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Sex with the lights on or off?
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By *hagTonight OP Man 12 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
I actually like both, it depends more on the situation and the mood I am in. I actually think it is alot sexier when it is off, well not totally off but slightly dimmed down, what I do then Is to have the door slightly open to let the in, the reason I dont want it toally dark is because I want to enjoy the view, when the lady is riding me.
It would be interesting to see what you prefer, are you like me and like both ways or do you just like one way with the lights off? 
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Whilst it’s good to be able to see the reaction on a partners face and to be able to be certain that you’re touching a boob and not upper arm it can also be intensely sensual to be together in a room that is totally blacked out.
Undressing and exploring each other by feel alone. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 12 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
Depends on the context
*I love seeing natural sunlight on skin so that works for me.
*Nice lighting from lamps works beautifully on an evening.
*Candlelight on skin is just beautiful
*Natural light in the dawn and dusk is muted but very much appreciated
*total darkness at 3 am when you wake up needing, and reach for them in bed
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What I don’t like is the big light on or glaring fluorescent overhead lights
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"Depends on the context
*I love seeing natural sunlight on skin so that works for me.
*Nice lighting from lamps works beautifully on an evening.
*Candlelight on skin is just beautiful
*Natural light in the dawn and dusk is muted but very much appreciated
*total darkness at 3 am when you wake up needing, and reach for them in bed
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What I don’t like is the big light on or glaring fluorescent overhead lights
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This ☝️
We also have a (light up) canvas over the bed that bathes the room in a golden glow. It's very sexy
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 12 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
I am not spending hours getting ready just to turn the lights off! He better bloody well look at me and be amazed that he pulled all this! 
Plus I like to see what I'm doing, and his face when he climaxes. 🤭 |
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Agree with the "not the big light" comments but a lamp/fairy lights/daylight yes! I like seeing what I'm doing.
If you wake up in the middle of the night/early morning with the horn the lights are staying off though. |
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"Agree with the "not the big light" comments but a lamp/fairy lights/daylight yes! I like seeing what I'm doing.
If you wake up in the middle of the night/early morning with the horn the lights are staying off though. "
I miss that middle of the night sex. Sigh. |
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"If she’s a munter, the lights off.
Oh, this explains why guys always switch the lights off with me. "
It’s not. I also do that if the credit in the electric is running low. You might still be alright on the eye.  |
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It depends what time it is really, late at night you want mood lighting (- I actually like the tv on for light at night), anything earlier you could have floodlights on as far as I'm concerned, but never in the dark. |
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"Love being able to look into eyes …. Dimmed ?? "
Look into my eyes, look into my eyes, the eyes, the eyes, not around the eyes, don't look around the eyes, look into my eyes. [click] You're under! 🍭 |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 12 weeks ago
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"Oh I love it in the dark. I find that it makes all my senses come alive. The naughty hands that come out of nowhere, the hot moans and groans that can only be heard. Mmmmmm"
Hi _inica, that is good you love the dark, yes, it is the same here, it also makes all my senses come alive too |
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but he would have the lights on every time 