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By *il-red OP Woman 7 weeks ago
Glasgow |
Ok so I think it's safe to assume, that to some degree, sex/anything directly associated with it, drives us all wild.
But what are some of the small, specific details/things you or someone else does, that drives you crazy? Bonus points for things that your partner/playmate might not pick up on?
I'll share one of mine:
I have a hand fetish, so while the obvious hand in my knickers will do something, what actually drives me wiiiild are the hand on face/neck/in my hair/around my throat type moves 🥵🫠
Especially curious to hear from the men, but welcome all (may even try some out.. for science 👩🔬🤭) |
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Anytime a woman touches me from behind. Like, an arm around my waist, or a kiss on my neck, or fingertips on my shoulder blades … I’m not used to that vulnerability. I’m usually the one doing the touching, deciding what comes next … |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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The way she moves... when she's that kind of performative, sensual siren slowly slinking her way around the home naked after a shower, the way the dim light hits her body creating shadows and definitions...
Oh lawd have mercy on my soul 🫦 |
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Someone stroking my skin/hair really gently and tantalisingly
Gravelly voices
Making him gasp/groan in a way that surprises even him
I also get the hand thing. I like having my face/neck stroked/squeezed/caressed/grabbed during sex and fingers in my mouth in a sensual way |
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There's a certain look on their face during sex or oral that is just 😍🤯🥵 Idk how to describe it, I've tried. Their face becomes almost even more attractive during those acts. That. I love that! Or certain words or phrases they say. Being a great kisser works a treat too  |
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serious post now. ist not any one particular action more the transformation in response to what ever it is we are doing , eyes transforming into a different look and that verbal lust in the voice and body spasms...
that amplifies through each other to crescendo |
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It may not be during sex but the time after when we're just laying down together and chatting and the tips of her fingers start wandering over my arms and my body and if they find the right spot, it just slightly tickles me in a good way. |
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By *sWyldWoman 7 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Fingers in my hair , stroking my skin gently and gently biting where my neck meets my shoulder.
Reactions . Subtle ones ,the breathy sigh or the moan . Just sometimes a look that tells me I'm driving them wild is a huge thing for me .
Sometimes I like to be in control. Not in a BDSM or domme way but just being indulged to take the lead . Maybe bind their hands ,maybe blindfold and then chase their reactions.. |
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I can relate to the hands fascination. Touch to my hands, arms, neck... can evoke all kinds of responses; sometimes it's like I feel the message they convey the tone of the desire. I can instinctively respond to the right partner. When those nails dig in to my back it can drive me wild. After a time with a partner, those feelings b come associated with patterns of touch, eye contact, facial expressions like eyebrow raises.
That level of intimate attunement is highly desirable to me. And the sex that comes from it - awesome sauce.
I love that feeling of relinquishment, fate being in the hands of a spiraling feedback loop. Without a need for one or the other being in control. When I see that in the hands of a partner and feel it in their touch, I'm deeply content. |
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I'm not submissive and I instinctively and naturally orchestrate and take charge in the bedroom until that one unexpected moment - and one exhilarating moment only - I am coaxed into something by the other person. It could be anything - anything that breaks the conformity of the sex or the foreplay and just takes me to another level of heightened ecstacy. It could even be something simple like kissing my nipples which are my achilles heel when it comes to passion. |
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There’s something about when you have that mind blowing chemistry, but haven’t kissed or touched yet, the anticipation as your sat talking together, the lingering eye contact, leaning in as your talking and lightly brushing against them…fingers touching but feels like electric … waiting for that first kiss… with the right person it can be incredibly erotic and such a turn on! |
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All of these things are physical things other people do ... which makes me think I shouldn't post my thing.
But the thing that drives me the most crazy in other people is acceptance. When we both know I'm A LOT in whatever way and they reassure me that I'm not too much for them? I will want to rip your clothes off.
But if the question is just physical things, most partners aren't aware of my most erogenous zone. And I won't generally point them there. Find it on your own, be a brave explorer. |
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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The cuddle. Big arms around me that just immediately makes me let go, relaxes the noises in my head makes me feels safe. Then the hands gently on my cheeks when we snog.  |
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It varies by partner for me. My current FWB has such a glorious sense of joy and fun and I love him for it.
Whenever he gets out of the shower he unwraps the towel as he passes me and waggles his cock at me.
It's such a juvenile thing to do but I love how it makes him laugh every time and his joy in it is what turns me on. It can honestly make me breathless with lust for him.
I normally end up getting him a bit sweaty so he needs another shower, and the whole cycle starts again  |
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"It varies by partner for me. My current FWB has such a glorious sense of joy and fun and I love him for it.
Whenever he gets out of the shower he unwraps the towel as he passes me and waggles his cock at me.
It's such a juvenile thing to do but I love how it makes him laugh every time and his joy in it is what turns me on. It can honestly make me breathless with lust for him.
I normally end up getting him a bit sweaty so he needs another shower, and the whole cycle starts again "
This whole comment just made me so happy. Waggles his cock at you, that is so adorable. |
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By *a LunaWoman 7 weeks ago
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"It varies by partner for me. My current FWB has such a glorious sense of joy and fun and I love him for it.
Whenever he gets out of the shower he unwraps the towel as he passes me and waggles his cock at me.
It's such a juvenile thing to do but I love how it makes him laugh every time and his joy in it is what turns me on. It can honestly make me breathless with lust for him.
I normally end up getting him a bit sweaty so he needs another shower, and the whole cycle starts again "
This would work for me too. Playful men. Very sexy.
Also partial to a foot rub and a tongue in my ear. |
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"All of these things are physical things other people do ... which makes me think I shouldn't post my thing.
But the thing that drives me the most crazy in other people is acceptance. When we both know I'm A LOT in whatever way and they reassure me that I'm not too much for them? I will want to rip your clothes off.
But if the question is just physical things, most partners aren't aware of my most erogenous zone. And I won't generally point them there. Find it on your own, be a brave explorer. "
Put some signs up on broad street and you might get someone wandering in 
For me I have this weird attraction to curvaceous hips, especially in tight jeans. Some women with the right curvature just 
Yes I know I'm odd, I'll get my coat. |
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