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"95% of my socials end up that way 😂
Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee? 
Aww, I don't like coffee
Ahhh so skip straight to it then? 😂
Excuse me, I'm not *that* easy 😉 "
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"95% of my socials end up that way 😂
Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?
Aww, I don't like coffee
Ahhh so skip straight to it then? 😂
Excuse me, I'm not *that* easy 😉
Let's find out over a drink 😜"
You're cheeky 😉😂 |
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"I don't think I've ever had a social?
Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣"
 I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍 |
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"And it went further the same day?"
Had a social in a nearby bar and didn’t even get to finish our drinks.. 😈
Or a social in my hotel bar and didn’t even bother ordering drinks - 1 minute of Hi lovely to meet you and then it was suggested we get to the room.. |
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"I don't think I've ever had a social?
Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣
I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍"
It was fun!
In that case Brucey, I've never had a one-to-one social so the answer is no. |
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I don't meet without a social first. I would never even agree to play with someone without having met them in real life as people can be very different in real life than they are online.
But if you meet for a social, you vibe and there's lots of chemistry and you both want it, why not make it more? |
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"I don't think I've ever had a social?
Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣
I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍
It was fun!
In that case Brucey, I've never had a one-to-one social so the answer is no. "
I didn't even ask the question.
Shall we all have a night out sometime though is my question? 😘 |
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By *ornycougaWoman 27 weeks ago
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I rarely arrange just a social. If we click over a drink then we bang. But once I met a guy for a Sunday afternoon wine in Victoria and couldn't resist dragging him back to my lair to dine on him |
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I've gone into meets that started out as a social, maybe over drinks and a chat that eventually led to more. But from the messages beforehand, there was always an indication that that's where it could potentially go so nothing spontaneous after being set on it only being a social beforehand. |
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"I don't think I've ever had a social?
Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣
I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍
It was fun!
In that case Brucey, I've never had a one-to-one social so the answer is no.
I didn't even ask the question.
Shall we all have a night out sometime though is my question? 😘"
Why did I think this was your thread? Doh! I fell asleep husst after this so I'll blame it on being shattered.
If Indian Street food, chat and dancing is your thing then hit us up! 😁 |
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By *eliWoman 27 weeks ago
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A couple of times. Considering the amount of socials I've had it's very rare. It's just... not for me. I don't mind what people do as long as they don't make me feel pressure in to doing things their way. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I have. I never plan on sex the first time, but if the chemistry is there in person, why not?
I usually spend a very long time chatting beforehand, so I've got a good feel for someone prior to that initial social. I'd probably not feel attraction on a social without that. |
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Yes, a few times. It’s not something that I ever go in expecting or anticipating though. I view socials as a form of getting to know someone and as a vibe check. On occasion the chemistry is explosive though and it has gone further |
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Our socials can be classed as
Social which is social only with no potential to take things further, this is where we have only enough time for a social and are meeting in a public place.
Social with potential to play, this is usually when someone is hosting or we have a place near the social venue and we have more time on hands.
Most of the latter socials ends up going further same day. |
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"I don't think I've ever had a social?
Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣
I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍
It was fun!
In that case Brucey, I've never had a one-to-one social so the answer is no.
I didn't even ask the question.
Shall we all have a night out sometime though is my question? 😘
Why did I think this was your thread? Doh! I fell asleep husst after this so I'll blame it on being shattered.
If Indian Street food, chat and dancing is your thing then hit us up! 😁"
Of course they are! Hitting! |
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Social can be code for, "I want to bed the online version" Then if the real life matches up, bed.
I was staying in a hotel and a lady answered my ad, we agreed to meet for breakfast in the pub across the road. It was a later check.
So yes, socials have gone further, many times, then again others don't turn up. |
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By *ister_EMan 27 weeks ago
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Most of them to be honest 
Even the most innocent ones always ended up with at least some intense snogging and more often than not, some heavy hands under clothes touching.
Even a "Socialy distant" Outdoor meet with a couple during the Covid era, quickly turned into a Bi MMF 3sum in the bushes 
I have nothing against a pure social in principle, it just rarely happens like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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"I don't think I've ever had a social?
Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣
What did you DO 😮"
All we know is that their fishing weekend has never been discussed again 🥸 |
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By *dgy77Man 27 weeks ago
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"I don't meet without a social first. I would never even agree to play with someone without having met them in real life as people can be very different in real life than they are online.
But if you meet for a social, you vibe and there's lots of chemistry and you both want it, why not make it more? "
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Yes.
I even went there with the express intention of it staying social too. But she was very very persuasive, and the promise of eating donuts off my dick proved the decisive blow that changed the path of the evening. |
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