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Do you like the way you look?
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Do you have confidence in your looks? I'm trying to be more comfortable in mine and less harsh on myseld but I just wish I could change my face sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Yes, i'm essence. |
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Yes, i am (m half).
Wasn't always, used to consider myself an ugly bugger but now, don't think i am bad looking, don't think about style, just wear what i like and get more compliments the older i get xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I'd change a few things, a fair few actually.
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I don't think I'm anything special, but I've come to accept something about my appearance must work, or else I wouldn't get laid. Although I have a feeling personality goes a long way in that department |
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Is hesitate to say confident but I deal with what I have, some others will like me, some won't, such is life. |
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Tbh the only thing I'd change are my tits, they could do with some reinflation from my slimming down. Maybe that's a 50th birthday pressie option  |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Yes overall but hey we are all getting older Day by day |
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By *ruebameMan 31 weeks ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
Op everyone is individual we all have people that like us just how we are i have a mindset of you either like me or you don't I really don't care what other's think I'm comfortable in my own body and wouldn't change any part of it to please other's not even my 6"s if someone i like Is looking for that 12" beast then that's there preference  |
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Do I like the way I look? I don’t know, I’ve never given it much thought. I don’t have a much awareness of how I look in day to day life. Let me go get a mirror… x |
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Could do with losing a little dad bod but overall happy how I've turned out for my age. |
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No, not at the moment, but I'm working on it.
Mrs |
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By *aralluWoman 31 weeks ago
Near Newport |
Weirdly, I’m much more confident (to a point) in my sex life persona than I am in my every day persona! Obviously there’s a lot I’d love to change, but I just accept now that I’m getting older and it’s not as easy to do lol
My FWB thinks I’m hot so that’s all that matters! |
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By *EAT..85Woman 31 weeks ago
Nottingham |
Yes.
I'm very lucky that I'm naturally pretty. I would be prettier if I lost some weight though, as currently my cheek bones and jaw line are disappearing. That's on me though. |
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By *EAT..85Woman 31 weeks ago
Nottingham |
"Op everyone is individual we all have people that like us just how we are i have a mindset of you either like me or you don't I really don't care what other's think I'm comfortable in my own body and wouldn't change any part of it to please other's not even my 6"s if someone i like Is looking for that 12" beast then that's there preference "
Also this. If people don't like you for who you are, they can fuck right off. I'm generally attracted to odd looking men, but it's their personality I fall for. Fab perusing rarely works for me. I get drawn in by torsos and they're often just bellends in personality  |
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Naw . I'm old , short(5'8")and as ugly as sin ...face pic on request (for your dart board) . |
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When I was younger I hated the way I looked, big nose, teeth not the best etc, now I’m older I have come to think I’ve actually aged not too bad, I’m no Brad Pitt but I’m kinda comfortable with who I am and how I look |
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"As a whole. No. "
I’ve had a sneaky peek at your profile and I think you look bloody great 😁 |
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By *igjonny090Man 31 weeks ago
blackpool and Manchester |
I don’t like the way I look, I’m trying to lose weight and be better but it’s a slow process and so I’m learning to love myself for what I am not what I’m not |
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"Yes.
I'm very lucky that I'm naturally pretty. I would be prettier if I lost some weight though, as currently my cheek bones and jaw line are disappearing. That's on me though. "
I think you look great just the way you are 😁 |
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"Do you have confidence in your looks? I'm trying to be more comfortable in mine and less harsh on myseld but I just wish I could change my face sometimes"
No, not really. I'm trying though. |
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By *mf123Man 31 weeks ago
with one foot out the door |
Confidence yes about 20% less than a few years ago but thats no bad thing but its just age but then seems chicks dig grey faced baldies |
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I'm a naturist, I'm very happy with my naked self. When I'm dressed smartly (which is most of the time), I feel very confident. Dressed in scruffs for DIY, I feel very relaxed and happy and when I'm in my cycling Lycra (yes, I'm a MAMIL), I'm very happy but I don't think it suits me that much; I have been told (many times) that it shows off my thighs - I do have great thighs  |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I am generally confident that I’m attractive but today I feel so ugly and so pissed off at myself for it. |
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"I'm a naturist, I'm very happy with my naked self. When I'm dressed smartly (which is most of the time), I feel very confident. Dressed in scruffs for DIY, I feel very relaxed and happy and when I'm in my cycling Lycra (yes, I'm a MAMIL), I'm very happy but I don't think it suits me that much; I have been told (many times) that it shows off my thighs - I do have great thighs "
I forgot to add:
OP, wear the clothes that help you feel good even if they maybe out of place for the occasion; I often wear my three piece suit to work when everyone else is dressed semi-cassual, I feel that lifts me and gives me an added confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"I am generally confident that I’m attractive but today I feel so ugly and so pissed off at myself for it. "
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I've not broke any mirrors so far 🤞🤞🤣🤣 so I'm not that bad.
Experienced a number of ladies over the last year who think I'm attractive. So I'm okay with how I look😊 after all they've seen something they like haha
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Sometimes yes.
Sometimes no. |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 31 weeks ago
pink panther territory |
I'd say mostly, with age comes confidence and I don't give a fck attitude |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Generally yes x |
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By *enk15Man 31 weeks ago
Evesham |
Depends which mirror I've looked in... some of them are unforgiving. |
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I’ve not even looked in a mirror today yet so I’m not sure |
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"I'd say mostly, with age comes confidence and I don't give a fck attitude "
This ^ for me too. |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 31 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
My skin has aged well (thank you olive skin) so that’s good. Overall I often think meh but work with what I’ve got. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 31 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
Most of the time I’m comfortable and confident in my skin. Of course I have bits I’d change if I could wave a magic wand but generally I’m ok |
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can I have a complete overhaul please . |
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No, absolutely not. I (Mrs) have no confidence in my appearance and there's so much I wish I had the money to change |
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I like the way I look.
I'm far from perfect. There's loose skin from weight loss, small tits, my eyes should be bigger, visible veins and all sorts of little bits I don't like.
But.
Overall.
I'm pretty fucking hot 💜 |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 31 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
Meh. Not really. 🙄 |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I think I like the way I look
Always have to have a bit of confidence in yourself |
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By *adKMan 31 weeks ago
Bradford |
Confidence at a low, i just end up fabbing pictures instead. Have a perv and move on. |
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Having now looked in a mirror
Handsome as always |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I used to have real body hangups.
However, I look how I look and that's not going to change. I know I'm not Adonis and accept that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. But I try to make the most of what I've got and, so far, my looks themselves haven't been a problem despite my own doubt about my self-image holding me back.
As I've got older however I've learned to feel comfortable in my own skin more and care less what others think.
But the struggle is real my friend, and more often than not, it's mostly down to the bullshit story you keep telling yourself.
But here's the thing about confidence, it's one of the only things in life that faking it helps. If you fake confidence then good things happen because you seem more confident (and we all know that'll dampen many a gusset), and the more good things happen, the more confident you feel...
This morning's personal development was brought to you by my fifth cup of coffee and the number I just jotted down on the toilet wall.  |
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"Do you have confidence in your looks? I'm trying to be more comfortable in mine and less harsh on myseld but I just wish I could change my face sometimes"
This is a very difficult question  |
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I play the hand I've been dealt. |
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I've lost 6 stone and confidence is up |
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"I like the way I look.
I'm far from perfect. There's loose skin from weight loss, small tits, my eyes should be bigger, visible veins and all sorts of little bits I don't like.
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Overall.
I'm pretty fucking hot 💜"
You certainly are 😁 |
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I've recently lost 8 stone and actually really struggling with the changes to my body. It doesn't help that I have had so many messages from guys on here telling me how unattractive I am now that I'm slimmer than I was. |
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"I've recently lost 8 stone and actually really struggling with the changes to my body. It doesn't help that I have had so many messages from guys on here telling me how unattractive I am now that I'm slimmer than I was. "
Don’t listen to them, you look amazing |
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I'm struggling as I lose weight.. I was 26 stone at one point ( was probably bigger but didn't get on the scales)
Now just over 19 and dropping ( Christmas / birthday period is affecting this currently...
But as I lose weight I feel less confident in myself.. but i am happy with who I am and my looks. Just less confident |
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"I'm struggling as I lose weight.. I was 26 stone at one point ( was probably bigger but didn't get on the scales)
Now just over 19 and dropping ( Christmas / birthday period is affecting this currently...
But as I lose weight I feel less confident in myself.. but i am happy with who I am and my looks. Just less confident "
Well done on your weight loss you look amazing, how did you lose so much ? |
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Most days yes, I’m not ruling out a few future minor changes to assist aging disgracefully though. |
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Didn’t like tits… bought new tits… he didn’t like his smile, bought nashers…
Apart from that… love yourself! |
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Most of the time yes, doesn't take much to make me look a bit more decent... God bless mascara and lipstick! |
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"I'm struggling as I lose weight.. I was 26 stone at one point ( was probably bigger but didn't get on the scales)
Now just over 19 and dropping ( Christmas / birthday period is affecting this currently...
But as I lose weight I feel less confident in myself.. but i am happy with who I am and my looks. Just less confident "
Exactly this. I thought I'd feel so confident with weight loss but loose skin etc is an issue I didn't even think about. Congratulations on your weight loss, you've done really well. I guess our brains have to catch up when a significant amount is lost. I was 25 stone but now 16 and it sucks that I now look in the mirror and hate myself for entirely different reasons. |
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I am what I am. I can’t change my looks so what is there to get stressed over? |
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"I'm struggling as I lose weight.. I was 26 stone at one point ( was probably bigger but didn't get on the scales)
Now just over 19 and dropping ( Christmas / birthday period is affecting this currently...
But as I lose weight I feel less confident in myself.. but i am happy with who I am and my looks. Just less confident
Exactly this. I thought I'd feel so confident with weight loss but loose skin etc is an issue I didn't even think about. Congratulations on your weight loss, you've done really well. I guess our brains have to catch up when a significant amount is lost. I was 25 stone but now 16 and it sucks that I now look in the mirror and hate myself for entirely different reasons. "
congratulations too on your loss... I think subconsciously mine is as i know I'm already the slimmest lady Mr has dated.... and I have a good load more to go yet.. I know that he won't leave me or not find me sexy as I lose weight but my silly little subconscious hasn't quite got the memo yet x |
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Im a 6/10 in real life but I'm a solid 9.7 on here! 😂 |
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"Im a 6/10 in real life but I'm a solid 9.7 on here! 😂"
Lol same |
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No, since I became a dad and moved too far away from work to continue the daily cycle commute, I've put a couple of stone on. I was reasonably secure in my appearance when I was in shape, but now I know there's work that needs doing and I just don't have the time or the energy to do it. |
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Growing older can be a challenge to confidence in the way you look. It takes a fairly good level of realistic self assessment and acceptance of your changing body. |
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"Growing older can be a challenge to confidence in the way you look. It takes a fairly good level of realistic self assessment and acceptance of your changing body."
This is was relatively happy, then I decided to loose a bit of weight and it seems my face has aged a lot quickly. It's probably less fat filling out the wrinkles but it's been challenging to accept nonetheless |
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By *sWyldWoman 31 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Not confident at all. I envy people who are |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I haven’t made anyone puke or run away in terror for a while so i will settle for that |
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"Not confident at all. I envy people who are "
You look fantastic in your pics, it’s difficult if you do lack that self confidence, I’m sure there have been plenty of people who have told you how gorgeous you look |
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By *sWyldWoman 31 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
"Not confident at all. I envy people who are
You look fantastic in your pics, it’s difficult if you do lack that self confidence, I’m sure there have been plenty of people who have told you how gorgeous you look "
It's meaningless when you can't see it in yourself |
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In short... Absolutely not.
~ Mrs. DS |
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"Growing older can be a challenge to confidence in the way you look. It takes a fairly good level of realistic self assessment and acceptance of your changing body.
This is was relatively happy, then I decided to loose a bit of weight and it seems my face has aged a lot quickly. It's probably less fat filling out the wrinkles but it's been challenging to accept nonetheless "
It's difficult in the face of advertising and the constant pressure applied to look younger than you actually are. Some of the most beautiful people are old and look it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Why would you want to look younger than you are ? |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Meh, I don't look enough to care haha |
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Nope and my Mrs agrees!!! Charming 😣😣😣 |
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By *eliWoman 31 weeks ago
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Increasingly so. It's baby steps and sure, I'm fat and my body is a work in progress. I'm working on it. But at the same time... I like my face. My chaotic hair. I've spent so long thinking I can only enjoy certain things, do things when I get down to an acceptable weight.
And I've realised that's bollocks. I'm not perfect. But I don't hate the way I look (most of the time). I like seeing my features changing and I think being forty in a few years will really suit me. |
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"Do you have confidence in your looks? I'm trying to be more comfortable in mine and less harsh on myseld but I just wish I could change my face sometimes"
Nope not at all for me. |
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I'm liking the reflection in my mirror. This is something I didn't think I would ever say about myself and it's been a long time coming.
I've dropped quite a bit of weight, its fairly toned now, done lots of internal work/growth on myself, enjoying life and doing things for myself.
Happy and contented |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I love the way I look daily. In my messy hair, no makeup stage of the day just as much as when I’m wearing makeup, and the hottest LBD turning heads.
I feel the most confident I’ve felt over the last several months. I spend more days with my wild tendril-like hair, zero makeup, and I look at myself and believe I’m hot, sexy, desirable and incredible too. |
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I want to get more toned and get my fitness back |
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By *avexxMan 31 weeks ago
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just looked in the mirror shit i thought it was halloween again,, kidding im handsome |
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Not particularly, but I don't hate it either. However there are times when I feel amazing, I just try and have more of those times! Certain clothes bring out the best in me, and I usually feel loads better after working out too! |
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I'm confident about who I am as a person, and my views on the world etc,
But the way I look? Nope I'm probably about a 6, if I'm done up, my face is fairly adverage looking
my body has had a hard life and it shows, childbearing was most unforgiving on me!
But I'm changing the shape of my body with the help of working out and diet etc, so I'm hoping I'll feel more of a 8/9 in time |
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By *enelope2UWoman 31 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
Hate my stomach.. love everything else if me.. so I just work with it.. it's always nice to be with someone who appreciates my flaw when I dont. |
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By *teve_8Man 31 weeks ago
North East |
I’m ok I guess. With the aid of a bit Botox now and then. |
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Mostly I am happy but after my nightshifts I know I look like death warmed up. |
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I get told I'm pretty a lot and I like my face. I'm not big headed at all but I can see I'm attractive. I like my figure more now I've lost weight but still coming to terms with my imperfections. So in summary, I like how I look overall x
We all have our insecurities, no one is perfect. We prefer real people with real bodies over fake overly altered bodies x
Mrs x |
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"Not confident at all. I envy people who are
You look fantastic in your pics, it’s difficult if you do lack that self confidence, I’m sure there have been plenty of people who have told you how gorgeous you look
It's meaningless when you can't see it in yourself "
It is difficult but you can be confident in yourself trust me, I was like you used to get picked on about the size of nose and other things, but eventually I decided to not bother about what was said, I’m me and if you don’t like me for what I am then just don’t speak to me |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I think I look like my personality if that makes sense. Well, to me it makes sense.
I've always struggled and never felt comfortable in my skin or the way I look. It's taken a huge amount of love and years for me feel, I'm actually ok. That whole I'm attractive thing is for someone else to feel. I just know some days I feel good, sexy and confident and others not so much. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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From the neck down kind of yes apart from never feeling big enough but most serious gym goers get reverse anorexia haha
From the neck up no |
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"Weirdly, I’m much more confident (to a point) in my sex life persona than I am in my every day persona! Obviously there’s a lot I’d love to change, but I just accept now that I’m getting older and it’s not as easy to do lol
My FWB thinks I’m hot so that’s all that matters!"
don't change a thing your beautiful |
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"Yes.
I'm very lucky that I'm naturally pretty. I would be prettier if I lost some weight though, as currently my cheek bones and jaw line are disappearing. That's on me though. "
Yes you arr pretty and no you dont need to loose weight |
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"As a whole. No. "
why your a good looking woman
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No I cannot stand anything about myself |
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By *r.ZeusMan 31 weeks ago
Basgiath War College |
I do work hard for the way I look and there are parts I would change if I could use a magic wand. But I am overall happy with the way I look. |
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By *aizyWoman 31 weeks ago
west midlands |
I'd say I am content with the way I look, I have got to a place in my life where I am what I am and I'm fine with it. Although saying that, I haven't been sleeping properly just lately so I am looking tired I'm not liking that. |
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By *dawkesMan 31 weeks ago
Ovingham |
I'm not really vain but think I carry my age quite well 💋💋 |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Generally, yes. |
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Eh. I'm indifferent.
Could I be closer to better looking? Yes. But I've made peace with those demons and just accepted things. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Neither here not there I guess as I don't really think or worry about it.
Jay |
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By *avexxMan 31 weeks ago
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This thread has been a really interesting read for me and has made me think.
Theres lots i would change if i could do so at the snap of a finger, but i find im becoming more comfortable with myself over the last few years. Im pretty happy with how im aging so far, i think i look younger than i should for my age. I would love to be slimmer, especially my tummy and that 2nd chin, but i do enjoy the softness of my body. I spent so much of my life feeling self concious about my imperfections, and thats just exhausting. Im finding it so freeing to be able to start to just relax |
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By *avexxMan 31 weeks ago
cheshire |
yes im happy with the way i look for my age,, but age does catch up with you |
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As a girl yes definitely, as a guy not so much... |
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"Do you have confidence in your looks? I'm trying to be more comfortable in mine and less harsh on myseld but I just wish I could change my face sometimes"
There are bits I would change in regards to my whole appearance.
Yes bigger boobs would be great, longer legs and losing weight all over too. Some I can't do anything about, but others I just can't be bothered to deal with right now. When I feel up to it, I'll start working again on loosing weight and toning up a bit, but there's no rush.
In general though I'm really happy with my life at the moment. My appearance and quiet discontent with it at the moment aren't as important as other things. When that changes, I can work on that 😊 |
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I used to be soooo good looking. My mrs has shown me pics from 25 years ago, and I was!!
Now, my hair has gone, my face is wrinkly, and I hate it.
I used to be fancied by lots of women, now, nothing. Even the wife doesn't want me sexually.
Yeah yeah, get the world's smallest violin out!! |
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I'm confident that I look the way I look.
That's about as far as it goes. |
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"I'd change a few things, a fair few actually.
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why would you want to change anything |
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Not massively no, I’ve had multiple kids, lost weight, gained weight etc… I’m hitting fast to 40..
but I’m starting to regain my confidence slowly, hitting the “I’m actually not horrid… if someone else don’t like it, that’s their problem” phase 🤷🏻♀️😂
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I feel i blossomed when I hit my 40s, but most of that can be be attributed to being more self assured and therefore more confident... There is nothing more attractive than confidence and it shines through in everything you do...
... So wear what you have with pride x |
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By *agic.MMan 31 weeks ago
Orpington |
Depends on the day...today - FUCK YEAH...and tomorrow most likely FUCK YEAH too |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Not massively no, I’ve had multiple kids, lost weight, gained weight etc… I’m hitting fast to 40..
but I’m starting to regain my confidence slowly, hitting the “I’m actually not horrid… if someone else don’t like it, that’s their problem” phase 🤷🏻♀️😂
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Magic number is 40!
They say life starts at.... well I can certainly say I do much more in the last 2 years but my body is screaming at me to stop!
I guess you start appreciating how quickly time passes and stop worrying about what others may think.
Live your life all and 🖕 to what anyone thinks.
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At this point I don't care. The meat case is the least important part of me |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Some days I think I look good, some days I think I look very fat and hate myself.
Gotta love body dismorpha |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Mostly, no, I don't, hit 40 and felt great and then started to lose my hair and it all went downhill, but I know it doesn't define me as a person.
The odd day when you dress up sharp and look good, and you get that boost then yes i feel great. |
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By *avexxMan 31 weeks ago
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i do like the way i look for sure.. i still look that male model i was years ago |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Used to be happy with everything from the neck down but now I can't think of anything I'd say I'm happy with |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Mostly, no, I don't, hit 40 and felt great and then started to lose my hair and it all went downhill, but I know it doesn't define me as a person.
The odd day when you dress up sharp and look good, and you get that boost then yes i feel great."
Embrace it.
I started losing mine in my late 20s. Very slowly my hair got thinner and thinner.
Doesn't seem to bother many people TBH.
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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No not at all 😔 |
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I have a very unique look that draws a lot of attention
So I am happy in how i look |
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By *stwo80Couple 31 weeks ago
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Suppose I would change my height if it was possible(yeah I do know it's not) but it's never stopped me doing anything in practice. |
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Not particularly but I'm also too lazy to do anything about it lol |
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Did have....
Been knocked down a bit recently so now don't know why anyone would even consider me anymore? |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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"Did have....
Been knocked down a bit recently so now don't know why anyone would even consider me anymore?"
Remember it is a reflection of themselves not you!
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"Do you have confidence in your looks? I'm trying to be more comfortable in mine and less harsh on myseld but I just wish I could change my face sometimes
This is a very difficult question "
To answer the very difficult question. I do, and I don't.
I do believe the people who say they find me attractive. There are a select few who I believe, anyway.
My face is alright, I have nice eyes and clear skin but it's often bright red, which I hate. I think my short hair suits me and I like that.
My boobs are saggy but can be made to look decent with some kind of garment. I liked (past tense) my shoulders and arms but the recent period of enforced lack of gym and physical wheelchairing has seen my muscles fade. I want them back!
I hate myself from the waist down. It's a total car crash. Fat, saggy and largely malfunctional.
As I write, my left (worse) lower leg, ankle and foot are hugely swollen and bizarre colours of red and purple. My feet look awful. I can't bear the pain required to shave my legs or bikini line and I don't like how that looks either and am self conscious of people judging me. After all, my legs are front and centre.
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Generally happy, I’m not having plastic surgery lol so crack on and be happy is my motto
Fab could easily make you assume you hit every branch of the ugly tree when you fell out of it as a baby |
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It worked alright for Brian Glover, so I'm stuck with heavy set, baldy Yorkie. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Short answer no |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Yeh |
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By *YDB75Man 31 weeks ago
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Sometimes….then i pass a mirror |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Mostly, no, I don't, hit 40 and felt great and then started to lose my hair and it all went downhill, but I know it doesn't define me as a person.
The odd day when you dress up sharp and look good, and you get that boost then yes i feel great.
Embrace it.
I started losing mine in my late 20s. Very slowly my hair got thinner and thinner.
Doesn't seem to bother many people TBH.
Jay"
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Alot of the time no i don't there will be the odd time i will take a pic for hubby or he will take one of me and think ok i actually look good in that but not very often.
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 30 weeks ago
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Glam mode - yes, although I wish my facial features were a lot more feminine  |
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As I've just said in another thread, I always thought I was invisible to women but at the same time never really gave much thought to how I looked.
I'm approaching my 60th birthday and it's only in the last 10 years that I've considered my looks and to answer the question, yes I am happy with how I look.
I'm far from perfect and there are things I would change if I could but to be the age I am now and take pleasure in surprising others who think I am in my 40s is definitely a positive. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Yep am happy rugged handsome
has been said to me yep am happy with that .
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As I have got older I am slowly loosing my self confidence in my appearance. Some 1 lied to me a few years ago and told me that "DAD BODS" is what women want.
Now I just say I am built for comfort rather than speed haha |
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By *avexxMan 30 weeks ago
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i bloody well do naked or dressed |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I’m comfortable.
Bodywise.
I’m still just learning to like my face |
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Absolutely not I'm just too cuddly |
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I am more comfortable than I was. It must be the fact that people say 👋 |
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By *cedGemWoman 30 weeks ago
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"Do you have confidence in your looks? I'm trying to be more comfortable in mine and less harsh on myseld but I just wish I could change my face sometimes"
Not particularly but you have to make the best of what you've got |
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By *avexxMan 30 weeks ago
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im happy with my body just needs a younger mans head sticking on it |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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No I don’t like the way I look, I fake confidence and I shudder at compliments |
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Nope I don’t, I hate the way I look, zero confidence - L |
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By *ucka39Man 30 weeks ago
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I was stuck with it so it just grew on me 😂 not complaining |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I think I’m alright but I don’t think people in here think I am 😂🤷♂️ |
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Ye I’m fine with it, could lose a cpl of ponds around my love handles but I’m comfortable with em |
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I'm so uncomfortable in myself. Up until 5 years ago l was really fit, then the good old menopause hit me really hard. I'm hoping this new year to be firmer with myself and get a good walking routine going again. |
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Used to be insecure about myself but I'm fine now |
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Lost a fair bit of weight but not sure about how I feel I look right now, things I like but then again there's things I don't Mrs x |
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No. When we don’t get couples meets I always assume it’s because of my looks- Mr. |
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I wish I had bigger tits and bigger bum body wise. Face wise wish I had a pointy nose longer and longer chin.
But otherwise I just chug along with the bits I've got.
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I think all women have an element of being dissatisfied with their appearance, its a very personal thing. Ive always struggled with self confidence and rarely feel attractive, lingerie and outfits help to feel a bit more sexy but the inner demons are always there. |
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Yes. I create and manage myself and change as I want to |
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You’re going to be in your skin until you die so you may as well get comfortable in it.
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I don't think I'm ugly
I do think people look at my build before they look at my face though
Being short AND fat for a bloke in this game is a near fatal combo |
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"You’re going to be in your skin until you die so you may as well get comfortable in it.
Quote by (I can’t remember )"
Boity Thulo |
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A few extra inches would be nice.
But as there isnt any hope of being taller, i make the most of what I have. |
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If I am being completely honest OP, no, I do not. I don't like myself at all 🤷♂️
I know saying this can cause people to avoid me as no one really wants to be around someone who doesn't like themself but hey, the cards I have been dealt 🤷♂️ |
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I’m no oil painting, but I must be doing something I attract a hell of a lot of men - young, old, fat, small, skinny, muscular etc. Having a big cock probably helps as well! |
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By *eckard25Man 30 weeks ago
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I'm pretty comfortable with how I look but there are lots of things I'd change if I could, nothing I'd go to any great lengths on though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Yep, I'm well lush. |
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"You’re going to be in your skin until you die so you may as well get comfortable in it.
Quote by (I can’t remember )"
I like ^^ lots 👍.
Things I know I have that many people are positively affected by, and some of these need something like "for a 57 year old" in your mind in order to make better sense of them:
Appealing hands and forearms
Intriguing eyes, which change colour a fair amount
Good teeth top (and all there)
Good teeth bottom (and not all there)
Plenty of head hair
Strong shoulders, chest, thighs
Nice chin
Enigmatic, slightly dirty smile
"Confidence" in my carriage
Things I have that I don't find too appealing:
Big, wonky nose
4/5 stone overweight (22 stone)
Increasingly manky toenails
I look "good" at 18 stone, and "very good" at 17 stone (as in athletic, not "bulky" - I seem to lose 2 or 3 stone in my body that others don't, so I'm an athletic 17 stone when others my height are an athletic 14 stone).
However, the last time I was 17 stone (2016) I got too much "positive attention" from others, and I didn't like it. Too many shallow and thick people hitting on me.
So perhaps 19 stone is my comfortable-as-me-and-can-push-shallow-people-away zone, which is 3 stone away from now.
Overall, I'm fairly OK with my looks.
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By *lipy123TV/TS 30 weeks ago
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My look has evolved over time and i am quite happy with my look |
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I’d like to lose a bit of timber, otherwise whatever. |
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