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Meeting half of my co workers during the meets
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By *kittex OP Man 23 weeks ago
Liverpool |
- Hi guis i come across a funny question:
- If you randomly see a face you recognise in your private day to day life /at work and is a co worker , but you meet the person in your local swing club.
- What is the best way to deal with this? As you never know that he/she is a swinger and coz u never talked about this at work with the colleague, due to the shine factor or just simply coz isn't your buisness. So you meet them in your local swing club and they happy to see you there buying you drinks and having a good night 😅🙂, next morning in work all eyes 👀 funny running around with some spectre of being verry shine about what's happen last night 🫣🫣😅 what will be some advices in this case? 🫠 |
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There's probably a reason neither of you have ever brought it up at work - you, and they, don't want the whole world knowing what you get up to in your spare time.
Best advice? Preserve the status quo, and don't even think about bringing it up in the workplace |
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By *kittex OP Man 23 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"Half your co workers at the same club on the same night?! Now that’s a work do. Was all this on the company coin?!"
- Well not really half of them but some of them in different timeline (during the week) 😅😅😅🤣😅 |
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By *kittex OP Man 23 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"No different really from walking into a gay bar/ club and seeing a colleague..
You are both probably there for the same reason..
Mums the word.
A wink is suffice."
haha that's verry true but again u kind of work with them 😅😂🫣🫣🫣 u don't really suppose to shag them when you work together like  |
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By *kittex OP Man 23 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"Half your co workers at the same club on the same night?! Now that’s a work do. Was all this on the company coin?!
I was just thinking this!!
...where do I send my CV?"
- Hhahaha look for some stores around 😅🫣🫣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"Half your co workers at the same club on the same night?! Now that’s a work do. Was all this on the company coin?!
- Well not really half of them but some of them in different timeline (during the week) 😅😅😅🤣😅"
I was imagining Colin from Sales and Dave from IT showing Carol from accounts a good old time while HR sits there watching, furiously taking notes |
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I am really surprised I’ve never bumped into a co-worker at Ignite/Abfab 
But if I did, I’d probably just carry on my way.
I did once see a colleague at a Costa where I was having a coffee with someone from Fab. I did get nervous back then but that was years ago. Don’t care much now. |
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By *kittex OP Man 23 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"Half your co workers at the same club on the same night?! Now that’s a work do. Was all this on the company coin?!
- Well not really half of them but some of them in different timeline (during the week) 😅😅😅🤣😅
- I geniuly meet my line supervisor with one of his or his missis i didn't figure it out at the end of the day is that his wife or his side chick 🐥🫣😅😅😅
I was imagining Colin from Sales and Dave from IT showing Carol from accounts a good old time while HR sits there watching, furiously taking notes "
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By *kittex OP Man 23 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"I am really surprised I’ve never bumped into a co-worker at Ignite/Abfab
But if I did, I’d probably just carry on my way.
I did once see a colleague at a Costa where I was having a coffee with someone from Fab. I did get nervous back then but that was years ago. Don’t care much now. "
- Isn't that embarrassing a little bit but in a cheeky shine way like coz u don't really want to bump into them where you wouldn't love to see exept work coz like that's why is work u had enough of them around at your work giving u headache 🫣😅🤣😅🫣 |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 23 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I'd just enjoy the fact that they wouldn't recognise me and then instantly erase their presence in the club from my memory.
I also wouldn't play with them, as it wouldn't be fair on them  |
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By *kittex OP Man 23 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"I'd just enjoy the fact that they wouldn't recognise me and then instantly erase their presence in the club from my memory.
I also wouldn't play with them, as it wouldn't be fair on them "
- I mean at the end of the day if you stick to the rule: Whatevee what's happens is only in the club and didn't go anywhere else over the walls i don't see nothing wrong with that but is like afcourse it's shine as hell 😅😅🙃🙃🫣 |
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By *kittex OP Man 23 weeks ago
Liverpool |
"Just carry on as before in work.
Keep your work professional always.
What you do outside work should not affect your work.
Respect her and yourself in the situation here."
100% we come to an agreement to stick to the rule what's happening there is only there and did not go anywhere else 😅🫣. So that's just a surprise for all of us to see them there but we had a good night 😅🫣🫣🫣 |
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You can talk about sex and swinging when out at clubs. It never needs to be mentioned at work.
A friend was propositioned at the coffee machine, by a guy who'd seen her out. He invariably discussed sex and swinging, until she cut him dead. They didn't know each other on a friendly basis at work and colleagues were forced to hear his inappropriate topics 
Generally ignore, unless you have agreed anything in advance |
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