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Never been messaged from your type!
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By *eliWoman 9 weeks ago
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No one person ticks all my boxes. Never have, never will. And that's okay because I don't expect one person to. I don't really have a type but there are certain traits I find myself drawn to.
In terms of people I might find attractive if a friendship develops? Yes. I've always been quite lucky? Not sure it's luck. Erm... fortunate.  |
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It used to happen all the time
I crafted my profile to attract a certain type of guy and it worked.
Still got loads of rubbish in my inbox but they where quickly delt with via the block button.
Fab was always good to me |
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"How many times have you had a DM/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you? "
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Every message I've had never ticked all the boxes for me. The day I receive a message from someone who ticks all the boxes will be the day I leave Fab altogether.
I'm looking for women who tick ·some· of the boxes, the remaining 'un-ticked' ones represent their quirks, their idiosyncrasies and their unconventional traits: all those things that I'm looking for which make them unusual and less ordinary. 🩶 |
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You see that's the thing. To me I don't really know if they tick boxes until we get chatting. They might be extremely attractive but if they have the personality of a brick, then I'm going to lose interest. |
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By *im le2Man 9 weeks ago
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Have you? How many times have you had a dm/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you?
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I would say never.
I can picture my perfect date but if he ever text I would wonder what's wrong with him wanting to meet me.
Plus I've been fantasizing about this Prefect man for years . What if we meet up and he disappoints what them? I could never fantasize about him again.
No thanks I'll stick to all the guys that have little bits of my perfect guy. I could probably make him out of bits from half a dozen men just like I could be one part of there Mr perfect. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 9 weeks ago
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"You see that's the thing. To me I don't really know if they tick boxes until we get chatting. They might be extremely attractive but if they have the personality of a brick, then I'm going to lose interest. "
There’s that too
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"You see that's the thing. To me I don't really know if they tick boxes until we get chatting. They might be extremely attractive but if they have the personality of a brick, then I'm going to lose interest. "
I get that. But …
She’s pretty. The bio is spot on and says everything you’d look for. Her photos look exactly like the person your turn your head to look at.
That type of thing, her personality should shine through her profile text,( hopefully)
The fact her interaction with you might not click, is that thing we’ll never know I suppose u til we get to speak privately and in person, because text has never done anyone any favours to show who we are.
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Twice!
Been on this site 16 months & within 1000’s of messages, I’ve had 2 men on here message me that have ticked all the boxes, 1 I saw for a year when I lived in Northampton & he was in the next village, the other is a 30 minute drive where I’m living now.
Nobody has ticked my boxes at a club or social yet. |
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Have you? How many times have you had a dm/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you?
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I think I'm pretty clear I enjoy the more voluptuous lady so I get my fair share of messages from the demographic. And a much larger percentage of men I'm not interested in |
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Never been messaged from your type!
Have you? How many times have you had a dm/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you?
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I can count on one hand
90% of messages get deleted without being read completely
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I rarely get messages full stop let alone messages from 'my types' and i'm pretty flexible in what i would consider to be my type. Only occasionally do i even get a reply if i message anybody on here.
Not sure where i'm going wrong but its definitely not working for me. |
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Some other people have come close enough and that is a pleasure too. 
