I do sometimes. An ex used to always add 'Xx' to the end of messages and I always hated how the first x is capitalised and the second isn't. But I never said anything. But I'd sometimes send my own lone x to him in return. I'll do it sometimes but there's no pattern to it. |
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By *ooBulMan 15 weeks ago
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Oh Op, I do this unconsciously .... Holy Crap!
Is this not helping? I've never really given it much consideration to be frank.
To be honest - "I don't really care!" It amuses me.
I've done it & women reply to me. It doesn't seem to bother them really then does it.
I am quite chilled out & kissing my heels (no drugs needed.)
A lovely femme fetale will reply if she wishes too!  |
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Only to someone I want to send kisses to.
I didn’t grow up with this xxx or xoxoxox meaning kisses/affection, so still feels weird to me.
I prefer the emoji 😘😘😘😘😘 when I used to correspond with the husband back in the 90s by email it was :-* or :* |
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It varies to be honest. I wouldn't usually but if another woman does it then I'll tend to do the same. I've actually picked up when I'm in the doghouse before when they haven't put it at the end of their message 😅 |
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By *aizyWoman 15 weeks ago
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"It varies to be honest. I wouldn't usually but if another woman does it then I'll tend to do the same. I've actually picked up when I'm in the doghouse before when they haven't put it at the end of their message 😅"
Frantically checking back through all of our msgs now! 😱  |
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"No. If you get into the habit of doing it then on the one time you forget they are all "why no x, what's a matter with you?". It's easier to just not."
Totally putting kisses at the end of my next message to you. Just to piss you off. xx
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"Do you put kisses at the end of messages?
Is this to everyone or to specific categories of people?
If you don't and someone puts it on their message, would you respond in kind? "
In private messages, I do to people I’d quite like to kiss. On the forum, I do sometimes, just because x |
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No. It's never been habitual. A few years ago, on here, a woman with whom I was chatting remarked that I never signed off with an "xx".
It just never occurred to me and I was surprised by her remark.
Now, maybe once in a while I will. These days the saviour is the "🩶" emoji for me.
I can't get used to the "xx"... ... |
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