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Nothing.
I have deliberately tried hard over many years to desensitise myself to what people wear, their makeup, their jewellery, their hair style, everything really.
I'd be useless in an identity parade, I know.
But I could tell you everything about meeting them. The words they said, the cadence of the words, the inflection, the intensity. The way they sat. Their posture. Their "micro" habits.
I find those aspects fascinating.
Attire and appearance...transitory. Like a train passing through a station at high speed. Blink and it's gone. A fast blur.
But the rush from the train ? The forces it made as it went. Their impact ? That's what I notice. |
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Uh, varies.
It's rare for me to be immediately physically drawn to someone without first getting to know at least a little about them.
But some people have outstanding things about them. Piercing eyes, musicians fingers, just something about the way they hold themselves, a nice mouth, it could be anything really. |
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"Nothing.
I have deliberately tried hard over many years to desensitise myself to what people wear, their makeup, their jewellery, their hair style, everything really.
I'd be useless in an identity parade, I know.
But I could tell you everything about meeting them. The words they said, the cadence of the words, the inflection, the intensity. The way they sat. Their posture. Their "micro" habits.
I find those aspects fascinating.
Attire and appearance...transitory. Like a train passing through a station at high speed. Blink and it's gone. A fast blur.
But the rush from the train ? The forces it made as it went. Their impact ? That's what I notice."
Do you note if they're a bit of a munter, or not though?  |
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"Nothing.
I have deliberately tried hard over many years to desensitise myself to what people wear, their makeup, their jewellery, their hair style, everything really.
I'd be useless in an identity parade, I know.
But I could tell you everything about meeting them. The words they said, the cadence of the words, the inflection, the intensity. The way they sat. Their posture. Their "micro" habits.
I find those aspects fascinating.
Attire and appearance...transitory. Like a train passing through a station at high speed. Blink and it's gone. A fast blur.
But the rush from the train ? The forces it made as it went. Their impact ? That's what I notice.
Do you note if they're a bit of a munter, or not though? "
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"Do you note if they're a bit of a munter, or not though?
Nope ! And I wouldn't notice if they were vogue material either ! It works both ways ! "
Now, Vogue material is highly debatable Most 'great' models, are not attractive. Certainly not in the conventional sense. What they are is photogenic, interesting aesthetically, and have a 'thing', whatever that is that's popular at that point in time. But no, most are not beautiful. |
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"Legs
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If based on a photo.. Hard these as so many not verified.
I do like full body and face...
If meeting. How they smell and dress and talk with teeth too and a pulse |
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"Legs
Are you watching Naked Attraction?
Everyone is "
Haha. Perverts!!!
If anyone can know they’re attracted to someone because of legs, good luck.
* yes I know that’s what the op wasn’t saying! |
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In real life its smile, shoes, a naughty little something about the way they look at you or make you feel and how they're dressed..
In a swingers club its more how they smell and how respectful, or not, they are
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Dr’s appointment needed 
