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Girls!...how many men are truly able to make you come just using their tongue? (2)
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I found this Lounge’s museum masterpiece. Must be old because almost all the forumites on there have got UNLOS.
The replies really blew my mind.
What do you think about it?
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/240167
In my case, just two partners have met the expectations. Two more guys did a decent job, but because it can take a long, I felt they were losing their enthusiasm turning me off immediately.
To please a woman is not easy at all. You need to be patient, show a constant burning desire, paint all over the canvas and don't forget the frame too, have a velvet tongue and soft moist lips, find the perfect in-crescendo rhythm and nail the timing to go deep and hard.
So, how many? 👅🥵❤️🔥 |
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Nobody has ever made me cum with their tongue alone. I need vigorous stimulation for quite a long time, a tongue alone just can't achieve it.
That doesn't mean I don't enjoy oral. But I need something extra to tip me over the edge. |
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"Nobody has ever made me cum with their tongue alone. I need vigorous stimulation for quite a long time, a tongue alone just can't achieve it. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy oral. But I need something extra to tip me over the edge. "
I know it’s a cliché, but … every woman’s different.
Sometimes the anticipation is so high, that the barest touch and lick is enough. Sometimes I can be down there between your thighs for a long, long time with tongue, lips and fingers. Some girls just need the focus on their clit. Others want penetration, and for those women a tongue alone is never enough. And on top of that, even the same person reacts differently at different times.
It’s that variety that keeps things interesting, right? |
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"Nobody has ever made me cum with their tongue alone. I need vigorous stimulation for quite a long time, a tongue alone just can't achieve it. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy oral. But I need something extra to tip me over the edge.
I know it’s a cliché, but … every woman’s different.
Sometimes the anticipation is so high, that the barest touch and lick is enough. Sometimes I can be down there between your thighs for a long, long time with tongue, lips and fingers. Some girls just need the focus on their clit. Others want penetration, and for those women a tongue alone is never enough. And on top of that, even the same person reacts differently at different times.
It’s that variety that keeps things interesting, right?"
This is it, it would boring if sex was the same every single time with every single person. This is why I like variety  |
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By *elix85Man 11 weeks ago
Peterborough |
"My favourite comment in that old thread:
Well we could go round in circles forever with this one …
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Anticlockwise apparently works better."
That and the hour hand occasionally being stuck at 1pm. |
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By *elix85Man 11 weeks ago
Peterborough |
I like to vary things up by inserting a finger (or two) and massaging the g-spot. However, for *some* women, this can be too stimulating, requiring me to focus solely on one ‘act’ or the other. So I have found that the tongue can indeed do it alone. |
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Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?
I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.
My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor. |
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By *edSirenWoman 11 weeks ago
magic mountain |
"Soz guys, you lose to the women 😘
What about Red & couples? "
I was counting them according to which made me gush 😁 however if you’re talking about them going down together… especially when it involves a certain sexy lady… I suppose I’d be up for it. Purely for the interests of sexual science of course 🤓😁 |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?
I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.
My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor."
Personally it's a man skill issue from my side, you try and direct they just do whatever they want regardless.... |
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"Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?
I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.
My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor.
Personally it's a man skill issue from my side, you try and direct they just do whatever they want regardless...."
Not all of us … |
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"Just 1, there have been a few who said they could and never managed but have 1 that does it evey time"
Rookie mistake. Like the squirt guys with magic fingers who could make Mother Theresa gush in the Gobi desert |
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"Just 1, there have been a few who said they could and never managed but have 1 that does it evey time
Rookie mistake. Like the squirt guys with magic fingers who could make Mother Theresa gush in the Gobi desert "
Most guys get too distracted and dont put the time in or listen to me when I tell them what works and what doesent |
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"Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?
I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.
My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor.
Personally it's a man skill issue from my side, you try and direct they just do whatever they want regardless...."
Fair. Communication is a requisite skill |
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"I was counting them according to which made me gush 😁 however if you’re talking about them going down together… especially when it involves a certain sexy lady… I suppose I’d be up for it. Purely for the interests of sexual science of course 🤓😁"
Purely for science. Of course. |
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By *eliWoman 11 weeks ago
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"Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?
I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.
My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor."
I'm one of those women who can get there on a strong breeze. Multiple times. It's great. Of course it is.
I can count on a few fingers the amount of people I've come from oral alone with. I think I'm quite good at communicating during sex, verbally and with body language but perhaps it's something I need to work on.
Many reasons why - men forget to almost warm me up in the excitement of it. Straight to where you think the clit is really frickin' hurts.
- They're not really in to it.
- They're using it as a way to get to fucking (skip it, let's get straight to it).
It's also... why do people speed up when you're closer to orgasm? I get men fuck harder etc when they're close but that change in rhythm always stops me. Stick to what you're doing, please.
And sometimes it's me. I feel more comfortable giving oral because I'm more likely to be aroused from it. Really enjoy it. Relax in to it. It keeps the desire feedback loop going.
The times when someone has been really in to it, they're not in a rush to be fucking me? It's been really good. I wouldn't say orgasms are as important as getting there but when your body is as responsive as mine sometimes it can be a bit frustrating.
I tend to say I don't really like receiving oral and then it avoids all the above.  |
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I can't remember where I read/heard/saw to not change rhythm when a woman is climaxing but I realised I definitely did go harder when I thought the moment was right. Turns out the moment is often much, much later than I thought
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By *eliWoman 11 weeks ago
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"I can't remember where I read/heard/saw to not change rhythm when a woman is climaxing but I realised I definitely did go harder when I thought the moment was right. Turns out the moment is often much, much later than I thought
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Yep. It makes sense and I completely get why people do it. Men do it naturally when they're about to come without thinking about it, they think oh women must be the same, they must want harder.
Some probably do. I really don't. Consistency is enough. |
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When women say that men don't listen, so they mean they use words to say what they like or don't? Or do they mean men don't read clearly communicated signs like moans of encouragement and bucking hips?
I've only ever met one woman who actually told me exactly what to do in words. In fact she took my finger and literally showed me what to do. I was 19.
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"Soz guys, you lose to the women 😘
What about Red & couples?
I was counting them according to which made me gush 😁 however if you’re talking about them going down together… especially when it involves a certain sexy lady… I suppose I’d be up for it. Purely for the interests of sexual science of course 🤓😁"
In the name of science… I volunteer as tribute 🥵🥵 |
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"My favourite comment in that old thread:
Well we could go round in circles forever with this one …
🤣
Anticlockwise apparently works better."
Sounds logical, like operating a screwdriver... Righty tighty, lefty loosey...  |
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"In the name of science… I volunteer as tribute 🥵🥵"
Wait, does that mean me & Red going down on you? This changes everything.
Red, I’ll need an adjudication from you here. This could require a whole new scoring system. |
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"op put the name of the thread as I can't copy and I will try and guess the users"
Sorry for my late reply Diamond
Here we go:
girls!.....how many men are truly able to make you come just using their tongue |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Less than a handful for me as I require a very acquired skill set and technique but Mr can make me cum through tongue, fingers and cock every single time without fail no matter what he uses! That’s why he’s the best in my opinion! |
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Only 3 have succeeded but this is more a me problem than them.
I’m very insecure about my large labia that I struggle to relax when a man is down there.
Regular meets/relationships (like the 3) definitely made me relax and be able to enjoy it |
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"Only 3 have succeeded but this is more a me problem than them.
I’m very insecure about my large labia that I struggle to relax when a man is down there.
Regular meets/relationships (like the 3) definitely made me relax and be able to enjoy it"
It’s a funny old world, I have a lady friend who doesn’t like that she has small labia and would like them larger. |
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