We had an unfortunate experience a while back where even though boundaries had been discussed, the female half of the couple we met wasn't happy about something that happened.

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Is a good way to start swinging if you are nervous and maybe a little unsure.

We did soft swing only for the first three years then it was a natural progression into full.

Actually found it more sensual as it involves more thought rather than just steaming into sex.

It's fun

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By *elloWoman over a year ago

alpha centauri

"So we have come across a few couples different views on soft swop … what are yours ? "

Soft swap varies from what the couple is comfortable and can change depending on mood and the couple their playing with.

It can include any type of play except fully penetration with someone who isn't their partner

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By *estructionDollyWoman over a year ago

Manchester

As a single girl/unicorn in the swing world couples who want to soft play with me I have absolutely no interest in. I have been approached by some couples where they wanted to meet for basically just foreplay only but that's not for me.

I'm sure if you're doing a couple swap it can work fine as you are still going to have sex with your own partner, but wanting to do soft play with a single woman seems a bit pointless from the single girl POV personally. I don't want to do performative lesbian play just for your male partner either.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple over a year ago

Coventry

We're often but not exclusively soft swap (really depends on who we're with and vibe). For us it's very simply everything except the guys only fuck their own respective partners.

However we've come across so variants in our time so it's always best to find out specifically what people's definitions and boundaries are.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and we would be happy to a do partner swap for soft play.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Everything but penetration, as others defined it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Whatever is agreed between you all is what soft swap is.

Usually it means everything but penetration.

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By *ertcoupleCouple over a year ago

Welwyn Garden City

We don't mind... it's just fun x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

I prefer soft swap tbh

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By *ctionSandwichCouple over a year ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Totally pointless.

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By *lossomTreeWoman over a year ago

Ipswich

Pointless for me, if there is a cock in the room I want to fully enjoy it, I'm not there just as a turn on for the man watching me with his partner either.

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