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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"On replying in the fun threads when you see everyone chasing the people you like?"
No point taking it seriously or getting upset over a silly game.
You do you. |
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"On replying in the fun threads when you see everyone chasing the people you like?
Just post, who cares who's chasing who and who is boning/about to bone. Just have fun.
Wanna bone ?"
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"On replying in the fun threads when you see everyone chasing the people you like?"
Shoot your shot! It's all just fun and games and mostly ephemeral internet shit posting that all comes to naught but a bit of craic.
You'll get a few that feel the need to piss on lamp post's and you can take a dump on their lawn but really, again, it all comes up naught but shit posting on the internet.
Flirting is, in my humble opinion, best enjoyed without fear or rejection or expectation of connection. |
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"Most of the women I want to chase are hundreds and hundreds of miles away. It's all academic.
Oh Nero I didn't realise you wanted to chase me........ I'll move closer  "
Feel free to stop off in County Durham on your way past  |
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By *IXEN200Woman 13 weeks ago
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"Most of the women I want to chase are hundreds and hundreds of miles away. It's all academic.
Oh Nero I didn't realise you wanted to chase me........ I'll move closer
Feel free to stop off in County Durham on your way past "
As long as it's not the prison, I'd never want to leave  |
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"Most of the women I want to chase are hundreds and hundreds of miles away. It's all academic.
Oh Nero I didn't realise you wanted to chase me........ I'll move closer
Feel free to stop off in County Durham on your way past
As long as it's not the prison, I'd never want to leave "
A place you can always find a screw lol |
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By *IXEN200Woman 13 weeks ago
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"Most of the women I want to chase are hundreds and hundreds of miles away. It's all academic.
Oh Nero I didn't realise you wanted to chase me........ I'll move closer
Feel free to stop off in County Durham on your way past
As long as it's not the prison, I'd never want to leave
A place you can always find a screw lol"
And some bad boys |
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"On replying in the fun threads when you see everyone chasing the people you like?"
I actually know what you mean, you kind of guess they’ve already hooked up, and have no energy for you, or they’re so many chasing them you would become just another ‘maybe’ in her list.
Just be yourself, and if they reply and you strike up a conversation then that’s cool. But if not, they’re just busy. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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There isn't anyone I fancy on the forums so, no. Sometimes i flirt with people just to amuse myself.
Honestly, branch out, there are some really hot people that don't use the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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I do get what you’re saying but in a different context
It is not about chasing people you like in forums. If you mean the threads where you say if you’re in for the hope someone says they like you but no one does or they pour complements over someone else you may think you like then this probably isn’t the place for you
There are some people who like or need or want affirmation that they’re wanted or desired, it can be part of a human trait
There are people that I actively avoid and I know actively avoid me, such is life and I am sure we will all manage with that
See the forums as a very very very small part of this site where some people know each other outside of here
Personally I use it as more of a gauge who I won’t message or interact with than people I would
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"On replying in the fun threads when you see everyone chasing the people you like?"
Nope, coz I don’t like anyone in the forums
If I’ve previously been interested & they’ve turnt me down…well, dassit. Innit? 🤷🏽♂️ |
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By *eliWoman 13 weeks ago
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Don't really take part in that kind of thread but...
Yeah of course people can feel a bit meh when the person they fancy is flirting with others/they feel ignored. People like to flirt on here, fancy people, all of that. You sometimes read when things are a bit  . People are complicated messy beings.
You shouldn't "chase" or "give up" because someone else has the audacity to like the same person as you. It's not quite the site for that.
And those threads are daft nonsense that won't be remembered within a hour.  |
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"On replying in the fun threads when you see everyone chasing the people you like?"
I don't take part in those kinds of threads so I'll have to imagine what i'd do ..........
Yes, I'd give up. I'd see the threads for what they are and think ...... this isn't fun.
I wouldn't be giving up because others fancied my fancy, i'd be giving up because if THEY and ME can't get it together outside of a silly thread then we aren't getting it together at all.
Final answer Jeremy - I'd give up on the thread but not on them. |
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Nah, I don't take those types of "pick me" flirty threads seriously, it's all just a laugh
If I see someone I might be interested in flirting with the same people on every single thread... then I might just leave them to it as it seems their dance card is full. I wouldn't get upset over it though.
Most forum people I find interesting in live miles away anyway, so there's little realistic chance of anything happening |
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Never give up. Yes it can be hard work here and of course others you may desire don’t necessarily have same feelings. However when you connect it can be so much fun for all. That’s why I keep going even after mostly failing. Met some lovely people |
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"On replying in the fun threads when you see everyone chasing the people you like?"
No, I just like playing in the fun threads….if I like someone I’ll probably chat to them eventually but the forums are just a bit of fun xx |
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"On replying in the fun threads when you see everyone chasing the people you like?"
I just try to be bold and be different. Thats always worked for me.
Every girl had already been told they’re pretty 100 times over. |
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"If I'm joining in woth a fun thread it's to join in on the fun thread rather than an attempt to bang some forum hottie 💜"
Exactly, if I'm flirty on a forum it's only banter with zero intent to make plans.
Compliments I send are always genuine. I don't make shit up to play with people. But you can be genuine and not wanna bump uglies.
All my flirting with intent happens in private chats. |
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"I'm so oblivious I didn't realise people were even chasing each other! I think it's just lighthearted fun isn't it?"
Oh there's a HUGE amount of lamp post pissing 🤣🤣🤣
It's all fun and games til someone flirts with the 'wrong' someone.
I do confess it makes me giggle. Hard to take it seriously. |
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"Not at all. Just like real life, forums can be cliquey but I answer and post regardless!
Donna x"
Exactly... there are instances of favouritism and cliqueyness on the forums like you said. But you do you, don't let it put you off. Do what you want and post regardless. |
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I don’t think I enter the thread looking to meet but if it’s a shared interest and engage in the right spirit then you might open lines of chat with other people. There was a thread on the Scotland page a few days ago and I got a few messages just by talking about crisps so you never know mate lol. |
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"No, it's just a bit of fun and harmless flirting on the forums, don't take anything seriously on the forums."
This is nonsense. You should all believe me when I say I'm a multi-trillionaire and my house is made of gold. |
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