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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I'm pretty good - how about you OP? "
All good thanks! We all know what this sites for but nice to just check in and see how people are getting on now and again  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I'm not sure TBH. I'm not sure if my brain is gearing up to give me a big kick up the arse to get me motivated, or just give me a kicking."
Ay, we all go through the highs and lows. Just getting out of bed in the morning is enough kick it back if it starts acting up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"Motivation has dipped the past few days. Partly burnout, and partly worry over a sick child… but tomorrow is a new day. "
The right attitude my mate. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to negate burnout and I hope the little one is on the mend pronto |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I’m good, even though I’m a tad annoyed with myself as I did t get everything done it wanted to do. I will do it tomorrow though. "
Be kind to yourself boss man, if It can be done tomorrow it can be done the next day too don't stress about what you have done and focus on the good you have |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"Mentally and physically ..exhausted. "
We all get like that don't we, take time to look after number 1 and the others can look after themselves for a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"How are we all within ourselves tonight mates? We all good?
I've had a bad week or so & am slowly dragging myself out of the rut, thanks for asking  "
Only way is up chief, there's no time limit so take it as it comes |
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By *avie65Man 18 weeks ago
In the west. |
"I’m good, even though I’m a tad annoyed with myself as I did t get everything done it wanted to do. I will do it tomorrow though.
Be kind to yourself boss man, if It can be done tomorrow it can be done the next day too don't stress about what you have done and focus on the good you have "
I will OP. It was just stuff in the garden so I can take it nice and easy when the sun is out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I’m good, even though I’m a tad annoyed with myself as I did t get everything done it wanted to do. I will do it tomorrow though.
Be kind to yourself boss man, if It can be done tomorrow it can be done the next day too don't stress about what you have done and focus on the good you have
I will OP. It was just stuff in the garden so I can take it nice and easy when the sun is out. "
Sounds like it's an accidental win mate take advantage of the good weather coming up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I'm feeling peeved but it's first world problems and so I should just put my big woman pants on and turn the other cheek. "
Ay nobody can tell you youre not allowed to feel annoyed by something just because of the perceived level of problem. If it's doing your head in that's enough. Take the big woman pants off and hand out some throat punches with a smile on your face |
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By *avie65Man 18 weeks ago
In the west. |
"I’m good, even though I’m a tad annoyed with myself as I did t get everything done it wanted to do. I will do it tomorrow though.
Be kind to yourself boss man, if It can be done tomorrow it can be done the next day too don't stress about what you have done and focus on the good you have
I will OP. It was just stuff in the garden so I can take it nice and easy when the sun is out.
Sounds like it's an accidental win mate take advantage of the good weather coming up "
Thank you, I will. I might even have a cheeky beer when I’ve finished. 🍻 |
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By *ChubsMan 18 weeks ago
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"How are we all within ourselves tonight mates? We all good?
I've had a bad week or so & am slowly dragging myself out of the rut, thanks for asking
Only way is up chief, there's no time limit so take it as it comes "
That's how I'm doing it 👍🏻 |
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"I'm feeling peeved but it's first world problems and so I should just put my big woman pants on and turn the other cheek.
Ay nobody can tell you youre not allowed to feel annoyed by something just because of the perceived level of problem. If it's doing your head in that's enough. Take the big woman pants off and hand out some throat punches with a smile on your face "
It relates to an expired passport (not mine) and the inability to travel during the forthcoming Easter break. Annoyed because I pointed out the impending expiry back in December.
Oh well. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"How are we all within ourselves tonight mates? We all good? "
Great to check in, but how are you? Doing so much for others.
I'm ok. And that's enough. Like most I'm on a knife edge of great and struggling. Xx |
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By *orny PTMan 18 weeks ago
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3 blood tests, one ADHD/dyscalculia triage pre diagnosis, one vein zapped, an MRI scan and a sense of burn out as well as the waiting for answers, oh and Uni work as well.
Hardware or software or both? Something's to blame. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I’m good, even though I’m a tad annoyed with myself as I did t get everything done it wanted to do. I will do it tomorrow though.
Be kind to yourself boss man, if It can be done tomorrow it can be done the next day too don't stress about what you have done and focus on the good you have
I will OP. It was just stuff in the garden so I can take it nice and easy when the sun is out.
Sounds like it's an accidental win mate take advantage of the good weather coming up
Thank you, I will. I might even have a cheeky beer when I’ve finished. 🍻"
Haha that's the spirit boss!...but why not have one midway too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I'm feeling peeved but it's first world problems and so I should just put my big woman pants on and turn the other cheek.
Ay nobody can tell you youre not allowed to feel annoyed by something just because of the perceived level of problem. If it's doing your head in that's enough. Take the big woman pants off and hand out some throat punches with a smile on your face
It relates to an expired passport (not mine) and the inability to travel during the forthcoming Easter break. Annoyed because I pointed out the impending expiry back in December.
Oh well. "
My immediate thoughts on this to the expired passport holder is...sounds like a you problem?
Sounds like you did all you could |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"How are we all within ourselves tonight mates? We all good?
Great to check in, but how are you? Doing so much for others.
I'm ok. And that's enough. Like most I'm on a knife edge of great and struggling. Xx"
Yeah I'm alright mate cheers for asking
And ay, being on the edge is better than jumping off to the wrong side. Be kind to yourself chief and lean off the other side |
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"I'm feeling peeved but it's first world problems and so I should just put my big woman pants on and turn the other cheek.
Ay nobody can tell you youre not allowed to feel annoyed by something just because of the perceived level of problem. If it's doing your head in that's enough. Take the big woman pants off and hand out some throat punches with a smile on your face
It relates to an expired passport (not mine) and the inability to travel during the forthcoming Easter break. Annoyed because I pointed out the impending expiry back in December.
Oh well.
My immediate thoughts on this to the expired passport holder is...sounds like a you problem?
Sounds like you did all you could "
I'm the one wanting to travel! In the old days, I'd have fooked off by myself but that's much less feasible nowadays. I need said expired passport holder unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"3 blood tests, one ADHD/dyscalculia triage pre diagnosis, one vein zapped, an MRI scan and a sense of burn out as well as the waiting for answers, oh and Uni work as well.
Hardware or software or both? Something's to blame."
Sorry to hear you're going through all that mate, hopefully you get some light at the end of the tunnel.
when waiting for answers mate always remember what randy Armstrong said...“Worrying does not take away tomorrow's troubles. It takes away today's peace.”
Hope things work out for you mate, hope uni work is going well. Get out there and smash it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"This year seems never ending, it's all a bit too much for me "
It can get like that sometimes can't it. As long as you're kind to yourself things will work themselves out
Inbox is open if you need to chat or vent |
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By *avie65Man 18 weeks ago
In the west. |
"I’m good, even though I’m a tad annoyed with myself as I did t get everything done it wanted to do. I will do it tomorrow though.
Be kind to yourself boss man, if It can be done tomorrow it can be done the next day too don't stress about what you have done and focus on the good you have
I will OP. It was just stuff in the garden so I can take it nice and easy when the sun is out.
Sounds like it's an accidental win mate take advantage of the good weather coming up
Thank you, I will. I might even have a cheeky beer when I’ve finished. 🍻
Haha that's the spirit boss!...but why not have one midway too? "
You have twisted my arm. I will have mine about 3pm if you want to join me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I'm feeling peeved but it's first world problems and so I should just put my big woman pants on and turn the other cheek.
Ay nobody can tell you youre not allowed to feel annoyed by something just because of the perceived level of problem. If it's doing your head in that's enough. Take the big woman pants off and hand out some throat punches with a smile on your face
It relates to an expired passport (not mine) and the inability to travel during the forthcoming Easter break. Annoyed because I pointed out the impending expiry back in December.
Oh well.
My immediate thoughts on this to the expired passport holder is...sounds like a you problem?
Sounds like you did all you could
I'm the one wanting to travel! In the old days, I'd have fooked off by myself but that's much less feasible nowadays. I need said expired passport holder unfortunately. "
Ahh Very annoying then! That being said, a little solo travel is great isn't it? I went to Japan alone in June and loved it. Take me instead if expired passport can't make it id love a break haha |
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"I'm pretty good - how about you OP?
All good thanks! We all know what this sites for but nice to just check in and see how people are getting on now and again "
It's lovely - I used to especially like some of the mens MH threads - I think Thumper and Tom Plays used to run them regularly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"I'm pretty good - how about you OP?
All good thanks! We all know what this sites for but nice to just check in and see how people are getting on now and again
It's lovely - I used to especially like some of the mens MH threads - I think Thumper and Tom Plays used to run them regularly "
Must admit I'm not a regular forum user to my detriment, but just thought I'd start the conversation x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"Thanks for getting involved tonight troops
Thank you for asking how we were OP. It isn’t always easy to open up and you made it a safe place with your comments. "
Not a bother my mate. Will probably do this once a week going forward |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"Yes.
It's been a bumpy day, but nothing that can't be managed.
Glad to hear it SS tomorrow's a new day ay?!
Yep, it absolutely is.
Let's greet it with enthusiasm. "
Correct! Tomorrow belongs to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"Could be better, have had an emotional week but we move forward
The right attitude la Luna! Things are on the turn for you
Thank you Jacob! 😘"
Not a problem doll DMs open if you need to vent/chat/share conspiracy theories |
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"Yes.
It's been a bumpy day, but nothing that can't be managed.
Glad to hear it SS tomorrow's a new day ay?!
Yep, it absolutely is.
Let's greet it with enthusiasm.
Correct! Tomorrow belongs to you "
Tomorrow belongs to everyone.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 18 weeks ago
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"It's utterly shit but almost over .... but the suns out and tomorrow is a new day!
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Can only be up from here mate enjoy the weather, get out there and get some vitamin D
Not a euphemism haha |
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