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"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children
I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....
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I did my best. That's all I can control.
As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled. |
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"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children
I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....
I did my best. That's all I can control.
As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled."
I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter. |
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"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children
I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....
I did my best. That's all I can control.
As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.
I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter."
I've got no data on womanchild. My serious relationships with women have been non-residential. I'm sure they exist, but I'm only commenting on my own experience.
I don't ever want to face that level of burnout ever again, so... True love cancelled. (If I found myself in a situation where it might happen, I'd block on all channels and do whatever it takes to nuke the relationship from orbit) |
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"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children
I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....
I did my best. That's all I can control.
As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.
I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter.
I've got no data on womanchild. My serious relationships with women have been non-residential. I'm sure they exist, but I'm only commenting on my own experience.
I don't ever want to face that level of burnout ever again, so... True love cancelled. (If I found myself in a situation where it might happen, I'd block on all channels and do whatever it takes to nuke the relationship from orbit)"
I can definitely relate to the burnout experience. I've had some wonderful experiences too though, living with women.
It could be that I'm just not as smart as you are, when it comes to protecting myself. |
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"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children
I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....
I did my best. That's all I can control.
As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.
I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter.
I've got no data on womanchild. My serious relationships with women have been non-residential. I'm sure they exist, but I'm only commenting on my own experience.
I don't ever want to face that level of burnout ever again, so... True love cancelled. (If I found myself in a situation where it might happen, I'd block on all channels and do whatever it takes to nuke the relationship from orbit)
I can definitely relate to the burnout experience. I've had some wonderful experiences too though, living with women.
It could be that I'm just not as smart as you are, when it comes to protecting myself."
Don't worry, I'm only speaking for myself. You do what's right for you. (And as usual #notallmen) |
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I thought no sex was a dealbreaker for me.
However, this past two months Ixhave been shown the purest, most genuine and truest love. Having been cared for 24/7 unconditionally, and my only worry is to get better, wow, that makes anything else seem small.
So it will definitely be true love for me. I am very fortunate. ❤️ |
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"Swinging. Tried "true love", it was like having a child. I've never signed up for children
I've had the manchild relationship and don't believe they can be called true love.....
I did my best. That's all I can control.
As manchild is a potential variable in offering my true love, all true love is hereby cancelled.
I do feel the womanchild variable is problematic. Perhaps it's less probable than manchild. I'm afraid I do not have the dataset to draw a conclusion. I also have no motivation to carry out the necessary research, so I will defer to your judgment on said matter.
I've got no data on womanchild. My serious relationships with women have been non-residential. I'm sure they exist, but I'm only commenting on my own experience.
I don't ever want to face that level of burnout ever again, so... True love cancelled. (If I found myself in a situation where it might happen, I'd block on all channels and do whatever it takes to nuke the relationship from orbit)
I can definitely relate to the burnout experience. I've had some wonderful experiences too though, living with women.
It could be that I'm just not as smart as you are, when it comes to protecting myself.
Don't worry, I'm only speaking for myself. You do what's right for you. (And as usual #notallmen)"
🤣 Thank you, I didn't think you were. I can assure no offence was taken on behalf of myself or my gender by your comments, also no animals were harmed right? Just checking.
I was genuinely contemplating whether I need to add a pinch of your salt to my life. I have been there with burnout more than once. Kids is one thing, they're kids, I chose to have them. |
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By *edSirenWoman 26 weeks ago
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Why do you only count happiness with one person? Are you saying in you chose swinging it would be miserable?
I can happily be in both monogamous or open/poly relationships. Depends on the person. |
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"Why do you only count happiness with one person? Are you saying in you chose swinging it would be miserable?
I can happily be in both monogamous or open/poly relationships. Depends on the person."
I read it as "partnership and monogamy fur the foreseeable" Vs open/swinging/single unicorn kind of arrangement.
Like, I was in a monogamous partnership for 27 years. I might be open to another one in the future but for now, I'm over it. |
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