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By *rHotNotts OP Man 13 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
What would you do / say / think if, you’ve agreed to go out for a social only and during the starter he casually mentions, weaving into a conversation, that he brought some condoms with him.
For example, what supermarkets do you like, Morrisons I was there for petrol on the way here , bought some condoms…. |
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I mean I wouldn't normally go for dinner for a social, but I'd probably say "good for you, this food is lovely isn't it. I don't think I'll have the energy for anything after eating this meal. Not sure dinner was a good idea" |
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By *eliWoman 13 weeks ago
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There's not a man alive who could, let's be more realistic.
A man makes a poor, not subtle joke about them or cocks his eyebrow in what he falsely thinks is a laidback, winning fashion and tells me he has condoms?
I'd ignore him and talk about cheese. Or nip outside to check my friend is okay as I've a few missed calls.
You're welcome Notts.  |
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"What would you do / say / think if, you’ve agreed to go out for a social only and during the starter he casually mentions, weaving into a conversation, that he brought some condoms with him.
For example, what supermarkets do you like, Morrisons I was there for petrol on the way here , bought some condoms…."
I’d say do you cum here often |
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Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈
I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔 |
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"I mean I wouldn't normally go for dinner for a social, but I'd probably say "good for you, this food is lovely isn't it. I don't think I'll have the energy for anything after eating this meal. Not sure dinner was a good idea" "
A meal that involves a starter and main... I'ma need a nap, not sex! 🤣 |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈
I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔"
Would you trim your pubes as well, just in case? |
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"I’d probably try to ignore it and start awkwardly discussing the Morrisons petrol part of the statement xx 😄
What if he then added that they were ribbed (for her pleasure) "
I’d probably make a Wayne’s World joke…..again, awkwardly! 😄 |
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"I mean I wouldn't normally go for dinner for a social, but I'd probably say "good for you, this food is lovely isn't it. I don't think I'll have the energy for anything after eating this meal. Not sure dinner was a good idea"
A meal that involves a starter and main... I'ma need a nap, not sex! 🤣"
Exactly 😅😅 |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 13 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"There's not a man alive who could, let's be more realistic.
A man makes a poor, not subtle joke about them or cocks his eyebrow in what he falsely thinks is a laidback, winning fashion and tells me he has condoms?
I'd ignore him and talk about cheese. Or nip outside to check my friend is okay as I've a few missed calls.
You're welcome Notts. "
What if he then told you he was wearing his ‘Lucky’ Y-Fronts |
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"Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈
I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔"
I actually don't see anything wrong with bringing condoms to a social "just incase" as things do get carried away when the chemistry is there, and it's pretty responsible actually.
Trying to force it into conversation in that manner would make me cringe a bit though  |
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"Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈
I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔
Would you trim your pubes as well, just in case? "
Oh definitely. Even if nothing happens, having a wank with a freshly shaved cock just hits different 👌 |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈
I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔
I actually don't see anything wrong with bringing condoms to a social "just incase" as things do get carried away when the chemistry is there…"
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I'd smile. I wouldn't embarrass myself by being outraged by it by assuming he meant to use them that evening or with me.
If he said he'd bought a french stick I wouldn't assume he expected me to eat it. |
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By *eliWoman 13 weeks ago
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"What if he then told you he was wearing his ‘Lucky’ Y-Fronts "
A middle aged man in sag... sorry lucky Y-fronts is a sight no woman under the age of 40 can resist.
Swoon a bit and feel my cotton panties become moist. Standard response. |
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Bringing condoms to a social… nothing wrong at all, it’s “just incase” but to announce it is just a no… I’d likely make a sarcastic remark and carry on the conversation as if it never happened, but lose any interest in contact with him again |
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"Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable "
So Mr N are you going to tell us what it’s all about? Seeing if you did it right? Wondering how to conduct your next social? Entertaining yourself with the answers? 😂 |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable
So Mr N are you going to tell us what it’s all about? Seeing if you did it right? Wondering how to conduct your next social? Entertaining yourself with the answers? 😂"
It happened to me! Just wondered what women would feel like if men behave like that
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"Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable
So Mr N are you going to tell us what it’s all about? Seeing if you did it right? Wondering how to conduct your next social? Entertaining yourself with the answers? 😂
It happened to me! Just wondered what women would feel like if men behave like that
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Noted! How did you feel?
I think either way it has the potential to feel pushy. It’s one thing to take them. It’s fair to mention if the conversation drifts onto this has gone well, are we both into taking it further today. But it’s an awkward way of initiating that conversation. |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man 13 weeks ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable
So Mr N are you going to tell us what it’s all about? Seeing if you did it right? Wondering how to conduct your next social? Entertaining yourself with the answers? 😂
It happened to me! Just wondered what women would feel like if men behave like that
Noted! How did you feel?
I think either way it has the potential to feel pushy. It’s one thing to take them. It’s fair to mention if the conversation drifts onto this has gone well, are we both into taking it further today. But it’s an awkward way of initiating that conversation. "
When women are pushy is just called being flirty, isn’t it? |
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"I’d probably try to ignore it and start awkwardly discussing the Morrisons petrol part of the statement xx 😄
What if he then added that they were ribbed (for her pleasure)
I’d probably make a Wayne’s World joke…..again, awkwardly! 😄"
Zang! 👍 |
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By *aizyWoman 13 weeks ago
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"I’d probably try to ignore it and start awkwardly discussing the Morrisons petrol part of the statement xx 😄
What if he then added that they were ribbed (for her pleasure)
I’d probably make a Wayne’s World joke…..again, awkwardly! 😄
Zang! 👍"
Schwing! |
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I think he's pushing boundaries already established prior to the social and that he will continue to not respect my boundaries if I allow it to continue.
But, I know how defensive people get about things, and there's no point having a totally shit time for everyone.
I'll stick around for the social, I know I can be quick on the snap judgements, and so I like to give people a chance to prove they're better than what could just be a nervous slip. But I'd hold it in mind, and if it was 'joked' about at all during after that point it'd be a firm goodbye 💜 |
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