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By *eogeo123 OP Man
over a year ago
west lothian |
So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her..... |
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I sometimes get the feeling that when someone finds someone they know on here from the vanilla world they sort of feel entitlement to automatic dibs.
But the fact you're on here and someone else you know in the vanilla world is on here is by the by really. If you have not shared freely this knowlage in the physical world just ignore their profiles and leave them alone in the online world. |
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
Not much of a friend at all! |
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
Block both profiles.
Apply Liberal coats of eye bleach to your retina.
Never, I say again, never mention it to either of them.
Work on three principles;
You've no idea of how they live their lives.
It's none of your business anyway.
Don't be the guy who'll do anything to get his dick wet.
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Probably best to stay away, they’re here discreetly and there’s no point trying to gain anything from it as it could potentially cause a lot more harm than good. So yeah like everyone else is saying keep clear |
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
Sounds like jackanory |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
wow who needs friends like you ...  |
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By *eogeo123 OP Man
over a year ago
west lothian |
Christ...a simple dilemma that I opened for xomment....didn't expecta character assisination and private messages
This is a forum to bounce this stuff around and get opinions
Pls don't judge...I'm just chatting lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ...a simple dilemma that I opened for xomment....didn't expecta character assisination and private messages
This is a forum to bounce this stuff around and get opinions
Pls don't judge...I'm just chatting lol"
It’s not a dilemma if you’re in any way a decent friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ...a simple dilemma that I opened for xomment....didn't expecta character assisination and private messages
This is a forum to bounce this stuff around and get opinions
Pls don't judge...I'm just chatting lol"
A simple dilemma? - yep still off men. |
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"Christ...a simple dilemma that I opened for xomment....
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If that's her name then dial Emma. 
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Don't tell him that, I'll get a sodding message from him"
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Don't worry, there's another 1,972 Emmas before you. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ...a simple dilemma that I opened for xomment....
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If that's her name then dial Emma.
Don't tell him that, I'll get a sodding message from him"
*fires off a quick FAF before blocks go out*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK seems I've hit a nerve
I won't contact either
Never really intended to as it would be messy and don't want to lose or change friendships
So the morality police can all stand down ?? "
Last month you posted that you had sucked off a family member at a family gathering, your boundaries appear quite flexible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never really intended to as it would be messy and don't want to lose or change friendships
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Clearly that was not your intention. You seemed prepared to sacrifice a friendship (if there ever really was a friend) for a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK seems I've hit a nerve
I won't contact either
Never really intended to as it would be messy and don't want to lose or change friendships
So the morality police can all stand down ??
Last month you posted that you had sucked off a family member at a family gathering, your boundaries appear quite flexible."
Ahh gotta love that green tick of clarity! Lol |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
Do you need the drum kit from Eastenders to play, or do you prefer the dump tea dump tea dump.....from The archers?
Either way, this will blow up and you will run the risk of being the scapegoat. |
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
Errr why? Fuck no... Run away. Don't even think of it. Consequences for everyone involved. Fuck someone else. |
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I'm sorry but I really don't agree with some of the comments here. Hamilton was overplayed, lacklustre and underwhelming. A relatively ok'ish adaptation presented in some cacophony of hip-hop trash. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
Simple, block them both it's not your business, go Darwin and let nature take it's course |
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By *adboisinghMan
over a year ago
New York, Heathrow Villages |
Use the (right) head and keep out of it.
"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
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"Remind me never to share a thought on here FFS !
Accusations are rife
Keyboard bully warriors with such high morals....(on here lol)"
Are you sure it was "only a thought?"
Nobody is bullying you.
Many are questioning your morals, rightly so IMHO, however you were the one who asked the question.
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"  do you think there will be a book?
would it be a best seller?
you reckon they would heavily edit parts for the film?
where can i get popcorn?? "
Are you standing for election tomorrow as a Tory candidate? That's election not erection.  |
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I'm sure if you have recognised the wife, he has too.
How do you know they haven't joined just to try and spice stuff up and neglected to inform you?
Stay out of it, you don't know enough information, block the pair of them and forget about it |
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By *essTTWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
You sound like a great friend |
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" do you think there will be a book?
would it be a best seller?
you reckon they would heavily edit parts for the film?
where can i get popcorn??
Are you standing for election tomorrow as a Tory candidate? That's election not erection. "
oh ! i got the wrong memo!! |
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"Remind me never to share a thought on here FFS !
Accusations are rife
Keyboard bully warriors with such high morals....(on here lol)"
What did you expect, that we just agreed with you?
You do know we have our own perspectives, yes? |
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By *essTTWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Remind me never to share a thought on here FFS !
Accusations are rife
Keyboard bully warriors with such high morals....(on here lol)"
You're asking if it's OK to try and have sex with your friends wife, what kind of reaction did you think you were going to get?
Genuinely curious |
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
don’t be a shit friend |
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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her..... don’t be a shit friend "
I think he's gone (way) beyond beyond the shit friend stage. |
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her..... don’t be a shit friend
I think he's gone (way) beyond beyond the shit friend stage."
yeah |
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
Some friend you are if you'd even entertain the idea of an affair with your friends wife ! |
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This would be a total car crash
We can all see it happening op.
Do you really want to be the actual reason for all their drama and hassle it would bring to your doorstep.
As they are a friend I'm assuming
you will be part of a mutual friendship group just imagine the fallout.
So ask yourself would it be really worth it for a flirt and quickie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remind me never to share a thought on here FFS !
Accusations are rife
Keyboard bully warriors with such high morals....(on here lol)"
I guess that was a lesson learned, never share a like this in a public forum you might get opinions that don’t align with yours!!
Who would have thought it?
Must be new to all this techno thing a ma bobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
Is the fantasy forum? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, the drama in here!!"
It’s not drama it’s a single bloke with a furtive imagination with too much time on his hands between his mum making his tea ( not dinner) and his hot chocolate before bedtime! |
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By *eogeo123 OP Man 43 weeks ago
west lothian |
"Oh, the drama in here!!
It’s not drama it’s a single bloke with a furtive imagination with too much time on his hands between his mum making his tea ( not dinner) and his hot chocolate before bedtime! "
Wrong .....but who cares |
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"So it's actually worse.
I saw my friend on here (male) and he's down as bicurious. I'm not going to contact him as there's nothing there foe me. BUT I am almost certain in another profile, definitunknown to him, is his wife.....
They don't play and she is very straight up and I know their sex life ain't great. So my dilemma is whether to try an and flirt with her and maybe meet if she clicks it's me....
It would be hot as fk to have an affair with her....."
He's your friend isn't he ? |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Any scope for black mail?
Just incase he's poked up.
We could share it, I'd spend my half on one of those robot lawnmowers and a big bad of beef flavoured hula hoops.
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"Any updates, OP? Has anything changed in the last 15 weeks? What did you decide to do?
Yeah I feel like I need to know…."
It’s like some bizarre episode of Eastenders. Will he? Won’t he? Does she? Should he? Might they? Shall I? |
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"Any updates, OP? Has anything changed in the last 15 weeks? What did you decide to do?
Yeah I feel like I need to know….
It’s like some bizarre episode of Eastenders. Will he? Won’t he? Does she? Should he? Might they? Shall I? "
It is just like that 😂 I recon he sent a message and she blocked him straight away, without even knowing who he was |
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By *eogeo123 OP Man 42 weeks ago
west lothian |
"Any updates, OP? Has anything changed in the last 15 weeks? What did you decide to do?
Yeah I feel like I need to know….
It’s like some bizarre episode of Eastenders. Will he? Won’t he? Does she? Should he? Might they? Shall I?
It is just like that 😂 I recon he sent a message and she blocked him straight away, without even knowing who he was"
So OP here again.
I've taken the advice, even the mocking and virtuous ones, and decided to ignore it all for now |
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By *eogeo123 OP Man 42 weeks ago
west lothian |
"Any updates, OP? Has anything changed in the last 15 weeks? What did you decide to do?
Yeah I feel like I need to know….
It’s like some bizarre episode of Eastenders. Will he? Won’t he? Does she? Should he? Might they? Shall I?
It is just like that 😂 I recon he sent a message and she blocked him straight away, without even knowing who he was"
So OP here again.
I've taken the advice, even the mocking and virtuous ones, and decided to ignore it all for now |
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"Any updates, OP? Has anything changed in the last 15 weeks? What did you decide to do?
Yeah I feel like I need to know….
It’s like some bizarre episode of Eastenders. Will he? Won’t he? Does she? Should he? Might they? Shall I?
It is just like that 😂 I recon he sent a message and she blocked him straight away, without even knowing who he was
So OP here again.
I've taken the advice, even the mocking and virtuous ones, and decided to ignore it all for now"
I think that is a good move! |
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