Following from another thread, I've got a question to be answered completely honestly- no judgement: you've been chatting to someone who has an insane body and is very sexy and then the person sends you a face pic and it really doesn't match the body, would you still meet them for sex or not? |
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I’ve never done that. Ive never imagined having sex with anyone or planned anything in my mind before I know I like everything about them.
I can’t say this enough, expectations can become very high, because of the theme of this website. But you are not obliged to fancy everyone.
But, I also know I can realy be attracted to someone’s personality, and what a wonderful surprise when you do finally got to see them and they are drop dead gorgeous. |
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Attraction is important from a physical and mental perspective.
There's varying degrees of attraction. If said persons facial looks were not attractive to us we would not meet up.
Likewise, we know that we can't be attractive to everyone and wouldn't want someone to go through the motions as we feel it'd be noticeable during play. |
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Thank you for the responses! Very interesting!
Personally for fab I have to find them attractive: personality, face and body. Doesn't mean I'm looking for perfection but i need to be attracted to them |
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"Thank you for the responses! Very interesting!
Personally for fab I have to find them attractive: personality, face and body. Doesn't mean I'm looking for perfection but i need to be attracted to them"
I need all 3, I don't think one is more important than any other.
Someone can be hot as fuck but utterly boring (there's a lot like this!), likewise someone can have the best personality but if there's no physical attraction, I'm out!
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"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet"
I don’t think there’s anything shallow in needing to find the person you’re going to have sex with attractive. |
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"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet"
And for that reason I thank all the women who asked for a face pic early and stopped talking to me. I get the hint.
It stops the pain of disappointment down the line. |
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"Following from another thread, I've got a question to be answered completely honestly- no judgement: you've been chatting to someone who has an insane body and is very sexy and then the person sends you a face pic and it really doesn't match the body, would you still meet them for sex or not? "
no they block you  |
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"Nope
For me, the face is where it's at
That's where the character is
A body is just a dressing table "
I dunno I've met some absolutely lovely people.who I'm not attracted to I dont need to be attracted to someone to like them if that makes sense |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes because I might still find them attractive.
A face not quite matching the body happens. People age. Get stressed, have accidents and injuries etc.
I've never spoken to someone with a view of meeting them for sex. I talk to people because I find them interesting and think it could be fun to meet them as a person. |
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I get this soooooo much.
Strike up a good conversation which naturally moves to swapping photos.
They like my body, arse and cock but blocked after seeing face or no reply. If they do reply I'm told good looking, amazing green eyes)but bald  ( I shave my head so neat) |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
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Unless the face literally didn't match the body, i.e. it was sent as a separate pic & you've never seen the face & body in the same picture, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.
I don't know what a "face that doesn't match the body" even means outside of the above context. |
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" I get this soooooo much.
Strike up a good conversation which naturally moves to swapping photos.
They like my body, arse and cock but blocked after seeing face or no reply. If they do reply I'm told good looking, amazing green eyes)but bald ( I shave my head so neat)"
just tell them the rock is a sex symbol or you can wear a baseball cap and go full Hollywood  |
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"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet"
I don't think it's shallow at all. If anything, I think it's insulting to meet someone you don't find attractive. You either fancy someone or you don't - and no need to apologise for that. I might like parts of a person more than the other, but I'd still need to fancy them as a whole person to meet, if that makes sense.
(And I know this is true in return - I can imagine all the conversations girlfriends will have had with their friends along the lines of "yeah, he's a bit short but I like him..." ) |
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"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet
I don't think it's shallow at all. If anything, I think it's insulting to meet someone you don't find attractive. You either fancy someone or you don't - and no need to apologise for that. I might like parts of a person more than the other, but I'd still need to fancy them as a whole person to meet, if that makes sense.
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Yes. That’s why I don’t fancy everyone. And the reason why I think they’re gorgeous and couldn’t give a shit what anyone else thinks. |
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I don't really allow myself to get in this situation.
I like to see their face early on to avoid this. Attraction is important so I wouldn't meet them for sex but I would maybe meet them socially.
Equally, I wouldn't want someone to meet me for sex if they didn't find my face or any other body part attractive  |
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"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet
I don't think it's shallow at all. If anything, I think it's insulting to meet someone you don't find attractive. You either fancy someone or you don't - and no need to apologise for that. I might like parts of a person more than the other, but I'd still need to fancy them as a whole person to meet, if that makes sense.
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Yes. That’s why I don’t fancy everyone. And the reason why I think they’re gorgeous and couldn’t give a shit what anyone else thinks. "
100%. I've always only ever fancied quite a small proportion of people - but those people I fancy don't all look alike! |
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"I think it’s a little shallow to change after seeing a face pic. If I’m into their body then I would still meet
I don't think it's shallow at all. If anything, I think it's insulting to meet someone you don't find attractive. You either fancy someone or you don't - and no need to apologise for that. I might like parts of a person more than the other, but I'd still need to fancy them as a whole person to meet, if that makes sense.
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Yes. That’s why I don’t fancy everyone. And the reason why I think they’re gorgeous and couldn’t give a shit what anyone else thinks.
100%. I've always only ever fancied quite a small proportion of people - but those people I fancy don't all look alike!"
It’s why I get into arguments about ‘types!’ I just know I fancy the ass off them, and they probably look nothing like Marilyn Monroe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I've already decided I want to have sex with them, the aesthetics of the face is largely irrelevant.
If they're really that rough there's always doggy or blindfolds  "
Yes echo this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following from another thread, I've got a question to be answered completely honestly- no judgement: you've been chatting to someone who has an insane body and is very sexy and then the person sends you a face pic and it really doesn't match the body, would you still meet them for sex or not? "
Quite simply, No,
The face is part of the body so all of it has to be appealing but that’s just the start…it’s what behind and within that swings it |
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No, this is why I always ask for a face pic first. That will always be where the attraction lies for me
I mean yesterday, got a msg, profile pic was slim body with abs... Face pic was round/chubby. I said no way that matches, he tried to deny it. He'd taken his profile pic from a gay porn site  Crazy.... |
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Honestly it would only be a no if they sent it and I genuinely didn't find them attractive at all.
I know I'm guilty sometimes building a picture in my head of what they may look like and when you see it then yes it can be very different to the image you've built. But sometimes it's not always a bad thing.
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