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So, so many complain about their lack of success on fab this thread is for those who are successful. Anyone who is successful can post a tip but I am looking for successful guys as it seems to be the guys that arnt successful that moan the most. Over to you |
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By *agic.MMan 18 weeks ago
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Not sure if I should give away my secrets just yet 👀...if one of you ladies think you can put a ring on my finger and marry me...and take me away from this lifestyle, than I'll divulge "the recipe "...hell I'll even write a book 🤓 ...I'll name it "The Recipe- a fab success story" |
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"So, so many complain about their lack of success on fab this thread is for those who are successful. Anyone who is successful can post a tip but I am looking for successful guys as it seems to be the guys that arnt successful that moan the most. Over to you"
Not successful at all
Have friends on hear
Guess I’m out   |
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"So, so many complain about their lack of success on fab this thread is for those who are successful. Anyone who is successful can post a tip but I am looking for successful guys as it seems to be the guys that arnt successful that moan the most. Over to you
Not successful at all
Have friends on hear
Guess I’m out "
Maybe pick up some tips from this thread |
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Go to organised socials and clubs, meet people face to face and be polite and respectful. So much easier when you're speaking to people to gauge personalities, that doesn't translate as well when you message people on here. |
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Be polite, courteous and complimentary when needed (not go all in). Talk to people normally as you would do in a pub and ensure your profile and pics are equally as decent as your message, as most will go straight to your profile when receiving a message.
Take no well too!
Engage!
Don’t see people as a number.
I always follow someone’s lead in a conversation, if they are talking about general things, I will. If it gets more intimate then you’ll never be the one that pushes things too far.
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It's really how you define success.
If it's just getting sex and that's all you care about then the interaction element becomes a task.
When I enjoy the interaction in itself then it's already a success.
If I just wanted sex I'd go on a sex work site. Why make it hard for yourself? Then you can pick and choose like it's a candy store - without any of the nonsense. Frustration of wasting your time, disappointment etc. |
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"Be polite, courteous and complimentary when needed (not go all in). Talk to people normally as you would do in a pub and ensure your profile and pics are equally as decent as your message, as most will go straight to your profile when receiving a message.
Take no well too!
Engage!
Don’t see people as a number.
I always follow someone’s lead in a conversation, if they are talking about general things, I will. If it gets more intimate then you’ll never be the one that pushes things too far.
K
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This is exactly what I try and do. Go slow, be polite, kind and respect. Talk about what you like or not in chat. The end results are so much better when you do and more likely to meet again. Lots of lovely people on here. Those who are not in minority |
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"Network. Don't just concentrate on those your attracted to others may know someone your comparable with"
Yes because for every hottie that you have your eyes on, there are 3 lurkers that maybe have their eyes on you.
I have definitely been lurked. |
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It is a cliché but socials and clubs are great places to meet and chat to lots of people. You may not connect with everyone you chat too but these people have friends who you may connect with and in general, people are friendly at clubs and even more so at socials. Talk to everyone, address couples as a couple not just the beautiful lady, chat to the lucky guy on her arm too.
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"Don't moan and whine, not in your profile, your status or the forum. No one is turned on by that.
Don't bank on it. Knowing Fab, there's bound to be someone, somewhere who is   "
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"So, so many complain about their lack of success on fab this thread is for those who are successful. Anyone who is successful can post a tip but I am looking for successful guys as it seems to be the guys that arnt successful that moan the most. Over to you"
Communicate, be honest, don't play games
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Just do what suits you is my advice.
Clubs and socials arnt really an option for me...well not till i find a partner in crime I'm comfortable around, means I'm probably at a disadvantage.
Then again I don't fret about my "success" on fab, I won't be everyone cup of tea that's life.
Not had reply in weeks to the very few messages I send, is what it is.
Basically what I'm trying to say is you do you. |
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"Just do what suits you is my advice.
Clubs and socials arnt really an option for me...well not till i find a partner in crime I'm comfortable around, means I'm probably at a disadvantage.
Then again I don't fret about my "success" on fab, I won't be everyone cup of tea that's life.
Not had reply in weeks to the very few messages I send, is what it is.
Basically what I'm trying to say is you do you. "
That's you, some might want a little pointer in the right direction to make their experience more successful |
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"Just do what suits you is my advice.
Clubs and socials arnt really an option for me...well not till i find a partner in crime I'm comfortable around, means I'm probably at a disadvantage.
Then again I don't fret about my "success" on fab, I won't be everyone cup of tea that's life.
Not had reply in weeks to the very few messages I send, is what it is.
Basically what I'm trying to say is you do you. That's you, some might want a little pointer in the right direction to make their experience more successful"
To be honest I've asked that question and non of the answers I got made me any more successful or unsuccessful on here. |
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There are many levels of success, those who get replies from PMs sent out, those who are quoted in the forums, thus being recognised by someone else by their comment, then there’s those who are accepted on to guest lists for private socials and the likes.
Myself since rejoining Ive had a few conversations and a couple of social meets, one turned into a full on naked session in their bed, that was quite some time ago now.
Those who complain are probably bombarding loads of profiles hoping for at least one reply but done get it, all I can say to them is be patient and you’ll be rewarded. 😊 |
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By *ags73Man 18 weeks ago
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"So, so many complain about their lack of success on fab this thread is for those who are successful. Anyone who is successful can post a tip but I am looking for successful guys as it seems to be the guys that arnt successful that moan the most. Over to you"
Don’t moan and keep trying |
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"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.
Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing."
You've won today. Well done. 😂
And for those of you who haven't won. Well done anyway. |
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"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.
Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing.
You've won today. Well done. 😂
And for those of you who haven't won. Well done anyway."
It's the taking part that counts, losers... |
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Put a little effort in before moaning, verifications are easy to get however they aren't an automatic tick that magically improves your success.
Pop to a club and ask to be verified.
Go to a social and ask to be verified.
Pop on cam and again ask.
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I had a modicum of success on a previous account. My shit top would be to be yourself. There's a lock for every key just don't put a time frame on it and don't beat yourself up in the process.
Engage in the forums, don't send unsolicited dick pics, accept that no means no and have fun.. send that dad joke, measure your penis in millimetres, send an unsolicited duck pic instead 🦆 |
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"I had a modicum of success on a previous account. My shit top would be to be yourself. There's a lock for every key just don't put a time frame on it and don't beat yourself up in the process.
Engage in the forums, don't send unsolicited dick pics, accept that no means no and have fun.. send that dad joke, measure your penis in millimetres, send an unsolicited duck pic instead 🦆"
*shit tip |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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Set your standards high and your target low.
Be choosy on who you message and actually think about what you are looking for in a playmate beyond a willing hole. Punch above your weight by all means and be confident that you can charm your way into anyone's bed.
Then with that new found confidence, aim to meet one new person a year. Remember, you have something to offer and ladies / couples have to put some effort in too.
Be more than just a cock of convenience and work on establishing that friendship. The harder you try and the more desperate you seem, the harder it is to stand out.
Finally, be yourself and be true to yourself. Don't be what you think others want you to be, invariably you'll get it wrong. Be lucky!
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By *eliWoman 18 weeks ago
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"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.
Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing."
I don't know why but I'm surprised you wrote this. Also kind of turned on. It's very confusing. |
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"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.
Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing.
I don't know why but I'm surprised you wrote this. Also kind of turned on. It's very confusing."
Someone's hit the jackpot, next shag through a mathematical formula to show you how to get your leg over. Just need to plumb into the formula what to say, and your target will jump on you, legs wrapped around your waste. 
Who said maths is boring |
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"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪"
But that doesn't work, that's when they come on the forums complaing the ugly ones won't meet them after they had lowed their standards.
Who knew even munters had standards |
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By *avie65Man 18 weeks ago
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"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪But that doesn't work, that's when they come on the forums complaing the ugly ones won't meet them after they had lowed their standards.
Who knew even munters had standards "
I’ve always had standards. |
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I usually send a face pic and either reference their bio, in more than one sentence, or be polite and succinct as an opening message. Obviously it wont always work (especially with my face and selfie ability) but it has known to on occasion and even enjoyed by those involved! |
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But how do you measure success here in Fab or when swinging?
High body count or that people like you, and don’t have a bad word to say about you?
A lot of verifications could make you look ‘easy’ to some people. #just saying.
I like the wholesome people that only have 1 verification.
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I was very successful as a single guy on fab. Never struggled to arrange meets or cultivate interest in my target audience so to speak.
Being considered physically attractive, without a doubt contributed to this. It gets your foot in the door, but is not a guarantee of success. It needs following up with being engaging, chatty and relaxed. Never give off thirsty vibes or be too eager to immediately go into "sex" talk. Be patient and see how things develop. If all this is anchored to a well written profile with good pictures, I see no reason to not be successful.
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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Always measure your peepee (always call it your peepee too they love that) in units of sky remote, use the forum every day, I know a lot of ladies don’t use the forum but whilst you are in here looking at empty inboxes you may as well make yourself useful
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Only message those profiles you feel you will be a genuine match for;
Block any profiles you’re not a genuine match for (you don’t need them clogging up your local updates with no possibility of a meet);
Be yourself at all times! You’ll get caught out if you’re just saying what you think they want to hear, and women usually go for self confident, comfortable in their own skin men  |
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"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪
*grateful
😂😂
Bring him down!
He needs it doesn't he
I suppose you think you're funny? 🥪
Funnier than you 🍭"
you're funny looking, I'll give you that! 🥪 |
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"Always measure your peepee (always call it your peepee too they love that) in units of sky remote, use the forum every day, I know a lot of ladies don’t use the forum but whilst you are in here looking at empty inboxes you may as well make yourself useful
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Unfortunately that last bit about the forums does hit the nail on the head.
Hey, it's boring at work and I'm lonely. |
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Be nice and don't be a dick!
No seriously read the profile of the person you are messaging and respect their preferences. If you are not it don't message them.
Have some public pics and a completed profile. If you don't have any verifications try to get some via a social or at a club.
Having a list of stipulations or no's is a massive turn off.
Be genuine and nice.
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"start with the munters, they're more greatful! 🥪
*grateful
😂😂
Bring him down!
He needs it doesn't he
I suppose you think you're funny? 🥪"
No.. I know I am  |
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"How does a woman view or measure her success in here.
I should have started a thread for ‘a question for just the ladies’ I know.  "
I would say I was successful as I met lovely respectful guys. Was able to communicate between our selves our wants and needs.
I never had abuse(three abusive messages in 19 years) I never had a no show or cancellation. Fab has always been good to me |
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"How does a woman view or measure her success in here.
I should have started a thread for ‘a question for just the ladies’ I know. "
I can pull way hotter guys than I can in real life.
May the men always outnumber the women!! 🙏🏻 |
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Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
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Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better. |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
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That’d be me out on the patience one 🤣 |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better."
Ahhh. Here's the big point.
If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem. |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better."
Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER? |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?"
They aren't synonymous. |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?"
There's only one P. It needs more work😕 |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?
There's only one P. It needs more work😕"
Penis - they'll let you know when they're ready to see it. |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Ahhh. Here's the big point.
If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem. "
This reads like chat gp would answer. |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Ahhh. Here's the big point.
If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.
This reads like chat gp would answer. "
Wow. Offensive, somewhat.
Skibidi, Skibidi. |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Colin, if it's okay with you, could we change Authenticity with Individuality an I think we might be able to make MR HAPPIER?
There's only one P. It needs more work😕
Penis - they'll let you know when they're ready to see it."
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better."
Just use points two to five for your handy to remember acronym. |
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Just use points two to five for your handy to remember acronym."
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
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Thankyou for your input Colin and your verifications prove this to work.
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Just use points two to five for your handy to remember acronym.
PEAR 🍐 "
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Just use points two to five for your handy to remember acronym.
PEAR 🍐
Well I had REAP 👨🌾 but near enough."
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Ahhh. Here's the big point.
If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.
This reads like chat gp would answer.
Wow. Offensive, somewhat.
Skibidi, Skibidi. "
You think this was an offensive reply?
Just hang around, your on the internet you know.
But seriously. This sounded like a chatgp search. #justsaying. ….
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Ahhh. Here's the big point.
If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.
This reads like chat gp would answer.
Wow. Offensive, somewhat.
Skibidi, Skibidi.
You think this was an offensive reply?
Just hang around, your on the internet you know.
But seriously. This sounded like a chatgp search. #justsaying. ….
Walks away from this chat. "
Doesn't really matter, he's a successful man and it works for him. Why would you be negative |
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"All you need is a comprehensive framework for navigating and understanding social and romantic dynamics.
Once you've got that down pat, it's plain sailing.
I don't know why but I'm surprised you wrote this. Also kind of turned on. It's very confusing.
Someone's hit the jackpot, next shag through a mathematical formula to show you how to get your leg over. Just need to plumb into the formula what to say, and your target will jump on you, legs wrapped around your waste.
Who said maths is boring "
It's an art not a science, McLovin!
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"Honesty - always tell the truth and you won't have to remember what you've said.
Respect - treat everyone in the way that you'd hope your friends would be treated by strangers.
Acceptance - realise that you're not everyone's cup of tea and learn to accept rejection.
Patience - the more impatient you are, the less attractive you look.
Expectations - if you expect nothing more than a friendly chat, with anything physical being just a surprise bonus, then you can't be disappointed.
Authenticity - if you're not being yourself, you can't attract someone who would like you.
Modesty - don't brag about your talents, let folks find out from your verifications.
Realism - never, ever take yourself too seriously.
Helpful - wearing a T-shirt bearing your name in large flaming letters will let a stranger know that they have finally found The Legend.
Surely we can make an acronym out of this so we can remember it better.
Ahhh. Here's the big point.
If you don't already behave like this naturally, without trying, without even thinking about it... You have a problem.
This reads like chat gp would answer.
Wow. Offensive, somewhat.
Skibidi, Skibidi.
You think this was an offensive reply?
Just hang around, your on the internet you know.
But seriously. This sounded like a chatgp search. #justsaying. ….
Walks away from this chat. Doesn't really matter, he's a successful man and it works for him. Why would you be negative"
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I thought I posted here but I must have only wrote it in my head.
Success on Fab, to me, means leveraging what you have to get what you want.
It's not any one thing.
I'd consider myself as having met a reasonable amount of success in as much as I now have a network of friends and lovers in a sex positive community
I meet people by staying active in the forums and I attend the occasional day time coffee social.
I don't send opening messages and I don't go to clubs or social events in busy bars or venues as I don't shine there at all.
I take photos for myself and I enjoy sharing them and other people seem to like that too. |
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Go to a social.
Chat to every man in the room .
They will vet you... Once approved, chat to the wives, gf's.
Be prepared to go home alone from a social.
Be patient.
If they liked you, they'll get in touch.
Write a good profile.
Nude selfies aren't good.
Get a good friend to take your photos.
Stand out from the (below) average man.
Be impeccable in all your interactions.
Women talk to other women, and will refer you.
I never send a first message.
Shiva waits until Shakti decides.
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