sexy as hell.
I’m in the privileged position in meeting her for a social tomorrow and now the nerves are really kicking in, which is unusual for me with socials as I’m generally quite a confident guy….. so any words of wisdom on nerve control would be gratefully appreciated |
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"So I’ve been talking to a fantastic lady on here lately, building rapport and flirting lots… she’s really lovely, funny, vivacious,charismatic and sexy as hell.
I’m in the privileged position in meeting her for a social tomorrow and now the nerves are really kicking in, which is unusual for me with socials as I’m generally quite a confident guy….. so any words of wisdom on nerve control would be gratefully appreciated "
You do make me laugh talk to yourself . if you conect. With this woman do you have skills to give this woman what she needs .
If you do then belive in yourself
Women are turn by a confident man .you know what she can give you its up to you to make her see the man you are . |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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Oh OP this is such a lovely thread! 
Talk to her and be honest. I imagine she'll feel touched and flattered and like to have the chance to put your nerves to rest.
Nerves are good. It's a way of telling you this means something to you and you're looking forward to it. Try and reframe it as nervous excited energy - that's a positive way of handling them.
Best of luck OP, x |
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Don't overthink things because that's weird, unwanted, and not at all endearing.
You're both there to suss each other out (or maybe not, maybe you're both there because it's mutually convenient and public and gets the awks out the way.) |
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Give yaself a full valet , nose trim , eyebrow trim , ear trim ,nail trim ,clean shaved face , fresh breath , (pop a smint in under ya tongue) expensive aftershave , freshly washed and ironed smart clothes , polish ya shoes....
Look good means ya feel good means ya confidence is high. |
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"Don't spit your drink in her face, or piss your pants in panic... You'll be grand! 
Hey, don’t kink shame. Some people might like that sort of thing."
I feel that's more an either/or scenario though, no? |
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"Just turn up! Don’t bottle it"
And if you are close to bottling it, turn away from distraction, and get a few deep in and out breaths going.
So just get there any way you can, and then be as nervous as you want.
If she's as lovely as you say (and she probably is), she'll likely warm to that honest reaction in you even more.
Try not to fart too badly though  . |
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"Pop into a pharmacy and get some Kalms
They're no good if you want something to work straight away... they generally need to be taken for a week or two before they start to. Work "
Oh no.
Maybe the thing for Dihorea then? |
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I love the nervous excitement when you’re meeting someone for the first time.
OP it’s just a social and it sounds like you know one another well enough to know you’ll at least have a laugh. She’ll be feeling the same as you right now too.
Have a fab time |
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"Pop into a pharmacy and get some Kalms
They're no good if you want something to work straight away... they generally need to be taken for a week or two before they start to. Work
Oh no.
Maybe the thing for Dihorea then?"
Yeah lol immodium instants  |
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The nerves are a great feeling, and like what's already been said, it means you have created a connection.
Having a connection like that means that if things go the way you want, the sex, kisses and cuddles will be even more amazing!
Enjoy, and keep us informed how it goes.. |
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"So I’ve been talking to a fantastic lady on here lately, building rapport and flirting lots… she’s really lovely, funny, vivacious,charismatic and sexy as hell.
I’m in the privileged position in meeting her for a social tomorrow and now the nerves are really kicking in, which is unusual for me with socials as I’m generally quite a confident guy….. so any words of wisdom on nerve control would be gratefully appreciated "
Don’t put the pussy on a pedestal! |
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Actually makes a refreshing difference to hear man taking things seriously, and not seeing the whole entitlement attitude some men present.
Good luck OP, and lucky lady to be meeting you for social. Hope it all goes well. |
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Nerves and stress are what make life and FAB so exciting.
Embrace them, go with the flow.
Don't expect too much, just have an enjoyable day, if the person is not quite the one that matches the person in your mind, who cares, just have a great time.
Be yourself, be open, laugh and chat about anything, don't try to be something you are not.
If it doesn't work out, chalk it up to one of life's many experiences, stick it in the memory pot and move on to the next adventure.
When the nerves disappear, time to pack it in.
Good luck and have fun.  |
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"Thanks all for the nice messages of support….. I did use some of the advice given and was very much appreciated.
It went very well  "
Well done according to your verfication you did what I says on the tin .to you belive in yourself . |
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