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By (user no longer on site) OP 19 weeks ago
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I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Sadly even here, there's still a stigma around men being bi.
Women are encouraged and it's almost expected that they're bi.
That's a very narrow minded view she holds,but at least she's shown you who she is op.
Lots of other women don't mind if a man is bi. |
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By *elloWoman 19 weeks ago
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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She's a twat, please know that her opinion is not shared by all |
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It's not wrong, of course, as it's a natural human condition  . The specimen of our species who said this is a very poor example of those who are hatred filled and ignorant.
It's unbelievable that people think and communicate this way.
If her speech was bordering on hate speech, report the profile. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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So when are you meeting her? |
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By *rpeggioCouple 19 weeks ago
Baughurst |
I can understand also how someone may think, narrow mindedly, that DOING something is wrong (choice involved), but how could ever be wrong BEING something? People are what they are, that's not a choice. And those denying that are phobics. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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I'd ignore her, you can't fix stupid or ignorant... Keep being you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
I'd ignore her, you can't fix stupid or ignorant... Keep being you xx"
Totally agree! |
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"I've never had a problem with bi men,if they want the best of both worlds good on them ...
Wake up this is 2025 ....parameters have moved on ...."
Reawaken, there was a time in history it wasn't a big deal.
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
She's a twat, please know that her opinion is not shared by all"
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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Sadly it is still about the perceived rates of sexually transmitted diseases and HIV in most cases
However, from the Terrence Higgins Trust
The number of new diagnoses is rising. In 2023, the number of HIV diagnoses first made in England increased by 15%. Diagnoses increased by 7% in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men, a reversal of the declines seen in recent years. Diagnoses increased by 32% in heterosexual men and woman
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By (user no longer on site) OP 19 weeks ago
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
I'd ignore her, you can't fix stupid or ignorant... Keep being you xx"
Thanks x |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
I'd ignore her, you can't fix stupid or ignorant... Keep being you xx
Thanks x"
Hugs x |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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it was one person’s opinion it wouldn’t mean nothing to me if it’s what you are balls to anyone else |
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By *elloWoman 19 weeks ago
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"No problem with bi men at all, just be you and enjoy
It's nice seeing all these messages like these but would you meet up with a bi guy for sex?"
Absolutely, a straight threesome is so 'meh' but a threesome with 2 bi guys is fantastic.  |
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"No problem with bi men at all, just be you and enjoy
It's nice seeing all these messages like these but would you meet up with a bi guy for sex?
Absolutely, a straight threesome is so 'meh' but a threesome with 2 bi guys is fantastic. "
My favourite 😍 |
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By *KentMan 19 weeks ago
Cardiff |
"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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She sounds classy. Block her and move on! |
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By *agic.MMan 19 weeks ago
Orpington |
I think what she's trying to say is this...
(Imagine the most chavy accent ever)
"Any man whright, that gets s💩it fu🍆ked by another man yeah, and likes to munch on manhood, is not a real man fuh fock seihk...and he's definitely not masculine enough to have sex with me yeah right? It pisses me off that someone like that even thinks they could chat me up...fock seihk"
☝SARCASM
All jokes aside, best thing to do is ignore her 🙏 |
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A very strange attitude and not one I've come across myself. Neither have I had any bad vibes about being bi, just the odd polite rejection from couples who only want to meet straight guys.
Just ignore them and carry on, I'd say. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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You should direct the lady to this page and let her see that her views are not share by the community on here, hopefully that will change her outlook |
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By *oobaaMan 19 weeks ago
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I actually got abuse from a female on here for being Bi. She said she would never let a BI man fuck her
Her profile shows that she has been fucked by at least 3 guys that I know are Bi...strange Lady. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Not my cup of tea but each to there own good luck in you’re fab journey   |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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An ex of mine thought it was disgusting for men to have sex with each other as she thought anal was nasty. She was Bi herself though didn't do anal, although oddly enough, we did do anal at least 3 times with a condom. Her idea every time despite me saying I didn't want to because of her stance on it 🤨
There's a lot backwards people into there with double standards and often wind up being some of the rudest, disrespectful people out there while demanding they deserve respect themselves. Odd behaviour if you ask me |
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We have had similar messages from both lads and lasses. As someone who really struggled to accept that side if myself due to upbringing and schooling (Catholic) I constantly felt like I had something wrong with me. I found it even more confusing that I don't have romantic feeling for men but sexually I do. When we joined here we was abit naive thinking ot would be a place kf acceptance but at times it's really shocking how narrow minded people can be. We fully understand preferences and would never take issue with that but when you start making assumptions and applying a one size fits all that's why it's an issue and even worse is when people just randomly send us abuse for it. We get it all from people trying to tell violet she should not he with a bi man to people telling me they have a problem with me just for being bi and these are first messages. We will never change and we will always be ourself no matter what and whilst it's not nice to get those messages it does make us laugh and has now become an in joke for us. |
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By *AYENCouple 19 weeks ago
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"Sadly it is still about the perceived rates of sexually transmitted diseases and HIV in most cases
However, from the Terrence Higgins Trust
The number of new diagnoses is rising. In 2023, the number of HIV diagnoses first made in England increased by 15%. Diagnoses increased by 7% in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men, a reversal of the declines seen in recent years. Diagnoses increased by 32% in heterosexual men and woman
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DO you know how many bi men call themselves straight - going by Fab, it's a lot. So I would take those statistics with a very large pinch of salt. K. |
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I just got told I was a freak in a frock by a woman on here today ,,,,,,,,,,,, |
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I’m sure there’s loads that think like that. For religious regions and ignorant twat reasons. You must know that. Just block and don’t let people’s opinions who you wouldn’t meet anyway get to you. |
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"I’m sure there’s loads that think like that. For religious regions and ignorant twat reasons. You must know that. Just block and don’t let people’s opinions who you wouldn’t meet anyway get to you. "
*reasons. Not regions  |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 19 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"I just got told I was a freak in a frock by a woman on here today ,,,,,,,,,,,,"
Just... wow... 🙄 |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 19 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
"I just got told I was a freak in a frock by a woman on here today ,,,,,,,,,,,,"
Report abuse. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
She's a twat, please know that her opinion is not shared by all"
Agree with this , what is her problem ? Some folk have double standards |
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"I just got told I was a freak in a frock by a woman on here today ,,,,,,,,,,,,"
I hope you've blocked and reported them, absolutely no need for that x |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Not sure I can add more than what has been said.
Some people still do hold these outdated view. Just ignore it and move on - plenty more fish in the sea - both female and male. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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Never understood why people get so wound up about all these labels. It’s sex that’s all. If you want identify as whatever that’s your business not mine. Just do you and be kind.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
She's a twat, please know that her opinion is not shared by all"
that's very nice opinions only if they align with others brilliant. |
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How did I find out I was Bi, it was a group session and we just all got together and ended in one big sweaty heap. And I have had the best times with people since.
So ignore people like her it’s not her thing |
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"I can understand also how someone may think, narrow mindedly, that DOING something is wrong (choice involved), but how could ever be wrong BEING something? People are what they are, that's not a choice. And those denying that are phobics."
Oh there's plenty here who thing BEING something is wrong. |
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"I just got told I was a freak in a frock by a woman on here today ,,,,,,,,,,,,"
Had that more in six months here than 2.5 years openly trans out in the world. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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See if she has a male partner. If she does, bang him. Hard. |
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By *irsSubCouple 19 weeks ago
Darlington |
I've said it before and I'll say it again the last bastion of homophobia is heterosexual women.
The only time I've ever experienced homophobia is from straight women (most with pride flags on their photos) on the famous swiping app. I was called disgusting, a freak and worse.
There was a frightening correlation between the ones who went out their way to seem LGBT friendly and abuse |
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"Thanks to Fab, have realised that being a swinger doesn't equal to being open minded."
Couldn’t agree more. You expect people in this lifestyle to be a little more open minded than those not in it but if anything it’s often the opposite. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Like her opinion matters, you do you and enjoy life. Still a stigma with male bisexuality but just move in like minded circles and it ceases to be relevant. |
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"Since when has it been wrong for men to be bisexual."
Since forever, there's a huge hypocrisy here, there and everywhere about bi men. Profiles on this platform say they won't meet them for example. |
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Some people will always just hate others. It’s unfortunate and they need educating. However, their journey to education shouldn’t be some you should feel bad about. Full respect to all who cause no harm to others! |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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She sounds like a miserable cunt , I’d just block and forget their pointless existence |
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"I just got told I was a freak in a frock by a woman on here today ,,,,,,,,,,,,
I hope you've blocked and reported them, absolutely no need for that x"
absolutely |
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It is heartening to see so many open-minded people in support of bisexual men.
One has to remember that sex between men was illegal in England and Wales until 1967, in Scotland until 1981 and in Northern Ireland until 1982. Equal age of consent only happened in 2001.
Same-sex marriage wasn't possible in Great Britain until 2014 and in Northern Ireland until 2020.
As it has taken the establishment and the legal system this long to wake up to the reality that men can be attracted to men and that there's nothing wrong with that, there are going to be many people who still believe "it's all wrong".
Hopefully the direction of travel will not reverse but we need to be aware that there are still plenty of bigots amongst us. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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Live and let live but for some it's a religious thing so I see why they might reject the practice if a Holy Book forbids it. What does the Bible or Koran say? |
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"Live and let live but for some it's a religious thing so I see why they might reject the practice if a Holy Book forbids it. What does the Bible or Koran say? "
Depends which bit you read!
We love to see each other having fun with men and women. Should I say that with the man/woman ratio it's a surprise not all men are bi lol. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Millions of Bisexual and Gay men would disagree with her. |
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"I’m a straight man but I’d love experience something bi with a couple or a man not anal but touching and if I got caught in the moment suck a man "
Give it a go, life’s short, try things.
Wander around a gay sauna, see how you feel. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
I'd ignore her, you can't fix stupid or ignorant... Keep being you xx"
Well, you *can*, but you'll need a lot of hot water & a good stiff brush afterwards. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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I have a sneaky suspicion that I know who said this to you because I've been told the exact same thing by a woman on here, annoyingly she messaged me from a bi forum post just to tell me what she thought, not sure what she hoped to achieve but I'm still bi and loving my life regardless of how wrong Some people may think it is 
Mr H |
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"Do you think people are permitted to have their own opinions even if they are unpopular. Does everything have to backed up by scientific fact? "
People may hold whatever opinion they like, but crucially, no one has to respect that opinion & may roundly mock it, especially if it is manifestly nonsense.
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"No problem with bi men at all, just be you and enjoy "
Exactly this, but be honest with both yourself and any partners especially if supposed loved ones the sooner the better, could lead to more fun than expected  |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"I’m a straight man but I’d love experience something bi with a couple or a man not anal but touching and if I got caught in the moment suck a man
Give it a go, life’s short, try things.
Wander around a gay sauna, see how you feel."
I would not recommend this advice. It is reckless for a straight male to go into a gay sauna. Very dangerous territory |
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"Sadly it is still about the perceived rates of sexually transmitted diseases and HIV in most cases
However, from the Terrence Higgins Trust
The number of new diagnoses is rising. In 2023, the number of HIV diagnoses first made in England increased by 15%. Diagnoses increased by 7% in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men, a reversal of the declines seen in recent years. Diagnoses increased by 32% in heterosexual men and woman
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A lot if guys on prep now for hiv were i doubt many women are who have anal sex ,or sex with bi men |
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"I’m a straight man but I’d love experience something bi with a couple or a man not anal but touching and if I got caught in the moment suck a man
Give it a go, life’s short, try things.
Wander around a gay sauna, see how you feel.
I would not recommend this advice. It is reckless for a straight male to go into a gay sauna. Very dangerous territory "
Sorry don't agree, never found any pressure to play....always been courteous...how do guys in the sauna know if your straight or bi
...they don't. ????? |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Being a swinger doesn't make her right |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"I’m a straight man but I’d love experience something bi with a couple or a man not anal but touching and if I got caught in the moment suck a man
Give it a go, life’s short, try things.
Wander around a gay sauna, see how you feel.
I would not recommend this advice. It is reckless for a straight male to go into a gay sauna. Very dangerous territory Sorry don't agree, never found any pressure to play....always been courteous...how do guys in the sauna know if your straight or bi
...they don't. ?????"
Isn't that the point? |
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"I’m a straight man but I’d love experience something bi with a couple or a man not anal but touching and if I got caught in the moment suck a man
Give it a go, life’s short, try things.
Wander around a gay sauna, see how you feel.
I would not recommend this advice. It is reckless for a straight male to go into a gay sauna. Very dangerous territory Sorry don't agree, never found any pressure to play....always been courteous...how do guys in the sauna know if your straight or bi
...they don't. ?????"
it's a gay sauna? Otherwise it would just be a sauna with people regardless of sexuality going |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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You do what you like, don't worry about other people and labels. |
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"I’m a straight man but I’d love experience something bi with a couple or a man not anal but touching and if I got caught in the moment suck a man
Give it a go, life’s short, try things.
Wander around a gay sauna, see how you feel.
I would not recommend this advice. It is reckless for a straight male to go into a gay sauna. Very dangerous territory "
It’s a venue not a cult meeting place
A chance to meet other guys and see if he’d like to experience gay sex, leave if it’s overwhelming or participate if it feels right. |
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I tired of justifying my sexuality some time ago
"I'll do me, you do you" is my approach now
I won't shy away or justify what I enjoy sexually with anyone
No one is losing out, you're just not a match |
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"No problem with bi men at all, just be you and enjoy
Exactly this, but be honest with both yourself and any partners especially if supposed loved ones the sooner the better, could lead to more fun than expected "
Very true. Coming out as bi to my then partner a few years ago was the best decision I made! |
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I have had a 3sum he was not bi but I had the urge to try cock but he would not do it I later on in years as thinking about it did get a bloke to suck me off he was very good at it
But now I want to try suckin cock
I was think off going to a gay spa
Or find a bi couple
I'm still thinking about it |
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"I have had a 3sum he was not bi but I had the urge to try cock but he would not do it I later on in years as thinking about it did get a bloke to suck me off he was very good at it
But now I want to try suckin cock
I was think off going to a gay spa
Or find a bi couple
I'm still thinking about it "
Try it - what you got to lose!! |
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"I reckon everyone is bi with right person as you get older u realize just enjoy been what u want to be im bi and gf is i feel no shame "
Used to feel terrible shame. As I have got older and not had to bottle things up, it has become so much easier now. |
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"And if a straight guy goes in. What happens if they pounce ?"
Gay and Bi men do have standards, it’s not always a free for all. If anything consent is important and necessary to have an enjoyable experience for all parties. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"And if a straight guy goes in. What happens if they pounce ?
Why would they?
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It's a gay sauna and sex venue and we all know what goes on in these places.. straight men go in at their peril |
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"And if a straight guy goes in. What happens if they pounce ?
Why would they?
It's a gay sauna and sex venue and we all know what goes on in these places.. straight men go in at their peril"
As a straight guy …why are you hanging around in gay saunas ?
Straight guys, I have been in several and no Gay or Bisexual man will leap on you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"And if a straight guy goes in. What happens if they pounce ?
Why would they?
It's a gay sauna and sex venue and we all know what goes on in these places.. straight men go in at their peril
As a straight guy …why are you hanging around in gay saunas ?
Straight guys, I have been in several and no Gay or Bisexual man will leap on you. "
I accidentally went into a gay sauna once because I thought it was a health spa. I can assure you that people were trying to pounce on me. I had to leave very quickly I can assure you. There needs to be stricter regulation the door of these places. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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I don't see what her being a swinger and being on here has to do with her opinion.
She can have her opinions and beliefs and she is entitled to air them. That doesn't mean anyone has to agree with them or that anyone is right or wrong.
Do you think she is WRONG ? |
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By *astpoetMan 18 weeks ago
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I always equate bigotry (which this is) with stupidity.
Everyone is free to their preferences of who they do what with, but when you cast a judgement on someone for how they are then you are simply showing your lack of intelligence.
Most times this comes from fear, but as often as not it’s also because the person isn’t hugely clever too |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 18 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
"And if a straight guy goes in. What happens if they pounce ?
Why would they?
It's a gay sauna and sex venue and we all know what goes on in these places.. straight men go in at their peril
As a straight guy …why are you hanging around in gay saunas ?
Straight guys, I have been in several and no Gay or Bisexual man will leap on you.
I accidentally went into a gay sauna once because I thought it was a health spa. I can assure you that people were trying to pounce on me. I had to leave very quickly I can assure you. There needs to be stricter regulation the door of these places. "
I’m getting the Sir Norman Fry from Little Britain vibeso |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Whether we all agree or not I guess people are free to their own opinions
And of course it could be someone looking for an argument |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Why do people feel the need to push their opinions into others? |
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By *ayHaychMan 18 weeks ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
In my early 20s at Uni, I was rather naive and would tell people I was bisexual quite openly. I lost 2 female friends after telling them. I used to think the stigma would only be from men, but I learnt quickly that wasn’t true. |
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Its wrong for her. She isnt interested in bisexual men.
Sometimes the problem is how people word things.
We've been told its wrong that we don't like same room play. We took that feedback, laughed and blocked them. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Traditional Christian view. Lesbianism was never illegal. Only sex between men. Why bother yourself? Just tell her not to apply her standards to you, and if she's incapable just block her. |
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You have to realise that everyone is entitled to an opinion, regardless of how many people think it is fucking ridiculous. |
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"I just got told by a woman that it’s wrong for men to be bisexual, but it’s okay for women. It’s okay for men to have anal with women but not men. It’s totally wrong and she is a swinger on here.
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Men and women have an equal right to fuck who ever says yes. If she does not want bi guys, that is up to her. If she thinks they should go to jail, she has goe too far. |
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"I’m a straight man but I’d love experience something bi with a couple or a man not anal but touching and if I got caught in the moment suck a man
Give it a go, life’s short, try things.
Wander around a gay sauna, see how you feel.
I would not recommend this advice. It is reckless for a straight male to go into a gay sauna. Very dangerous territory "
Get a life. Reckless? Dangerous? 🤪
If approached and you don’t want to engage, just say no thanks. Just like any other club or bar or social setting. |
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My partner asked if I have been with a guy. Told her yes. She was ok with it as she has been with a woman. She happily peggs me and loves watching me play with toys. The thicker the better for her. No one should tell you it's wrong. It's your life so enjoy it. |
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By *teff_RedTV/TS 18 weeks ago
Greenhouse or northwich |
"I’m a straight man but I’d love experience something bi with a couple or a man not anal but touching and if I got caught in the moment suck a man
Give it a go, life’s short, try things.
Wander around a gay sauna, see how you feel.
I would not recommend this advice. It is reckless for a straight male to go into a gay sauna. Very dangerous territory "
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No still means no even in a sauna.. |
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