So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.
Just had them view and wink again.
Why? |
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"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.
Just had them view and wink again.
Why?"
Maybe the age range is just a preference but are willing to meet outside of that range too |
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"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.
Just had them view and wink again.
Why?
Maybe the age range is just a preference but are willing to meet outside of that range too"
There age range says it and so does the profile text |
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"There age range says it and so does the profile text "
As long as you aren't actually blocked from messaging outside that age group then you can message. The wink and the view *could* be considered interest. |
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Unless things have changed you can only wink someone once every 30 days so maybe they had forgotten they had done so before. If you don't want them to do it again just don't delete the wink and that means they can't send another one. |
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"Unless things have changed you can only wink someone once every 30 days so maybe they had forgotten they had done so before. If you don't want them to do it again just don't delete the wink and that means they can't send another one. "
I thought you could only wink every 30 days so was wondering how they had done it
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"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.
Just had them view and wink again.
Why?"
Maybe she'll make an exception for you |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"Unless things have changed you can only wink someone once every 30 days so maybe they had forgotten they had done so before. If you don't want them to do it again just don't delete the wink and that means they can't send another one. I thought you could only wink every 30 days so was wondering how they had done it"
The winks expire after 30 days but if you delete it they can wink again. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 22 weeks ago
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"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.
Just had them view and wink again.
Why?"
It's a hint that they may be interested.
Whether to respond in any way is up to you.
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"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.
Just had them view and wink again.
Why?
It's a hint that they may be interested.
Whether to respond in any way is up to you.
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Shouldn't my deletion of the first one be taken as I'm not interested though? |
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If you like the look of their profile ignore the age limit and contact them say hello unless the age limit stops you doing that!
If they’re interested they’ll chat and maybe meet for a social if you click what’s the harm in being friendly? |
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By *bi HaiveMan 22 weeks ago
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"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.
Just had them view and wink again.
Why?
It's a hint that they may be interested.
Whether to respond in any way is up to you.
Shouldn't my deletion of the first one be taken as I'm not interested though?"
They won't know that you've deleted a wink. You don't get notified.
Easier to either tell them or block them. Both are clear messages of your feelings on the wink. |
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