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How exhausting is socialising?

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By (user no longer on site) OP    27 weeks ago

Every day I’m exhausted.

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By *icky KlungespeareMan 27 weeks ago

St Leonards

Every day I'm shufflin'.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Yuk

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By *a LunaWoman 27 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Mega. Which is why I don’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Exhausting, I need 3-5 working days to recover from a party.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Very! Doesn't help that most people's idea of conversation involves football or celebrities

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By *ad NannaWoman 27 weeks ago

East London

Do you socialise every day?

What constitutes socialising?

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By *a LunaWoman 27 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Is going to work socialising? Because I do that, but only because I have to!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS 27 weeks ago

ilkley and Stockport

I seem to spend most of my time anti-socialising...

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

I think every last one of us gets worn down by the relentless grind of society.

JESUS IM TURNING INTO GEORGE ORWELL.

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By *end1Man 27 weeks ago

southend on sea

I just hate people so no socializing for me 😊

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By *ookie46Woman 27 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I love socialising but I definitely get burn out

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By *ansoffateMan 27 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

If it was less exhausting than avoiding people, I would do it more.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Soooooo exhausting. I do enjoy it, though. Mega naps for me afterwards 😴

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By (user no longer on site) OP    27 weeks ago


"Is going to work socialising? Because I do that, but only because I have to! "

I actively avoid messaging and hanging out with colleagues where possible unless I’ve had caffeine

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By *NormalMan01Man 27 weeks ago

Harrogate

It’s the worst sometimes.

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By *estructionDollyWoman 27 weeks ago

Manchester

It can drain the life out of me I have a limited social battery

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Oooh

It’s my power up

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By *ife NinjaMan 27 weeks ago

Dunfermline

A pint, bit of karaoke, a boogie, a burger and scintillating sex....ideal

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By *viatrixWoman 27 weeks ago

Redhill

Very.

Which is why I don’t do it anymore.

This 6-9 momths will be a good detox!

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By *est_Yorkshire_GentMan 27 weeks ago

Leeds

I love socialising tbh! Not on Friday nights, I always need a chilled, recharge night after a long week. But once we hit the weekend I love being out and socialising when I can

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By *oeBeansMan 27 weeks ago

Derby

Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple 27 weeks ago

Newcastle

I love socialising and being around people. Especially meeting new people.

Some situations are harder than others and I do sometimes find making small talk with numerous people exhausting. I also sometimes doubt my own social skills and question if people actually want to talk to me or if I’m boring them.

Mostly though, if I’m having a good time and enjoying the company then I’m happy.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago


"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate"

Joe!!!

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By *ife NinjaMan 27 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate"

Bit harsh fella

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By *estructionDollyWoman 27 weeks ago

Manchester


"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate"

😅😅😅😅

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By *oeBeansMan 27 weeks ago

Derby


"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella "

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

Absolutely exhausting especially in winter when we really should be hibernating/conserving our energy

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By *midnight-Woman 27 weeks ago

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Are you an introvert Smickles xx

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By *ife NinjaMan 27 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏"

🫡

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By *midnight-Woman 27 weeks ago

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"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏"

Such a bad boy! Get over my knee

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple 27 weeks ago

Norwich

Look up Social Battery and ADHD, those of us who are able to have the social interactions can wear out very quickly if we find the socialising boring, tedious or just too much!

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By *oeBeansMan 27 weeks ago

Derby


"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏

Such a bad boy! Get over my knee"

You said we couldn't do that anymore since the break-up 😢

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By (user no longer on site) OP    27 weeks ago


"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate"

😂😂😂😂 I actually love you

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By *ML49Man 27 weeks ago

mijas Spain


"Every day I’m exhausted. "

Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

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By *ouble-SidedCouple 27 weeks ago

Voldsøy

It's sucked some life out of me today, for sure. 🙄

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By *bi HaiveMan 27 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

People.

They're very 'peopley'. 🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site) OP    27 weeks ago


"It's sucked some life out of me today, for sure. 🙄"
I want you to suck the life out of me

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By *midnight-Woman 27 weeks ago

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"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏

Such a bad boy! Get over my knee

You said we couldn't do that anymore since the break-up 😢"

Joe!!

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By *oeBeansMan 27 weeks ago

Derby


"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏

Such a bad boy! Get over my knee

You said we couldn't do that anymore since the break-up 😢

Joe!!"

😇😂

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By *ouble-SidedCouple 27 weeks ago

Voldsøy


"It's sucked some life out of me today, for sure. 🙄 I want you to suck the life out of me"

Not tonight, I'm exhausted.

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By *ucka39Man 27 weeks ago

Newcastle

In my time id be doing it very often but now cut back considerably, it burns out my attention span. Nothing to do with age 😂

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By *ensual DesiresMan 27 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman 27 weeks ago

Norwich

In the rught company, I find socialising recharges my batteries.

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By *ensual DesiresMan 27 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

Depends on the day and the person

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By *ergus1622Man 27 weeks ago

Dundee

I love the social side nearly as much as the fun , but it can be like pulling teeth with some people

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By *ust want fun 888Man 27 weeks ago

nearby

I’m exhausted, spent every day and night of the month of December socialising, thank God that’s all over

And didn’t get a sniff,

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 27 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I love socialising but inside that I’m good at matching people’s energy. Low key glass of wine and a bitch fest I’m In, social butterfly in a crowded club I’m in my element. Lunch and (redacted) number of cocktails with my bestie I’m in in in.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 27 weeks ago

Reading

1 to 1 is fine relaxing even. More than that yes exhausting.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 27 weeks ago

Central

I can love it, finding it energising but the wrong engagement isn't anything but draining

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By *punk n gushCouple 27 weeks ago

deal

Very exhausting I prefer my own company I can have conversations with my multi personalities without having to leave the sofa lol

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