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Any suggestions on how to stand out from the rest?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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Hi, as the title says. I would welcome any input to help my profile stand out from the thousands of other men on here, I seem to have good conversations when I get them but it never really goes anywhere. So any suggestions would be very much appreciated. |
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Your profile is key and I’d say in the main that’s not bad.
A good way to stand out is to get involved in the forums because it gives people a better idea of your personality and what you’re into.
In real life, getting to organised socials and club nights can help you to get noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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The blurb looks OK but are you 29 or 30?
The first pic in your gallery is of you barebacking another woman - that might put some off.
A tip really is to have patience. It's very important here |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Nothing wrong with your profile OP, I couldn't even find a spelling mistake 
*Some* profiles express a preference for not seeing a person hanging out of the back of someone else, so maybe that is a issue with your public pictures. Not that it would bother me I hasten to add.
The profile says you're 29, but the age says 30. Not a massive issue, but maybe remove the "29" from the text if you don't intend updating it. |
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"The blurb looks OK but are you 29 or 30?
The first pic in your gallery is of you barebacking another woman - that might put some off.
This. Definitely puts me off when blokes do that.
A tip really is to have patience. It's very important here"
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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I appreciate the honesty, update the blurb.
Picture was with a trusted FB so I understand why people didn't like that, it's been put into my friends only |
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"Looks OK to me. Don't like your status though"
I get this - it’s gone now but I read it and thought the sane.
I think it’s easy for these things to look very thirsty. Showing a genuine interest and attraction rather than coming across as if you’ve logged on because you’re horny and want real/virtual help in getting off is a big part of things. Not saying that was the intention but I guess a reflection would be is this post/status about making connections and generating conversation or do I want it to turn me on.
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By *vaRoseWoman 13 weeks ago
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Profile bio is good
Pics are cute but rather samey… maybe think about something teasing
If I’m being particularly picky. The use of em dash tends to be in writing from AI such as chat gpt, I’ve noticed a trend of people pointing that out on social media and even if that’s not the case for you a little editing wouldn’t go amiss.
Your age range screams unfussy…. 18-99. If that’s what you want to portray then you don’t need to change a thing but if it’s not and you have preferences then show them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"If I’m being particularly picky. The use of em dash tends to be in writing from AI such as chat gpt, "
It is picky, but you need a spotters badge for picking this up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 13 weeks ago
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I didn't use ai, but I can see why you'd think that. It's just my writing style but I've used the feedback and made a few amendments.
I've got some spicy photos but my confidence took a knock hence why they're all under friends only.
Thank you for the feedback |
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I always suggest getting to a social or club and hopefully getting some meet verifications from people, obviously you can't blame people not wanting to meet someone without any meet verifications. Getting out there and meeting people in the community is pretty much the only way a single man can get started on fab without having to wait years
Also, be patient, you've not been on here long and if you stay and care enough, it will come
I would be very surprised if putting up a meet/event will be successful tho |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Good profile,great pics and your a good looking bloke.
As other have said maybe take a step into clubs, look for a newbies event.
I certainly need to take my own advice lol |
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Well done op, a single guy asking for advice and taking notice. As others have said try a newbie social, their usually listed further down under parties and events.
Also hang around the forums and get your name known, its amazing what wonders can work for a nice respectful guy |
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By *vaRoseWoman 13 weeks ago
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"When looking for how things are done I look towards nature.
Check out how other animals attract a mate and go from there. "
Marvellous
I want to be wooed under a bower like a bird of paradise while the guys all do a crazy dance flashing their bits |
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By *tr8MrEMan 13 weeks ago
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"When looking for how things are done I look towards nature.
Check out how other animals attract a mate and go from there.
Marvellous
I want to be wooed under a bower like a bird of paradise while the guys all do a crazy dance flashing their bits "
I can reverse windmill to the sound of handels water music 🤣🤣 |
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"When looking for how things are done I look towards nature.
Check out how other animals attract a mate and go from there.
🦚"
Oi, we don't want any of those spiders that fuck the male before killing him ! 😳😳 |
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By *tr8MrEMan 13 weeks ago
somewhere near Sheffield |
"When looking for how things are done I look towards nature.
Check out how other animals attract a mate and go from there.
🦚
Oi, we don't want any of those spiders that fuck the male before killing him ! 😳😳"
Why would you even try attracting a spider? You're definitely on the wrong site for that 🤷🤷 |
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By *vaRoseWoman 13 weeks ago
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"When looking for how things are done I look towards nature.
Check out how other animals attract a mate and go from there.
🦚
Oi, we don't want any of those spiders that fuck the male before killing him ! 😳😳"
Ooh that’s an option?
Can I change my vote 🕷️ |
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Hello OP, I didn't get to see your profile before you made your amendments, but it looks fine.
I mean there isn't anything inherently wrong with your profile. You come across as polite. You're clearly a pleaser because your description is quite 'adjective heavy'; perhaps you're coming across too subservient or meek, unless that's your intention...?
That photo of you receiving oral won't appeal to some women. It totally incongruous to your other photos. I dunno... I suspect some people (luckless men) would baulk at the notion of giving advice to someone who's only been here a fortnight and who's phallus is wrapped around a woman's lips. You're doing just fine. |
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