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"Thing is OP, the few women I know who have self-described as "classy" all seem to lack a certain....well....je ne sais quoi?
Eww. You speaking foreign?"
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"Other people have tried to label me classy and it feels cringey. No. "
I get the same thing, apparently because I don't post nudes.
Classy to me would be someone with money and style... Definitely not me 😂 |
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I am being sarcastic when I describe myself as classy.
I'd get out of the shower to wee, which is quite classy, but if I found a stray jelly baby in my cleavage when I took off my bra I'd definitely eat it - pretty sure there's no etiquette expert in the world who would find that classy.
That's purely theoretical you understand. I've never eaten random sweets discovered in my cleavage. Honest. |
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"Other people have tried to label me classy and it feels cringey. No.
I get the same thing, apparently because I don't post nudes.
Classy to me would be someone with money and style... Definitely not me 😂"
A person can have both and still lack class |
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"Thing is OP, the few women I know who have self-described as "classy" all seem to lack a certain....well....je ne sais quoi?
Eww. You speaking foreign?
Only 'coz I'm classy 🤷."
Nuff of this nonsense |
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By *mf123Man 30 weeks ago
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"I am being sarcastic when I describe myself as classy.
I'd get out of the shower to wee, which is quite classy, but if I found a stray jelly baby in my cleavage when I took off my bra I'd definitely eat it - pretty sure there's no etiquette expert in the world who would find that classy.
That's purely theoretical you understand. I've never eaten random sweets discovered in my cleavage. Honest."
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"I am being sarcastic when I describe myself as classy.
I'd get out of the shower to wee, which is quite classy, but if I found a stray jelly baby in my cleavage when I took off my bra I'd definitely eat it - pretty sure there's no etiquette expert in the world who would find that classy.
That's purely theoretical you understand. I've never eaten random sweets discovered in my cleavage. Honest."
I would believe you if you said bath but no one gets out the shower |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"I have had a few messages saying I look classy but they haven't seen me in my scruff.
I'm just me though x"
Being yourself is the classiest thing to be, its the ones with imposter syndrome who scare me lol xx |
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Let me solve this for you all.
I consulted with the interetherweb and it sayeth unto me .........
CLASSY: Someone for whom Fabswinger usage evades their consciousness.
Thread closed..... drop the keyboard. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Yes. Extremely classy actually.
I stick my pinky out during oral and I always keep a serviette in my pocket to wipe any spillages afterwards.
Not a napkin?
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Oh good heavens, no! |
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe..."
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards. |
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe...
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards."
You seem to have a negative view of the world |
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe...
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards.
You seem to have a negative view of the world"
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe...
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards.
You seem to have a negative view of the world
Thank you for your unsolicited feedback."
Thank you for joining in the conversation that I started miss. Anytime |
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe...
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards.
You seem to have a negative view of the world"
It's an accurate view of the word classy, which can mean of a superior type (amongst other things).
You're a classy guy op, you should know this.
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe...
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards.
You seem to have a negative view of the world
It's an accurate view of the word classy, which can mean of a superior type (amongst other things).
You're a classy guy op, you should know this.
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I know what makes people superior in this sense but no one else has mentioned it yet |
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"...I know what makes people superior in this sense but no one else has mentioned it yet"
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We're not mind readers, OP. Can you please kindly enlightened us on this ever-elusive word/s that "no one else has mentioned" yet, lest we come across as supercilious. |
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe...
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards.
You seem to have a negative view of the world
It's an accurate view of the word classy, which can mean of a superior type (amongst other things).
You're a classy guy op, you should know this.
I know what makes people superior in this sense but no one else has mentioned it yet"
An over inflated sense of self, aka ego so big that Ryanair wouldn't allow it as cabin baggage? |
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe...
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards.
You seem to have a negative view of the world
It's an accurate view of the word classy, which can mean of a superior type (amongst other things).
You're a classy guy op, you should know this.
I know what makes people superior in this sense but no one else has mentioned it yet"
Oh no. I can't handle the suspense. Whatever shall I... What's for dinner? |
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Classy is a word used to describe people, places or things, that have a lot of "class." But a classy person isn't just someone who wears expensive clothes. Classy can also refer to someone who puts a high standard on the way he behaves. A classy gentleman open doors for ladies.
Sorted.... |
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Classy people prioritize respect
It's about treating everyone you meet as an equal, regardless of their social status or background. This means listening when others speak, refraining from interrupting, and acknowledging others' perspectives even when they differ from your own. |
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"How many of you girls consider yourself as 'classy' and why?
It's because they say
"I'm arriving, I'm arriving...."
Instead of
"I'm cumming, I'm cumming...."
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I think you'll find dear Sir it's
"One is arriving at ones destination"  |
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"How many of you girls consider yourself as 'classy' and why?
It's because they say
"I'm arriving, I'm arriving...."
Instead of
"I'm cumming, I'm cumming...."
I think you'll find dear Sir it's
"One is arriving at ones destination" "
Sounds like a mouthful  |
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"How many of you girls consider yourself as 'classy' and why?
It's because they say
"I'm arriving, I'm arriving...."
Instead of
"I'm cumming, I'm cumming...."
I think you'll find dear Sir it's
"One is arriving at ones destination"
Sounds like a mouthful "
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"Is it minge out vs hidden?
It's too fucking cold for that
Pah! Speak for your postcode! I'm presently sat in a bathing suit, outdoors AND I don't have frostbite 
Show off 😭"
Maybe a holiday via Class Air would help?
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"How many of you girls consider yourself as 'classy' and why?
It's because they say
"I'm arriving, I'm arriving...."
Instead of
"I'm cumming, I'm cumming...."
I think you'll find dear Sir it's
"One is arriving at ones destination" "
Sorry m'lady, I couldn't hear you properly as your thighs are covering my ears.  |
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"Classy people prioritize respect
It's about treating everyone you meet as an equal, regardless of their social status or background. This means listening when others speak, refraining from interrupting, and acknowledging
others' perspectives even when they differ from your own."
Correct. This is one trait |
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"There's something about that word that just makes me cringe...
Same. It's trying to conform to a particular norm. One of those concepts that is usually used to insult people, or at least say "you're better than all those others". I'm quite happy sitting with all the others who are deemed to be beneath these stupid standards.
You seem to have a negative view of the world
It's an accurate view of the word classy, which can mean of a superior type (amongst other things).
You're a classy guy op, you should know this.
I know what makes people superior in this sense but no one else has mentioned it yet
Oh no. I can't handle the suspense. Whatever shall I... What's for dinner?"
Humble pie? |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"It seems that most of you don't get it
Define classy then?
Let's see if any Fabettes can define 'classy'"
Well it's a step up from "girls" - he's learning folks |
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I think the dictionary definition is more geared towards style and aesthetics.
Generally I see it as having more to do with how a person chooses to conduct themselves.
Doesn't really matter how stylish and sophisticated someone presents as when it turns out they talk down to anyone they consider lower than them 💜 |
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"I think the dictionary definition is more geared towards style and aesthetics.
Generally I see it as having more to do with how a person chooses to conduct themselves.
Doesn't really matter how stylish and sophisticated someone presents as when it turns out they talk down to anyone they consider lower than them 💜"
I've found those that appear 'classy' often just tend to do their shit-talking behind people's backs rather than to their faces.
But I'd agree it's certainly about conduct, if it's just an image then there's nothing classy in that behaviour to me. |
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"Classy … this can only be defined by a majority of people who have a similar opinion
Who would wish for, but don’t actually own
Classy is a result of reducing dissonance "
‘Classy’ can’t exist without dissonance. There has to be difference to create the binary of classy v. not classy. By being “classy” you are separating yourself from others by your classy difference |
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By *B..Woman 30 weeks ago
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I’ve been called this many times on here, but that’s due to people’s reaction to photos.
Classy to me is a way someone carries themselves. A person doesn't need money or need to be rich to carry themselves elegantly and with class. They need to have manners and treat people with dignity and respect. |
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"Classy … this can only be defined by a majority of people who have a similar opinion
Who would wish for, but don’t actually own
Classy is a result of reducing dissonance
‘Classy’ can’t exist without dissonance. There has to be difference to create the binary of classy v. not classy. By being “classy” you are separating yourself from others by your classy difference "
The meaning itself is never fully present but endlessly deferred. It's only in exploring the play of differences that we can engage in anything meaningful. It arrises in our chain of metaphor.
when I think of classy, I think of poise and timing, elegant execution that emerges from being fully present in the moment. In any given situation. |
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"Classy … this can only be defined by a majority of people who have a similar opinion
Who would wish for, but don’t actually own
Classy is a result of reducing dissonance
‘Classy’ can’t exist without dissonance. There has to be difference to create the binary of classy v. not classy. By being “classy” you are separating yourself from others by your classy difference
The meaning itself is never fully present but endlessly deferred. It's only in exploring the play of differences that we can engage in anything meaningful. It arrises in our chain of metaphor.
when I think of classy, I think of poise and timing, elegant execution that emerges from being fully present in the moment. In any given situation."
Grasping true meaning is impossible due to the vicious semantic cycle that you cannot understand the meaning of an individual word without understanding the words around it forming context but you cannot understand that context without being able to understand the individual words which forming it.
Accordingly, let’s put aside our quest for innate knowledge of definitive and absolute word meaning. Instead we should work from the priori that “classy” stems from our hierarchical class system and is an inherently oppressive and elitist word. Let’s encourage words that promote meritocracy rather than the belief that a person’s value is implicit to and from their familial wealth.
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"Classy … this can only be defined by a majority of people who have a similar opinion
Who would wish for, but don’t actually own
Classy is a result of reducing dissonance
‘Classy’ can’t exist without dissonance. There has to be difference to create the binary of classy v. not classy. By being “classy” you are separating yourself from others by your classy difference
The meaning itself is never fully present but endlessly deferred. It's only in exploring the play of differences that we can engage in anything meaningful. It arrises in our chain of metaphor.
when I think of classy, I think of poise and timing, elegant execution that emerges from being fully present in the moment. In any given situation.
Grasping true meaning is impossible due to the vicious semantic cycle that you cannot understand the meaning of an individual word without understanding the words around it forming context but you cannot understand that context without being able to understand the individual words which forming it.
Accordingly, let’s put aside our quest for innate knowledge of definitive and absolute word meaning. Instead we should work from the priori that “classy” stems from our hierarchical class system and is an inherently oppressive and elitist word. Let’s encourage words that promote meritocracy rather than the belief that a person’s value is implicit to and from their familial wealth.
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^^ Now that's what I call (rhymes with glass). A complete absence for the need of its baggage.
And the word disappears....and you're left with something very new, that is everything that horrible old word could never quite reach, but was squirming to attain. |
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"Bookmarking this...to discern between the class and the crass, the affluent and the effluent.
I'm detecting a pattern of effluent "
Gotta say my [Manchester born and bred] Mistress and i think your comments are spot on
Have a good weekend xx |
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.  "
Can you try and translate it for me? Haha |
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By *ir tootMan 30 weeks ago
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
Can you try and translate it for me? Haha "
Oh yeah, sorry mate, what does that even mean sorry/mate?
No clue |
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By *ags73Man 30 weeks ago
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
Can you try and translate it for me? Haha
Oh yeah, sorry mate, what does that even mean sorry/mate?
No clue"
Essex is lovely. Fond memories |
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language. "
If ya no, ya no cuz😂
Calm |
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By *ir tootMan 30 weeks ago
Raccoon city |
"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
If ya no, ya no cuz😂
Calm"
Brilliant teach me the ways 🤣 |
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
If ya no, ya no cuz😂
Calm
Brilliant teach me the ways 🤣 "
Careful, this one’s got massive bollocks |
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By *ags73Man 30 weeks ago
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
If ya no, ya no cuz😂
Calm
Brilliant teach me the ways 🤣
Careful, this one’s got massive bollocks "
He’s been offered that all night by |
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
If ya no, ya no cuz😂
Calm
Brilliant teach me the ways 🤣
Careful, this one’s got massive bollocks "
Kissing ma teef 2 dis disrespect bruv! |
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
If ya no, ya no cuz😂
Calm
Brilliant teach me the ways 🤣
Careful, this one’s got massive bollocks
Kissing ma teef 2 dis disrespect bruv! "
Love you really Kat |
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By *ir tootMan 30 weeks ago
Raccoon city |
"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
If ya no, ya no cuz😂
Calm
Brilliant teach me the ways 🤣
Careful, this one’s got massive bollocks
Kissing ma teef 2 dis disrespect bruv! "
OK OK.
📝
Learning something here thank you |
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
You misspelled ‘crass’ dear 🖤
O yh, soz m8! Wot duz dat even mean bruv innit? 🙄
Oh shit fam, i like how you talk innit.
I don't know the full language.
If ya no, ya no cuz😂
Calm
Brilliant teach me the ways 🤣
Careful, this one’s got massive bollocks
Kissing ma teef 2 dis disrespect bruv!
Love you really Kat"
Reciprocated sweetheart! 😘 |
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By *eliWoman 30 weeks ago
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I can't say I've ever met anyone at socials, one to one etc, regardless of gender, that I'd describe as classy.
Nor read a forum user, seen a profile, looked at their photos and thought, gosh, this person is classy.
And that's absolutely fine. |
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"Us Essex birds are pure class!
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How do you ensure the utmost purity?
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It's only pure class if it comes from the Essex region of the UK. Anything else is just sparkling debased social strata. "
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Now that, my pulchritude, is a çlåssy response! |
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
Liverpool/New York |
"I think the dictionary definition is more geared towards style and aesthetics.
Generally I see it as having more to do with how a person chooses to conduct themselves.
Doesn't really matter how stylish and sophisticated someone presents as when it turns out they talk down to anyone they consider lower than them 💜"
This is quite good but sophistication is classy |
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
Liverpool/New York |
"Classy … this can only be defined by a majority of people who have a similar opinion
Who would wish for, but don’t actually own
Classy is a result of reducing dissonance
‘Classy’ can’t exist without dissonance. There has to be difference to create the binary of classy v. not classy. By being “classy” you are separating yourself from others by your classy difference
The meaning itself is never fully present but endlessly deferred. It's only in exploring the play of differences that we can engage in anything meaningful. It arrises in our chain of metaphor.
when I think of classy, I think of poise and timing, elegant execution that emerges from being fully present in the moment. In any given situation.
Grasping true meaning is impossible due to the vicious semantic cycle that you cannot understand the meaning of an individual word without understanding the words around it forming context but you cannot understand that context without being able to understand the individual words which forming it.
Accordingly, let’s put aside our quest for innate knowledge of definitive and absolute word meaning. Instead we should work from the priori that “classy” stems from our hierarchical class system and is an inherently oppressive and elitist word. Let’s encourage words that promote meritocracy rather than the belief that a person’s value is implicit to and from their familial wealth.
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In other words you don't know what "classy" means? |
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By *r.Xrated OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"I’ve been called this many times on here, but that’s due to people’s reaction to photos.
Classy to me is a way someone carries themselves. A person doesn't need money or need to be rich to carry themselves elegantly and with class. They need to have manners and treat people with dignity and respect."
This is true |
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"Classy … this can only be defined by a majority of people who have a similar opinion
Who would wish for, but don’t actually own
Classy is a result of reducing dissonance
‘Classy’ can’t exist without dissonance. There has to be difference to create the binary of classy v. not classy. By being “classy” you are separating yourself from others by your classy difference
The meaning itself is never fully present but endlessly deferred. It's only in exploring the play of differences that we can engage in anything meaningful. It arrises in our chain of metaphor.
when I think of classy, I think of poise and timing, elegant execution that emerges from being fully present in the moment. In any given situation.
Grasping true meaning is impossible due to the vicious semantic cycle that you cannot understand the meaning of an individual word without understanding the words around it forming context but you cannot understand that context without being able to understand the individual words which forming it.
Accordingly, let’s put aside our quest for innate knowledge of definitive and absolute word meaning. Instead we should work from the priori that “classy” stems from our hierarchical class system and is an inherently oppressive and elitist word. Let’s encourage words that promote meritocracy rather than the belief that a person’s value is implicit to and from their familial wealth.
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I can feel the transcendental signifier within my grasp.
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