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By (user no longer on site) OP    37 weeks ago

So without wanting to open the whole bi and bi curious box can a man look at a man or a woman at a woman and think they are attractive or good looking without feeling any sexual attraction

I definitely can look at another man and think he has a good body or good dress sense that suits his figure

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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago

Yes I would say so

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By *enk15Man 37 weeks ago

Evesham

Yes. I think a few men are fit as fuck, I have no interest in sexing them up however.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 37 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Ask it another way..could a gay or lesbian person look at the opposite sex and think they’re attractive, without being sexually attached?

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By *r.ZeusMan 37 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

Yeah I can admire a guy for their physique.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    37 weeks ago


"Yeah I can admire a guy for their physique. "

I think admire is a better word than attraction. Thank you

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 37 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes of course, I know if a blokes good looking and I've zero sexual attraction to blokes.

Mrs

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man 37 weeks ago

London

Of course they can - no point in getting hung up about it. Some men are physically attractive or have a charisma for want of a better word.

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By *issmorganWoman 37 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, I'm straight, but can appreciate some woman are beautiful.

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By *vaRoseWoman 37 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Yes absolutely. I can look at other ladies and think they’re beautiful without wanting to sleep with them

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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago

Yes. I think plenty of men are attractive or handsome. I’m not sexually interested in men at all.

I think it is also about the ideas around beauty and desirability that we consume and so we understand. So I have consumed my entire life different ideas and ideals of what attractive men look like. Of course I can see someone and decide whether they are or not.

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By *eroLondonMan 37 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"Yes. I think a few men are fit as fuck, I have no interest in sexing them up however."

Agreed.

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By *icecouple561Couple 37 weeks ago
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East Sussex

I can appreciate beauty without sexual attraction

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 37 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I fairly recently had a very odd moment on this very subject.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    37 weeks ago


"I fairly recently had a very odd moment on this very subject. "

Now you have to divulge…well only if you want to

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 37 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London


"I fairly recently had a very odd moment on this very subject.

Now you have to divulge…well only if you want to "

Nothing deeply personal. Just odd. Or interesting. To me.

Sometimes I really fancy a drag queen. The really fishy type. As much as I love drag I know of course it’s a guy. And that guy can be insanely attractive. One such drag queen a while ago came out as trans. At that point it was simply a label switch.

And I instantaneously stopped finding them attractive.

Not because they declared themselves trans, but because they no longer identified male. Suddenly the gender ambiguity of the drag was lost and in my head he became a she. And I lost my interest in that moment.

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By *ryton 123TV/TS 37 weeks ago

Chatham

I'm bi curious, love to wank and suck a cock. But not attracted to men whatsoever.

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By *rHotNottsMan 37 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not really , it’s like nothing registers but if I know they are gay it’s different , kinda empathy I can understand why another gay man would find them hot or fit

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By *electableicecreamMan 37 weeks ago

The West

Yes and I find it interesting that a guy I might point out as attractive might not be attractive at all to someone standing beside me.

And in the same way I've had friends say a guy is super hot and I just don't see it at all.

So it would seem that straight as I am, I have a type.

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By * and R cple4Couple 37 weeks ago

swansea

I can definitely look at a woman and think she's very attractive and like her dress sense etc without actually wanting to rip her knickers off .

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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago

There’s loads of bloke I think are attractive. It doesn’t mean I want to gobble their ballsack.

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By *avexxMan 37 weeks ago

cheshire

yes defo i can admire a guy with a good physique and good dress sense

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By *aitonelMan 37 weeks ago

Liverpool


"There’s loads of bloke I think are attractive. It doesn’t mean I want to gobble their ballsack."

You definitely would!

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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago


"There’s loads of bloke I think are attractive. It doesn’t mean I want to gobble their ballsack.

You definitely would! "

It would have to be a pretty ballsack.

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By *aizyWoman 37 weeks ago

west midlands

Of course, I find plenty of women attractive, nothing sexual about it.

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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago


"Of course, I find plenty of women attractive, nothing sexual about it."

^ fab straight

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By *mmaleiaWoman 37 weeks ago

Trowbridge

There’s a lot of hot women about, I’m often looking at women’s profiles, & I often ask myself why don’t I like the Veejayjay!!!! 😩😩😩😩

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By *inger_SnapWoman 37 weeks ago

Hampshire

Yes of course they can

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By *issolvedOrdersMan 37 weeks ago

Bristol

Absolutely! Anyone can appreciate whether someone of the same sex is physically attractive regardless of desire

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By *AYENCouple 37 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I can often think a man to be incredibly attractive, Jamie Foxx and the guy in the blue Range Rover advert to name a couple of examples, but I have absolutely zero sexual attraction to men - not even during my pre/post puberty phase when it's often said it's not unusual to go through varying stages of sexual discovery.

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By *aizyWoman 37 weeks ago

west midlands


"Of course, I find plenty of women attractive, nothing sexual about it.

^ fab straight "

Got me, sexy lady

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By *ongAndThick123Man 37 weeks ago

Shrewsbury


"So without wanting to open the whole bi and bi curious box can a man look at a man or a woman at a woman and think they are attractive or good looking without feeling any sexual attraction

I definitely can look at another man and think he has a good body or good dress sense that suits his figure

"

Yes definitely. I do it all of the time. I mean, I’m bi so I like men and women - but I can totally see someone and think they’re attentive. Whilst at the same time have no desire to sleep with them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 37 weeks ago

Central

Definitely. It's part of humans being social, learning animals.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 37 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"So without wanting to open the whole bi and bi curious box can a man look at a man or a woman at a woman and think they are attractive or good looking without feeling any sexual attraction

I definitely can look at another man and think he has a good body or good dress sense that suits his figure

"

Of course. It’s appreciating them for being beautiful 😘

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By *ongAndThick123Man 37 weeks ago

Shrewsbury


"So without wanting to open the whole bi and bi curious box can a man look at a man or a woman at a woman and think they are attractive or good looking without feeling any sexual attraction

I definitely can look at another man and think he has a good body or good dress sense that suits his figure

Yes definitely. I do it all of the time. I mean, I’m bi so I like men and women - but I can totally see someone and think they’re attentive. Whilst at the same time have no desire to sleep with them "

Autocorrect *attractive

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By *allipygousMan 37 weeks ago

Leicester


"I fairly recently had a very odd moment on this very subject.

Now you have to divulge…well only if you want to

Nothing deeply personal. Just odd. Or interesting. To me.

Sometimes I really fancy a drag queen. The really fishy type. As much as I love drag I know of course it’s a guy. And that guy can be insanely attractive. One such drag queen a while ago came out as trans. At that point it was simply a label switch.

And I instantaneously stopped finding them attractive.

Not because they declared themselves trans, but because they no longer identified male. Suddenly the gender ambiguity of the drag was lost and in my head he became a she. And I lost my interest in that moment.

"

I totally get what you're saying, Glow. I never want to see a transvestite I find attractive in man-mode because if I do and know who it is then any attraction will just vanish and not come back, no matter what.

And to answer the OP's question, yes, a man can think another man is attractive and have no sexual attraction to him. I do it all the time.

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